Kenya points out in her blog, that all the lies lead back to one person…
The house of lies that Phaedra has built is slowly but surely crumbling down around her. Clearly when a woman who prides herself as a Christian while praying to God as she calls someone a whore and a slut is the real devil to be protected from. Everyone can see through her smokescreen and the blatant, hypocritical lies that will be her ultimate downfall. Keep watching, the best of her lies is yet to come.
Now, her latest conspiracy theory is that I tried to pay Apollo to lie about a lie! But I am the delusional person? All the nasty rumors on this show about me being bipolar, broke, an alcoholic, a whore, and someone who pays for boyfriends and has a rented car all came from Phaedra’s vengeful, hate-filled mind. The real fans of the show know this to be a fact. Just watch Seasons 5 and 6. Let’s watch a flashback to that! Regardless of if anyone believed the unsubstantiated, baseless rumors or not, they were all fabricated from one person — PHAEDRA.
IF IT LOOKS LIKE A FRAUD, LIES LIKE A FRAUD, ACTS LIKE A FRAUD — IT MUST BE A FRAUD
No successful attorney or woman with any decorum should behave the way Phaedra does. No outstanding Christian should repeatedly call another woman a whore and be unapologetic about it. No respected attorney should slander and defame someone in the media without any evidence or facts. No “Southern Belle” or woman with class or respect for herself should visit a man in a halfway house at 3am.
I have apologized countless times; I have corrected my behavior, which may have led to persons misjudging me; and through it all, I have decided to forgive Phaedra even though she refuses to apologize to me for her actions. I thank my Grandmother for introducing me to God and providing me with a moral compass, empathy for others, and the ability to admit my shortcomings. I may stumble from time to time, but I have my faith and God to uplift me.
I moved past this years ago. Unfortunately Kenya has continued to harp on this matter in order to remain relevant. Some of us have jobs and families to keep our minds and lives fully occupied.
What matter is it that Kenya is harping on? Is Kenya the one who has been calling you a whore, and alcoholic, bipolar, Ms. Ratchet USA, mocking her infertility problems and her lack of a family since the day she appeared on the show? It would seem to me without your deep abiding jealousy of Kenya you have no story at all. We can’t talk about your felonious husband. Can’t visit him at “his job?” Can’t ask what is in the “go bag” he carries around like an infant. Your family is full of criminals and children of questionable parentage. You jobs are for the most part imaginary except for the one you don’t mention much about your…errr….representation of strippers. I headed over to T.Kyle’s Reality TV Gifs site and he has 12 pages of gifs about you and nearly every single one is you insulting Kenya. What exactly is your storyline except for being jealous of Kenya? I must have missed that? Oh yes, I remember, you also have that whole sacrilegious script happening.
But to answer the question, it depends how you define the term “wipe the slate clean.” If that means I’ve let all the craziness go and moved on with my life, then yes. If that means we’re going to be friends and I believe Kenya was somehow wronged, then no. After Apollo said he had been lying, Kenya has been doing the vindication dance and expecting the rest of us to have an epiphany that she is a wonderful human being.
I’ll keep my eye out for this whole moving on, storyline. Will we see the cosmetic surgery and the literal whitewashing of your house as your moving on storyline? Did you mean moving on with Mr. Chocolate? I am breathlessly anticipation your moving on…I think we’d all love to see you finally have a purpose.
The fact remains that Kenya often acts in an inappropriate, disrespectful, and unbecoming manner towards a lot of people. And has done so for quite some time. As such, it is irrelevant whether Apollo was lying back then, or is lying about lying now. Kenya’s consistent behavior from inappropriately interacting with married men to screaming at people, who are in close proximity, through a bullhorn is unacceptable and independent of anything Apollo may or may not have done or said. In short, as it relates to whom and how Kenya is, her consistent actions speak louder than Apollo’s words.
You better be damn happy that Jesus came along, because before all that New Testament feel good shit, Old Testament God would have struck you with lightning, sent your some plagues and killed your children by now. I’m just saying. He would not have put up with your hypocritical, blasphemous behavior. I sort of hope he decides to stop playing nice and get back to his former, “don’t fuck with me” reign of hellfire and brimstone. Because no one deserves it more than you.
P.S. Can someone analyze the prison tats on Apollo? Is one of the things a giant whisk broom?
TT it looks like a barber shop pole, scissors,a hair pick and other things like that. ..such a great tattoo for the con man (major side eye). Was he a barber in another life? I agree about Phaedra she needs to get hers or drive of a cliff somewhere so she doesn’t ruin her babies.
I thought maybe the big part was a light house….
On Tue, Dec 9, 2014 at 4:50 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Ha ha — it is one of those hair picks with the fist on the top!
OMG, you’re right! That pick must have been tatted by a blind man. Maybe Apollo did it himself. It’s pretty bad.
Not a barber. A MASTER barber. Per Phaedra. Allegedly.
That was a nasty picture for sure. Lies upon lies, I gave up watching and just come here for the recaps. I appreciate the effort.
I agree with everything Kenya says. I’m glad she was able to apologize for things she’s done and has obviously corrected her behavior. We have a better chance of seeing NeNe’s scalp before Phaedra ever issues a sincere apology.
There are two things about Phaedra that really bother me: 1. Why won’t she discuss her past in any detail on the show? 2. Why does it seem like Bravo has been protecting her so much, until this season?
Every character on the show, except Phaedra, has shown mufti-dimensions of their past/present lives. They’ve shared openly about childhood abandonment, abuse, stripping, financial hard times, business failures, old lady gangs, mugshots, etc.
I can’t recall seeing a single one of Phaedra’s real-life friends on the show (Dwight doesn’t count) EVER. Does she have siblings? Where is her father? One minute she met Apollo in college; the next time the story’s told, they met at a red light. What’s the last case she’s practiced? None of her scenes are ever focused on her. They are focused Apollo, the kids or Kenya.
