This is the infamous interview Lisa Vanderpump did with Andy where she makes the comment that pissed off at lot of her gay fans. That is really all I heard about it and I never sought it out on Youtube.
But it is REALLY good. She makes Andy squirm. Andy all but admits he knows about Jax past life as an escort. He admits his attraction to Tom Sandoval, but clearly Tom lost points showing up on whatever he was on ALLEGEDLY on his last WWHL appearance.
He throws shade at Yolanda and Joyce in a subtle way and seems to feel bad about how Carlton got edited on her season.
There is lots of tea from both RHOBH and Vanderpump Rules! This was filmed last month.
You have to check it out.
I think Lisa just puts on…she really doesn’t care what anyone thinks of her except Ken, Jiggy, Pandora & her son. I love her. They should cancel the housewives’ shows. Let Lisa have a weekly show.
Great interview! But . . . . I didn’t catch anything that would make the Gay Community pissy. Can someone explain?
After Andy admits he never swam in the lady pond (a question he *always* asks his female guests to no outrage from anyone) Lisa says, laughing & obviously joking, “then how do you know for sure you’re gay?” The perpetually outraged got pissed off about that.
Personally, I think people should put more value on what a person does than what they say — but YMMV.
*she says “How do you know you don’t like it” (i.e., being with a woman) not “how do you know you’re gay” — which is even *less* offensive, IMO. (Not that I find the other one offensive either — it was obviously all said in fun/teasing way).
Clearly I must be the ‘perpetually outraged’ you speak of. So let me fulfill the typical angry gay agenda proponent you assume I am.
*cough*….kaahhhm… fuck you bitch!
Now back to the real me; questioning someone’s sexuality is always a touchy subject. Asking them to prove it is kind of rude. Similarly I felt it was rude to imply they could be wrong. Jmo.
If Andy doesn’t care that is fine. I just hate that archaic argument and mentioned that in a post. Again, I didn’t say I hated Lisa over it just that it disappointed me that someone who supports gay rights can say something that to some is annoying and a tad ignorant.
Questioning someone’s sexuality? Asking them to prove it? Implying they could be wrong?
Perhaps it just doesn’t translate well into Aussielian. Do you think that Lisa doesn’t believe Andy is gay? Do you think she was somehow insisting he go try vagina? Do you think she meant that perhaps he was secretly straight and just confused?
Of course you don’t and neither do other females who make similar teases all the time.
That said, if you are unsure, I’m open to helping you explore your feelings.
Yep, you’re part of the perpetually outraged. Must be nice that you’ve got nothing of real consequence to be concerned with.
And fuck you too, cupcake.
He really doesn’t. And he’s quite young. Apparently there is some sort of inborn need for outrage. 🙂
On Sat, Dec 27, 2014 at 10:19 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I know Lisa was probably joking. Still it is just not funny to me. Not when some people use the argument seriously. I don’t believe in censorship or special protections for minorities when it comes to humor, nothing should be taboo. Lisa had every right to make that joke. However, just like with the Brandi joke about how some groups can’t swim, it can be annoying to some people. All it did was tarnish Lisa’s brilliant shine to me, nothing more.
I actually would have loved if after she made the comments she followed up with, ‘isn’t it crazy how some people actually believe my joke is a real question that should be posed to gays’. That would show lack of ignorance and a tad more of her snarky side I love. Sadly she just left it where she did. I like Lisa so maybe I have a higher expectation of her.
Lots of black people can’t swim or prefer not to. Much is said by black women about not wanting to get their hair wet. God forbid a skinny ass white bitch bring it up though, because THEN it’s racist.
Same thing. Looking for reasons to be offended.
I HATE YOUR NEW STUPID RICH PEOPLE PHONE going into moderation. I’m offended by THAT.
It is so frustrating I’m going to give up and resort to tweeting you my obnoxious opinions instead. It is the 21st Century Word Process! Work with me! This Word Process is so homophobic, censoring the gay agenda.
Don’t give up I am tryng to work it out. on my end. You have the same name email etc as forever. I’m working on it.
