After that USA match against Portugal, I really need a moment. But it’s time for more Atlanta nonsense. Can we just get this wedding done already? When I heard that Kandi’s wedding was going to have a “Coming to America” theme, I thought she just named it poorly. I never for a moment thought anyone, even Kandi, would make a such a spectacle of a wedding to style it after a Blaxploitation movie. But apparently she is. I sure hope they had a simple private, meaningful ceremony in Mexico, when my source said they did.
We are three days out and Kandi is getting a hair consult and a manicure. Kandi still hasn’t given Todd the prenup, if you believe the storyline. By the time Todd gets the prenup, it’s not something he needs to sign. If Kandi dies he gets nothing? If they divorce he has to be out in 30 days? All the profits from joint predictions are Kandi’s? But Kandi gets half of all Todd’s earnings? This whole thing has to be storyline because no one draws up their prenup 2 days before the wedding. Kandi had been ranting about a prenup for months now. Why didn’t she have one drawn up back then? I’m not buying this at all.
I’m going to skip over all the personal family cemetery visits if you don’t mind.
Todd, it’s not a 360 you are thinking of, it’s a 180. You’ve been hanging out with Apollo too much. Is Todd wearing light contacts in his talking heads? Todd and his groomsmen are our for drinks and onion rangs. Today was National Onion Ring Day and I didn’t have even a whiff of an onion rang.
It’s time for dueling Bachelor and Bachelorette parties. Apollo is eye raping all the whores. These are some cheap looking hookers. Peter could scrounge up something better than that? Are these Apollo’s side pieces he got on TV? What is the story here? 
At the girls party they are passing out penis syringes with a shot inside. I’m pretty sure that is more ghetto than drinking sizzurp out of a red solo cup. Plus Kandi doesn’t drink! I really don’t need to see old aunt Nora simulating fellatio on my television. Mama Joyce, smartly and thankfully declined. Thank God for fast forward. I am not even looking as I fast forward. Because, it’s just nasty.
I think we are now at the rehearsal and everyone has their clothes on. Mama Joyce says that this is the first time she will be in the room with Sharon since she called her “the B-word.” Bitch, your thug ass with that trash box mouth ain’t fooling nobody. Cut that B-word shit out this instant. Own your thugginess.
In other news, the bridesmaids have yet to see a completed dress and were only fitted once in the muslim patterns. LOL at the typo. I bet Muslim patterns would be pretty. I meant muslin patterns. obvi. Muslin by the way, is named after Mosul, and Iraqi town that was recently attacked and taken by Sunni fighters. Perhaps my hormonal brain was thinking of that while I was typing. My brain sort of does its own thing lately.
Todd is hungover and hasn’t seen Kandi since the night before. Why didn’t he come home last night? Kandi just found out that Todd is not signing the prenup. This is the stupidest show ever. Are we to believe that more thought and planning went in to penis syringes and stripper selections than the damn prenup? Kandi is apparently mad at Todd for not signing the prenup. Kandi says the attorneys think they should cancel the wedding. If any of this is real, they probably should. For Todd to sign the prenup at this point he has to sign on camera to prove he was not under duress. That right there should be a red flag to Todd. Also, didn’t Kandi and Todd say they bought the house together, but now she is saying that was not his house? None of this makes sense and I am tired of talking about it.
Tonight, Andy Cohen has once again packaged WWHL as RHOA for the purposes of DVRing, just like Kandi’s actual show. So we will be hearing about these huge ratings for WWHL soon. #InflatedRatings
This whole show is stupid too. The viewer question asks whether she should get married if the prenup isn’t signed. Are we supposed to be pretending Todd and Kandi are getting married next Sunday? IDGI. Kandi said she took out the part where Todd gets nothing if she dies.
Kandi says that she and Mama Joyce go days without calling each other all the time because her mother is mad about something.
Kandi makes it seem like it is Todd’s fault things happened two days before the wedding because he didn’t get an attorney until the prenup was done.
Kandi and Ramona are housewives friends. That’s an odd pairing.
Todd’s mom is very upset about the things Mama Joyce said on the show. Sharon only knew it happened when the show aired.
Why is the wedding July 6th? What is going to happen next week?
The packaging of WWHL with Kandi’s Wedding packaged as RHOA… It’s like DVR “Inception”
I feel violated.
