Bravotv.com: Do you get along with Bobby’s mom?
Asifa Mirza: It wouldn’t be unconventional for me to say that most women don’t get along with their mother-in-law. With that said I’m dealing with a mother-in-law who has only one child and is currently single, so her son is the only immediate family she has. She is a very nice lady, but is extremely biased towards her son and is in denial of her son’s issues and faults. Unlike Bobby’s mother, my mother stays out of our issues and never states that her daughter is perfect and everything is Bobby’s fault. When I started to have issues my mother said to me, “Asifa, you are an adult and have the power to make mature choices. If you are having issues, then go to counseling or leave.” On the other hand, Bobby’s mother gets involved to the point where she’s on the phone while we are having an argument. She constantly states that everything is my fault and that her son only started to have a temper when he met me. She is blinded by ego and pride, and it’s easier for her to blame me than to take responsibility for her child’s upbringing.
Did you just say she is blinded by ego and pride? Wow.
Bobby and I come from two different upbringings, he saw his mother go through multiple divorces, and she is now single. While I came from parents who argued, disagreed, but worked hard to stay together and a create a strong family unit. For me divorce was never a topic growing up, but for Bobby that’s all he saw. I don’t have a perfect family and my parents constantly point out the things I do wrong (I know I have flaws), but Bobby’s mother thinks she is perfect, her son is perfect, and that if anything goes wrong, it’s my fault.
So basically you just called her an arrogant whore.
She and I are at odds and are very indifferent towards one another. But as his mother, I do need to put my differences aside and have more respect for her.
You mean like serving her dinner at the home you share with her son with a little more style and class than you would feed a farmhand on the back porch? Or avoiding arguments over simple things with Bobby in her presence? I assume this respect will start some time after you publish a scathing blog about her on the Internet. You are not very smart are you? I don’t think indifferent is what you feel toward her. Clearly, you hate her
Bravotv.com: Is Bobby too much of a mama’s boy?
AM: Bobby is the epitome of a mama’s boy, and so are a lot of other men.
All the more reason not to alienate his mother.
Bravotv.com: Do you think Reza made the right decision calling off the wedding?
AM: Yes, I feel that Reza wasn’t confident at the time and didn’t know what he wanted. He made the right choice by taking his time and thinking things through.
This blog indicates, that you, yourself are no expert at “thinking things through.”
Loving that purple pen.
When I had originally read her blog, I couldn’t believe she was saying all that about her ex/future mother-in-law on a nationwide blog. So trashy. Bobby should’ve dumped her the moment he read it since he let everything else slide.
I wonder if Bobby is into Southern ladies? Jk, not really
Well if they were not on the verge of breaking up, they are now. Wtf!
My x husband put me through HELL! His mother saw it and turned her head. He is the only family she has and he is addicted to damn pills. I didn’t need to tell her, nor did I.
This girl is just ignorant!
‘You mean like serving her dinner at the home you share with her son with a little more style and class than you would feed a farmhand on the back porch? ‘
Perfection! I am in love with this analogy.
Asifa is like a spoiled 14 year old and thinks Bobby is her father. She needs to grow up.
Bravo dear Tamara, well said and well written! That woman is beyond annoying.
Asifa is an insufferable bitch. That’s all.
I really hope this is her first and LAST season. I have to fast forward through most of her scenes.
She needs a ball gag permanently. Seriously, I don’t think I’ve heard anything besides bitching from her. She acts like she should be planning her Super Sweet 16 party rather than a wedding.
Wow. Asifa is a real piece of work. She was downright cruel. She & Bobby can’t possibly still be together, can they?
Well they went to Mike and Jessica’s wedding last month or whenever. So they were together after filming.
On Fri, May 22, 2015 at 1:04 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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The way Tamara titled the post pretty much sums it all up in a nutshell, there’s no way this relationship can work. It’s exhausting just watching Asifa on television, imagine having to actually LIVE with her, sheesh.
FTR, Bobby is no peach either.
On Fri, May 22, 2015 at 4:19 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Agreed!! Never met a man so will to share his relationship woes with everybody! It’s as if he enjoys whining! Asifa has a mouth on her that will get her and others in trouble!
These two need to look up the definition of insanity, then learn it and live it! They need to realize that just because they have so much in common and are so much alike doesn’t mean they should be together, it only means that they are equally annoying!!
What do they have in common I wonder?
They both think she’s the most beautiful woman on the planet.
Instead of “so much in common” I may have meant a long, shared history.
Yeah I see your point!
I hope they don’t procreate ~ their children will be miserable.
Wow. She really went after his mom. That was completely unnecessary.