Oh, and I Love story time. Tell another please.
Oh, please. How can somebody get mad about that?. I did not know Jax was a former males escort. But now his behavior totally makes sense to me. His raging promiscuity with women is a deep-seated charade to prove he is heterosexual to himself. and Andy is right. Everyone of those guys is one cocktail away from doing a guy.
Isn’t everyone one cocktail away from doing a guy?
On Sun, Dec 28, 2014 at 12:56 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Apparently joking with hot gay guys about not knowing they won’t sex with women until they try it is highly offensive.
I think this is an younger generational gay issue. Back in the day when gay men had actual problems they didn’t mind at all when straight chicks flirted with them. These young gay whippersnappers are apparently humorless little snots that take things very seriously.
Don’t get Michael started.
It’s kind of like the word “Jew.” I am playing a lot of “Just Words” (ironic name actually) which is their knockoff Scrabble. If you play an “offensive word” They berate you for the offensive word and ask if you really want to use all the actual words in the bank or just the ones they have decided are not offensive.
So far I have been admonished for ‘Jew’ (13pts, fuck yeah I want to use it.) ‘rape’, ‘tit’ and “abo” that I can recall.
I think we are going to have to rewrite the Bible if we can’t say Jew anymore. Maybe something like this? ” There will be trouble and distress for every human being who does evil: first for the J-Word, then for the Gentile; but glory, honor and peace for everyone who does good: first for the J-Word, then for the Gentile. ”
I feel like I am 98 fucking years old lately. Back in my day you could flirt with and attempt to get hot gay guy’s attention all the time and they would laugh and buy you drinks and tell you when your lipstick was smeared.
Now it seems like everyday, a new word becomes offensive and that is just fucking retarded.
🙂 SWIDT?
On Sat, Dec 27, 2014 at 6:16 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Welcome to the old age club. You’ll love the benefits. I wasn’t offended by Lisa’s question but then, I’m one of those older gay men with actual problems… Thanks for the link!
LOL. Exactly. I knew you would understand. There are Lisa’s silly comments and then there are the good old days where gay men were sent off to religious reprogramming in an attempt to pray the gay away.
I find my ubiquitous offers to fuck the gay away of anyone in need to be a much kinder, gentler time for the gays. Well at least when I was still cute.
On Sat, Dec 27, 2014 at 8:55 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I don’t care if girls flirt with me. It is actually flattering. Just like how straight guys shouldn’t be offended if a gay guy flirts a bit. My personal issue was just the ‘you don’t know unless you try it’ argument of which comes across a little patronising. That is all. I still love Lisa. Just that one argument is annoying and dated.
On the other hand when Ms Nene Leaks panders to the gay community and says the gays are cool that’s why she has one, I am very offended and it’s one of the reasons I can’ stand the woman…
I agree, Sequoia.. that made me throw up in my mouth. @NewJerzeyBoy got on me for saying “my gays” on the same issue. I do try to say “my gay friends” more often than not now. Because I can sort of see that one… but I have more gay male friends than any other kind of friends so to me, it didn’t seem like a thing and I pushed back with him about that. After Nene’s CHECK! comment…
That really put a bad taste in my mouth. I love the gay men in my life more than anything else in my life. They are the best part of my life. I never thought of saying “my gays” was anything but a term of endearment until I saw Nene who I would like to slap silly for her attitude toward gay men say that.
For the first time in my life, I’m trying to be “PC” on that one issue here.
On Sat, Dec 27, 2014 at 11:21 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I’m on the fence when it comes to girls/faghags who seemingly ‘collect’ fags. Usually I’m close enough to them that I don’t care they make those statements. I can understand why people don’t appreciate Nene and what she has said about gays. It’s a complicated arena, I appreciate that. I just hope I’m not sounding like Whoopi right now about gay issues. The whole, ‘you could never understand unless you’re gay/black’, makes me crazy.
âI don’t “collect gays” gays find me. And I love them.
STORYTIME..