Why does Bravo protect her? I understand Phaedra can’t talk about Angela Stanton, but why can’t the Kenya bring it up? The entire cast of RHONJ touched on Terece and Joe’s case. Why has Andy never asked Phaedra any tough questions like, “You call Kenya a whore, but you have gone on record stating you represent sex industry workers who give themselves fellatio on stage?” “You mentioned Kenya’s body parts were bought in Mexico, where’d you buy yours?”
Don’t forget the delivery at 5 months that she had for Ayden and the way she acted when Kim dared question her on that.
One of the best scenes in HW history was Kim bringing her RN license to Phaedra after Phaedra went around talking about “Where does that stripper get off acting like an expert on pregnancy as if she was a nurse or something?”
@would you like some tea. I’ve said this about Pheadra million times on this blog and in my head. Where is phaedras past, her GF’s aside from Kandi on the show. Those revelations about her having sex on an air mattress with Apollo in a housing project is just the tip of her character ice berg.
You people are miserable. Christians have sex and not just to procreate. Surprise, surprise. And your girl, Kenya, is super psycho…..like single black female mental. Seriously, who writes blog entries like this? Scary! Is this her version of “wiping the slate clean? Phaedra, “you in danger girl”(in my Whoopi voice). Lock away your babies because K. Moore is not well. I pray she gets a real non-fabricated man and maybe 7 dogs. She, clearly needs a life—or at least somewhere else to put her energy. Thank goodness she changed her mind about having kids. Sheesh.
“Why does it seem like Bravo has been protecting her so much, until this season?” “Why does Bravo protect her?”
I have been asking THIS every since Angela Stanton appeared. I assumed it was because Phaedra, being how she is, threatened to sue (and leave). Just like she ‘s suing Angela now (but loosing), and she didn’t have a leg to stand on but went a head and did it anyway! The way Bravo has been protecting Phadrea, I’m still surprised they’re even allowing this shit with Appollo and “Mr Chocolate” to be played out. Like I said 2 seasons ago, They need to give Angela Stanton a spot on this show, as well as Jessica Voker (watch Phaedra have a stroke *lol*). BOTH of those females have a STORY to tell and would be way more interesting than Phaedra fake bullshit. The only thing we hear from her is “Kenya is whore blah blah blah, and I didn’t have anything to do with Apollo blah blah blah…”
Anyone notice how Porsha has been getting dragged than a mutha’fuker? Yanno’, allowing the prostitution allegations, messing with married men “allegations”, showing blog postings, the anti-gay rant video, etc…..They won’t do it to anyone but her because she’s too dumb to have her attorney to have it stipulated in her contract not to come at her sideways with “allegations”, rumors, or her shady past (even though Stevie Wonder can see it’s all true). Phaedra, on the other hand, has probably threatened Bravo with 7 deadly plagues *lmao!* Y’all know her mama does root work n’ shit *hahaha*
Her father has appeared on the show before and she does have siblings I recall seeing her sister Keosha (think that’s her name) on season 6 at Dylan’s inauguration party she looks just like Phaedra too, but Phaedra isn’t the only housewife to not show much of her family it might be their choice to not come on after all we NEVER saw Dina Manzos husband on RHONJ he wasn’t thrilled about being on camera… Can’t say I blame him
How much do you know about “The Old Testament”, I wish you would re-think what you wrote as not all of your readers are “Christian”. My G-d is a loving and forgiving G-d who would not do all those terrible things you say he would. I’m sorry that you don’t know that. If she is guilty, where is the evidence?
Pandy, you’ve obviously new read The Old Testament, please do so. That should open your mind to what type of god you worship blindly.
*never* read
I’m tryna get on God’s bad side. 🙂 He was a bas ass during his early days. You can’t really blame him. All the people he created were acting like PHools. 🙂
On Tue, Dec 9, 2014 at 5:58 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Your first sentence does not make any sense?
@Panda. This is my last response. It is in the New Testaments.
Mathew 12:31 Therefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men: but the blasphemy against the Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men.
The picture above is the evidence! what church going Christian woman does that??!!
This church going woman does that and more to my husband. Thank you.
I think the answer is “many, many do. Just not on camera!”
So you haven’t read the Old Testament. God did all of those things. He was a baby killer and then at one point killed everyone but Noah and his wife and started over. You should read it sometime. It’s way better than Stephen King.
Folks today tend to focus on Jesus. He was a lot nicer than God. And God himself seemed to mellow out a bit once Jesus came along. When you have a kid your wild ass youthful indiscretions tend to slow down. Even for God.
On Tue, Dec 9, 2014 at 5:24 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I agree before Jesus came along God had no problem with striking folks down! Heck if it wasn’t for Jesus saying “Forgive them for they know not what they do.” He would have wiped out humanity again.
I know, right? Having a kid really seemed to mellow him. 🙂
Actually it wasn’t only Noah and his wife, it was also their children, plus the animals. Noah went all over town trying to get people to change their ways for some say 100 – 120 years. I think that is a merciful amount of time given. After the flood, “The Creator” promised to never ruin the earth again. That’s what I meant when I said he would never do that. I should have added the word “AGAIN”. I was lucky to have an in depth education of the Torah as well as the NT but doesn’t mean I am “religious”. Also thought we were all of “The Creators” children; but according to you, not true pnly one was special. If you are going to say he killed children, you should tell the “whole story of Exodus”. I’m done with this, didn’t know I was barging in and screaming. It was meant to be a polite post. “The Haters” are barging in and screaming.
However, I do love your posts and am tending to read them more than watch the RH’s. Its starting to bore me. Love, love, love AHS and UT, pre-caps and re-caps. That show I don’t miss!
And I would like to sign off on that happy note!!!
Awaiting your next post. Is the Arias trial on hiatus?
Was that sucking up at the end? I LOVE SUCKING UP! 🙂
Oh crap. I need to go see if UF has sent the precap. I’m already on thin ice with him. Off to check.
Happy Festivus!
On Wed, Dec 10, 2014 at 5:59 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Sucking up, yes! I was hoping for some TT Tokens!
Dear PandyPump: As a non”christian” I wish you would re-think what you wrote because I don’t give a fuck about your god. I’m sorry you are so delusional, but to each his own, right?
This is so very disrespectful! Even though you don’t give a fuck, God loves you anyway. Praying for you, Hasa Diga.
