We start off already with Dorinda’s tweets about Heather. She tweeted this during the show, ” Dorinda Medley @DorindaMedley 1 hour ago Bottom line: whoever goes on vacation with @iamHeatherT has to bring great earphones, be celibate & sign a release form #RHONY @BravoWWHL” That’s not too serious. Heather’s response was apparently bleeped. Carole says that Dorinda is strange to say that. What’s a release form?
What is Heather wearing. I don’t get it. It looks like she is sitting there in a very pretty silk bathrobe.
I am already bored. They are just playing a bunch of clips from the show. I feel like I am watching a rerun of a show I didn’t care for that much the first time. Heather says that Dorinda is really mean on twitter and that she is different on screen than when she is off.
The poll question is, “Did Heather and Carole break the girl code?” Of course they did. Andy asked if Heather overreacted. She says no. Heather and Carole bring up the married man Luann slept with. The two guys are Scottish and Andy wants to track them down.
A caller asks Heather why she kisses Bethenny’s ass. Heather says she just feels very nurturing toward Bethenny and Bethenny can’t stand to be nurtured.
Carole was asked is she is still seeing Adam and if they are exclusive. She doesn’t answer the last part but Adam is there with her and they are still “having fun.”
Andy squirted Carole with some of Gaga’s pee but neither Carole or Heather realized it was real pee. And intern scooped it out of the toilet when Lady Gaga was there. Allegedly.
How am I just finding out it is Bastille Day? I usually go to a French restaurant on Bastille Day. Well, I think about going, anyway. It would not have happened today anyway.
This show was pretty disappointing. I was expecting more tweets for Luann and Dorinda. Carole bonding with Dorinda in London was either fake or didn’t stick. These two can’t stand Dorinda or Luann. Luann was radio silent on twitter and Dorinda was not biting either.
Carole, what is your status with Luann. Carole says they are not friends at all. Luann lunged at her at the reunion and was really ugly toward her. They haven’t spoken since.
51% say that Heather and Carole broke the girl code. The other 49% are idiots.
I would’ve jumped out of that bed and punched heather in the mouth if she’d rushed into my room tearing back the curtains and screaming at me to Get Up! Carole with her bullshit.. Grating my nerves! Omg
I’m not sure if “Girl Code” applies to middle aged women who really shouldn’t have to adhere to any code anymore. I don’t like Heather and Carole has turned a little mean. I really found them both boring as I do the entire show.
I’ve always found Carole to be pissy and condescending. She doesn’t have an original bone in her body, all her ‘lines’ (which are stolen from Sex in the City) come off as over-rehearsed, and she has a hugely inflated ego for someone with enough money to get plastic surgery to fix up her horse face. Carole’s ‘jokes’ are always at someone else’s expense. After knocking Heather’s teeth down her throat, I probably would have done Carole a favor by knocking out those chicklets and forcing her to get them fixed.
LOL when has Carole EVER quoted sex and the city? I’ve maybe heard Luann once or twice try to channel a Samantha – but I’m going to go ahead and psuedo quote another poster here and say if you’re correlating Carole and Carrie because they’re both tiny New Yorkian writers, you have an embarrassing deficit of literary references.
And shaming someone for NOT having plastic surgery? Seems like you have an intelligence deficit in general.
Psylocke – as an avid fan of both shows, I attest to the fact that Carole’s RHONY schtick seems highly derivative of Carrie Bradshaw (don’t know if Carole, in real life, is such a style biter). I certainly am not going to go back in episodes to see if there are exact quotes, nor would any of my references loosen the anger in your mind toward the point. I just wanted to weigh-in on the topic, as a “New Yorkian” writer myself.
I agree with you Cookie, I’ve seen some parallel story lines myself.
Sadly, my days of meeting a guy and bringing home are behind me but I completely agree with Heather and Carole that leaving an unknown, drunk, naked male alone was wrong. Nothing wrong with bringing him but Ramona is responsible for him til he leaves. What is the girl code that was broken?