I come from a racist, homophobic family. In my youth I became very close to some gay guys and some guys of a race my parents would not like
I’ll never forget going out with my older (the dead one) who was a racist homophobe to a club back in the day men sent drinks and then came over to say hello. My sister and I walked in and sat at the bar and the drinks flew my way. I was not all Madonna or Lady Gaga or wearing a sign that says racism sucks or anything. I was pretty enough but not beautiful, men flocked to me. My sister who was clearly feeling left out… said to me “I’m going to tell tell mama you don’t choose these people on purpose, they just seem to love you for some reason.”
I’m still trying to figure out the moral of that story since I never got married. Though I did have a LOT of fun in my day.
On Sat, Dec 27, 2014 at 11:38 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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When you or Lisa Vanderpump talk about gays it’s a friendly ribbing. There is no malice in your intent. You can say want ever you want about ‘the gays’ and I get the humor. I get a very different feeling from nene leaks.She is overtly condescending and her words and attitude betray a contempt toward gay men that I find loathsome. She comes across as mean spirited. You do not… well, not about that anyway….
Good Morning. I forgot to put j/k after that last comment. sorry bout that
I just call my friends “my friends” and I have every sexual preference included in that group. I do call one in particular “my gay” because he likes it and I’m pretty sure it makes him feel special to have a title. We’ve been friends for almost 30 years and know everything about one another and I know better than to ask him how does he know he doesn’t like snatch since he’s never tried it because, after making a gagging noise, he would slap the piss out of me. He’s a tad dramatic.
It’s pretty common in my weird world, maybe it’s just an Atlanta thing. Maybe it is in the Bible. But it’s practically required her to have a GBF = Gay Best Friend.
On Sun, Dec 28, 2014 at 3:17 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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reading these posts I realize I must have been left out of the loop somehow since I neither knew about Jax being an escort, or Tom being high on some show. What the fuck have I missed. As far as the Lisa/gay comment, that is just her being the stupid rich bitch that she is. I don’t take it personally as a queer, but I don’t expect people like her to know bullshit from apple butter either. She isn’t supporting the gay community as much she is getting her hands on as much of their discretionary income as humanly possible, and there is a big difference. Posh society ladies like her would all look like hags without the queens that care-take every aspect of their appearance, wardrobe, and interior (not to mention servicing some of their husbands) so she just knows on which side her bread is buttered. I practically jumped out of my chair and shouted ‘hallelujah’ when Tamra made her ‘pocket gays’ comment on OC last year, it was such a truism that someone like Alexis Bellino can employ gays to Barbie-fy her looks but pity them for being doomed to hellfire in eternity. I guess someone like Lisa is preferable to that, but the thought that anyone would expect someone this rich and narcissistic to know anything about something not directly related to or concerning herself is silly.
Okay, this is what I THINK it may have been. Lisa asked Andy how would he know he is gay if he had never been with a woman, and then she told Andy that he wouldn’t know until he tried…or something close to that. For gays that are “gold star” and have no interest whatsoever in females, and have no need to “try”, I can see how this line of reasoning could potentially be offensive. Actually, I’m pretty baffled that Lisa even went there, but whatev. This part of their conversation starts around the 6:40 mark.
Ding ding.
Your offense on this topic on behalf of guys is even more ridiculous than that of the nubile young gay man here who is not quite offended but more slightly miffed. His level of miffiness would be much higher had it not been by his on personal Lady Gaga, The Pump.
On Sat, Dec 27, 2014 at 7:39 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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You are right TT in that if it was just a member of the Westboro Baptist Church I wouldn’t care at all. It does hurt a bit more when you have some respect for the person.
That is the most ridiculous thing you have ever said. If you want to be offended, be offended by the haters. Don’t be offended by the people with no intention to offend.
Do you have any GODAMN TAMARA TATTLES TOKENS? Because I’m about ready to make someone use some for the first time. Between you big fat feelings and the fact that your every post is being moderated…. you are working my last good nerve.
What are you drinking this fine summer afternoon anyway?
Lick Pier. If i could take a pic I would. 🙂
Sounds like a lesbian hangout.