Ugh….I have a hard time watching this show just like I do watching RHOA,
*** eyeroll *** I’m embarrassed to say I’m from Atlanta when people reference this group!
Lol.. I hear that! I grew up in NJ and between Jersey Shore, and the NJ housewives, I feel like I should keep my lovely childhood in the witness protection program.
I’ve never seen such a poorly scripted show Bravo is really stretching the whole prenup storyline that even Helen Keller could see through the holes in the story. If Kandi has the considerable wealth we are led to believe she has, that prenup would’ve been signed long before she ordered invitations, gotten a venue, a dress etc. As for the dresses, another BS storyline, sorry but if I were a bride to be or a bridesmaid I’d be $hitting a few bricks if I hadn’t seen my dress by the time of the rehearsal. I think the worst is that Bravo thinks the viewers are stupid enough to believe all this crap. What Bravo doesn’t realize is if they keep going this route and insulting the educated viewers intelligence they are going to script themselves out of an audience to watch this “UnReality”.
I am so on board with you. I don’t watch this show because the promos themselves are disgusting. But, I did watch WWHL and I just can’t with Kandi anymore. The only thing takehat I’ve learned about her is that now it makes perfect sense why she and Porsha are close. Penis sippers? That’s just gross and not funny at all. The bachelor party looked gross. If this is what Kandi is about Todd was crazy to marry her.
Kandi and her mom and horrible! Kandi used to be my fav housewife; successful, funny, nice, talented, a little overweight lol! After seeing how she just lets her mom talk about her loved ones the way she does and doesn’t even bar an eye I’ve lost all respect. And I’m with you Tamara this prenup drama can’t be real! I mean kandi is being completely unfair to Todd! She can kick him out with nothing if he gets a terminal illness??!! Wow!! And about the house, she makes him pay all the “bills” while she pays for the house thereby gaining the equity….completely unfair and Todd is dumb as dirt for allowing that arrangement! Hopefully they last so none of this will be an issue but if not, I hope the judge seems the prenup too one sided to be fair!
Isn’t the house already paid for. I think Kandi paid for it in cash. I thought she said Todd pays some bills.
It is. Kandi made the comment once, like the baby name of Cash, that is how she paid for her house. All cash.
The house that Kandi gave her Momma is paid for. Momma (Jackass) Joyce is so greedy she think she should have everything. She is such a whore. She had a pimp. She has been pimping Kandi for so long now she know she is no longer in the picture, she is calling MotherTucker a whore, Mamma Joyce you were a whore way back in the day. Call it like you see it., and it is You look like a back in the day whore. Case in point, you act like a whore back in the Superfly days. My grandmother remember you when were screwing for money from her brother. Stop it. You were not working at the pie shop, you dirty slut whore. Just like you called Todd’s Mother a whore, you need to call it like you truly is…You Whore. Todd’s mom is a respected woman. Kandi know who YOU ARE, This is why she keep her mouth close and not defend Todd or his Mother.
How MANY times is TOODD going to say he ain’t going to get married because___________. (fill in the blank).
Uggghhhhh thought this show was OVER!!! Thank goodness for your recaps, Tamara!
Lmao @
-onion rangs,
-Mama Joyce trying to say “the b word” after she let some f bombs fly herself (i thought I was the only one to catch that… who is she trying to fool??),
-Todd’s eyes looking diff,
-Apollo and “the whores”,
-and the fact that this is sooo scripted that it is now painful.
Kandi made an excuse about her nervous smile during WWHL, but what is Randy the Attorney’s excuse? He was grinning throughout the whole staged meeting with Todd. Todd looking extra serious for him did not do the trick. These folks need acting lessons. Yet, i still watch religiously.
My BFF and I were also wondering why they were skipping a week. Does something big come on next Sunday like an awards show?
Oh, and I disagree re: Coming to America being a blaxploitation film, although it is a cult classic. IMO, it was the humor of the times (but I am probably much older than your average reader). 🙂
Coming to America is a great movie! It’s just a campy, ridiculous comedy. I don’t understand wanting to start a marriage off by making the ceremony a joke.
Coming To America is not considered a blaxploitation film.
By who?