Grown women can do whatever they want with whomever they want – it’s none of my business, that is UNTIL they make it my business by leaving a naked strange guy sharing my personal space, unbeknownst to me! If he’s your guest, keep him with you, don’t put him with me. Having said that, it could wait until people woke up to talk about it, but that wouldn’t be the filming housewives’ way, now would it, lol?!
I agree LuAnn , Sonja ,& Ramona are single that can sleep with whom ever they want but if you bring a strange guy back keep him with you or as LuAnn said KEEP THE BOYS ON THE BEACH! I think Heather way over-reacted . At the same time I have no respect for Ramona throwing Luann under the bus ! Ramona wanted to get laid nothing wrong with that at least Sonja and LuAnn admit to their antics ! I believe Heather will do anything to keep close to Carole and Carole will do whatever to stay close to Heather.
Thank you!
Don’t be all uncool man
I agree. If you want to play that way, go to the guy’s hotel. This was disrespectful. These middle-aged women are beyond gross in their behaviors and acting like they are college kids. They also need to stop calling themselves “girls” and calling the other sex “boys.” They are middle-aged women who qualify for AARP cards. They just look nasty, immature, and pathetic.
I thought I was the only one put off by the repeated use of “girls” when referring to grown women.
Ugh, I hate that to when grown ass adults are referred to as ‘girls’ and ‘boys’!
Thank you! I have been posting these sentiments. To wake up, as a naked sleeper and see a man, naked I would freak. My concern would be my wallet, jewelry, and the possibility of someone with a camera phone taking my picture as I slept or how about rape or attempted! Yes, it was perfectly fine to have a “night” but why would you leave him in the bed-either get him out OR if you wanted him to stay, ask Sonya to trade beds OR stay in that bed! So many horrible things could happen with someone you will never ever see again!
Andy caught himself from saying he was easy after introducing the models/bartenders/rent boys.
and they both look just enough like Sandoval and Schwartz to bolster my casting couch theory
These two have to be some of the worst casting decisions Bravo has made, and it doesn’t surprise me the ratings started tanking when they joined. They have a laundry list of awful personality traits but none of the humor or entertainment value most of the other women bring to balance that out.
Love Carole & Heather….
Me too!
So do I.
me too
I do too!
The worst for NY would have to be the single mother of twins. She was less relevant than Kristen. That is saying something.
I think that was Cindy Barshop, I think her name was. She was as dry as cardboard. Nothing, just nothing there.
At least they realized the error there and fired her after one season. Why Heather in particular is still on this show boggles the mind.
Doesn’t she have ties to Andy? Mutual friends or something?
Cindy was just dull, while being in a room with Alex McCord and Jill Zarin would literally be like navigating between Scylla and Charybdis.
X I posted your poem somewhere but I am drunken and can’t remember which post I put it in comments. Oh wait. it was the Nene one.
On Wed, Jul 15, 2015 at 10:02 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I agree. They are totally boring! In fact, this show is now boring. I can’t speak for the seasons Bethenny was off, but it used to be good entertainment. I’m having trouble staying engaged.
I think Dorinda isn’t as sweet and passive as she tries to act like she is…
I never got that impression of Dorinda. I think she is even-keeled for the most part but she can slap a bitch down if you piss her off.
Love Heather’s dress/outfit in that pic. Hate the makeup. Way too uneven and way too much blush on her cheecks.
Barging into to LuAnne’s room was absolutely unacceptable. Ramona said, go speak to LuAnne. They had no facts . They should have knocked and asked if they could come in. In the preview for next week Carol once again brings up the death of John and Caroline Kennedy, have some dignity and respect.
Oh, FFS. Aviva is that you? She is clearly answering a question from Dorinda. SHE IS TALKING ABOUT HER OWN LIFE. Is she not allowed to do that?
It’d be one thing if she named-dropped them every week. She doesn’t. She’s barely mentioned them at all in three seasons on the show.
Troll harder next time, dear.