NEVER! Gays and lesbians are natural enemies. Surely you know that. 😉
So if I do switch teams my gay friends will abandon me? Sequoia? Can I get a ruling on this?
On Sat, Dec 27, 2014 at 10:44 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Lick Pier… that sounds dirty… *giggle*
To clarify it is alcoholic ginger beer and is amazing.
I tend to agree, Cyndy, and I have noted this season more than in the past, that Lisa seems to enjoy a little bawdy and occasional naughty talk. I mean she’s made some really naughty talk this season (LOL), especially as she plays up being the proper British lady and gives us a nearly whisper aside. Very naughty!
Why are my comments being placed in moderation!!???
WordPress hates juvenile gays. 😉
Are you free Friday night? 😀
Michael, it must hate older, southern, straight white women too then because I’ve done my time in moderation hell as well.
I think it was my new phone honestly. Even older, southern white women can rock the Galaxy Note 4. Join me!!
On the topic of being outraged for fun. I’m not. To this day I am never invited to corporate functions my partner is obligated to attend to because we are both guys. Just life I guess.
That is totally different from chicks trying to convert you. You can’t tell me you’ve never seen a hot straight guy “you thought you could turn.” It’s the same damn thing.
Send me one of them there phones.
I have been phoneless for like ever. My phone broke. I HATE talking on the phone and having an electronic lease and a way for my friends, family and the government tracking me.
I had one because of my ex had me on electronic and possibly other leashes. It was more a punishment than a gift. 🙂 Anyway it stopped working and we were done and I didn’t care. But now if you are running late somewhere and don’t call…. or breakdown somewhere… so I kept this $25 plan for 75 minutes a month thing. I kept paying on it an paying on it even though I had no phone.
This was a MAJOR topic in therapy. She is very insistent I get a new phone. So I went to T-Mobile and said “I need a new free phone” and the guy was all confused because this was 2014 and he was all like huh? I said, “You know when you have a phone for a year or two you get a new one, and well mine hasn’t worked since 1974 and I was in the neighborhood so I’d like a new one please.”
“You’d like a free new phone?”
“Yes please.. flip phone, smart phone, dumb phone, I don’t give a shit what kind as long as it rings when someone calls me and I can call 911 when the killer comes and shit I’m good. Just pick one.”
“Um Perhaps you have seen the array of phones behind you?”
“Nah didn’t look just want the free one. Whatever. Who cares”
“Mam, we have not had a free phone in months we do no contract now. PICK A PHONE!”
“So yeah, I don’t want to pay a couple hundred my drunk ass will plop into the toilet at a bar. Other ideas?”
So the guy tells me off the record to go to Walmart and buy a random phone and bring it back. So I put that on the list of things to make and do on a sane day.
Six months later I go to Walmart where there is this girl trying to look to busy to deal with me, and a TON of phones but they all seem in business with certain operators. And as a misogynist myself, if there is no man to explain it to me I am not doing it.
I tried to get a phone.
So just send me your old one.
On Sun, Dec 28, 2014 at 12:01 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Tasos826, so sorry you have been sent to moderation hell. It used to be me. I may have just jinxed myself. If I have, please save my seat. It’s the one closest to the door with the cushion. I’ve sat there so many times, it has my butt impression on it lol.
âI DUNNO? This one isn’t I HOPe and I am responding to the ones that aren’t yet sometimes when I go to moderate… ones I haved commented on are.
On Sat, Dec 27, 2014 at 11:38 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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The longer the comment to more chance of moderation.
You do tend to go on …
there are some unique letter combinations that will send you into moderation and if you write long enough, you will surely hit one especially if you use numbers.
I am god! Just checking if that is a combination.
I love Tom Hardy. Let’s see if that is a combination.
TT, I have several phones. You are welcome to any of them. If you want a new one, Verizon has a free phone on their website. They also have nice, cheap prepaid plans. That’s what I have, because I HATE talking on the phone. My plan is only $15 a month.
