Oh for the love of baby Jesus. Just when I thought it was over. I already know this is going to be an uncomfortable bloodbath for Kandi. I’m tired and have an appointment in the morning so this is going to be a short one.
Andy said, “It looked like a great party to me more than anything!” Because, fake. Oh Andy confirms Sherri Shepherd was at the wedding. For once my facial recognition skills worked! Yay me! Why didn’t Andy go to the wedding?
Kandi says she told everyone to be there at five because of traffic and then the wedding was to start at 7 but the dresses were not ready. SIGH.
Andy felt bad for the lion. Kandi says she is sorry that happened but she did not think it would offend anyone. She did not think having a lion in a cage would be a problem. Hear that, Joanna? Get your PETA GUNS READY!
FOR ALL OF THE KANDI’S WEDDING POSTS GO HERE!
Kandi says the main thing she was mad at Mama Joyce about was not smiling in the pictures. Andy asks Todd how he felt about the Mama Joyce situation with his mother. He says on one hand I was like, get her Mom! and on the other I just thought they both needed to sit down before either one broke a hip. Kandi says basically she felt Todd should keep his mother under control. Are you shitting me?? Really? Todd need to control his mother? Did she just say that?
Todd says that Kayla is a product of a relationship he had in his 20s. They never married and Kayla is graduating high school this week and she is coming to live with Todd and Kandi and Riley! To get into the business, I expect. Kandi likes her so maybe she is a financial opportunity. I hope she didn’t make Todd sign off on her income as well.
To the phones (AKA questions Andy is too afraid to ask).
Softball… how did you feel when Kandi walked down the aisle. 
Andy asks about Mama Joyce, Todd says they are taking it day by day. Kandi says it is getting better. They can be in the same room!
Kandi has not changed her name to Burruss-Tucker yet.
Todd’s mother is really mad And Kandi never told Todd about the street walker thing. As much as these two hold hands, I give this marriage less than two years.
Kandi says the first ring she picked was not a traditional engagement ring, so when they went to get the band, he (lol) just bought he a whole new engagement ring. Um, HELLO, you got the damn ring you asked for and now… Oh I just can’t. Todd said he wondered if she would give him the old one back she said no! it’s memories. Todd say with Kandi it’s ME ME ME ME ME ! I done tole you to run Todd. You should have listened.
They play a newlywed type game. Favorite sexual position, etc. They are not a match.
OMG as a gift Kandi gets a lacy top with Mazel on it. Kandi asks if Todd wants to see her in this. He says yes. She says I don’t think so. ANDY SAYS “GIVE IT TO CARMON!” OMG SHADE!
Todd says that “getting married” is not just love, it is a business as well. Um, duh.
Of all the housewives who gave the best gift? She says that Nene gave her a full set of Hermes china. Holy SHIT! I am finally impressed with Nene. Andy asked if she did hand written thank yous. Um, have you met Kandi? Andy gives her the dreaded, “Sweetie…” Andy reads her.
Andy gives a toast. He is firmly team Todd. Todd again is touched. Kandi thanks Andy for bringing her husband to her. Bless your heart, Todd. Bless your heart. don’t lose Carmon’s number.
So I’m the only one who say Andy Shade Todd? I didn’t get the carmon joke until now lol.
You think Kandi brought that ring? Lol
I’m with you . Two years . My favorite part was ” well you got a Lot of gifts ” Andy would not let that go . She won’t take his advice .
A full set of Hermes China? Damn, that’s much better then the Target gift cards I normally give. 🙂
Nene gave her a full set of Hermes China. Remember Teresa Gudices gave nene a full set of Hermes China which cost $7,000.00. I believe in my heart that the gift is re-gifted. Nene probably scared the IRS would come looking for that set as part of the stuff Teresa bought with tainted money.
You all think about this. I’m just saying.
Exactly! That’s the first thing I thought too. No way in hell did she spend that amount of money on someone other than herself.
LOL!!!! OMG, youre right! It has to be the same gift. LMAO @ Nene regifting lol!!! Blooop
I was thinking the same thing, but for some reason I remember Nene saying Teresa bought her ‘a Hermes plate’. So I was confused. Then again Nene is not known for having the best diction. (even with her voice coach/speech therapist) She could have very well meant, “a set of Hermes plates”. HMSL! That Nene was worried about being an accessory after the fact.
You are so right Nene regifted
Too funny!!!! And probably true.
Brillkie, that was left over from her wedding. Oops who said that.
