I have to say Demetria gave Phaedra plenty of opportunities to simply apologize and move on. Clearly, Phaedra’s intentions were to attack Demetria relentlessly despite never knowing her. Did Phaedra make a play for Roger Bobb? Did Demetria have relations with Apollo? What is it about Demetria that Phaedra is so pressed about? Is it as simple as Demetria being younger and prettier that she is? If that is the case there are a whole lot of people in the world for her to go after.
Next week, Demetria apologizes for the comments about Apollo. That was a huge gesture on Demetria’s part. But Phaedra will not be dissuaded from trash talking Demetria again. When Phaedra was on The Ellen Show, she made a point of disparaging the character of everyone on Team Beauty.
In the midst of that sits Phaedra. I have never done anything to this girl!? And I felt that with the degrees she has and the situation she is in, this “Southern Christian belle” can’t seriously be saying these ignorant things. No way! LOL! This was also my first real conversation with her, so I didn’t know her personality and tried to walk away and give her the benefit of the doubt. I also gave her multiple passes on the stupidity due to what she is going through. I tried to keep it cute and classy! But after asking if I had done crack, saying I am too old to pursue my dream, asking if I think my relationship is off kilter, and then to come to Puerto Rico and continue voicing nonsense about my clothes, I knew it had to stop.
It’s crazy to me! People will sit there and poke at you in front of people and then get butt hurt when you finally punch them in the face in front of the same audience! Instead of making up some rude, obnoxious fiction, I reminded her of her truth. Something she has tried to get away from by resorting to talking recklessly about not only me but others in public forums. A person living in a broken glass house needs to pick up the pieces, not cut someone else because they’re mad. AND I GAVE HER AN OUT! I asked her, “Do you really want to do this?” All the continued eye rolling and whispered shade gave me the go. Not what I wanted to do, but there’s only so far anyone will let your shade go before they clap back. But on the bright side, at least we know communion bread isn’t so boring!
Who Didn’t have “relations” with Apollo ? It seems now all of Atlanta coming out of the closet with accusations. Geesshh. So Apollo doesn’t have to worry about giving those guys in jail something, but rather the guys in jail have to worry about contracting something from him. 😡 Eeewwwww
Huh? I think I know what you meant. LOL
Yes I think it’s because Demetria is young , beautiful, and not bad built like herself mingled with she would like to be involved with Mr. Bob . She probably tried to make a play for rogerbob and was rejected , Mr Bob has a type and she’s not it . Theres more but I’m tired and “the people ” will attack me if I say it .
I will not attack you. “Spill tea” please & thank you
@philly’s finest . No tea . Just my thoughts on why phedra was so hateful towards Demetria .
I agree. Even if it wasn’t THE Roger Bobb, it was a Mr. Bobb. And she snagged an Apollo, instead. She was being nasty to Demetria but she had some good points. Phaedra is just pissy she got a broke-ass felon to put a ring on it and Demetria got an off and on financier, for years, at the very least.
What ring? I’m sure Phaedra bought it herself? Let’s also not forget, she was PREGNANT when she got engaged & married – not that there’s anything wrong w/ that – but she sure does love to forget that fact & make it seem like he planned to be w/ her when clearly, the circumstances (being preggo) lead to the marriage first.
Demitria will probably show Phaedra as the classless boor that she is, but it doesn’t matter because people like her (and Nene) don’t apologize for their actions. They give what is supposed to “appear” to be an apology to the insulted party, but all it is, is a glorified excuse that makes the other party feel like what was said or what happened was their own fault. smh
Phaedra remains unapologetic. She now says Demetria took what she said too personally. Huh? You ask someone if they are a crackhead and they shouldn’t take it personally? You comment on their age and career aspirations and how long they have been in a relationship and that should not be taken personally?
Perhaps, Demetria should have come back with, “please don’t take this personally, but is it true you made booty calls to Apollo on an air mattress in the middle of the night while he was still wearing a tether?” Or, “don’t take this personally but inquiring minds want to know is Apollo really Dylan’s daddy or is it Mr. Chocolate or that DJ dude or do you even know?”
I could go on but you get my drift. People who live in glass houses are in no position to throw stones. Phaedra knew better than to go in on Claudia like that.