On Mon, Jun 23, 2014 at 12:18 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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so you keep saying…
On Mon, Jun 23, 2014 at 12:26 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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The word Blaxploitation is a Portmanteau. What qualifies the movie coming to America as a blaxploitation film? I know I’m not the genesis on this subject, but I do pride myself on reading and research. This not a dig so SKIP me with the sarcastic retorts. It’s a question, remember those.
It’s insulting to refer to Coming to America as a Blaxploitation film. It was a romantic comedy that only mentioned race in the barber shop scenes. It was produced with a huge budget, a strong script and a stellar cast.
okay sorry. It was a lovely comedy that didn’t exploit any stereotypes about a black people at all.
Now can we move on?
On Mon, Jun 23, 2014 at 8:44 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I saw a poster for the BET awards show .. It’s next Sunday night so I guess it’s direct competition for the show
I am one of those trolls on twitter that should be blocked by every user.
TT, God bless you girlfriend for dredging through this silliness to write this blog for us. I stop watching after the first 10 minutes into the show. Joyce is just ridiculous. She makes the entire event painful to watch. Joyce needs to get over herself,this event is about Kandi. This is one story-line if pursued next season will lower ratings.
Oh, the whole thing with Joyce and Todd is staged, imo. WHy else would Joyce say Todd’s mother was a prostitute? She can get sued big time for that. It might be nice if Todd’s mother sobered up. I can see why Joyce does nto like her. She jumped into a discussion that had nothing to do with her, but smashed people do that. Kandi is using her mother and Todd for a storyline. I cannot stand Kandi. She is starting to remind me of how Kim used her mother for a storyline/
Coming to America is not a Blaxploitation movie.
I agree and the wedding scene in the movie was beautiful!
I am one of those trolls on twitter that should be blocked by every user.
This is one horrible wedding show. Todd needs to run.
Todd would have to be numbnut to sign that prenup. It is totally unfair to him. While most prenups protect the assets people bring into marriage, theirs is stating that whatever Kandi makes DURING the marriage is hers alone. My question is if you are taking this position, why get married? He would be a complete idiot to sign it.
exactly. they should have just lived together. Kandi doesn’t want to risk a partnership and that’s okay. They should have just lived together.
On Sun, Jun 22, 2014 at 11:29 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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True – I think Kandi had or has reservations about Todd’s motives – that’s why she wasn’t too bothered with her mother’s antics. I think that Kandi is passive aggressive and was pleased that her mother brought up these sensitive issues.
Joyce and Kandi are prime examples of why many men think women are manipulative, selfish,users. What’s mine in mine and your’s is mine. Kandi tops it off with subjecting Todd to the inhumanity of her Momma Bear and you must go along with any of my plans. I think if Todd followed his own career path, tooth decay biatch would kick him down the path.
Thank goodness you recapped this mess because I swore off watching Kandi’s wedding last time. Good decision.
Even though you question the contents of the prenup, I don’t. Look at all the issues Kim had with Kandi and an agreement (after the fact, even) over Tardy for the Party. How about Lawrence? He has never, ever been happy with the reaming he took from Kandi and her contract with Closet Freak. He said he has never seen a dime and that venture dissolved their friendship just like the one she had with Kim.
I am so glad my Sunday was Joyce free. Insufferable beast.
Ugh. I have never understood the obsession people have with Kandi. Her voice is annoying– her singing voice, is subpar and her personality is boring. Then that scene where she gave Todd attitude about him trying to get “her money” and saying that the lawyers told her to call the wedding off was so class-less, I’m def over her now. Todd should’ve run away a long, long time ago!!
Why don’t they just title this show “Low Rent ATL?”
Andy just showed the Mama Joyce trying to get Nene and Kim to talk clip. I was waiting for a Kim question. Andy sure keeps trying to stir the pot.
