I just posted Amber Marchese’s blog in a separate post because she had A TON to say this week. Here are the highlights, and low lights from the other New Jersey
Well the shit’s about to hit the fan with Amber and the twins, and when I say hit the fan, I mean really HIT THE FAN. Next week is sure to be a juicy episode, and speaking of juicy, did you see the hottie that asks me out on the preview? Yes, if you’re not into drama, tune in for some major eye candy at least!
I hope you are enjoying the summer! We were at the beach this weekend. I love hanging out with my family in the warm sunshine more than anything. I can barely watch all the snow from last winter on these episodes. I never want it to get cold again.
Yep, basically what I am saying is that Dina and Teresa had absolutely nothing to say this week. But the rest of the girls do…
There was a lot that occurred before the twins and I went shopping together. I had heard that Amber had been saying negative things about me behind my back, which the twins then confirmed. I couldn’t understand why Amber would want to come back into my life and then start spreading rumors about me.
After Amber introduced me to her good friends, the twins, and then immediately seemed to have a lot of negative things to say about them, I started to realize that maybe Amber has changed. She told me on the way to my sister-in-law’s party that Nicole had broken a family, and it was weighing on my mind.
A “home wrecker” is not a cool label to have hanging over you, especially if it’s not true. I’ve been in this situation where people have labeled me with words that were untrue, so I didn’t want to be part of doing it to someone else.
After going to Teresa’s dessert party and having Dina tell me that she was very skeptical about Amber and her emotions, I started to be too. Yes we spent Saturday nights going out together in our 20s, but I didn’t know Amber now. I always thought she was a good person, but having her come around and start saying lies about me made me think that maybe what she said about Nicole may not be true either.
After hearing from the twins at the boutique that Amber had a lot of bad things to say about me and hearing them say Jim had a lot of negative things to say about my family (my husband and my brother-in-law), I just snapped. I brought her around my family, and I wasn’t going to let anyone start talking smack about their very serious case when the rest of us are all being so respectful to what their family is going through. At this point what Jim said is a game of telephone through Bobby and the twins, but I do want to be able to find out from Amber exactly what is going on.
I also wanted Nicole to be able to say whether or not Amber’s rumor was true in front of everyone. I really like the twins and think they are good people. It just didn’t feel right to have it out there and have people gossip about it.
And yes, Amber is my friend, so if she had truly said it to me in confidence, I wouldn’t have stressed so much about wanting Nicole to be able to defend herself. I would have listened to Amber’s gossip and just not spread it around. Obviously she wanted all of us (and all of you) to know, so there is a big difference. With that said, Amber wanted
to play with the “big girls” and knew exactly what she was getting herself into. I have no doubt that she is also ready to come back and defend herself.
I have not been very kind to the twins here, mostly because they don’t seem very smart and like the typical stereotype everyone has about people from New Jersey. But I must say that the majority of the first page of Nicole’s blog was filled with gratitude and thanks for the wonderful opportunities that being on the show has provided her. I don’t think I’ve ever seen that in a Bravo blog before, and just wanted to let you know.
The lies started with the harvest party. Come one, Amber! Thirty people!? You know that’s BS! You specifically asked me to invite some of my friends who you had met through me, because you said that they were so much fun and you would love to have them at your party. I would never be disrespectful and invite thirty people to your home. We were all so excited about this party and you turned it into a complaint fest. Isn’t life about how during everything we go through, we should focus on the positive and be GRATEFUL?
Now this is the biggie that night after watching this week’s episode. I was shocked to hear that horrific lie you told Melissa for millions of people to see. You didn’t waste any time. Here I am thinking you are my friend, and from day one you have been my enemy! WOW! WOW! WOW! Disgraceful! You call yourself a Christian, yet the lies don’t end with you! Two things I despise in life are LIARS and HYPOCRITES!
You were my friend to whom I opened up. I shared with you the reason why I got divorced. I shared with you how devastating that time in my life was and how hard it was for my children, but yet you never thought once about how they would have to hear this disgusting lie about their mother. How important the SANCTITY of marriage was to me and what it meant after being married fourteen years. How I despise women who break up a marriage. And leave it up to you Amber. That’s where you stooped. Could you get any lower than an ant’s ass?! I will answer that for you, Amber! No, you CANNOT! You have reached your absolute low. There is a God and HE is the one you will have to answer to one day, and before that you’ll have to answer to me at the reunion!
So I left the boutique and immediately wanted to see you in person. I wanted to see you face-to-face to see if you had any bit of a conscience left. I wanted to ask you face-to-face if such a horrific lie really did come out of your mouth. I wanted to see personally if you were going to tell me the truth about what you said to Melissa or squirm trying to get out of it. Sunday’s episode proved 100% that you did tell Melissa the lies for everyone to hear. I had respect for your family, so that is why as hurt and angry as I was, I realized I never would disrupt your household or hurt your children in any way allowing them to hear the vulgarities that their mom was spreading. You on the other hand knew my boys and didn’t have the same respect, spreading lies about their mother for everyone to hear.
The only person in this group calling bullsh– out is me right now. Christian my ass! I know who you are, and it’s not a nice person… So keep on praying, but PLEASE pray for yourself.
In regards to Amber, all I can say is that you will continue to see her true colors and watch her unravel week after week. This chick is obviously off her rocker! I will not dignify her comments against Nicole by expounding upon her lies. Also I will be asking Teresa Giudice if she wouldn’t mind lending her dictionary to Amber so she can look up the word stalking. Amber evidently does not know the meaning of the word. Clearly my loyalty is with my sister, and I can’t help but defend her in next week’s episode against this ongoing drama storm that Amber has created. So next week’s first responder party at Bobby’s is definitely going to be explosive and in need of some first responders, LOL!
Well, it looks like it is going to be hair pullin’, draggin’ in the streets kind of season! Um, Yay?