EDITED TO ADD: OOPS I AM SO UNPLUGGED I’VE FORGOTTEN MY SCHEDULE. IT’S RHOOC I won’t be recapping tonight. Hang on and I’ll put up a post for that show. THEN back to unplugged.
Hey guys, I am going to remain mostly unplugged again tonight and will not be recapping the RHONY RHOOC live at 9. I may or may not feel like doing it at 11:30 in time for the morning crew tomorrow. Until then… you guys have a place to comment here. Meanwhile, let’s look back at last week’s episode through the bleary eyes of Ramona. Bethenny is a very strong woman. The things she has been going through have been very hard on her emotionally. At times Bethenny cries at a drop of the hat due to all the stress she’s under. I know the feeling as finalizing my divorce has been taking a toll on me emotionally. This is the reason I haven’t written a blog in a while. I appreciate everyone’s continued support and understanding. It means so much to me. I actually hadn’t noticed your absence. 
Perhaps my delivery wasn’t the best to Kristen. In fact, I admit many times my delivery isn’t. As Dorinda says, it’s not the content but the delivery. This is something I need to work on. We all know Rome wasn’t built in a day. I also need to think before I speak. Unfortunately, easier said than done. Yes, it is difficult to call someone dumb with a kind delivery. I disagree with Dorinda though. It was the content. You were being a cunt (delivery) but the content (You is dumb) was the primary issue. Additionally, thinking is not hard for most intelligent people. The fact that you find thinking hard makes you dumb. Kristen thought about throwing a wine glass in your face, but she didn’t. She walked away exhibiting proper decorum. Decorum is something there is a dearth of on reality TV. You might need to look it up. I knew how hard it was for Bethenny to make it to Luann’s photo shoot. Yes, it was hard for everyone else too. Especially the others with kids, some of whom are special needs. Yet, the managed to get to work. I also know she finds it difficult to warm up to many people at the same time when walking into a group. Well, then, if that is true, boy did SHE pick the wrong job. That’s like a doctor having a hard time with the sight of blood. I firmly believe that Kristen should have waited 10 minutes before asking Bethenny questions about the trip. Um, why? She was about to start a photo shoot and she needed to know if the Queen B was going to cause her to change her plans for a sitter and rearrange her schedule. It put Bethenny on the defensive, and it was awkward. It also made Bethenny run off and cry. Aw, poor widdle Bethenny. She was asked if the dates for the trip were going to be changed by mean ole Kristen. How dare she! Kristen wasn’t thinking. Kristen was thinking. She was thinking about her schedule. She was also thinking about asking the bitch trying to blow up the schedule that she has been working her life around if she was going to screw things up yet again. I probably should have said to Kristen that her timing was off and awkward. Being Ramona, I went with what I was thinking and didn’t edit myself. No, you should have just shut the fuck up about things that don’t concern you. Bethenny doesn’t need an attack dog. She can be rude and brutal all on her own.
Couldn’t have said it better myself. Embrace your unplugged ness.
Is she comparing herself to ROME?
Rome-Ona
Best come back on Ramona name ever
TT,
I love you getting out your purple pen to insert the truth.
You’re a great writer and can articulate much better than I . It’s such a wonderful gift you have.
Happy Birthday Month to you! 🙂
I love the purple pen. I agree with every single thing you said.
Thank you Tamara! More good sense. Now I don’t feel like I’m slowly losing my mind while watching this show, and falling through a worm hole into a parallel universe where being a cunt to someone who doesn’t even remotely deserve it is considered the zenith of politesse.
I like the way you use Ramona’s blog to bash Bethenny. A clever twofer.
I think you mean Ramona was a little blunt, not a cunt….right? Kristen was whining because no one confides in her? Really? Her biggest problem was that people weren’t “telling her things” and that’s just weird. She decided that it was because they think she’s dumb-even tho no one has even said it- but since it’s her frikkin TAG line for pete’s sakes, maybe she should make peace with it Kristen just wants to be one of the cool girls, but she’s too desperate to be cool!
Bethenny warned them all that she was on the razor’s edge, so I don’t feel bad for any of them if they have to witness a crying fit by Bethenny. She (Bethenny) did overreadt, but If she didn’t go on the trip at all, or had to leave early why is that a problem for anyone but Bravo..?
Actually Ramona asked Kristen “Are you that dumb?” Someone else (I can’t remember her name ) told Kristen that Bethanny called her dumb.
Kristen was trying to make sure that Bethanny was ok with the dates bc she too has kids and was about to get ready for her photo shoot. Before B got there, the ladies were saying that they were not sure if she could make it. I think Kristen does want to fit in with the ladies on the show. I thought that was the point – they party together, hang out etc. That involves communication. I don’t feel Kristen was weird in wanting to know what was going on. The is about all of them not just one.
When Ramona said that I think it was the first time anyone had said it besides Kristin, and it was Carole who used the word “dumb” when she told Kristin what Bethenny said-which Bethenny denied ever saying.
I agree it’s about all of them, but since Kristin doesn’t even really know Bethenny, I don’t get the drama if she can’t come.
Most unflattering pic ever of Romona. Look like a blond jabba the hut.
Omggggg
Lmao! It does.
Savor being unplugged TT! Enjoy the silence! Happy birthday month!
Ramona is just proving that, even in the face of personal tragedy, she has no sense of anything outside of herself.
She is not able to self reflect or grow. She is like Jennifer Love Hewitt in Mean Girls, forever a barnacle serving a queen bee (okay, mixed metaphor noted but you know what I mean) and trying to affirm her status by attacking cast members she perceives as vulnerability.
In her mind she is the Voice of Truth and Reason, when in reality she is the Braying Shriek of Desperation and Self Absorbed Irrationality.
I have more sympathy for Sonja, who is at least harmless to others in her delusions.
Yes Xanadude. Hear, hear! I can’t stand Ramona’s behavior anymore. Bethenny too. At the start of the season I thought the divorce had perhaps clipped Ramona’s wings a bit, and Bethenny’s too, for that matter. Nope. Still as manic, uncouth and vicious as ever, the both of them. I’m not fond of Luanne either. She plays wingman to the other two, so they can have a clearer path to hurl abuse at the ones they find annoying. It’s icky.
Lmao braying shriek! Haaaaaa!
“Braying Shriek of Desperation and Self Absorbed Irrationality.”
You have a way with words! lol
And I agree that at least Sonja is relatively harmless. She doesn’t have Ramona’s mean streak or Bethenney’s abrasiveness. She’s just deeply DEEPLY delusional. I saw someone describe her as “spoiled but harmless hooker with major entitlement issues” That seemed pretty on point.
JL Hewitt wasn’t in Mean Girls
Happy Birthday TT!