We tend to discuss Bravo blogs at the end of the week here. After all the major weekly drama is done.
On Thu, Jan 15, 2015 at 9:17 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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That gif of Phaedra and Apollo is soooooo disturbing!!! I think it tried to hypnotize me!!!!
All I can think about when I see that .gif is what she said. “Donkey Booty – nasty” **insert tongue gestures here** – and she is 100% right! NASTY!
Phaedra has always been vindictive and catty, she seems super petty and jealous of other women prettier than she. I don’t think Phaedra’s short no neck behind can school anyone on the latest fashion, her fashion since is so tired!!!
That GIF of Phaedra gives me the heebie jeebies.
She looks like a toad catching flies.
Stupid is as stupid does, and Demetria is stupid, and lawyer Phaedra doesn’t understand why she has to put up with such a stupid bimbo on that show, and neither do I. I also think Bravo told Phaedra she can’t keep showing up stoned and out of commission and expect to get paid, she had to bring it to the scenes. It’s the same frustration lawyer Jim had having to put up with all those dumb guidos with a combined IQ of less than 12 like Rino and Joe Gorga.
Jennnifer, The more you most, the stupider you seem. It’s amazing to watch.
On Mon, Jan 12, 2015 at 1:05 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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People are stupid because they don’t agree with the blogger?
Nope. People are just stupid. And the blogger is not.
On Mon, Jan 12, 2015 at 3:50 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I’m beginning to think Jennifer must be trolling us!
No. She is stupid. Period.
Jennifer it’s better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.
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She’s a fool because she doesn’t agree with most people here?
Yes. She is a fool. Perhaps you should have a seat next to her. You two have much in common.
On Mon, Jan 12, 2015 at 3:50 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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No because it’s inherent.
That ship has sailed. 🙂
Jennifer, I dont recall any actual “lawyering” Phaedra has done in the last few years. Please let me know if I am incorrect. While we may have been watching the same show, I don’t recall Phaedra actually “bringing” it. Hmmm. Also, I thought it was established on the RHONJ reunion, that Jim wasn’t a lawyer and he hadn’t taken the bar exam until after the show aired last season and was waiting on results. You sure seem to defend the most racist, disgusting and ignorant showing of Nene, Phaedra and Porsha all season last evening. Interesting.
Thank you, fellow Katherine. Well said.
I’m not with Jennifer. She does a terrible disservice to all of the Jens of the World. Please, shove her back through the hole in the fence, pronto! What a moron!
Ok phaeadra, youre going to have to come up with a better fake name “jennifer”? Really? Thats the best you can do?? Lol
I don’t think its phedra . Maybe its porsha.
The ONLY thing Phaedra was correct about was that she’s been with him for 8 years off and on and shouldn’t act like she hasn’t been getting played for 8 years. However, people in felon husband houses shouldn’t throw stones. It’s also not like they are close friends. If one of Demetria’s good friends asked her these questions I’m sure it would be thought provoking or she would give insight into the relationship that maybe we don’t fully understand. It’s really no one’s business anyways if girl wants to be a fool. I like Demetria so far. I wish they would give her Phaedra’s peach & team beast could just be gone.
Lol! At the idea of Jimbo being smarter than anyone. It’s amazing how many people will believe someone who says they’re very intelligent, if they just say it convincingly enough.
I call troll.
The idiots here can trawl all they want while the smart people sit here shooting fish in a bucket. Not directed to the use of troll for trawl.
Excuse me fashion sense, Tamara T, love u girl you always serve the TEA Scalding hot and ready!!!
I have no idea want to think about why Phaedra went in so hard and so fast on Demetria! You would think Phaedra had some sort of past with her, or something??? I don’t know. Or is Phaedra just being crazier than usual? The bullshit that went down with “GlamSquad,” was hilarious, however wrong on a few levels
I think Phaedra and Nene were going in on both the new girls because they were trying to save Porsha’s peach or maybe dissuade Claudia and Demetria from being on the show…maybe..Just my opinion. That’s the only reason I can think of other than them being straight up rude disgusting bitches for the sake of being..horrible.