Good try, if she was as close as she said she was she would want to keep that aspect of her life private. There are some areas that are nonnegotiable and bringing up the death of real loved ones is one of them. I am sure the Kennedy family are inviting her to the compound all the time. They most likely would not even give her a second look walking down the street. I am also sure her former mother in law must be so proud to have the Radziwell name associated with a reality tv show. Jackie Kennedy must be rolling over in her grave. Get over yourself.
Good try, if she was as close as she said she was she would want to keep that aspect of her life private.
So she’s lying? How do you know what she would/wouldn’t want to keep private? Do you live inside her head?
There are some areas that are nonnegotiable and bringing up the death of real loved ones is one of them.
Oh really? According to whom? The rules of life and widowhood according to YOU? I didn’t get that handbook. Of course, it would be a waste anyway since I neither read nor speak Fucktard.
I am sure the Kennedy family are inviting her to the compound all the time. They most likely would not even give her a second look walking down the street. I am also sure her former mother in law must be so proud to have the Radziwell[SIC] name associated with a reality tv show. Jackie Kennedy must be rolling over in her grave. Get over yourself.
You have just name-dropped more in this idiotic comment than Carole has in three seasons of the show; congratulations! As for the rest of it, its stupidity is astounding. That you presume to know how any of these people think or feel just proves it.
You’ve stated your case. Carole may not ever discuss her own life/experiences/feelings lest she offend the rules of conduct that YOU have set for her.
Thank you, ericzku!!! Jesus. Talk about unfounded hate and judgement. Must be Aviva.
Snore.
Count how many times in a day you mention your best friends name. Note Radziwill has mentioned hers 2 times in 3 years. What is your criteria for dignity & respect? That she not mention that she was close with famous people?
Not getting in the fray here, but worked closely with caroles brother for three years,when she first joined. He has been very vocal about the fact there was no real relationship there. This is just a ploy on caroles part to make it seem more than what it was. She was part of the circle, but not in the circle. Think heather desperately trying to be bethennys best friend. Thats how she was too them.
Isn’t that true of a lot of women in that situation? Usually their husband’s family only accept them ‘into the circle’ when they procreate. There is always exceptions to the rule, but this has been my observation of the ‘high society’ families I have come across.
Except I do believe she is in touch/friends with Caroline Kennedy (John’s sister). She wrote a book about her husband’s death and the loss of her two very good friends. I found the book to be believable. Who cares about whether she is or isn’t in the “Kennedy circle” at this point anyway. They aren’t all that any longer (and this coming from the ultimate left wing democrat, myself).
You guys luckily have new American royalty. The Kardashians. An interesting ‘upgrade’ you all made there.
Forbes -that’s verrrry interesting. As was the cookie tidbit you left below. Actually gives me a giggle about how contrived this all can be. I am surprised others haven’t come out of the woodwork and cried ‘false’ about the claim of friendship.
@forbes list:
When you say “there was no real relationship there”, to whom are you referring? Carole and…?
This is kind of unfair of me, but Lee Radziwill had something to live down regarding television, her television remake of “Laura.” It was horrendous. She never did any acting that I am aware of again.
This in response to Virginia’s comment.
Virginia is the same one that said she was sure that Carole has had her share of married men. I responded to that remark, but her latest ones….. there are simply no words for how stupid she is.
They all ride Sonja pretty hard for bringing up her life with Morgan. So just an observation about hanging on to the past.
No kidding, that was downright psychotic. Heather seems overly concerned with who others are sleeping with this season.
Could it be because she has a seemingly dull little husband? I could be wrong about that though.
On the ‘girl code’ topic. I think they all acted horribly enough on their trip to have broken many etiquette rules (Ramona arranging lunch when Bethenny just finished making it for everyone etc.).
The reunion sounds like it may be interesting this season. Especially as it will not be everyone against one blonde (I hate when that happens on any season).
Sorry, couldnt see a thread to reply to your above comment. Kids were never going to factor into the marriage.
On a side note, she baked us some chocolate cookies once. those things were so crumbly and dry. the sad part was it was one of those slice and bake pre-made cookie logs. Very hard to mess up, but she managed to.