More, more. It’s satiday- satiday. #tvsuxsaturday
What happened at the shadow lounge? Hmmmm …
Blowjobs. Naturally.
That place was my regular haunt. If you were a member it was pretty much anything goes… Lord, once you were in the VIP lounge, if you stick some cash in the back of one of the (incredibly hot – Lisa clearly has a talent for picking hot boys) waiters pockets, he would bring you back a gram of blow.
Then the huge corporate company who bought it from The Pump RIPPED out it’s soul and sanitised it. A sad day for The Gays.
That said, I wish I was there when Andy was visiting. I’d be on my knees quicker than you can say “gold star gay.” Just sayin.’
You slut you Mark. 😉
By a lot of her gay fans are we just talking about me? 😉
It’s a small irritant. Overall the interview was one of the better ones I’ve seen of Andy. I can’t help but to forgive and love Lisa. Although Eileen is beginning to become my new favorite.
Anyway all my comments are being moderated so I probably just will leave this post and enjoy my day out drinking. Enjoy your holidays everyone! 😀
We’re portable people. You can take us drinking with you!
Nah, there were other whiney little bitches in the youtube section. 🙂
What the hell did you do to piss off WordPress? You have like five comments in moderation!
I think it’s my new Galaxy Note 4 phone. Maybe with the different IP adress or something. It hasn’t let one comment through since I got it Christmas I think.
Oh, TT. Bless your heart. You know better than to read comments on Yahoo, Youtube and any local news sites. They are filled with devoted trolls. EVERYBODY KNOWS, they will find something negative to say about a door knob.
You and Michael going back and forth is mildly amusing.
maybe the question is offensive to some because no one ever asks a straight person the same thing?
Ding ding.
Impolite is most likely a better word
LOL. You’ve got to be kidding me. Lesbians ask me all the time. I’m actually starting to waver…
On Sat, Dec 27, 2014 at 9:12 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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nope, not kidding … you mean they ask you how do you know you aren’t gay if you’ve never tried it?
No one, including Lisa Vanderpump asked that. I believe the question was how do you know you don’t like (women) if you don’t like it.
On Sat, Dec 27, 2014 at 10:16 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I’m another one who had been asked multiple times how I know I’m not into women of I haven’t tried it. I don’t find it offensive in the least ::shrugs::
Me as well, have been on the receiving end of the “how do you know if you don’t try?” come-on many times from lesbians. And witnessed gay men using that approach with straight men too (although less than the lesbians)
As a young gay, I feel like I’m qualified to give some insight on this. I had the same girlfriend throughout high school and college. Don’t judge me. I was still “finding” myself. I guess I’m not “gold star.” Lol
Lisa was joking. I was not offended. I seriously doubt most people were offended. I totally get her humor.
The only time I get offended is when straight women joke that they were sad to find out I’m gay or that successful, attractive gays are a waste. That’s offensive!
I can only imagine the outrage that would occur if a straight man asked a gold star lesbian the same line of questions. The internet would melt. #rapeculture would be trending on Twitter.
Lisa is my all time favorite Housewife. I stopped watching the show when all of the other ladies ganged up on her. After reading your recaps on this season, I started watching again.
If I were her, I would only trust Lisa R. The rest of the women kissing her ass are this season are only there because they realize that Lisa V is the fan favorite. Bravo tried to cast Yolonda as the next glamorous Lisa V, but she comes off as pretentious.
You young ones need to stop being so sensitive. You are free to be offended by whatever you wanna be. But there is this newfound thing with the younger generation that seems to be searching for a reason to be offended. Straight women have be bemoaning that all the hot, attractive, wealthy men are gay for years. “What a waste!” I can see how you could TAKE that as an insult, but it is no more of an insult than saying all the good ones are married. There is no ill intent.
I don’t feel the least bit bad for all of you intelligent, attractive, gay men who are offended because we’re pissy you are not playing on our team. Like you have never said anything similar about a hot straight man…
Quit looking for reasons to feel offended.
“All the good ones are married” is offensive to all the unmarried men who want to be married.
