Bravotv.com: How difficult was the therapy session with Adam?
Reza Farahan: The therapy session with Adam was very difficult, but at the time I felt like it was the right thing to do. What was truly unbearable was watching it on TV. Seeing his expressions and recalling the pain and disappointment he was going through broke my heart. I have so much more love and respect for him for allowing me to go through that very difficult and necessary journey. We are definitely closer and stronger because of it.
I really hope for Adam’s sake this is true. Or maybe for his sake I hope this is not true. Poor Adam.
Bravotv.com: Was it hard telling everyone that the wedding was off?
RF: It was very difficult telling everyone that I had canceled the wedding, especially the crew. I felt like I was letting them down and I felt a duty because they had taken time off to go to Thailand with us.
I think by crew he means the rest of the gang. Because the production crew would not be taking time off, but working. I wonder what happened to Adam’s ticket? I wish they could have taken Asa’s mom! Or Jermaine Jr!
Bravotv.com: Why did Adam not want to go on the trip to Thailand?
RF: Adam didn’t want to be in Thailand during a trip that was supposed to include a wedding that had been canceled. I’m actually still not allowed to talk about that trip in front of him because it is too painful!
What a stupid question! Not only would I not go on the trip, I would move out of the apartment I shared with the person that cancelled the wedding and tell them not to call me unless and until they wanted to get married.
Do you think Reza was right to cancel the wedding? What would you do if you were Adam?
While I’m sure it was very painful for Adam I absolutely think that Reza did the right thing. If you walk into a marriage with serious doubts it’s not only disrespectful to your partner – it’s also extremely selfish and foolish. While I’m not sure the marriage will last either way – at least he has the sense to make sure it was what he wanted 100%. Although, if I were Adam and I saw what took place at that disgusting bachelor party I would have canceled the wedding myself…
I absolutely agree that Reza was right to cancel the wedding. He was not ready to marry Adam and I suspect that Adam knew that for awhile. I think that Adam was saved from being terribly hurt by a man who doesn’t want just one lover in his life and would have definitely been unfaithful. I feel badly for Adam because it always hurts to love someone who dumps you on the eve of your wedding and has led you to believe that you were “the one”. Adam should leave Reza for at least a while and until he sorts out his own feelings. I doubt that Reza will ever be ready to settle down because he is immature and selfish and Adam is not. This was hard to watch and I saw it happening since the series began this season. Adam can do better and Reza is who he is and he has to live with the fact that he will probably wind up lonely. As for his friends..the old saying applies, “With friends like these, who needs enemies”. The whole “crew” is selfish, self-entitled and messed up. Other than Asa, who is a strange duck, but seems to have a good heart, MJ and the rest are users and enablers. Actually, they are perfect for a man like Reza who changes his friends like other people change their underwear. The loyalty seems forced and they are all needy and adrift.
Wow. You nailed it. Couldn’t have said it better myself….
Well if I was Adam…who am I kidding? I couldn’t be Adam because just sitting in a room with Reza would make me feel physically ill.
I hated seeing their wedding called off but after watching the past few episodes of Reza whining about intimacy (my read: him getting daily hot sex) I saw the writing on the wall.
Adam is a sweetheart and Reza is a bull. Yes, Reza found Adam surfing for naughty things but I find it hard to believe someone with a sexual appetite as strong as Reza’s that he’d be innocent in that activity.
I heard Adam moved back to Oklahoma. That’s sad. Not a whole lot in Oklahoma.
Adam deserves someone who will treat him like gold. I think he is one of those people who sees the best in people, and will let Reza have his little tantrums and promiscuity, therefore my wish is that Reza lets him go. I WAS Adam in my last relationship, and if I could travel back in time my advice to myself and Adam would be ‘run like hell’ whilst you still have some good self esteem.
Exactly the way I feel. Reza is too superficial and picky. No one will ever be good enough for him. Adam deserves better.
I think Adam is lucky. He dodged a very big bullet. Hopefully, he will see that once the pain subsides, and he can see the relationship more clearly.
Reza will only be satisfied if he is able to marry himself. Party of one.