Everyone knows that you are meant to undercook those things. Love a moist cookie.
But Michael, I thought you were gay.
Sorry, it had to be said. It was just … hanging there.
Yuck. I guess it is like ‘fanny’. Means different parts in different countries.
I knew you’d find it yucky but it made me laugh to see the potential double entendre. hehe Maybe we could just say biscuit to cover all countries.
I love Heather T. I think she’s a cool chick. Carole’s cheeks looked a little over-injected on WWHL. She’s an attractive lady. I wish all HWs would quit with the over-plumped/injected cheeks.
I used to like Carole but this season she really bugs me. Even so, I don’t begrudge her mention of John & Caroline. She hasn’t talked about them since the first season & even then she wasn’t name dropping. Picking up her husband’s ashes naturally makes her think of them since they died shortly after he did. I find Sonja claiming she parties with John John “all the time” much more insulting.
Unfortunately, John Jr. died before his cousin Anthony. Such a horrible time for the whole family.
Why are people not complaining more about Dorinnda picking her husbands ashes up on camera (I assume that is correct – did not see the snippet from the upcoming episode personally)? One appears a little more gratuitous than the other to me personally (close but not the same as if one HW was to allow cameras to film a funeral).
Again, ignore this if my assumption is incorrect.
I never liked Carole. Can’t stand her in fact, but I think it’s horrible that she was forced to go get her husband’s ashes after all this time believing he was at peace somewhere.
I like all the women on this show, except for Dorinda, at this point. Dorinda truly creeps me out after that weepy thing she did with Heather. I don’t know about Sonja. I really like Luann and was rooting for her to be back on full time. I agree that Heather and Carole broke the girl code. What I have believed and loved about RHONY is that these women do like each other. Evidently, I have been wrong.
I liked her initially. Heather’s right. Dorinda’s still mourning and is clearly still angry and/or sad. Maybe watching herself lose her shit on this show over little to nothing will push her to acknowledge that, address it and get healthier.
The only girl code these two follow is their code to stick up for each other no matter what. Really juvenile. I think I would like Carole a lot more on her own. Their double standards and hypocrisy could be a whole post unto itself. I think if Heather were anyone else, Carole wouldn’t be jumping to defend her all the time. Heather interferes in everyone else’s business and then freaks out when other people get involved or try to defend their own friends.
I know I’m in the minority, but maybe I have a different vantage point after binge-watching seasons 5, 6 and now being into season 7, but how do people hate Aviva so much and like Heather? She is one condescending, preachy, manipulatuve, arrogant piece of work herself.
in regards to Ramona, I agree with a lot of others…”If he’s your guest, keep him with YOU.” I agree with Heather’s points but not her aggression and fury. Now Carole really has me wondering. I thought she was suppose to be casual and relaxed. I seriously think she might be jealous of Ramona scoring more attention (bar owner) and more sex (sleepover dude) than her. Am I way off base? Hmmmm.
Chay, this could have been avoided if Ramona had just followed the proper one night stand etiquette Involving other females in the same house. She needed to keep the naked man in her bed or show him the door after getting her big “O”. Of course she didn’t. I might have been mad too “IF” I had walked into the adjoining bathroom and the guy was taking a whizz or “IF” my jewelry was missing. I mean the guy could have been an axe murderer, but it didn’t happen. Instead Heather turned into a screeching spider monkey swinging from the curtain rods from Ramona’s to Lu’s rooms demanding answers at the butt crack of dawn. Do you think maybe she felt she was going to have to explain the episode to her hubby and decided to make a big deal out of it? Heather definitely needs to reel it in and Ramona needs to quit with the it’s easier to be forgiven than ask permission bit lol.
Me thinks you are onto something Chay about being jealous of Ramona.
The evidence is certainly mounting.
Ramona is so guarded with her private life,( she dodged a bunch of questions when asked by others what was what with the flavor of the month a few times). She obviously didn’t want cameras to catch her in the sack with the dude. To protect herself from image, reputation, Avery, and of course she wasn’t divorced yet,( ammo for Mario).