Teresa’s Hermes plates were gold, not red like the ones NeNe he gave Kandi for her wedding.
That’s what I thought. Kandi stated hers were red and beige. Nene didn’t regift. IJS.
Hermes china for someone who drinks from plastic cups??? I don’t think it will last either because Kandi is a narcissistic woman who has serious pathologies. The reason she could never defend her husband against her mother is because she grew up in a HIGHLY dysfunctional home and she thinks like her ratchet mama. Also, to have assets over $30 million means she has been a very shrewd businesswoman. It’s no wonder that Todd said she is always about “Me, Me, Me” and wanted an iron-clad pre-nup where he gets virtually nothing. He needs to plan his exit strategy and get the hell out of there before she devours him.
I just can’t help but think that the china Nene gave them was a regift. I have no evidence.
Whoops 1014 is me. That’s just my CIA name. Tell no one.
Ok now it looks like I’m insane, which I’m used to. Anyway, I said I thought Nene’s china was probably a regift. Instead of putting Valerie I had put 1014. It then went into moderation. I saw that I had given myself the wrong name, so wrote the comment above. Now the moderated comment is no where to be seen and I think TT is trying to Gas Light me. But there’s no motive. Forgive me. (This is like my third apology on this blog today.)
lolololol…I hate it when I have to correct myself, especially the SECOND time on my own post.
Very embarrassing. I’m still blaming TT gas lighting someone seems like something she would do for shits and giggles. I keep telling her she should start a cult.
Michele, you are not the only one that thinks Nene re-gifted the china. That’s my theory as well.
If NeNe re-gifted that china, I sooooo hope Kandi finds out. If it was me, I would be so PO’d. Not so much because of the re-gifting, but because I would suspect NeNe sent the most expensive re-gift she could, to make herself look good, and keep up the rich bitch facade. I’d have to give it back to her with a handwritten thanks but no thanks note. I doubt Kandi would though, she’d just say, oh well, it’s expensive. JMO.
gingersnap, I just sent you an email to the addy that you use here…. 🙂
I think she did! I bet Nene did not think that info would be revealed.
Valerie, I love to read your comments You really add to my experience. 😉
Valerie/1014: You crack me up, girl! 🙂
Wow. Thanks guys.
I would accept them even if it was a REGift. Lol ! Its not everyday that u receive Hermes China! And I was reading in the comments that Nene received Red ones from Tre. And Nene gave Kandi black and white Hermes China.
This wedding was so Las Vegas.. LOL… the dress? ugh? I couldn’t believe it.. not that I don’t like Kandi.. but her taste? LOL… so funny…. why the animals? I hate seeing things like that…. they are tooo majestic to be put on parade.. but Porsha talking about the “tigers” and she’s corrected by a friend saying.. you mean lions? LOL But seriously Momma Joyce is a horror show… man does she bring negativity into Kandi’s life.. and yet Kandi consistently lets her run her.. If she’s going to have any success in this marriage she needs counseling for sure!!
I thought the entire thing was horrendous and tasteless. A bunch of z-list celebs at a circus that started late and should never have happened in the first place. Todd signed away his soul to the devil and Mama Joyce hurt a child with her evil mouth and then lied about doing it. Kandi is her mother’s daughter in many ways and I blame her and her alone for what Todd and his family has been put through. The dancers were nice but the wedding gown was disgusting and looked like Kandi fell into a pile of dead, moulting birds that had been bedazzled. Kandi is the most self-absorbed person I’ve seen in a long time and Todd deserves better than her and her sick mother. My heart goes out to him and his family. I no longer like or respect Kandi and saw her for what she really is…..a richer, greedier version of Mama Joyce.
I agree with much of what you said. I suppose that lion was in the cage an extra 2 hours because Kandi and her crew couldn’t get their shit together. You have a responsibility to the guests and service providers to be on time. Kandi did not even act concerned they were so late. The wedding dress didn’t look as bad as I expected from photo’s I had seen. Another thing she didn’t have to pay for. She showed no class accepting the lingerie token gift from Andy. Lots of women have received the panties, etc from him on WWHL that could buy and sell Kandi, they had the sense to act gracious. I loved Andy’s comeback about Carmon. Kandi gives people dildos after all! So glad Andy gave her shade about thank you notes. What a self centered, low class woman. Even if it takes a year, you write them and remark on their gift in a personal way. Three hundred people is not 300 notes to couples, lazy idiot.