@Carmen: please don’t waste your breath or a second of your time or thoughts on me. I intended to be rude and disrespectful. You reap what you sow, don’t cha know? It’s all good.
OMG. I just googled your screen name. Is it wrong that I laughed or did I just secure a hotter seat in hell? 🙂
On Wed, Dec 10, 2014 at 7:19 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Just because your a walking aids virus, doesn’t mean you should take it out on me. I know it’s hard for you being sick, confused, deranged, neurotic, oh, this must be KENYA!!!!!!!!!!!!
You are right about one thing; to each his own!
Take your meds, and keep yourself indoors and away from people. You are scary!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Toodles!
@Tamera Tattles: no honey, no seats in hell reserved for you, I’m glad you got a chuckle. A turnabout is fair play, no? You give me lots of laughs too. This is fun!
“My God?” Be careful to truly know what you claim. While you were careful to refer to God as “G-d”. Your god is an affront to THE ONE AND ONLY BIBLICAL GOD. Your declaration of “my God”, arguably is applied idolatry according to the second of the Ten Commandments… or does your god consider commandment #2 a throw away commandment … a suggestion?
I’m thinking about trading my god in for the one with the elephant head and the human body…is that the one with all the arms? It’s looks like it would be a fun one…
On Tue, Dec 9, 2014 at 7:12 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Sigh, yawn, snore.
@pandypump you clearly have not read the Old Testament . Everything TT said is 100% true . Go read you sound dumb.
Yawn, sigh, no I have an extensive Jewish and Christian education. There was a reason why those things happened and “The Creator” said it would never happen again. Did you read that part Honey?
You don’t sound dumb, you are dumb, half-baked, dense, brainless, obtuse; oh wait a minute, is this Porsche?
I read that part. The rainbow is supposed to be God’s promise he won’t wipe us all out again in a flood. But that is the ONLY thing he promised. He said nothing about more plagues of frogs and/or locusts or ebola or sending an asteroid to wipe out the planet..
Plus, rainbows are considered a gay thing now more than a God thing. That MUST piss him off since he hates gay people and all…Perhaps Jesus had a long sit down with him about the whole gay thing and he cool now. It’s been a really long time since we got any scripture. I say it’s about time he send us some updated rules. 🙂
Where does it say in NT that J.C. likes gays? I don’t remember that one. Please advise. Thanks!
So is leaving out the “O” in God supposed to save you a seat in eternal bliss? He cares about that now?
Who would have thought an omnipotent being that created millions of star systems, billions of people with trillions of cells, and hyper complex beings and organs would not only care that two of his creations not procreate until a piece of paper is certified between them, but also that you don’t write his name properly.
Did I say leaving out the -O- would bring me a seat in eternal bliss? Did I insult TT? No I did not.Gave my opinion; that’s all. I’m not trying to educate anyone here on my faith; but many of you seem so angry and anti-Semitic. Lots of nasty posts that didn’t have anything to do with Phadera. I’m thinking you are Christians, or else it would not bother you. And isn’t there a saying in the NT not to judge other’s?
So NASTY and so RUDE!
Can I interject another of my mindless stories about me? You know, AGAIN?
I was on a school bus when I was very young going on a fieldtrip somewhere. This is generally when kids would share important things they had learned with the other kids.
The breaking news on this day was that you had to be very careful not to say “God damn” because if you did you would burn in hell for all eternity. Everyone was mortified at the prospect. What it we said it accidently? Most everyone believed it but I didn’t. First of all the expression is God damned… As in some horrible thing that God should/has damned for being a PITA, it’s not about damning God. It’s about damning the person or thing you are condemning! Secondly, I didn’t think that God would put much emphasis on words but rather the intentions. I was pretty smart for 6 or 7 if I do say so myself.
I think that is where my love of foul language was born. It’s so amusing when someone points out that foul language, or simply random words they have determined must no longer be said are offensive. Because that is the point of “bad words” they are meant to provoke.
Okay I’ll shut up now.
On Wed, Dec 10, 2014 at 4:30 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Um Pandy Pump…. you are the one barging in denying the plotlines of the OT. For such a religious person, you seem to be unaware of what the God written about extensively in the OT was all about. I’m not sure what God you are claiming, but Allah was just as much of a tyrant. Now you are slinging around phrases like anti-Semitic which I assume means your delicate Jewish sensibilities have been offended. You do realize that the Torah is the first five books of the OT, right? Again. I suggest you do some reading of the OT if you are among any of the religions that considers The Bible the word of God.
I’m not making shit up, it’s all right in there for you to read, and learn. Or you could just keep screaming about how your merciful God would never do any of those things… either way.
Damn, TT. You just brought back a lot of memories for me regarding childhood religion indoctrination.
I attended a very strict private, Christian school starting in K-4. Shorts were not allowed, girls had to wear skirts/dresses past their knees and boys and girls could not sit on the same bench.
You would get paddling for swearing the word “dog.” It was “God backwards.” I remember having nightmares about accidentally swearing the Lord’s name. Apparently, the Old Testament says you go straight to Hell and there is no redemption. All other sins are redeemable but that one.
It got so bad that I would wake up in the morning and turn the faucet on to see if the water would come out as blood. One of the End Time signs in Revelations. I was 6.
Apparently, the Old Testament says you go straight to Hell and there is no redemption. All other sins are redeemable but that one.
WHAT???!!!! Are you kidding me? May I ask where you got that info? Starting out with “Apparently” means your not sure what you are talking about. But of course I may be wrong. Please let me know where I can find that info. Never heard that one. Anyway if “The Creator” is so scary and terrible as ya all say, why would he send his “only begotten son” to save the world? And where is the peace that was supposed to be? It ain’t there, nothing changed since J.C. walked the earth. We still have wars, rapes, killings, child molestation, kidnapping, I could go on and on. But I guess all of that is OK, since he died for “your” sins. So there is nothing for anybody to worry about!
PS: Catholic’s like to scare the poo poo out of you.
Ditto to what Captain Eel said; I would just like to point out that “Pandy Pump” is a very silly name.