See, I can totally understand having those feelings toward bobby’s mom, if she in fact, does act like that. What I cannot fathom is saying it out loud, to anyone, let alone on a blog for all the public to read. That’s the type of stuff you share with your own mother, or your best gfs, or your sister- your frustrations with the MIL, NOT with the world. Immensely disrespectful to bobby and his mom.
Not to mention it’s highly disrespectful of him to blab to everyone about their issues, and to constantly put asifa down, but they disrespect and undermine one another. It’s sad.
Trashing your mother in law on the Internet is not a good idea. What a bitch.
Asifa’s Twitter is constant retweets of criticism of bobby’s mother – I could not believe my eyes. It’s unbelievable. It makes that interview look tame.
I seems to me, every time Asifa opens her mouth she is saying how she doesn’t want to be a wife. She doesn’t want to cook. She doesn’t want to clean. She doesn’t want to be accountable to Bobby. She doesn’t want to go out with him & his friends, but she doesn’t want to entertain them at home either. And she certainly doesn’t want him going out with out her! But those are all things that wives do. So I have to wonder, what part of being a wife is she so excited about becoming, again? Maybe it’s me, but I just don’t see it. And what exactly does he bring to the table again? Because that is passing me by too. But I was somewhat selective when I went looking for a life partner. I guess maybe that’s why when we found each other in 1977, we took our time getting it right and have been together ever since. We really meant till death do us part. It hasn’t always been easy and it hasn’t always been fun. But it’s always been worth it. He was my best friend before he was my husband.
“You mean like serving her dinner at the home you share with her son with a little more style and class than you would feed a farmhand on the back porch” – Why would you use a different level of style or class when feeding a farmhand? Treating people differently based on their social status is pretty terrible. Regardless, I do agree this relationship is doomed. Asifa spelled out the reason it is doomed to failure but hasn’t come to terms with it.
Well, this was her mother in law. Someone special. Someone you want to make feel special and impress. Feeding your soon to be mother in law out of Styrofoam containers, implies no effort was made. I think she didn’t care, and or just didn’t think period. The farmhand analogy was used as just that. Think of this, would the hired help, lets say, a maid eat in the same manner as a important guest? Their was no slight intended.
Psst, farmhands work outside and take their lunch outside either on the farm in the back of a pickup truck or on the back porch. Brown bag fare.
People are idiots who look to be offended on groups of people they know nothing about.
Oh I thought she was being a complete hypocrite with her southern class and style reserved for certain groups of people. I see your point now.
I have 3 adult sons, only one however is married and I once was a daughter inlaw ( she passed away about 10 years ago). This Mother needs to get a life, in order to get respect you first give it. Being someone’s mother doesn’t give one Carte Blanche to be condescending and disrespectful. She’s his mother not hers. No person alive is perfect, not even her overgrown “Tittie” baby she raised. If I were this young lady I’d tell them both, “Good bye”.
WOW!
Her blog is immaturity at its finest!
I hope he doesn’t marry her.. what a piece of work.. he’ll divorce her again… she doesn’t want to go out of her way for nobody.. yet she professes her love all the time.. her actions speak volumes.. i hope he runs like the wind and leaves her on the curb where she belongs.. talk about a primadonna!
When I saw how how that bich washed a dog!
I want to water board her to see how she likes it!
I don’t appreciate Asifa’s comments that most women don’t get along with their mother in law. I am fortunate to have an absolutely wonderful MIL. She is 89 years old, I have been married to her son for 37 years. We cannot stop talking when we’re together or on the phone. My mama and daddy died a year apart and my older sister is on her deathbed with cancer and I am having my fifth surgery Friday for a staph infection in my bone marrow from a broken leg. I honestly do not know how I got through all this without her constant support. She told me today I’m not just her DIL, ahe considers me her daughter. If Asifa treated her MIL the way she deserves to be treated, she could have the same type of relationship. Trash talking her on the internet is not the way to find a place in her heart. Obviously, she has no respect for Bobby or his mother. I would like to shake some sense into her but I’m pretty sure she would prefer to admire herself in a mirror rather than take a rational person’s advice. I made a deal with my MIL that I would listen to any advice she wanted to give me but that I do what I think is best. But I have always given her the opportunity to speak her mind. This arrangement has worked like a charm all these years. It’s sad Asifa thinks only of herself. She may end up an old, bitter woman, let’s face it, looks fade and we all go through many changes in our bodies. She will end up alone and miserable if she doesn’t see the light. Life is what you make of it, she chooses to think of herself instead of others. Well, my first post turned out to be a book, sorry about that.