As for the comment about Adam going back to Oklahoma: Keep thinking that. Maintain that stereotype that the Plains and Midwest states have nothing to offer. It keeps people from “the coast” from moving here, and ruining things for the rest of us. 🙂
Love your comment since I’m from Tulsa!!
Then you know what I mean. I’m in Kansas City. Kansas side.
I lived on Tinker AFB near OK City for five years when my father was stationed there. All I remember is lots of hail, tornadoes, dust storms, and freezing my ass off in winter. I haven’t seen snow since we moved to Florida in 1964. I have NO good memories of Oklahoma.
Oy! I made the comment about Oklahoma. I’ve been to OKC, Tulsa & Stillwater a number of times and have always enjoyed my visits. When I typed that, what I was thinking about was how vacant it seemed when I drove from city to city. Not much in between those towns and vastly different from where Adam lived in CA. Didn’t mean any disrespect.
Yep, I too think Adam is the winner here. Reza is a whore and would only continue to hurt, degrade and humiliate Adam. His take away, after he heals should be, ” what you don’t want in a life mate”.
It was very telling that when the therapist asked Adam how he felt, Adam turned to Reza to answer for him. It just makes me sad.
I saw on the news ticker on ‘E’ last night watching ‘Botched’ that Reza was interviewed and he said the wedding was back on. While I didn’t think marriage was a healthy decision for either of them and definitely thought Adam was better off not marrying Reza, if that’s what they want and are committed to working thru their issues maturely, then I wish them well and many years of happiness. Do I think a marriage between the two of them will last? I’m definitely not too sure of that!
Well I’d be on an episode of Lockup because I would’ve killed him, so there’s that…..
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Correct me if I’m wrong but didn’t a commenter confirm Reza and Adam got married? Reza said so on WWHL aftershow….
I made those comments, but please don’t take my word as confirmation. Look up the WWHL aftershow clips from when GG and Reza were guests (Marysol from Miami and Lisa Vanderpump were behind the bar) and judge for yourself.
I think when Andy asked him on WWHL he said you will have to wait and see….maybe it happened in wherever it is they are going. I just think he wanted people to watch.. Honestly, I hope Adam runs as far away from these people as he can and takes Jessica with him. I hope this is the last season of this show.
I don’t think Reza said that on the after show.
On Thu, May 21, 2015 at 12:30 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Yes he did. I just watched it, and he said, “I’z married now” twice in two different clips from the after show on March 3. Maybe he was just bullshitting, but he did say it.
I heard him say they were married in Thailand but we would have to watch to see what happens. It was on wwhl and not the after show.
No, you heard Andy ask when they were getting married. Reza said you never know, we may or may not have gotten married in Thailand. Clearly they do not get married in Thailand.
My sisters fiance called it off 2 days before the wedding. They stayed together, worked it out and got married a year later. She spent the next 10 years punishing him before he fled for good. I hope that is Adams plan too.
Da hell?? Oh my gosh!
I felt really sorry for Adam because Reza is mean and controlling. I question if Adam is truly attracted to Reza. Adam appears to be a broke ass that’s hanging to Reza and Adam isn’t into armpits like Reza either, lol.
I think Reza is better off staying single. No matter how much Adam spiced up their bedroom time it would not satisfy Reza. He has commitment issues. It has nothing to do with Adam. Reza would have found some other fault if the were gettin it in every day.
I just never saw them as this happy couple. There is just no chemistry between them. The only thing they have in common is they are both gay men. Adam appears to be a caring and compassionate individual, whereas Reza is like that perverted old uncle that you never want your children to sit on his lap. Maybe Adam has been less sexual with Reza because he’s bad in bed? A lot of selfish people are. Hell, Reza probably calls out his own name.
As other posters have mentioned, I do remember the comment on WWHL that hinted that the marriage finally took place. Too bad.
He was right to cancel it he is the most selfish, bigoted idiot on that show! Adam should know that this was a blessing!
I agree janshell. Reza has a piggish behavior and I don’t think he’d be really happy with anybody. He doesn’t strike me as being the monogamous type, and he seems deathly afraid of getting old.
I know of three couples in which one of the partners cancelled their respective weddings near the wedding date. Each of these couples eventually got married and all of them are miserable and/or divorced. Moral of the story: If your partner’s first instinct is to bail on you – let him/her go.