I thank you as well as my mother!
Oh and one other thing, I’m NOT a BH Wannabe. I’m the real thing sweetie!
I remember when Phaedra and Apollo took Mr. President for his first haircut, Apollo took over for the barber because Ayden was having a fit. Someone, I think, Phaedra, said that Apollo used to be a barber . . . prison job? Anyway, those look like barber-related prison tattoos. The whisk broom they brush hair from your neck with, etc.
Whether Apollo lied on Kenya or not, she is not blameless with her “that Apollo, he’s kind of Phine” remarks about another woman’s husband and flirting and throwing herself at him in the vacation pool scene, etc. She was clearly attracted to him and he clearly picked it up and ran with it,because, pussy. Let’s face it, Kenya has a lot of bullshit about her, too, and she can be a bully, i.e., her props at the reunion as she attempts to keep the focus on her.
When Phaedra who at first represented herself to be a successful Atlanta entertainment industry attorney decided to suddenly go into the funeral home business, it’ was clear something in the buttermilk wasn’t clean. Did she do this because she knew she was a failure as an attorney, because she knew there was a hard rain gonna’ fall with Apollo’s illegal shit or because access to dead people’s financials could aid and abet their fraud scheme? Or maybe she just needed a bizarre story line. The notion that she just likes being around the dead screams bullshit and the way she would joke and laugh about it was creepy to the extreme. After Apollo was convicted, it seems unlikely anyone would hire her as an attorney or a funeral director because who could trust her? Phaedra is a shady one, for sure, and that gif just about sums up the cross-pollination of evil and skank that best describes her. The contradictions in who she wants us to believe she is and who she really is cannot be ignored.
Off topic, but I blame you for the email from someone asking where she could buy diamond water. lol. Oh the emails I get…
Sorry. I came up with that handle back when the Shahs were on. I can change it if it’s a hassle for you. I wonder if they are still making it? I’ve never seen it in Florida. Of course, I only buy groceries at Wallyworld most of the time. I don’t think they said too much about it last season.
I love your nic and am a huge Asa fan. No need to change it. I just thought you would find it funny.
And Shahs should be coming back. The post production crew walked out over a contract dispute but it’s all filmed and should be a VERY interesting season as Mike gets the “bad edit” this year.
On Tue, Dec 9, 2014 at 6:39 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Well, when you used the word “blame,” I got scared, cuz I don’t want to piss you off. You know how you can be when that happens.
I love Mike. I think he may be the only sane one on the show. Actually, I love all their crazy asses, except that horrible Golnesa. I’d like to just pinch her head off. Also glad Lilie or Lilli or whatever is gone. She was a real freak of nature.
You are not going to love Mike after next season. I know you think that is not possible, but trust me it is.
On Tue, Dec 9, 2014 at 6:57 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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@Drinkthediamondwater Wow! I didn’t like Phaedra before I read your post, but you’ve motivated me to go old style Greek on her azz the next time I see that Phaedra (on TV). I’m gonna gesture her with a Greek moutza (maybe with both hands) and tell her “Nah!”… (understood that he/she should go find the devil), or maybe wind up pitch a double handed greek moutza for greater emphasis. (A “greek moutza” as shown on You Tube.)
Gestured forcefully, with a hearty “Nah!”, it’s a great release of whatever may greatly anger, disgust of frustrate you. (If you see a Greek and some others in the near or middle east gesture that at you, don’t wave back, becaused he/she definitely isn’t loving on you!) Maybe I’ll save one for Mike, pursuant to Tamara’s comment about him (probably dumping and/or cheating on his devoted girfriend … both or either situations would be perfect for a moutza).
I’m starting to think you are my ex Greek boyfriend from college. Pavlos? Is that you? lol.
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She said ” master barber” and i thought then what a crock. Master Barbers make good money and Phaedra would use it to her advantage. Thats an actual job skill. Later we hear Apollo complaining to the lawyer about no job when be is realeased. BTW im Buddhist but ive read the bible, TT your right xxx. Cant wait til you tell us your gift
cross-pollination of evil and skank … family full of criminals and children of questionable parentage … ROFLMAO. You folks are on fire tonight. This is better than anything on TV.
Oh, Diamond Water, come off it. Are you 98 years old or just hyper insecure like Phaedra?
Calling Apollo fine: Innocent, even a compliment to Phaedra.
The pool: Again, innocent fun among “friends”. My girlfriends can have fun around my bf without my jealousy even kicking in. Glad you like him would be my reaction.
Props = bullying? No, I think you were way closer when you said that they were for attention. A pack of ?grown? women going after one woman (who handled herself quite admirably) — to me that is one hell of a lot closer to bullying.
BH, dear . . .please put down the Kenya-Aid. You are clearly Duhlusional and you make me want to go asunder.
When any woman makes it perfectly clear to another woman that she does NOT appreciate your so-called “innocent” fun with her husband and you continue to act in the same disrespectful way and get called a whore, then who is at fault? Doesn’t matter if the wife is another whore, it’s her huzzzband, so knock it off. If the naked ass butt pads fit, you must acquit – Phaedra, in this particular instance.
Kenya is a nasty, desperate, vindictive, attention-hogging bitch who can dish it out, but can’t take it. When she gets what she asks for, she gets all sensitive and cries like a little girl. Too fucking bad. She ought to cry, all the underhanded crap she’s pulled. She’s no better than anyone else and not in the least innocent in any regard. I’d like to pull her hair out myself.