She should have stayed put,because Heather blew her cover anyway.
Heather needs to hook up with Aviva and calm down. Take a Xanax.
Ramona surprised me by having a one night stand to begin with. I thought she was all about dating and taking it slow, and all that. I guess the booze and the libido were just too much, and she caved.
Side Note: I wonder why Production didn’t get Ramona and Luann frisking with the two Scotsmen on film at some (any) point?
You thought Ramona was about taking it slow? LOL She recently gave an interview to In Touch saying she plans to be married by 2016, if that is her plan and she has been faithful in a decades long marriage, I’d be out getting whatever came my way before picking the next one. Plus, that is what vacations are for. I really need to go on vacation..lol.
On Wed, Jul 15, 2015 at 6:07 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Well hell, now I’m trying to remember why I thought it, but I guess it’s moot now. But, very interesting, and definitely different, that Ramona is planning a 2016 marriage to someone she may not have even met yet, since people usually meet first, then plan to get married. This is Ramona though, and so all bets are off. If she does get married in 2016, I hope it’s with the right guy and not just because she ran out of time 🙂
absolutely no love for heather, and I’m ambivalent about carole, but I 100% don’t think they broke any “girl code”. At worst, they were foolish to believe Ramona’s story that they needed to “speak to luann” about the naked guy, and they were rude to barge into her room that way. On a scale of how offensive one can be, that’s pretty damn low.
Ramona, on the other hand, has every right to do as she pleases with whomever she pleases- BUT- when you are sharing space with several other women who don’t know who the hell this guy is and don’t expect to find him near them without you when they wake up, you should be considerate and make sure your “guest” goes home/sleeps with you. You don’t put the guy you just banged in a room all by himself near your girlfriends who have no idea he’s there. I wouldn’t lose my mind screaming, but I def wouldn’t be comfortable sleeping naked myself, waking up to go to the bathroom and finding some random naked dude in the next room all by himself. Not one bit.
So both sides have valid points here, they just handled them the complete wrong way in my opinion.
Also, if she’s such a grown up/progressive/mature woman embracing her newfound freedom, why can’t ramona just cop to it? Yea, I had that guy over, sorry I didn’t show him out. Why all the mystery and deflection? Very immature. At least Luann owns her own behavior- albeit, pretty tacky to be lecturing people on elegance and class (when they curse) while you’re off banging married men. Just sayin lol
Well put, Shae!
Wow. Here’s my problem with Heather. the naked guy had gotten himself up before anyone else, had a little breakfast, then left. No harm, no foul. Why then did Heather have to wake everyone up, freaking out about what COULD have happened? She could have just mentioned it to Lu and Ramona once they got up like a civilized person would, instead of ripping thru the house, screaming and over reacting, and waking up her 2 hung over girl friends for an interrogation over a guy who had apparently behaved like a gentleman. Talk about manufacturing drama!
But, but, cammie….that would be BORING. 🙂
In the real world, yes, I agree. I tell you, my heart rate [which I can’t stop checking on my fitbit] went from 73 to 89 watching this episode. One big, fat bitchfest from beginning to end. I need to find another hobby.
100% agree. It’s like how she started screaming like a banshee when Sonya left her outside in the foyer. in both cases Heather had a reason to be unhappy but WOW does she overreact or what?
Carole and Heather ABSOLUTELY owe Luann an apology. They were ridiculous. Hell i didn’t even like how Heather ripped the blinds open in Ramona’s room. Heather is completely OTT.
Or like when she tried to tell Bethenny and Sonja they couldn’t have a conversation at the table, then when Bethenny defended it she lost it claiming Bethenny can’t tell her what to do! She is all kinds of extra this season. I liked her last season but now I can’t stand her.
Why are these people arguing about “girl code” like freshmen on their first spring break? Grown Ass Women could use words with meanings like boundaries, respect, and responsibility to discuss the issues and possibly some sort of compromise. Fuck that let’s yell and scream about some arbitrary girl code that gets nothing but more drama.