I certainly hope Todd gets his daughter a good lawyer before signing her to do anything with underhanded Kandi, a Joyce Jr. Kandi is seeing dollar signs with that beautiful young girl. I doubt Riley wants the spotlight, she seems the opposite of her mother. Her mother allowed her to look foolish in the wrong dress and unpracticed in spike heels. I think on the screen it said Riley was 11. I thought she was more like 14.
Kandi is ALWAYS late. She doesn’t care that she makes others wait. Wasn’t she really, really late for one of their trips because she stopped off at a fast food place? And when it was mentioned at the reunion, she just shrugged her shoulders? She only cares about herself.
I used to LOVE Kandi! But she has turned into someone we don’t recognize. Sad. They got to her too! I kept hearing what a wonderful wedding this was. Where was that footage ? And I also kept hearing a rumor about Fantasia being wasted and pissing off Kandi with her toast. Now that is the shiz I would have liked to have seen! They only showed a small part of reception. Nene and Kim’s wedding specials were way more entertaining!! #Boo #kandisweddingsux
OUCCCHHHHHHHH to your comment but I agree with almost every word.
Am I the only one that wonders if nene regifted the same dishes that Teresa Giudice have her?
OMG, that would be TOO funny!
Yes, because Teresa should be spending $7,000 on a wedding gift. So glad the taxpayers get to eat her debt! She needs to be in jail right next to Apollo.
She did, trust me.
Kandi was kinda snotty when Andy gave her the mazel shirt. She was like, where am I gonna wear a sparkly mazel shirt? with a tude. Bitch, please. And what is she doing? Sending out cookie cutter thank you cards or ecards or some such lazy shit? Wonder if she sent NeNe a cookie cutter thank you card for the very EXPENSIVE Hermes china? Bet the other gift givers wondered the same thing. Tacky. Todd didn’t want to sign that pre-nup, she strong armed him, and he settled. Some might say compromised, I think he settled and there’s a difference. She’s hard like her mother when it comes to a buck, and getting her way, and Phaedra Parks is one of her best friends. That’s all the information I need to really not like her. Good Luck Todd, you’re gonna need it.
i really think he actually loves her
even shocks me
he appears the only sincere one too, he and his mom
Being Jewish and knowing what the word “Mazel” means, I was insulted by Kandi’s attitude. She is a pig, just like her Mother.
I thought the same exact thing Merilyn,
Me too, I was surprised she mis-pronounced it at first, she screwed up her face and said, “where am I going to wear a top that says Mahzeel”. Hasn’t she been on the show a bunch of times? Doesn’t she know who just signed that paycheck?
Good for Andy giving Kandi a bad time about not sending handwritten thank you notes. She kept trying to blow him off, but he kept her feet to the fire.
I wish this show aired in Australia. Would love to see Andy give Kandi some shade. Especially as during the Atlanta HW reunions Kandi gets a free pass most of the time due to the ridiculousness of her costars.
It seems that Kandi thinks that Todd and her mother are both to a degree as bad as each other, when in actuality it’s like watching night and day. I hope Andy called/calls her out on those comments.
right, the more they point out what her own mother does then she drags Todd’s mom into when her mammy is the one trash talking about everything.
Todd’s mom has been nothing but ladylike under duress–she can snap all she wants cause joyless is reckless
this is not one of those warm wedding memories, this was the courtship of hell because of the momma
That show was a mess. Kandi is krazy. She makes no sense at all. There’s no way Todd can stay in this marriage, not if he wants to keep his sanity.
Kandi should have put more effort in properly fitting Riley for her dress. The one she had on made her look unflattering. She’s a pretty young lady and should have worn a more appropriate dress.
The dress that kandi changed into made her look like she instantly gained 100 pounds. It was a terrible look for her especially after appearing in her wedding gown with no waist line at all. Why did dumb porsha think the lion was a tiger?? Damn how dumb can a person be!
I just can’t with Kandi anymore. When she made the comment that Todd needs to keep his mother in control I was DONE. Sad thing is I really liked Kandi up until this MJ and wedding crap.
Kandi is the one who needs to keep her mother in check. The only way this marriage will last a while is Todd stays away in other states working. When he comes home to stat, the shite will hit the fan.
YES !!! Todd’s mom should flip the switch on the lethal injection on Joyce.
Wow I thought I was the only one. I loved Kandi until all of this Joyce and wedding mess. I am so over Kandi. she needs to check her ugly ass mother and leave Todd’s alone. I truly believe Todd should have run because he is marrying into a very dysfunctional family and Joyce is the head of the snake.and from what I see of Kandi she is wagging the tail.