I was giggling so hard at asunder I can’t even address the end of this post. But it started out well…
On Wed, Dec 10, 2014 at 10:00 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I will be eternally grateful to Apollo for giving us that word. i like to use it whenever I can. It is so freaking hilarious and it fits in so well in so many situations. Example: “I’m about to go asunder because my brimaids have exceeded the statue of limitations on my patience and I am going to overdose on Barbarian Cream and other ingrediences like Cummin during the Lentil season. It’s a whole new language that I love so much that I want to become fluent. Hahahaha
Despite your incredibly shitty opinions (read not the same as mine 🙂 ) I would be remiss if I did not award you FIVE TAMARA TATTLES TOKENS for this brilliant comment. 🙂
On Wed, Dec 10, 2014 at 3:36 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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BH i agree with you. If Phaedra was as secure in her relationship as she wanted us and herself to believe Kenya calling Apollo fine would have barely registered on her… i see it as a compliment. yes my mine is fine! I mean come on- Brandi alway called Ken her second husband/ husband in her head and Lisa never made bones about it because she was/is very secure in her marriage with Ken .( calling someone your second husband is implying that you are saying they would/will divorce their wife inorder to marry you and is far more dangerous imho) Phaedra is a very, very very insecure and envious woman thats why she has been out for Kenya in the worst way- She never veiewed the other women as a threat, because they were not stunningly beautiful. except for Cynthia who was a supermodel. but she was not threathened by Cynthia becuase cynthia was with peter and she is (although i love her) rather timid. You bark at her long and loud enough and she will crumble ( ex> see how Nene treats her). Then comes along Kenya a woman who as won accolades for being a beautiful woman [sic] Ms USA and suddenly the threat is real!!! Especially when you saw how easy it was for her to get in Apollos head without trying. And her with all her dollars and head doctoring skills couldnt pay him to pay attention to her. Yes Kenya was wrong for continuiing to encourage Apollos attentions but that was purely revenge for the way phaedra kept blasting her. Kenya had no intention of acting on whatever puppy fantasies that Apollo had about her, If she did then I bet you they wouldnt have waited two years to act on them. Apollo was checked on from Phaedra a long time ago. Pahedra’s problem was that she tried to keep Apollo on a short leash, everyone know thats the quickest way to make a dog go mad . If you deny someone something they only want it more. She should have played the game right with him. Become Kenyas friend so she can neutralize the problem from the nexxus. If she had gained Kenyas trust and loyalty ( cuz all Kenya wants is to be accepted by these women/mother figures) then she would have not over stepped any boundaries. otherwise its, Oh you want to flirt Apollo- go ahead do what you do, but just dont get mad when i do it to. i.e. find one of his friends and flirt with him too, show the new man how good he can have it when he replaces appollo . Show apollo he aint the only d i c k in the ATL and how easily he can be replaced ( maybe troll the prison yards for a new husband, sorry i couldnt resist) he would have shaped right up gaurantee.
Gee, TT – I am honored to accept my first TT tokens. Thank you for noticing my brilliance. ; >)
Don’t get to cozy…. I’ve got my eye on you girly!
Just kidding. You’re a great addition to this place!
On Wed, Dec 10, 2014 at 5:41 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I understand phaedra has a story line this season. However I’m baffled why she seems to be one of Andy’s favorites . And don’t get me started on why he thinks the sun shines out of Stassi’s ass ( sorry, merging shows lol). Andy, if I were a gay man, I’d bang you then dump you in an email
Alol. Phaedra is talking about someone else’s behavior being inappropriate? She who put her face in a strippers crotch-hole to admire the grooming?
Her physical transformation is amazing. She went from fireplug to curvy overnight.
She will get hers.
I’ve said it so many times but Phaedra is such a phony, fake and hypocrite. And all she does with these blog posts is continue to perpetuate that notion (Side bar – is this the first season she started doing these? I don’t recall hearing about her doing these before). I admittedly am not much of a religious person (although I am a believer and used to attend a Baptist church regularly) – and I was very offended by Phae’s use of the word ‘whore’ in her faux prayer in last nights ep. Not only was it inappropriate and blasphemous, it was just downright nasty and unladylike. Combine that with Apollos reminiscings of her coming to “visit” him in the ‘jects fresh out of jail (Aren’t they giving PP the worst edit this season? It’s LOL but DAMN!).
TT, do believe what you said last night about this woman being a total sociopath. I am becoming more and more convinced we don’t even know who the real Phaedra is. It is scary to think of what she could be capable of doing or already has done that we don’t know about (and sadly maybe never will).
@BKDsweetheary, I have a very similar sense about Phaedra, and would not be surprised to learn that she is somehow associated or tied to somethings very unsavory/dark. No doubt that we all sin, but I’m not sensing anything like run-of-the-mill RH stuff.
Just when I got over the Nene smiling gif…..Ahhhhhh! TT …. Now that Phaedra gig will haunt my insomnia lol,,,,,,,. and only 1 more day until AHS!!
I know you hate nicknames Tamara , so I won’t call her Ms. Holier Than Thou…..:)
I’m sorry. I don’t consider myself a religious person but I have read The Bible several times starting as child in church when the sermons were boring, or worse yet RERUNS, there were two books available The Bible and A Hymnal. There is some fucked up scary shit in the OT. lol. My other favorite thing to do was to try to work the rubber rings that you put the communion shot glasses in after doing a shot of blood. (Also a scary concept for children IMHO) and eating “flesh.” I got in trouble for that a lot. Because putting the shot glass condoms back in the hole is MUCH harder than yanking them out. 🙂
Anyway, I don’t begrudge anyone their religion, we are all trying to figure it out. I don’t have any of the answers yet. But what I cannot abide is people who claim to be “Most favored by God” because they got a TV show or a new pair of Loubs when their same God lets little children starve to death a few miles away. Or talking about how much God loves everyone when he made it pretty clear in the OT he will not hesitate to destroy any number of us if he gets a wild hair up his ass. That’s kind of the point of the Bible. It can be summed up as ” Don’t act like a bunch of cunts or face God’s wrath!”
The fact that this is “news” to so many Christians is beyond me. The New Testament is often referred to as “The Good News” but that didn’t mean there was a whole lot of rules in the much lengthier “Bad News” part.
If God, Allah, Jesus, Mohammed, are to be believed, it will be fixed. And it won’t be Jesus or Mohammed who do it. It will be the big guy. And he is not going to play. Or so the story goes…
/drops mic and leaves the pulpit.