The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree is all I can say. If we are to believe this is all actual reality, then I sum maize that Kandi is an a–hole! Just like her mama. She is a greedy b! She gives Todd the shaft in every instance. She doesn’t care that her mom is disrespecting Todd and his parents and instead of dealing with Joyce, she turns it around by telling Todd not to bring it up, even though it clearly is bothering him. She doesn’t care so she’s too lazy to bring it up. I use to like Kandi but after seeing this show, I just don’t like her at all anymore. The prenump was bs and I wouldn’t have signed it either, especially after seeing how Kandi reacted. She got fired up quick! I mean, she owns the house but he pays the bills and thus maintains the house? But gets nothing? If the shoe was on the other foot you can bet she’d be expecting to get paid! Then again, this is the same person who, when asked by the pastor what makes her happy, instead of saying something nice about her fiancé, like Todd did, she replied: I like getting my feet rubbed!? Wtf? And , I promise to give you attention. I thought she had a little sense but she sounds like she has the maturity and depth of an 8th grader. She and her mama should take all her Munnie (the irritating way she pronounces it hug!) and go live on a deserted island togther far away. Money most definitely can not buy you class , Kandi and her family are proof of that! Run Todd! Run!
Hi5 to everything ^^^^ … couldn’t have said it better myself.
If any of this crapfest is for real, then I think Todd is an idiot for marrying her. I would think a pros and cons list would be leaning very heavy on the cons side at this point. Shooot… it might even break the Damn scale altogether.
Todd can do better and should not have married Kandi…I was a Kandi fan…but not anymore. Most prenups leave something to the spouse, if he or she has not been cheating. Todd can do bad by himself. Todd losing money trying to sit at home with Kandi so he said. He deserve something if this sorry marriage does not work. He being emotionally abused and embarrassed publicly by Kandi’s CRAZY mother. Joyce should not be on the show, because she going crazy like she the one rich. No marriage here just drama, fighting, and greed issues. If Todd was a woman in the position everyone would be saying run TODD RUN. Todd don’t need a baby with Kandi…too much drama to bring a baby into. He should not want Joyce to be around his baby.
I’m done with the show after this prenuptial nonsense after Todd playing it up with his grinning attorney as he counsels Todd not to sign the instrument.
After some of the the terms of the prenuptial were divulged, which seem
to be written by Joyce, I better understand why Kandi, who is
known to go psycho-ballistic, from 0 to 100, just about whenever she is challenged or displeased, never seemed to get TRULY, CONVINCINGLY annoyed with Joyce. It increasingly appeats that Joyce and Kandi may be a couple of
well practiced ‘good cop – bad cop’
mother/daughter hustlers, who will do
whatever it may take to whoever to
ensure that Kandi not only keeps her
money, but gets her some if the relationship (or Todd) dies.
I will follow the show through your blogs, Tamara, because I am over Kandi with her stupid, insulting wedding show, Joyce ‘ continued abuse of Todd and Mother Tucker, and her stereotypical, spear-chucking, junk-flapping ‘African’ wedding dancers as she, supposed royalty, barks; “Arp, arp, arp, arp!”, and hops her happy ass to the altar. If this is not blaxploitation, I don’t know what the hell it is beyond belittling of black culture. With Eddy it was comedy, but Kandi and her krew are no comics, and Kandi clearly does not intend to parody the “Coming to America” ‘royal wedding’ spectacle with its originally intended and depicted humorous spin.
Deleted the episode after reading your blog. It sounds just awful.
Anyone heard from Cat lately? Tamara?
TT– I know you have a lot to recap on Sundays but it’s muslin not Muslim. Just trying to help, I swear! Love ya girl! You keep me laughing.
lol did I capitalize Muslim? I have hormonal brain and the mixing up of words is getting worse every day. 🙁
On Mon, Jun 23, 2014 at 1:15 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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No. The fabric is muslin with an “n” on the end. I think my phone did the capitalization. Sorry I’m a crafting queen and I see people make that mistake all the time.
I’m quite aware of the difference. The reason you see that mistake all the time is that the n key and the m key are side by side on the keyboard. You may also see typos like other words that end in those two letters such as clam and clan…especially in recaps when people are looking at a TV while typing rather than the keyboard.
On Mon, Jun 23, 2014 at 1:24 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I definitely do not buy this storyline. I think this whole prenup thing was designed to make Todd NOT look like the opportunist some people thougt he was. Think about it…all this time Kandi defends him to her mother and to the world, and now all of a sudden she’s trying to play hardball with HER money, which gives him a chance to show on national tv to all the naysayers that he doesnt want her money. Yeah right. I think we have a case of “she doth protest too much.” Even that argument she and Todd had looked staged and the prenup itself was way way over the top. Like I said… I’m not buying it!