Why did Kandi allow Riley to wear the shoes and the ill fitting dress? She would’ve done better to just wear some sandals or take the shoes off. Todd seems so shady. Todd’s comment about marriage being a business is sad. He has no class and seems so hard and ghetto. He is not attractive to me.Todd’s Mom at least tries to be cordial to MJ. Her voice sounds pretty krazy due to too many years of smoking Newports. Smh. Kandi was revealing her true colors on the finale. She cares more about her money than Todd. She seemed to have contempt towards Todd already; even before they said “I do”. Can you say train wreck?:(
train wreck
That fact that so many people don’t understand that marriage is a business arrangement with significant financial implications boggles my mind.
On Mon, Jul 7, 2014 at 8:39 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Maybe that’s the whole plan? To use the marriage as a business, like Nene and others do. They have the marriage show, where they get paid, then comes the possible baby show, where they get paid, then the divorce show, where they get paid, then the RE-marry show…..where they get paid.
Then, of course, there’s Marriage Boot Camp and other “reality” shows they can cash in on.
Of course marriage is a business arrangement, but it doesn’t surprise me that many wouldn’t want to see it that way. If you don’t want to think of a marriage as a business because it’s not romantic or some such than think of it as a partnership if that helps. Yes, a partnership is also a business arrangement, but sounds more lovey dovey?
When he said business, I thought he really meant partnership because that’s what it is a PARTNERSHIP. I say Sharon Todd’s mom is going to be the problem. She said you should have given me that pre-nup. IJS.
I agree with you100%, especially regarding Riley’s appearance.
Kandi just sat there with that I am a lying scumbag who is just like her mother smirk when Andy brought up her not telling Todd about his mother being called a whore.
Who marries a mess like that? I was so hoping Todd would drive off with his friends and never look back. He will sooner rather than later, leaving that piece of trash and her mother in the dust.
Hopefully his mother will forgive him when he comes to his senses, providing he has any.
That China was given to NeNe by Teresa Guidce. Todd might make two years. Kandi may try to come between Todd and his daughter, and that is not going to happen.
Send the Hermes china to me. I will take it. LOL
Is their marriage for real? I get the whole theme, but turning my wedding into a mock up of an old movie – go on felicia. I have no idea what is wrong with Kandi wanting a caged lion at her wedding. I felt sorry for the lions. They were obviously embarrassed and irritated at having to be locked in a cage at such a tacky event. I think its cruel to have lions caged and harrassed by guests.
I don’t know why your comment about the lions being embarrassed and irritated has made me laugh so much. But it has. Thank you.
I’m with Yamoah … I’m ROFL at the picture in my head of embarrassed and irritated lions 🙂
So funny. Poor embarrassed lions. I’m humiliated on their behalf.
I don’t understand why every body is so concerned with Todd and a prenup. If you or I had made as much money as Kandi has before marring Todd she should have a penup to protect HER assets. If the marriage fails why should Todd be able to get 50% of her money that she earned before they married. Now what they both make after is another story, I believe that is community property and should be divided equally – if the marriage fails. I think mama Joyce is worried that Todd will get her percentage. Who else would she leave her money to if something happened to Kandi other than Riley. If Riley was still under age bingo here comes mama Joyce to step in. It seems that none of Kandi’s side wanted her to get married. It didn’t matter who it was. They just didn’t want her to get married. Mama Joyce seems to want to totally control Kandi, and Kandi has allowed it up until recently. Oh well, I wish the newly weds all the blessings and luck in the world. Now with Todds daughter coming to live with them, wonder how that is going to work out. I wonder why an 18 year old that has graduated would want to come and live with her father and (rich) step mother hummmmmm sounds a little fishy to me. She never lived with her dad before why now, and she is older than Riley. Most kids that age want to get a job and be on their own. But I guess if you don’t have to go to work why do it. Daddy has a whole lot of new toys now. I guess we will see.
probably caused she has been on visitation the first 18 yrs.
if there is money involved families act stupid.
Because child support ends at age 18…he has to do his share…
I wonder why she isn’t going to college.
Kandi, despite all of her successes, has very low self esteem. She has chosen the guy she thinks she deserves. She made a great choice, however, in spite of mama.
He loves her and Riley loves her. His daughter enjoying affluence is not a bad thing. It may be part of the deal/pre- up.
None of this crap is good for a healthy relationship…if they (obviously) weren’t
trying to placate mj.