On Tue, Dec 9, 2014 at 8:13 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Good points, Tamara. The “bad news” OT was fraught with rules, which evidently convinced God that mankind could never master them to ever pay the debt of their sins to Him, the all perfect, all powerful God. So, Him wanting greater intimacy with us, He provided the “Good News”, His “New Covenant”, or a way for us to earn His forgiveness of our sin debt and come to know God. Christians believe that it is paid through His Son, Jesus, and through our admission of sinfulness, penance, and faith in and devotion to Jesus. In a word, the “Good News” is Jesus. Maybe it’s too simple for some to believe in light of how heavy duty God was as recorded in the OT?
I dunno. If we had the answer, I guess that would pretty much end debate and pursuant ugliness about or pertaining to God, religion and faith.
Thank you, Tamara. I don’t believe any of that shit is truth; I think it is an amalgamation of belief systems co-opted by the winners in wars (cultural and actual). I am a happy pagan.
Wait what? You got SHOT GLASSES? In CHURCH? Dayum, they don’t trust us Catholics with nothing. Priest won’t even let go of the dang cup…..Shot glasses……Mumbles….
if Phaedra is such a disgusting human being, liar, fraud, criminal…etc, then where is the proof? Forget all the ‘you’ll see’ and ‘just wait’. If she was really so evil and terrible and her children should die (which is a pretty fucked up thing to say. You obv don’t have kids to go there), then surely there is something to back it all up. Why hasn’t all her dirty laundry aired in this lawsuit against her? I don’t get it…
…and you probably never will. Shhh it’s ok.
I never said her children should die. WTF is wrong with your reading comprehension? Her boys are adorable. What I said was in the Old Testament days, the OT God would kill children and send plagues and wipe out entire populations. So she should probably not blaspheme GOD on national TV at every opportunity…
And the proof IS coming out in the trial that she brought upon herself. I’m thinking she regrets that lawsuit now.
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Get a hold of yourself. I was paraphrasing. Regardless, you said old skool God would have killed her children for her behaviour. And then you said you wished God would go back to his old ways…so yeah. Sounds like what you’re saying is old skool God should kill her children for her behaviour. What behaviour?? Right. The truth is coming out in the trial. I won’t hold my breath.
Well, your comprehension skills are getting closer to the truth.
Let’s try to put it this way. If you shove a prayer cloth up your cunt in church and go to strip clubs to admire someone’s girl’d close shave and represent a guy whose “talent” is sucking his own dick and then want to call on THE LORD to be on your side, don’t be surprised at what happens.
God can be a real dick to hypocrites like Phaedra.
On Tue, Dec 9, 2014 at 9:24 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Exactly. She is gonna bring her own happy azz down. She knows what a client should do in her circumstance, STFU and chill, but Phaedra has behaved as if the basics don’t apply to her.
PS: I’m Tasos to my close friends and kin, a nickname for my given name. So, ‘Pavlos’ is no here!
“Oh you know, I’m just paraphrasing when I say you want her toddlers to be murdered.”
Gia, take a deep breath and put the keyboard down. I don’t recall reading anywhere on here about anyone saying Phaedra’s children should die. No one believes that.
Some people are just baffled at the hypocrisy that is Phaedra Parks. I usually find the Self-Aware Trainwreck characters to be the most endearing. Not the case with Phaedra.
I initially liked Phaedra during her first season. She seemed like an extremely intelligent woman who fell in love with someone with a past. She was funny. Her inability to know her due date was one of the first red flags. A brilliant, “Equestrian” with a selective memory?
Here are a few more:
Telling Cynthia, upon meeting her, that she prayed for The Lord to send her a Clean Man. An obvious dig at Peter having multiple children before meeting Cynthia. Yet, less than a year prior she was laid up in the projects with a parolee.
The Southern Belle act that loved complimenting donkey booties, representing strippers and drug dealers, planning parties where male strippers perform felatio on themselves and confesses to “delighting in the erotic arts.” Yet, once Kenya arrives, she abandons all donkey booty talks an no longer mentions representing strippers. Only rebuking whores.
Ruthlessly trying to get NeNe’s siblings to espose NeNe on camera at her first kids birthday party. Surprisingly, Bravo didn’t air it. The audience only found out about this once Nene delivered her “Never can win when you’re dirty” line and made Phaedra own up to it.
Now, she considers NeNe a rock? Yeah right!
Phaedra filing a lawsuit against Angela Stanton, yet ret obstructing any questions about her own background.
There is a reason Phaedra has never shown any real life friends on the show or explores her background.
Read!
a woman wrote an entire book her criminal pursuits and lawlessness, and is winning a lawsuit against her, her husband ( who is allegedly her partner in crime) has gone to jail for the same crimes that she’s been accused of masterminding on live tv. She has been called the “head doctor” on live tv. She is in court right now fighting for her good name. There is another woman who claims that she slept with her husband and sold women for sexual services to NBA players. An NFL player said she was a jump off on live tv. When she thinks the cameras are off her whole personality changes and she starts slanging ‘f*cks” and “b*tches’. Most of her clientelle are in the adult entertainment business yet she’s a bible thumper…what more do you need?
Look at you all clutching your pearls. Stripping. Blow jobs. For shame! Who cares if she represents people in the adult industry? She doesn’t swear while filing? **gasp** And an ex NFL player calls her a jump off, while she claims he was her boyfriend and their families were close but SHE is the evil whore? That’s some fucked up shit right there. I still don’t see what the big deal is. I know nothing about this court case so will wait to see the result. The rest of your arguments are just petty, prudish bullshit.
Return of the evil purple one shouldered ruffle! I guess I can overlook this infraction Kenya. Just no more ripped up mom jeans. You are better than this!
I REALLY hate that dress!
I do love how she styled her hair all slicked back with it though. Imagine if she went all big and curly with the hair AND the ruffle. *shivers*
Phaedra, [according to the blog’s excerpt you wrote above] it’s easy for you to be “passed it”, it be behind you, it wasn’t YOU whose name was defamed on the show. Don’t make it seem like Kenya finds it hard to “get over something”, some things that KEEP COMING UP, by the way. Y’all didn’t ease up on the “name calling” but she suppose to ease up on decrying it?! Nonsense!