Um Todd didn’t want to sign the prenup because he wanted more (his fair share) of money, not less so your theory makes no sense.
On Mon, Jun 23, 2014 at 1:31 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I guess my whole point was that I think that bravo made a poor attempt at coming up with this story line whether he really wanted to sign it or not. I think this was a non issue between Kandi and Todd but made into an issue for a storyline which is why none if it makes sense to me. Also, I didn’t quite understand the time line on WWHL. Did I hear Andy say to Kandi the words “engaged but not married” I thought they got married shortly after the reunion but they showed dates of 4-12-14 when they were parodying the law and order scene. Also very confusing. I could be wrong.
Kandi got married in April which is partly why the WWHL was so stupid. Kandi was all over twitter defending herself last night. She was defending her prenup and stated that their finances would be separate for the marriage.
On Mon, Jun 23, 2014 at 1:57 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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My thoughts exactly. I wouldn’t say Todd wanted more, just that he wanted something!!
I think if a couple is bringing significant assets into a marriage, a premarital agreement is wise. Don’t know about other states, but in Texas anything you bring into the marriage – home, retirement, inheritance, property – is yours forever. However, after you marry, without a premarital agreement clearly stating how assets are to be accumulated, everything earned after the marriage is community property. I worked for a divorce attorney, and it can get pretty complicated. As I watched the show, it became clear that in Todd’s 5 minute meeting with the “attorney” Todd did not tell him everything. The attorney was responding to issues that do not exist. I don’t like kandi and I don’t like Todd. THis show has shown the real Kandi and Todd and they are not likeable people. And Todd’s mama needs to sober up.
Tamara, I truly believe that Kandi & her mother are genuine embarrassments to the black community of Atlanta. Bravo should NOT be tolerated just for ratchet ratings.
Women at a party for a woman? Todd didn’t have men at his party. There is truly something wrong with phaedra for organizing this circus. Totally ridiculous
Everything she orchestrates is a circus. From Redickulous on down. Remember that boughetto sip and see she organized, where she had the tulips in her hair and the rhinestones over her eyes? Tacky.
I’m sorry, but she’s almost a degenerate. She likes surrounding herself with degenerates; married one of them. Is always saying, filthy things, especially for a church lady. She liked busting slobs on camera with Apollo to the point where people were disgusted…
Just because you have a practice, a house and children doesn’t exempt you from being degenerate. People think it does. And It doesn’t.
I am one of those trolls on twitter that should be blocked by every user.
Kandi asked to not have male strippers but the ones phaedra choice were not cute at all. Who wants to see a fat stripper and a midget? She could have yelled out “Twerk Contest” at any random club then asked the winner to perform for Kandi’s party.
That was one messed up bachelorette party and Kandi got exactly what she wanted. There are two genders. Since Kandi didn’t want male strippers then the next choice is what is available in Phaedra’s rolodex and Phaedra likes her women on the creepy side. It would never cross Phaedra’s mind to bring beautiful, sensuous, STD free sexual woman for viewing pleasure. I’m surprised Phaedra didn’t get a donkey act. That is up her alley. For the life of me I can’t understand grown, almost middle aged women who get married, having this type of a bachelorette party. Have they not experienced some of the seedier side of life behind closed doors and gotten it out of their system if that is what they are attracted to? What is the value of watching a sex act, strippers, etc. in public? Why not celebrate by doing something that is of class and style with your best friends?
Yep, something sure is….Besides being a FAKE phoney snake & criminal mastermind, Phaedra is tacky & tasteless. Who in there right mind would allow her to organize a party after seeing the horrendous ridiculous over-the-top events she has had in the past!?
Nós chutou EUA bundas!
Go Portugal!!
LOL You did not kick anyone’s butt. You got lucky with a hail mary. That said, you sure did look pretty!
On Mon, Jun 23, 2014 at 7:14 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I’m with everyone else, CTA is not a Blaxploitation film. I originally took Kandi wanting to do a CTA theme as her wanting to emphasize the beautiful African dances, the attire they wore, and the overall look and feel of the wedding scenes from the move. But none of it looked like CTA, so I’m thinking, what was the point? I’m just tired of Kandi’s Wedding at this point. They’re dragging out the drama and it feels so inauthentic. Mama Joyce and Kandi are ruining this show for me. Mind you, Kandi used to be my favorite, but after the way she treated Kenya and the way she let’s her mom run her life, I’m beyond done.