TT, I can agree there is no seemingly ill intent. But, it’s a BAD joke and not funny. Calling gay men to their face (and women) a waste or disappointment … It is very negative.
OFF TOPIC: Can we expect another Tamara Tattles “ask me anything” post?
You seem illiterate. When a woman says about a hot gay man “What a waste” It is not a judgment about the man calling them a waste, the literal translation is…. Goddamn, I wish he played for our team.
It’s wistfulness mixed with envy… Certainly not an insult.
On Sat, Dec 27, 2014 at 11:16 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I agree with you Tamara. People need to stop looking for reasons to be offended. There are plenty of in your face, prejudiced, ugly reasons to be offended already. Why look at someone’s comment who you know is an advocate and get upset with her because her delivery wasn’t the best. I’m pretty sure it was never her intent to offend anyone. I think she was just giving Andy a ration a crap about how good she was lol especially since she claims to only sleep with Ken twice a year. Let’s go after the jackasses who say and do things with the sole purpose of insulting or berating someone based on their sex, nationality, sexual orientation, disability, age, etc. you know things we can’t change or for that matter want to change.
Yes! My first question will be, ‘why do I not have any tokens to waste with arrogant comments?’. I need a monthly allowance with all the shit I say. 😉
Inb4 I’m moderated.
Omg. Christmas miracle! Yay!
You are used to getting an allowance. I shan’t give you one here. Only spankings. Nasty dirty spankings where I make you submit.
On Sat, Dec 27, 2014 at 11:31 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I’m used to those too. Didn’t my private tweet about my current relationship make that clear. 😉
Our private relationship isn’t fodder for this site. Lest I mention your recent conversion..
On Sun, Dec 28, 2014 at 12:16 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Our lips are sealed *singsong voice*.
Did anyone noticed the pink ring??? I guess she didn’t take it off after all.
I did! It’s gorgeous and her pink sparkly ring looks so good with her brown sparkly dress. I love pink and brown together.
Oh I really loved her dress too! I think that it was the same ring she tried on when she and Shiva went to the jeweler. Wearing that chocolate brown really set it off.
TT, can you make a new rule commenting rule……”no emoji’s”
sadly, I cannot.
On Sat, Dec 27, 2014 at 11:54 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Plus sometimes it helps…
On Sat, Dec 27, 2014 at 11:54 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Agree! Without my winky faces too many people here would rage against me.
A smiley face 🙂 or a heart <3 can really help with the translation 😉
I Am a gay female. And gay males and gay females are enemies is news to me. I am 51, have tons of gay male friends. So I don’t get that little tid bit
I used a winky face! It was a joke. :/
Hi Mary! Totally see giving up on dick in my future… got a UHaul?
On Sun, Dec 28, 2014 at 1:51 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Of course… Don’t we all?
I really love dick.
But they make it so complicated..
On Sun, Dec 28, 2014 at 2:13 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Dick is complicated! Every single one is different and requires a slightly modified hand movement to make the owner happy. I assume girls are similar?
It just seemed like teasing amongst friends. Sometimes you can say “offensive” stuff to your friend & no one bats an eye because you know their character and it’s all just banter. But a 3rd party may watch and take it offensively. In this case, the 3rd party includes a broad public.That’s what I feel happened here. She even offered to sleep with Andy & proposed a threesome with Ken. It was so not serious. Maybe she’ll be more careful next time in front of a viewing audience.
I don’t think Lisa did anything wrong, she was my favorite. But i wish she can humble herself and apologize to kyle. Kyle was not to blame for anything that went down last season. Brandi was the one who betrayed Lisa and I don’t know why kyle have to apologize and not Lisa. Why is everyone apologizing to Lisa and she did do many wrongs and she not apologizing to anyone. I know she from England, but she’s not the QUEEN OF ENGLAND, Lisa get some big panties on and apologize to kyle.
I saw one episode of last season and just didnt feel like watching again. This season I am and enjoying it, seems more info on them each separate and I like that. I was hoping that Andy did know Cedric, I miss that lazy fuck.