You should know “this feeling,” there’s that Stanton thing you CLEARLY CAN’T PUT BEHIND YOU, why you’re suing her, right? No, you won’t just get over what you’re calling “defamation,” yet you expect Moore to? C’mon! #Hypocrisy . Chuck nearly called you worse, or about par with what you call Kenya, YET, you didn’t treat [on camera] Chuck how you treat another woman–Kenya.
Kenya, insightful blog. Growth ain’t for everybody, and when you try to showcase your growth, the ones that can’t expand do all the can to stunt yours..don’t let them!
I’ve got a comment in moderation and am posting this to see if I’ve been flagged for some reason. If I’ve offended, I apologize & ask to please let me know what it is that I wrote and I will not write it again.
@angienc. I wouldn’t be too concerned about moderation. TT takes time outs to relax, and once she’s back your post should appear… at least that has been the case whenever I’ve found posts of mine in moderation.
If you somehow did a TT no-no, she’d make a mention why and then it’s back to norm. No drama. No mystery… at least it’s been my experience and what I’ve also observed about others with similar issues or concern.
Thanks Tasos, I appreciate you taking the time to respond. I do know the wordpress spam filter can be funny, but I just wanted to make sure that if I did do a no-no it was unintentional. 🙂
Yes, moderation is acting up. posts I commented on last night, were back in moderation this morning. As were nearly all of Micheal’s!
Sorry. It’s a glitch.
On Tue, Dec 9, 2014 at 10:52 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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What I don’t like about phaedra is that she preys on others innocence and trust. Including the bravo audience. Nene does too.She uses her platform for evil and for money. I hope one day she realizes that she’s not as smart as she thinks. But it’s too late, cause she already got paid.
Hey I’m in time out too! All I said was how I just got that scary Nene gif out of my insomnia rached dreams /nightmares and now this Phaedra gif! Must find some #brainbleach!
I see we have moved onto RHOBH. A good friend keeps telling me to tune into this season. But, Brandy (sp?) makes me itch. I love Lisa V. Something about Brandy seems contagious.
Back to RHOATL, why does no one ever bring up Phaedra’s maiden of honor being a stripper??? An ATL legend.
There is a lot of tea here. I’d rather people connect the dots.
As a believer in God and Jesus, I can’t comprehend how some are so upset about what TT said? Um, has anyone trule read the bible? God has shown anger and heartbreak, sent phamines, death, destruction. Have you never read about Noah, King David, etc? I don’t understand getting upset because its true. It doesn’t take away my love for my God, nor do I feel she mocked him, she simply spoke what had been written . When I seen Phaedra “pray” about whores, my first thought was holy shit, girl did you just mock prayer to God? Lord child, God is gonna get you. Why? Because God don’t play, he will send your ass to an eternity of hell and Brimfire if you have a dark soul. Does that change at all his love for us not at all. Kinda like me being a parent, I want my children to be happy, enjoy life, have fun but if they act a fool, I will tear that ass up so fast makes their head spin. Doesn’t change my love for them at all, only means I love them enough to expect better of them and teach them they have consequences. It amazes me how some attack TT on HER blog over her opinions. Wtf is wrong with people. I love me some TT but I don’t always agree with her opinions (I secretly root for Brandi, don’t kill me ) but if I don’t agree, I sit back quietly and proceed on. Oh and the gif of phadrae licking apollo’s nipple has now ruined any chance of eating today.
Thought dawned on me with resentment and astonishment that Southen harlot Phaedra, who has a coloful history which she shaped through being a known head doctor, a groupie for a legend-in-his-own-mind second strink athlete who set her straight about their supposed dating history in Phaedra’s mind, was nothing more than an affair that his cock had with Phaedra’s nasty mouth… and the cocksucking ho, Parks, who was well known around college as a special oral talent, evidently got benched, though her legend lives on as she waits for new oppotunities to eventually grab another man’s money and dignity, a man who ideally was never a felon or took money that isn’t hers. Since she turned out Apollo Nida, her duly wed huzzzband antre#d
I LOVE IT!!! I’m a devout Christian & have BEEN questioning Phaedra’s actions & behavior for quite sometime. We’re supposed to love everyone, & in loving everyone we pray for Phaedra because she is ignorant & lacks TRUE class. I have never liked her personality… she is fake. And I don’t believe for one moment she didn’t know her husband was still a criminal! She just thought like he did, he wouldn’t get caught. Phaedra Parks GET YOUR LIFE! Jealousy looks horrible on you!
I just can’t unsee that horrible gif. Thanks, TT.
Now the purple words were a read! I can’t wait for her to get exposed.
What’s the big deal about commenting on a person’s attractiveness? So Kenya said Apollo was fine- so? He is. People tell me my husband’s hot all the time. I say thank you.
There is a certain married woman who posts here whose husband is FOINE! I’ve never spoken to him but I tell her everytime she sends me pictures of the two of them that I am coming to kidnap him and run off with him to an island to stand in the sun.
I don’t think she is really worried about that. I’m sure she gets it all the time. Besides, she still owes me a flat in Paris. She’s all Nene Leakes when it comes to bets that one.
On Wed, Dec 10, 2014 at 10:04 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Phaedra will not apologize until NeNe tells her that it’s OK to do so. LOL…Shame Shame Shame …
THANK YOU SO MUCH TT!!!! That friggin last pic is going to give me nightmares!!! How Christian of you Phaedra! Does this woman have any friends? If she does, they must not be good friends. A good friend would tell her to stop acting like a jealous ass! OMG….that pic is right – Donkey Booty – NASTY! (and not in a good way – I mean really NASTY)!
Question- why does Phaedra say- Cream puffs with Barbarian cream. There is no such thing as barbarian cream… its called BAVARIAN Cream. You would think a well eductaed, intelligent souther lady would know simple english…. oh she hangs out with Nene, Porsha and Kandi who all sound like they live in Mississipi 1829. . water seeks its own level.
“Mississipi 1829” . . .hahaha. They do lay it on thick, chile.
