Once again I missed a show I wanted to see on Bravo because Andy Cohen has to tack his stupid WWHL show that I am already taping to the end of some Real Housewives shit.
So I am going to share some brief 2 am thoughts on a show I would have watched live if Andy was not such a douchebag, and just happened to catch. Cleary, Bravo does NOT understand that we have shows we watch ON THE HOUR. And if I am already taping two, I can’t watch another one because his ego does not want to wait until the ACTUAL TIME HIS SHOW COMES ON.
Chantelle is already selling “stories” to tabloids you go fame whore girl. I don’t care about your love life. Stop tweeting me about it. Geneva has some weird knock off Birkin product placement happening. The trouble is no one knows what the fuck it is. Chantelle says she sounds like she needs a lobotomy. No, it sounds like you already had one.
We are going to the fucking Hamptons again.
Daisy is the only person I actually like better when they got cancer. In general, if you were a cunt when you get cancer, you are still a cunt with cancer. Not Daisy. First of all she was not a cunt she was just on the very annoying side of chipper. I thought it was fake. It was not. She is doing the whole “taking it like a champ” thing, which by the way is far more than I would do. If you hate me now, you will REALLY hate me with cancer. 
Speaking of cunts, I really LOVED Demetria last season. This season she has MAJOR seasontwoitis. Oh everyone loves me best so I can be a cunt satchel. Girl please. It’s like you have no idea about reality TV. So she is being a cunt to Chantelle. But seriously? I don’t like the new girl either. Either of them. But the polite thing to do is give them some time. We could like them later, you never know.
AND Chantelle was not overly misbehaving at the book launch. Stop taking yourself so seriously, she was a bit loud, but that is to be expected when you have an open bar. AND Greg was being a dick. Remember Greg? We liked him better than you last season. This season not so much.
Demetria tells Geneva she can’t invite her to the wedding unless she makes things right with Greg. Geneva is all. “What I did?” Oh no, I’d be like let me refund my gift and move on from here. I am uninvited because I tried to keep my guest from leaving your function? Girl fuck that an go on with yourself. I am not having none of that. I wish you the best on your wedding and I will see you next time we film. Geneva why are you having a conversation about this. Just say, ” I certainly don’t want to Greg to have anyone at his wedding he doesn’t want there. So I will not attend.”
Mica’s wig is horrible. Does she have cancer too? The girls play truth or dare. Geneva doesn’t know Daisy has cancer. So Demetria tells her. Geneva is sad and she is upset to be the last to know. Arzo, Demetria and Melyssa are being cunts. I don’t care if they are drunk. Cancer will sober your ass up real fast.
Wow. Assholes.
Howdy, fellow night owl. Those women cackling and acting the fool while Daisy was talking about cancer was fucked up and I wanted to spray them with a fire hose.
You’re right about Demetria. And her blog is not all that. I was disappointed when I checked it out last year. Bland. But maybe you set the bar too high. 🙂
I just don’t think they meant to be disrespectful! Melissa was drunk and she and Demetria were having a moment! They have a great comraderie! I think Daisy is having a hard time with Melissa being friends with Demetria because Demetria was so mean to her last season and for no reason! She keeps hinting her disapproval of their friendship! That’s why she was really mad!
They could have had that moment at a later date. Daisy mentioned that all the other girls had called her, but Demetria and Geneva. Geneva hadn’t called because she didn’t know. So what is Demetria’s excuse for not calling and acting like it was no big deal when Daisy was talking about it.
Yeah I know that Demetria hadn’t called but as the objective viewer they weren’t trying to be rude or rather melyssa wasn’t trying to be rude! She was just expressing emotion they are friends!