Oh wait, forgot I was watching housewives, drama is the goal. LOL
Agree. They think they are twenty years old and certainly act this way. The maturity level is hideous.
Hoe code > Girl code
I do believe we have found the title for our first single. The Tamara Tattles Troop (UF, Michael, and Xanadude) sing “Hoe Code,” exclusively on iTunes, with a video featuring an interpretive dance by the Lady Cocotte.
I’m in. >
LOLOL…you all are my people.
This I can get behind.
Please make this happen!
LMAO.1st: Urethra Franklin, you are priceless.
2nd: Hoe code is my code. It’s yo code. It’s high code.
Ha Ha Ha!
I’d like Chay to sub for me. I can’t sing and I have a face for radio.
On Thu, Jul 16, 2015 at 1:13 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Please couldn’t something randomly happen to ramona to kick her self entitled ass into some gutter somewhere that she has to crawl out of on her own with no help.from anyone. It just doesn’t seem like she ever sees how inappropriate she is. Even with her divorce I’m sure she getting exactly what she wants.And empty apologies just don’t cut it
Apologies start to become meaningless when you refuse to change your behavior, make the same stupid mistakes over and over, and try to patch things up by chronically “apologizing” lol
Hell yes! Put that on a fridge magnet, t-shirt, and keychain. I was scrolling the comments and this statement of truth (FOR THE WORLD) made me stop. Dead right.
And p.s. sorry for run on sentences and incorrectness in writing skills
I think it’s funny that the women are calling Carole Heather’s puppet or mouth piece. I see it the exact opposite. I see Carole being the mean girl quietly stirring the pot and using Heather to do her bidding. I think Carole is an expert manipulator.
I’m starting to think that way too.
Yes indeedy.
I was liking all the women this season (or at least NOT really hating them too much) until this episode. The cherry on the cake was Carole and Heather’s smug, self-righteous attitudes on WWHL.
Was Ramona in the wrong? Absolutely
But Heather and Carole over-reacted and were incredibly rude to Luann. Even now they can’t manage to apologize for barging into her room like lunatics. They were clearly in the wrong but instead of acknowledging it they attack by bringing up the fact Luann hooked up with a married man. That’s just ugly IMO
Heather is one of the most OVERBEARING housewives in recent memory but the funny thing is I can tolerate her more than Carole. Unpopular opinion. I know! I used to love Carole. I thought she was witty, laid back and cool. I liked her little observations. But (weirdly) Bookgate is what made me start seeing her less positively.
Was Aviva a nutbar bitch? Sure. Absolutely
But both Carole and her henchwoman Heather were so over the top in how they responded. You’d think Aviva had DESTROYED CAROLE’S CAREER the way they went on and on about it and how NASTY they were to Aviva. It was pretty vicious IMO. Not commensurate to Aviva’s crime.
I think Carole is more than just titled – she’s entitled. She feels like she’s slumming on this show so any sort of infraction against her inspires an OTT reaction. She was very humorless on WWHL too.
Newsflash Carole: You are no better than anyone else that signed up for this. At least Luann has enough humility and insight to see how she contributed to a negative situation. Similarly at least Sonya can forgive, let go and move on.
Right now my favs are (oddly) Sonya, Luann and even Bethenney
They’re all eccentric but I don’t think they have the same mean streak or entitled attitude that Heather and especially Carole have.
Unpopular Opinion of the Day
I actually agree with your opinion in regards to Heather and Carole.
tversky ~ Pretty popular opinions for me. Yeah, Carole and Heather were like a couple of wolves going after Luann’s red meat. They all but called her a whore-dog, at least that’s my take on the whole snarky subject. I’ve never took to Carole, I found her bland and boring…and I still do. I don’t even find her 28 year old tryst interesting. All she ever says is that they are still seeing each other and still having fun, like every time. Still boring. Last season, I liked Heather, this season is she throwing me for a loop. When she told Bethenny she was a know-it-all, I thought right then, it was Heather that was the biggest know-it-all, and it was confirmed on a WWHL poll question, who is the biggest know-it-all, and Heather won by a landslide. (This is ONE of the few times I haven’t thought the polling was rigged, Course, it may have been because I agreed…heehee) Maybe that poll will shed a little light on the subject for Heather.