I always thought that Andy kept Phaedra around to expose her as the fake christan she is based in her terrible reputation here in Georgia, there is no doubt in my mind that he knew she was a fake when they decided to bring her on the show. if I know then there’s no doubt and Andy didnt know. Christianity is a way of life, Phaedra is religious, Jesus was antireligious which is why he was killed for breaking a religious rule by healing a man on the Sabbath. Further study should be done on what Jesus views of religion and compare that to modern day religious “christian’ theologies today and you will see that it aligns with Sadducces and Pharisees teachings and know that is NOT the same teaching as Jesus or today s popular christian beliefs. As far as reading the OT andbeing stuck there, the bible states that the old law did not work and that the lamb was sacrificed in replacement. Please do not use Phaedra as a christian example, she is like the religious group of Christians who go to church h everyone Sunday as if church h attendance is they way to heaven, tithe the pastor then eat out and stiff the waitress and leave a bible tract.
I’m still trying to figure out how anyone can say Phaedra was involved or the mastermind of these crimes but have yet to directly implicate her in anything. Tamara I know you do your research how does one get the label of criminal mastermind but somehow manage to keep herself out of any legal trouble? Teresa got caught red handed along with Joe, nobody and I mean nobody can avoid detection from the Feds when they come knocking they leave no stone unturned and if they looked at Apollo they certainly looked into her past as well and this alleged crime ring spanned across prisons and some law enforcement folks got arrested/convicted for their involvement while Phaedra is just going on about her business like nothings wrong you would think Apollos partner Gayla would have rolled on Phaedra to possibly get time served or even immunity but she didn’t…its just odd to me Tamara maybe you can help me out I know you’re always on your A game.
Apparently, she’s clean. Or else they are still investigating. Sometimes these things take years. Phaedra’s public position has always been she has never even been questioned… which seems odd.
True but from what I’m hearing the Feds were on Apollo the moment he came out of jail back in 2008 and I also remember when he claimed on season 4 that he was pulled over because of mistaken identity come to find out he had his car searched and had a couple laptops and other items retrieved from his car.
Birds sing……and they do not get charged. Not odd at all. Since Phaedra likes birds so much….Word on the curb is that she snitched Apollo out…he was getting HOT and she was ready to move on. Phaedra was the real snitch TI was talking about…not Apollo..there is always a little truth to some rumors. Close call PhaePhae, but ATL can be a small criminal world….it is going to come out one day Ms.Parks…I pray Apepollo does not cut the fool on you when he finds out.
Phaedra didn’t roll on Apollo, Gayla did. And I think if Gayla had anything on Phaedra she would have rolled on her too. But it seems she did not.
What I want to know is who Apollo rolled on and why they let him wander all over creation to rat people out… who could he have possible rolled on? It was someone because he got A LOT of time knocked off for it…
Sadly, we will probably never know who that was….unless it is someone from RHOA which I really doubt.
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@Tt..good question on who Apollo secretly rolled on…sure….I am expected to believe that Angela’s book did not bring any heat from the feds? No one can say that she was not approached to give up what she knows on the girl who in turn snitched Apollo out. That is not mpossible for Phaedra to do with her cold heart..The prisons are filled with wives who saved their own asses by cooperating with the law. Happens everyday. RHOA? Yeah, like they would know, I’m sure the feds include them in secret indictments frequently. Angela’s book against Phaedra is what started this and Apollo is who they wanted. Bravo sources cannot convince me otherwise.Feds have been approaching spouses for decades. That is the game when you marry a career felon.
TT, glad you can say for sure that Phaedra did not roll on Gayla, what are you pyschic now? It’s possible that after book came out that she panicked and rolled on him then. She will not be the first spouse to do that and she is definitely capable. I will wait for you to catch up like I waited for everyone to figuure out that Kenya is the only RHOA that had her shit together. Discernment is not everyone’s best feature I get it, that is why Phaedra fools the masses.
They both creep me out with the god talk. Then again, and although it cost her a few brain cells, I guess Kenya is just fighting fire with fire.
Didn’t Kenya really say it all when she showed Phaedra in church with her thong, and everyone was repulsed? I’m still repulsed by her hypocrisy, and if Kenya wasn’t so hated by some, Phaedra wouldn’t even be a thought.(Referring to Gone With the Wind Fabulous video).Move over, Phaedra!
Phaedra churched the hell out of us her first season with that holy ghost Jr act. she could not even drop the act enough to give a birth due date. When I saw her pregnant with those Bambi eyelashes with diamonds i knew her clique was of the stripper gals..EXPOSED..and for her to pray like that on TV with shade is totally disrespectful I don’t care what your religion or belief is….I cannot think of one religion false or true that would tolerate disrespect before their God or gods in an act of woship and prayer. She disrespected everyone who has a belief of an entity of higher power, whether we worship him or not. Phaedra is a cold dark person person who needs prayer because she is the mother of two beautiful boys that deserve a healthy mother..Gucci jackets does mit replace mom and son time. And we all know who their daddy is..Pray for her if you believe because those babies need her. Kenya made her point loud and clear as she should have. I hope to see her back off in the next few episodes in order to show an act of forgiveness. Phaedra has the worn down look of a woman with many dark secrets that makeup and plastics cannot cover she’s catching it.
My entire family and I grew up very strict COGIC Christian and we do tend to give the side eye to those who proclaim it but but don’t walk that walk..or at least whole heartedly try to. It was instilled in me that being saved is an all in thing. You can’t live how you want through the week, eg; getting drunk, smoking to get high, being unkind, premarital sex etc..come to church on Sunday, ask for forgiveness and then on Monday repeat the same cycle. Being saved means to live your life that is pleasing in God’s eyes at all times. No one is perfect but as long as you are wholeheartedly trying to be better, when you backslide (sin) you admit your mistakes, ask for forgiveness and strength, and continue on in the path of righteousness. Everyone interprets the Bible differently though. In my eyes when someone says ‘I am a Christian’ it means nothing more than that is their religion. It (obviously) doesn’t mean you are practicing it. Phaedra may be Christian but the real question is, is she saved? If she is saved she’s definitely a backslider…the same goes for Kenya and that’s all I’m gonna say about that topic.
This blog is like a treasure chest, so many compartments filled with hidden gems.