As a young breast cancer survivor myself (diagnosed at 25 and now 35) this is one thing that hits very close to home. It struck a nerve with me to say the least when Amber used breast cancer as her platform and exploited the disease. If there’s one thing I hate it’s people who use cancer as a means to get the WRONG kind of attention. Just as you have said several times, cancer does not make a person more likable than before they had it if they were an asshole to begin with. Daisy on the other hand is an inspiration and I always liked her prior to this. With a stage 3 diagnosis that isn’t curable, she is such an incredible person who is embracing life and turning this horrible diagnosis into the most positive way that she can. It’s quite profound and I am so glad she is sharing her journey, ups & downs and all. I am just so emotional when it comes to this topic that I honestly had to stop watching for now. While I admire her and think she’s a great example to all people battling cancer, I have had a few close people lose their battle to this disease so I am on a time out but I love reading the recaps. I have always believed that a powerful mind equals a powerful body and that she has so hopefully they will be able to slow down this cancer and keep it isolated for as long as possible with treatment. Sorry for the long comment, I just had to share my deep thoughts on this. Daisy is a pillar of strength and I am glad that we are finally getting to see someone who is using their illness to inspire versus playing the cancer card. Between Amber and that dreadful breast cancer survivor who was on that pageant show last year- I was beginning to give up on bravo!
Wait what? It isn’t curable??????????????????? WHAT?
On Mon, May 25, 2015 at 2:55 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Don’t give up on Daisy.
I was Advanced Stage 3 Inoperable. But with heavy chemo, luckily the mass reduced enough that they WERE able to operate.
I hope Daisy does well. I think she will. I recently saw her on Dr. Oz, and she was so strong and upbeat. She needs people around her who are also positive.
Now, THAT is a role model for women with cancer. We need to see more women like Daisy, or Camille, or Valerie Harper. Women who actually faced the challenges and survived.
Oh, I’m sorry. I thought Daisy had breast cancer. She has bile duct cancer, which is rare. Wow. Still, a great role model. Hopefully, it will go into remission.
I have a friend who is fighting Stage 4 cancer (breast, liver, brain). She is now in remission, thank God.
The point is: Never give up. 9 lives!
Cat I am so happy you are doing great- God bless! I agree with you that a positive mind is a huge role in healing. I am sure we have seen both sides of cancer- the good and the bad. I know people who were given months and lived 5 years such as my aunt and people who completely beat it and never looked back. When I was first diagnosed, my God did I hear lots of negative things because they always say the younger you are, the more aggressive the cancer is. I made it a point to find a Doctor who was on the same as I was and was on the same page as I was. I was very fortunate to find my cancer early enough but given my age- I still have to go for crazy screenings almost 10 years later. If you don’t mind me asking- how many years have you been on resmisson Cat? Sorry if you already said this as I haven’t read all the comments yest. I couldn’t agree with you more- we do need more people like Daisy on these shows!
I had my surgery March 4, 2014. They told me they got all the cancer. I was lucky. Now, I’m just dealing with side effects from chemo and radiation. My doctors said my treatments were very powerful, and to expect a long recovery of 1-2 years. June 4th will be one year since my last treatment. I am still waiting for the all clear for reconstruction. But, seriously, I’m in no hurry.
On a lighter note, I have to take Anastrozole for the next 10 years. This is supposed to lower estrogen, and hopefully keep the cancer from creeping back.
The problem with this is: I’m already in menopause. If I get any more chin hair, I will look like Kathy Bates in American Horror Story: Freak Show! 🙂
Your comment about reconstruction kind of scares me. But so far, my doctors have been excellent, so we will see.
Taking life moment by moment.
I hope you have a speedy recovery, and no further issues.
How or why isn’t it curable??
I don’t find anywhere that Daisy is incurable. General googling shows that stage 3 bile duct cancer CAN have successful results. It depends on how many lymph nodes need to be removed.
Cancer is different now, more than it was even a decade ago. But it has such a stygma attached to it, many don’t even try to fight.
Advances in medicine are being made, and some are downright amazing. I know the hospital I go to, KUMed, is the best in the region, and has a very high success rate. When I was there last, I was reading about a new procedure they are working on. Some kind of split liver surgery. Very new, very innovative. Very successful.