That’s a great observation, I think they thought she might be the weakest link b/c clearly out of the new girls, Claudia is a force to be reckoned with. From the previews & nice-ities (sp?) it seems Demetria doesn’t know what team to be & is kissing everyone’s butt. I’m glad she stood up for herself, but for being the hostess, she was EXTREMELY disrespected by the bubble butt, moose & bimbo.
If that’s why it was foolish, because they always keep on those who bring the conflict. So fighting with either Claudia or Demetria wasn’t doing Porsha any favors.
That was my guess, that Phaedra thought she was going to be replaced maybe? Two extra girls, if I go by the Tea from TT, both Demetria and Claudai were up for a peach. I believe Phaedra brought the drama to secure her spot maybe?
“That’s the only reason I can think of other than them being straight up rude disgusting bitches for the sake of being..horrible.”
I goin’ with this one.
I think Phaedra and Nene don’t care about anyone but themselves. Since they have no allies, they should’ve tried to recruit the new girls to their side, or at least help airhead Porsha secure her position–Lord knows she needs the help! Thry don’t truly give a shit about Porsha: if they were motivated by protecting peaches, they were only concerned about their own.
Their behavior towards the hostess was beyond inexcusable.
Someone just tried to hop the fence TT! I know you have that hole boarded and nailed up tight!
Talk about fashion sense. Phaedre, we are no longer using lip liner along with our lipstick–yesterday.
Phaedra has always had the worst fashion sense of any of the housewives besides Kyle and Kandi.
Nineties makeup is back in, dontcha know!
Amazing to watch what ? Its a blog Its typing no pictures no video …what are you saying TT?
Unless you are reading in braille we “watch” what is posted and respond accordingly.
It’s team pretty vs. team miserable.
Word.
I wonder if the head doctor Phaedra has brain damage from giving so much head. She has gone off her rocker. Honestly, her eye rolling and horribly ugly facial expressions make her look demented. What was funny to me was the hideous face that Porsha was making while the cameras were aimed at Phaedra making her nasty face. LOL Two hags dressed like HOs.
Demetria is lovely and I can see the jealousy pouring out of Phaedra and Porsha.
I would love for Phae to watch playback of her behavior while she sits in church, claiming to be Christian & patting herself on the back. What a pos.
I agree. Demetria is pretty, talented, smart, and classy. I can see why Porsha might be jealous especially considering that they around the same age.
Phaedra had some nice scenes of her getting to know her children. She should try it more often so it is at least believable. Apparently, Aiden went off script and forgot to call Dylan by his ridiculous stage name.
Phaedra’s face making is really disturbing. I hope she rids herself of her expression Tourette’s sooner rather than later. She looks like a demented clown.
1000% AGREE…HER FACIAL EXPRESSIONS ARE SO JUVENILE..AND UNATTRACTIVE
ME TOO!!! DOES SHE KNOW HOW UGLY AND RIDICULOUS SHE LOOKS??!
Dylan looks nothing like Ayedannn. No way they have the same dad.
Yay, Aiden!! Smart little guy! Unfortunately Nene and Phaedra want to control everyone.
Cue the donkey booty soundtrack, watch the gif and repeat, hee haw, hee haw, hee haw…Phaedra always struck me as a braying jackass.
We couldn’t make and heads nor tails of it…all the instant SHADE Phaedra was thrwoing Demetria. Did they know eachother in the past, a past where Phaedra may have felt slighted by her and didn’t get the opportunity to get some ‘get back’ back then? So now’s the time? It was weird to watch. To discover in the later scene where they’re all at the table, and after the “table read”, Demetria’s to be exact, Phaedra gonna state “I don’t even know that girl!” So why all the displaced disses, Parks? Demetria, you may be younger than her (loved how you had to remind her of that, by the way), but you handled yourself well, without calling her one “B” on air. Good for you! 🙂
And NENE… gonna GO AT Cynthia for trying to bring some harmony to the table, talkin’ “she wasn’t there,” and yes, you were! And if you recall during that “studio scene,” even you yourself mentioned how Phaedra was shading Demetria without cause. But in PR, you defend it?? Two-faces! Both of them donned in the same wig, though.
I wonder if Roger Bob will be on the reunion?
Oh my…
Sigh ! Is there a rule about using all Capitol letters ?