If you google “Blaxploitation” and “Coming to America” you will get a ton of hits, some listing it in their list of best Blaxploitation movies ever. It’s a matter of opinion. That said, since Kandi had the ability to travel to South Africa, one would think she could have incorporated an African theme without seeming to mock the African experience by admitting that everything she knows about Africa she learned by watching Coming to America. That too, is an opinion.
I did. I only saw one site that regarded CTA as a Blaxploitation film. But it is a matter of opinion. When I think of Blaxploitation, I think about Fred Williams, Pam Grier, and such. I’m not a big fan of Blaxploitation either, because of the stereotypes and violence involved, so when I think of CTA, I just think of it as a lightheaded and airy movie. But I agree about the wedding theme. It’s … ugh … yeah.
That’s what makes me look at Kandi like she’s a fool if you want a royal African themed wedding then do so. Don’t base it on a fictional film. Her wedding looked tacky anyway.
Anyway Todd would be a dummy to sign it. What successful business woman thinks anyone should sign a contract within 48 hours. The man isn’t even asking for half just something. She claims he gets paid but it sounds like the assets or continued profits from that play would go to her if they were to get a divorce. That’s not right.
This had to be the worse of the worse housewife weddings. It just keeps getting worse.
Kandi tweeted happy birthday Porsha you accomplished so much in the short time I’ve known you. Did Porsha finally purchase “Hooked on Phonics” and learn to read?? Can she now spell scepter?
She is defending herself all over twitter over the prenuptial. She said that Todd knew what was in the agreement. I think this was a storyline in that she gave it to him last minute for dramatic effect but is it possible that Todd was surprised at what was in it which is why the lawyer was laughing…as in they are screwing you buddy? I still have a hard time discerning what is a storyline or not on the “reality” shows ☺
She is sure defending herself as if it is true. I’m starting to believe her. Which is terrible and she is getting a lot of pushback on twitter.
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And what’s up with her saying on WWHL that she owns the house but he pays all the bills? That’s some bullshit right there. He needs to least make her pay half the bills now, or he’s getting TOTALLY screwed. It’s ridiculous.
Kandi is making Nene look good at this point. I hope she actually does have some money cause she is going to need it. No one is going to go near here now for nothin.
I saw WWHL last night, she made a fool of herself. There really should be one state exclusively for people like Kandi, her mom and her hideous clothes, house and furniture. Wouldnt that be nice?
Now I wouldn’t go that far..remember Gregg gave NeNe the prenup right at the rehearsal too..Its the Bravo way to generate more drama..
ok, but lets just send them all to ignorantville asap !
Joyce has probably been sabotaging Kandi’s relationships all of her life (beginning with Kandi’s father). She doesn’t want ANYONE close to her daughter; not Todd, Sharon, Carmen, Titus . . . . . . no one. Just hope she stops inserting her mean/ugly self into Kandi’s happiness after the wedding. Kandi doesn’t seem to realize that she is the only one who can put a stop to this! So sad . . . . .
She also calls Kandi’s father ghost dad. Her father has said on multiple occasions that he has tried to be in Kandi’s life but the mother put a stop to it. Even when MJ was swearing on her dead son all she could bring up was money. She mentioned him not buying birthday and christmas gifts but nothing about him not spending quality time with her. My fondest memories of my parents do not include us spending money.
They are ( Muslim) Patterns very nice, cool and comfortable. SMile!
As for the Pre Nup Kandi is trying to be slick ( Pheadra probably advised her to do it that we. We see how she done Apollo with their pre nup)
She didn’t think he would contest it, and he was smart to do so. He putting in all that hard work , turning down jobs because she want him close to her
He was smart to contest it. The way it looked it would help cont’d to build her empire and in the long run he would get nothing, and she would keep it all.
I’m not saying he a “gold digger,but he don’t want to end up a broke knee grow either.
Well Todd could always select healthy low calorie food to buy… kandi would not have to worry about going on a diet. Lol
I doubt Todd is paying all the bills and food, etc.