This should give people hope. The important thing we can all do is to try to be POSITIVE. Attitude sometimes is the difference between beating cancer, or losing the fight.
No one wants to be surrounded by vultures. Even if they don’t mean to be one.
So true cat!! I would fight too!
Before I had my mastectomy, I was asked if I would be willing to donate the tissue for cancer research. Of course, I said yes.
I’m hoping that donation will eventually help others. Besides, what was I going to do with it? Put it in a jar on my mantle? A conversation piece I do NOT need. 🙂
You knocked it out the park!
WTF is Andy doing to my TiVo? Is he trying to make sure no one can watch his crap? Or that it has to compete with TWO real shows?
It’s not like the Superbowl ran 18 minutes late. Someone needs to show Bravo a CLOCK.
Maybe WWHL is losing ratings and that’s why egoman Andy keeps changing the times of his own show. I hardly ever watch his show because I can’t stand him and his childish behavior. He acts like he’s in a bad SNL sketch with a cable show in his basement (sound familiar?). I don’t especially like the women on this show but I hope that Daisy keeps on fighting and that she wins. She seems like a nice person. The rest…meh. Thanks for the recaps though…I would know nothing about what’s going on without them as I hardly ever watch. I was reading a friend’s new novel on my Kindle instead of watching television. I just can’t relate to these women.
It was at all time highs last year, I don’t think that’s the problem. How is anyone supposed to watch it “live” if they keep changing the time? And making Shahs of Sunset run late for no reason?
So agree…the childish games were so dumb…too much Andy always….His celebrity pimping for fame was really too much for me…I stick with the TT recaps…such a waste to watch the show with such bad interviewing questions.
I like WWHL every now and then. I fastforward through most, but 1/10 will have some actual chemistry with Andy. It can be hilarious, especially the comedians, or anyone who is actually funny and clever. It’s a great platform for them because they can do whatever, if it’s someone who can do something with that. That’s why I need Andy to stick to the schedule because no way am I watching this in real time.
Live…tape…all the same. Stupid games, drunken guests and a vapid host who stands for nothing. Not my kind of show (WWHL, that is).
I like this show but on my TV it’s called “Blood Sweat and Heels”.
I told you Tamara Greg and his family keep showing some asshole qualities!
Watching Daisy is so inspiring for me. She is handling cancer much better than I am, and mine was only stage 1. (Breast)
The girls laughing and joking while Daisy was talking about her journey was SO disrespectful that I was yelling at my TV to them in my best Brandi Glanville voice to STFU. I already didn’t think too much about Arzo, but it pissed me off to see Melyssa (sp?) acting that rude towards Daisy.
How are you doing now? Keep fighting the fight! You have a lot of support here. You will land on your feet…. 9 lives!
Hi Cat, thank you for your kind words. I’ve had a double mastectomy & a few reconstruction surgeries, but the new “girls” aren’t cooperating. I kinda wish I had been brave enough to not get reconstruction.
I’m on Tamoxifen, which gives me menopausal symptoms, and I lose my mind at least once a day….LOL
It looks like Anwar and her guy Yestirday have broken up. His timeline suggest his new girlfriend is closer to his age.
What’s worst is he keeps tagging her in messages about the breakup. Awkward. But she put in all caps “OFFICIAL CAST MEMBER” in her bio as people keep suggesting Yestirday should remove BSH from his bio. It’s funny. Anwar’s breakup pain is not. She seemed nice enough.
Sorry I didn’t mean to confuse anyone. I meant as a cancer survivor myself, but mine was breast cancer. I was reading several sources that bile duct cancer is not curable and only treatable so they can slow down the process of it spreading but not completely get rid of it and being that it’s in a major organ, it’s not like you can remove the cancer itself the way you can with breast or lung cancer for example. From what I read it’s similar to a cancer like multiple myeloma where there’s no way to get rid of it and it’s something you basically live with.