Kandi, if you are a believer…Romans8:28. There is another scripture
that
I tried to watch the first show (Kandi Wedding specials) for a few minutes and it quickly became obvious that it had a “Kandi’s Family Gone-Wild” vibe about it so avoided watching again. Reading everyones comments these past few weeks confirms that was a good decision––I’d like to think the drama and bitchiness was largely scripted for $$ and that Joyce is not the vindictive, undermining mother she appears to be.
But I hate to see anyone sign away their rights so completely; man or woman. Great way to start a marriage.
Kandi, despite all of her successes, has very low self esteem. She has chosen the guy she thinks she deserves. She made a great choice, however, in spite of mama.
He loves her and Riley loves her. His daughter enjoying affluence is not a bad thing. It may be part of the deal/pre- up.
None of this crap is good for a healthy relationship…if they (obviously) weren’t
trying to placate mj.
Kandi, if you are a believer…Romans8:28. There is another scripture about “the root” of ALL evil. That would be your mama. Don’t embarrass your daughter by pretending your mama is “right” just because she’s your mama. Would you want Riley to lose love…for money??? Whatever Todd “costs” you…you know it will come back to you…if you love.
My money ($2.50) is on Todd. I still believe mj is demented enough to kill. She should be medicated and not bandied about like a “storyline.”
Nene is tacky enough to “re-gift.” In this case…it is wise all the way around.
Bravo, please pay more attention to Todd’s mom and pull the plug on Joyce. She really makes Kandi look bad. I’m positive T’s mom will triumph.
Thanks for my 2¢ worth.
RUN TODD RUN!
I’m so over Kandi. I used to like her when she was having fun with Kim and Sheree, but now her true colors really have come out and there really is nothing special about her other than her bank account. NEXT!
IDK.. Kandi seemed real selfish after that WWHL stint. I really feel bad for Todd. Kandi says she’s protecting her money, but she expects him to spend all of his during the marriage and when its over, just become a bum and start over????? the prenup sounds more like a slave contract than anything.
Kandi should marry her mother…her perfect match…selfish, controlling and demanding, with little to no consideration for others.
I mean, this woman who prefesses her “freak number to be a ten, and you dont even know your own husband’s favorite sex position??? #selfish
I agree with you chocolatestarr
I have lost all respect for Kandi. The pajama party was a real eye-opener for me and it’s been down hill since. Her mother is so disgusting and I have a feeling that Kandi can be just as disgusting. She’s been well trained. Todd must have a screw loose to put up with any of it. I’ll bet he’s out of there in 6 months.
For some reason, I got the feeling Todd’s daughter lived out of state and was coming to live with them while attending one of the colleges there. IDK
At any rate, I use to like Kandi. RHOA and this recent reality show has really lowered my opinion of her. I say the same thing about Monica and the reality show she had awhile back.
I’d rather admire from afar – because once they’re on tv (even though I know 90% is probably scripted) and they confirm they’re batshit crazy . . . My opinion of them drops to the basement.
I hope and pray that Todd and Khandi will share a good life without the interferance… of ignorant and uneducated Mama Joyce.
Kandi proved herself to be just as low down as MJ. I used to think she had some class but the pajama party fiasco started to reveal to me the true Kandi and then this show further confirmed it. She is a money lover, tacky, selfish and to my surprise I found her to be an extremely cold person. I feel for Riley in all of this having kandi and MJ as role models. Also, we get that Todd/Kandi have a very active sex life but I don’t want to know about positions. Geez, those were the best questions they could come up with at WWHL? Glad Andy called her out on tacky preprinted thank you notes. I want my time back i wasted on this mess! Lol Just wanted to watch to see if MJ came around
I saw those poor lions in cages and couldn’t watch it. Why would someone do that to an animal???????? It’s just WRONG. I seriously thought when she mentioned doing that she was JOKING. When I saw those poor things in cages, I was DISGUSTED.
Kandi looks pregnant………….
I think so too.
The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree…Kandi is as tacky as her Mom. Kandi will do anything for a buck. Lions at in a wedding? WTF? The ceremony was an entertainment production. I’m surprised Kandi didn’t invite the midget strippers to the wedding too to serve as ushers. Also, unless the lions were wearing depends, lol, they were probably in their cages pooping up a storm during the side show… I mean wedding ceremony, stinking up the place. How disgusting. Maybe that’s why MJ had that frown on her face in all of the pics & during the “ceremony”.