The BET(EBT as some people call it) AWARDS will be on Sunday and maybe Bravo didn’t want to compete for ratings so I guess that could be why it is not coming on this Sunday
I agree CTA was not up to blaxplotation level but it was full of stereotypes for several ethnic groups (the Geri curl king was epic). Which is why I can’t believe Kandi chose that theme. She has confirmed she has no taste in anything except maybe music. Todd has married his worst nightmare and it came with a sequel named Joyce and we all know the sequel is usually worse. I can’t believe he walked into this with “a love will conquer all” attitude. I’m thinking it was more “what love can’t conquer, money will”. If that’s the case he really sold his soul to the devil…welcome to hell sir
What she said.
I wonder if Phaedra provided the strippers? I’m over the wedding special. I’m getting annoyed my DVR is tricked into recording it. The only thing I believe is real at this point is momma Joyce running off every man kandi has had in order to stay in her pockets.
What!!! Moderation? I have never been in purgatory before! Lol what goes on here???
weird shit happens for no reason. Welcome to my world.
On Mon, Jun 23, 2014 at 10:18 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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If the prenup was so important than that should have been the first thing ironed out before you even set a date. Why was 4-4-14 so important to her? She could have waited until 7-7-14, 7 &7 make 14. If all you wanted was a play on numbers, that would have worked and you could have more time to plan.
Kand’s mother disgusted me. She can call a woman a ho and her deceased husband a pimp multiple times to anyone who will listen, but can’t take Todd’s mom calling her a b$tch ONE TIME? Then Kandi said if she was Todd she couldn’t put up with her mother’s behavior but then in the same breathe you defend your mother.
Give me a break, Manic Mondays. Todd;s mama was smashed and jumped into something that was none of her business. She was the aggressor.
Yes, she was embarrassing, too. I was surprised: I was expecting Todd’s mother to be a cultured woman.
Why is Todd even there? Apparently Kandi wants Todd around to help her with project ideas and development, which she will not pay him for, in any way.
The other reason she has him there is for stud service.
Her one emotionally intimate relationship is with Joyce. They have no room for Todd, so he’s withdrawing more and more. For example: the three of them on The View shortly after the marriage. Todd barely even spoke. He was like a shadow of the old Todd.
Any ideas why he wasn’t there on WWHL with Kandi to help answer all the questions about him? Maybe Kandi doesn’t want him to talk?
I wouldn’t care if someone thought I was the aggressor if I was Todd’s mom I would have been on Joyce from the jump. She waited till she had an “in” and maybe she started it at the moment but “Ms” Joyce started it a year ago without that ish talking. I like how Todd’s mom got at her one time, and put Joyce in her place lol. Then she took a breath, apologized for calling her a B, and kept it moving.
If I was Todd I would have called the wedding off. There is no way in hell he should get nothing and have to exit the house after a month if things do not work out. Todd is the best thing that has happened to Kandi in terms of a man. Before Todd she was with AJ who had several kids.
Kandi does not want Todd to travel for work and that puts him in a position where he can’t provide financially for himself. However, the more I think about it he would have strong grounds to challenge that prenup but it could end up being costly and of course stressful. And he would need to worry about having a place to stay unless the courts could make an emergency/temporary ruling on that for Todd. Kandi mentioned that she is friends with Bethenny and Bethenny talked about how it was horrible having to live in the same house with Jason because the prenup did not cover that so that’s probably where that stipulation came from. But since there’s a guest house he could live there.
Now momma Joyce is just trash, IMO. She has the nerves to look down on Todd’s mother but she’s no better herself. I am beginning to believe Kandi’s father is telling the truth about Joyce and her sisters. I do admit Joyce sister Nora is pretty cool when she is not following Joyce and the other sister.
The funniest thing was last weeks episode though. Especially after the argument between Todd’s mother and Joyce. I laughed hysterically when Todd’s mother told him to bring her a glass of water and a shot of Brandy. lol.
Lmao @ Apollo eye rapping the strippers. He sure was. Much like he did when he was around Kenya. Lol
You are the funniest writer–ever! “Onion rangs?” Ha! Perfect.
Really — Todd sounds like a whiney sad little baby. I thought he was going to cry. What a sorry loser. Sadly for Kandi he is in it for the money….when I heard him whining — I lost all respect for him…..what about me…WAH WAH WAH!