I didn’t mean to sound like I am predicting the worst for her, I apologize for that. God only knows faith is a powerful thing and there are many good treatments out there. I am only going by the info on that particular cancer. I really do admire her strength and outlook on life.
As a former Nurse I can say that Daisy’s future doesn’t look good.. Maybe with stem cell therapy and other new treatments there is more hope of remission. I hope so for her sake. Any cancer involving the liver is bad. I’m sad to say that I never saw anyone survive this type of cancer but that was a long time ago and many things have changed. Good luck to you Lola and I hope that you remain healthy and strong.
Thank you so much Merilyn, your very sweet. Thank God I am going great and I even got pregnant on my 2 year mark of being cancer free! My daughter is now 7 and I am so grateful & see life thru a different set of eyes but truth be told the anxiety and fear was more crippling than the treatment itself. It took me a very long time to embrace the fact that I am healthy and not feel like a sitting duck. As a matter of fact, I finally had major breast reconstructive surgery 2 weeks ago (hence why I have so many typos in my posts pain meds have me loopy! I originally had the reconstruction done in Nov and the doctor really botched me so I had to go in again a couple of weeks ago and now might need a third surgery too 🙁 This has really been awful but I see other’s who can’t escape the disease and I remind myself how lucky I am.
What you just said about Daisy was what I was trying to get at…. It pains me to say it but from what I heard liver cancer is like pancreatic where there’s no survival rate and since your a nurse- please correct me if I am wrong. I pray that there is a cure out there that we don’t know about- cancer is a bitch and it’s an epidemic now effecting people younger and younger each day. When I first saw the episode when Daisy was telling Mica, it broke my heart and I was crying watching it. The pictures with the whites of her eyes being neon green was very shocking, I never heard of something like that.
I want to say to the other poster Shay, Sending positive thoughts your way and I am sure you will kick ass! It’s a good thing you caught it at stage 1 and always remember to keep your spirits up
I don’t know was this episode rerun?
It felt like I already saw it. If it was rerun why so soon? I
I am glad to hear your doing well Cat! Just make sure you research your doctors when your ready for that next step and ask plenty of ques. Go to as many consults as possible before you choose who’s going to do your reconstruction. Please don’t let my nightmare scare you- It’s one of those things where I got stuck with a horrible Frankenstein doctor because all of the other doctors in my area wanted cash even though I had breast cancer and top notch insurace. It’s sickening that the best plastic surgeons don’t accept any insurace for women who have had this disease. Still, I had no idea that this doctor was going to be as reckless as he was. As for the chemo, God I know how you feel- these treatments really knock a person off their ass! Do you ever get “chemo brain” where you forget shit and can’t think straight at times? lol. I hate to admit this but there are days I can’t even help my daughter with her first grade homework!
I get “chemo brain” all the time. That’s my “go to” excuse whenever TT gets mad at me. 🙂
But, yeah, I have a way to go before reconstruction. We haven’t even started to discuss it yet. Thanks for the advice.
Haha your too funny Cats! Laughter is yet another thing that’s important right? I am really enjoying commenting on here! I admit I was afraid at first so that’s why it took me so long LOL
Aww…Don’t be afraid. We don’t bite. Well, most of us don’t. It was nice chatting with you. Good luck on your continued recovery!
WWHL comes on at 10 o’clock at the end of RHNY tonight. Bethenny interviews Andy.
I really wanted to like Chantelle because she can be clever/has great one liners at times but she is such a shit starter, not a good look.
Hated Arzo’s nasty comment “But what about her hair?” regarding Chantelle jumping in the pool. And wasn’t she the one pulling the race card a couple episodes back?
Demetria – booring. I don’t think she’s a bad person, but she takes herself way too seriously.
I’m loving toned down Mica this season. I’ve always liked her, but she got such a bad rap last season with the drunken antics.