That is the 36th one of hers I moderated today. I fear I pushed the wrong button. She is one of those who has no idea her comments don’t ever make it out and just keeps posting.
On Mon, Jan 12, 2015 at 4:43 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Ooops, sorry! I did it, too. That’s my first strike, please forgive!
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Whew, Im not sure wear to start. That is a great point NotthatKenya…bc NeNe sure was saying that Phaedra was throwing shade at Demetria until Cynthia chimed in. I’m thinking that the pretty girls were gathered at the table looking good and so unbothered by the others and they NeNe and Phaedra didnt like that. The fact that they were actually enjoying themselves and not throwing shade at each other was too much like right. I think I’m going to have to say that the “old school” crew was bothered by the newbies and it showed.
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Slightly off topic but I had a dream about RHOA last night (watched it before I went to bed). Somehow I ended up in a room alone with Kenya and I said to her something like “Hey, just so you know, I’m rooting for Team Pretty. Or is it Team Beauty?” She responded “We’re Team Classy.” True story.
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For real, that’s great! I kinda believe it might have happened–it’s so perfect!
8 years in an off and on relationship, something is wrong. Its not as if she was a Freshman in college and aspiring to be a physician and her career is her most important goal before marriage and a family. O_O
I don’t think Phaedra is hating on Demetria because she’s younger and prettier. She was nice to Kenya when she first met her and she’s friendly with Porsha.
I think there is more to the story.
Maybe production put a bug (lie) in her ear about Demetria.
Maybe that one commentor above is right and she & Nene conspired against Demetria to help Porsha secure her peach. (Porsha makes a good pawn after all) .
Maybe she’s just incredibly miserable and angry now due to the Apollo drama and wants to spread the misery.
I don’t know what’s going on but she was just straight up nasty to Demetria for literally no reason at all as far as we know.
I don’t see her hating on Claudia and Claudia is just if not more beautiful than Demetria. Plus she’s a friend of Phaedra’s “mortal enemy” Kenya.
It’s weird. I really want to know what motivated it
Yeah I remember that too. Phaedra and Kenya actually hit it off really well at the start. Phaedra might be a scumbag, but she is hilarious and very witty so she was a good match with Kenya.
Their relationship blew up when Phaedra pretended to hire Kenya to produce her video so it would get a storyline and exposure on the show even thought she had already hired other people to produce it.
I’m also curious what caused Phaedra to act that way, it’s very unlike her to just blurt out rude things, usually she is very aware of the cameras and calculates every lie that flies out of her mouth. Maybe NeNe got in her ear before they shot that scene, and it is really NeNe’s issues with Demetria that triggered all that.
She was a raging bitch for sure. But other than some previous relationship with Demetria’s man, the only thing that explains – not justifies – her behavior is that the stress of her marriage falling apart on national tv and her husband’s subsequent jail sentence has taken an ugly toll.
I hate Phaedra. She ruins the show with her negativity. Feel sorry for demetria a pig wanted to roll around in the dirt with her. Mud everywhere with her!
Stop shouting at me woman
Great recap… Not understanding all the shade myself… I’m like, are these two dating the same man or something, what up with Phaedra? Anyway, enjoying the two new ladies and Demetria have a lovely voice…
Are we sure Demetria wanted to stay on this show? After this last episode, I really like her. It would be awesome if she replaced Phaedra.
Phaedra BOUGHT a defective husband & she can’t find the receipt to get her life back! SHE IS BITTER! She’s jealous, ill-built, not cute, I could go on & on. But Demetria can’t read anyone when it comes to relationships, when R.B. (can’t stand to hear or write his name anymore) clearly is stringing her in& out, along for years. He’s gotta know she desires to be married & that’s apparently not his thing. Nothing is worse than being desperate. In my opinion, both these ladies were. But as far as Demetrias clothing & career choice, Phaedra how dare you, Christian southern belle! You purchased a criminal & tried to make him head of your household!
In other words, why cant she pursue her dreams? You purchased yours & it turned out to be a nightmare!
Phaedra needs a storyline. She can’t use Kenya anymore…that ship has sailed !
She is embarrassed, angry and to top it off…’her slip is showing’…lol…