Kandi has a couple of things to say on her Bravo Blog this week. None of them are factual of course, but that’s what my purple pen is for, right? Let’s see if I can explain this.
Bravotv.com: Why didn’t you think Cynthia’s apology was genuine?
Phaedra Parks: There’s apologizing and then there is “apologizing.” In one breath Cynthia is telling me she is sorry, and in the next she is lobbing insulting remarks at me. If someone is truly sorry for what they have done or said, it is reflected in their actions. Saying the words “I am sorry” does not mean much if the disrespectful and nasty behavior continues. As a mother, wife, and purported professional, I think Cynthia should have been more responsible and thoughtful from the beginning.
So to review, Cynthia is on a television show where she is supposed to follow the storyline. The storyline is loosely based on the actual fact that your husband stole a bunch of money, some for Delta retirees, and is going to prison for a second stint.
As part of this storyline she was told some information via that husband through her husband concerning your alleged lack of faithfulness. Which she shared with the others on the show. And she apologized when you claimed your nonexistent feelings were hurt. So you talked trash about her husband and his businesses and Cynthia and her businesses and refused to accept her apology.
Are you really going to hold yourself out as an example of a business woman or a thoughtful person who considers the effect her words have on other mothers? Because that is just fucking hysterical.
Bravotv.com: Did you and Kandi finally put your issues to rest at the reunion?
PP: As far as I am concerned, I have no issues with Kandi. I made one comment that has been blown way out of proportion. I love Kandi.
You made ONE comment? You went on a national tour of victimhood from churches to talk shows telling anyone who would listen that Nene Leakes was your onliest friend. Please pass the collection plate. Please buy my book on manners! No one is talking to me except my dear friend Nene Leakes! And then Nene started pointing out that you weren’t friends, she just felt sorry for you. That would make a normal person back off the story, but you continued to repeat it during the reunion.
Now we are supposed to believe that you “love” Kandi? Even though just a few days ago you were subtweeting her on Instagram. Allegedly. This is not how love works. It’s just like if you love your husband you show up to his hearings no matter what awful thing he has done and work to keep his relationship with his son intact. If you love Kandi, you can pick up the phone and call her. Or, you can see your ship sinking and grab on to Nene Leakes, a woman you have not been able to stand since day one, as your life boat. Spoiler alert, she only has no more loyalty to her friends than you do. So good luck with that plan.