The best part of the show was watching Sonja’s happy, joyful face watching all the shit go down without her being in it 🙂
Sonya was cracked me up in the last episode. Some of her comments (like how Ramona was “green to the game” and how the whole point was to leave the kids at home to have a little fun) had me rolling.
I agree! Carole is a definite shit stirrer, very similar to Ramona-and I bet she’d hate that comparison.
tversky- I had the same reaction to bookgate, I went from liking Carole to seeing who she really is. I did my research and bought Carole’s books and Aviva’s and found that Aviva was the one being way more truthful.
I think that Lu and Ram can have fun, but leave the guys downstairs or on the lawn. I would not want a strange guy sleeping on the open room next to me with my valuables lying around or maybe observing me while I sleep. This is someone who I did not invite into my space. I would not have a stranger in my house in NYC or anywhere. I think Heather was scared. I would have been pissed too. I live you, Tamara! Absolutely adore you, but I disagree with you a little on this one. xo
Did Heather and Carole break girl code?
Nope. Not even a little.
If you bring a guy back to the house two things:
First – high fives! And make sure you use a condom.
Second – he’s your responsibility.
In a group of women that size it is statistically likely at least one of them is a survivor of sexual assault or has a good friend who is a survivor (1 in 5 women in the US have survived sexual assault). Some survivors and/or friends of survivors will feel really uncomfortable or panicked if they were to encounter a strange man sleeping alone and naked on the other side of their unlocked door. It’s doesn’t feel safe. I can tell you story after story about women that went to sleep or passed out and woke up to find an acquaintance on top of them.
If you leave your man unattended and naked and don’t alert the other women in the house that he’s there, you’ve broken the girl code in a big way. And the fall out is your responsibility (Ramona).
Should Heather and Carole have barged into Luanne’s room? Probably not. But I don’t for a second think that they were trying to catch her having sex. They were scared. For good reason.
Of course, it turned out the guy was harmless. But that doesn’t remove the shock and fear from finding him unexpectedly.
Ramona’s the one who should have been getting all the heat.
I agree Lolajane, and was myself in this situation at the ripe age of 19. So if, as an older, somewhat wiser person, one of my perimenopausal colleagues decide to get some strange while on a girls’ trip and then shows this random dick to a room to crash in that attaches to mine? She’d be lucky to have me only rip open her curtains!
But I’ve been known to spaz every now and then. Ha!
Lolajanegyrl, thank you for pointing this out. As a survivor myself, this was the first thing I thought of when seeing this episode. I would’ve been terrified to find a strange man sleeping in my suite. The fact that Heather’s reaction was considered over the top, yet not many considered a different point of view disappointed me.
Thanks for pointing out that it could have gone very differently. We should all keep that in mind. With respect, Chay.
Very disappointing.Carole has shown us that she is one of those women who just sits back and allows things to transpire around her without taking responsibility. All of us are so pedestrian compared to her-in her mind. Her shallow need for sex with whomever, reveals the true stoner in her. She reminds me of my Marin county cousins who never got up to lift a finger at family dinners, and insisted on discussing issues that the old school elders could not understand. Go be a hippie somewhere else Miss Too Cool for School. #housewifenot #emptyposer.
If you look up pedestrian in the dictionary, you will see my picture. Just a hint for all those people asking me where MY picture is when discussing housewives. It ain’t pretty. 🙂 But I’m smart!
In fact that should be my Real Housewives tagline. I may be perimenopausally crazy, and fat, but I’m smarter than the rest of these bitches.
On Wed, Jul 15, 2015 at 6:29 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Good one my friend, very very good!
Yeah, just a regular pedestrian ROCK STAR blogger, ‘smarter than da resta dem beechas! It’s why we tune into the dark Bravo hole, and follow up here as the faithful.