So, before we even get started, let’s talk about my favorite subject, me. I was having a perfectly innocent conversation with everyone’s favorite commenter @TeeCee66 this afternoon which went something like this. TeeCee: So, don’t you think it is super sneaky that Bravo packages Kandi’s wedding as a RHOA episode? Me: Yeah and the funny part is by them doing that she has the highest wedding ratings which must piss off Nene and Kim. And then some fool who is on RHOA came barging into our conversation and called me a hater. Guess who? A Nene Stan? A Kim Stan? Nope. It was Don Juan. Apparently despite me blogging that I like Kandi’s spinoff and find it to be the least scripted bridal show and encouraging everyone (even TeeCee, who refuses) to watch, I am somehow hating on Kandi. And this is not the first time Don Juan has come at me for no reason. But the show is starting and I need to get to recapping. Click the link to TeeCee’s twitter to see how it all went down. Spoiler: She gets blocked well before calling everyone “shit people.” lol. Oh and follow TeeCee. You don’t have to like her to follow her, her tweets can be very funny. Plus, Don Juan was mean to her about not having enough followers.
On tonight’s episode we start with Johnnie being extremely resourceful and Carmon being MIA. While it is great that Johnnie has worked out a calendar, which in my opinion he did to get Kandi up off her fat ass, it is utterly ridiculous that he is bringing in sparkly crap for shitty centerpieces when KANDI can’t seem to even tell anyone where she wants to get married. Don’t act like she doesn’t know where she wants to get married. This is now a bunch of foolishness. Oh and under Johnnie’s name is not “third pretend assistant in charge” but “wedding planner.” Johnnie is now David Tutera. Kandi is supporting Todd’s tongue lashing from last week. You remember last week when Todd said he did not want any part of planning the wedding? Well look who is sitting in on every fucking meeting. Also, Kandi suddenly remembers what venue she wants. Kandi does not know the difference between a male lion and a female lion. 
I am not sure what the fuck Kandi is thinking. She is auditioning dancers for her wedding. Because weddings need emulate a comedy movie that borders on Blaxploitation. With animals and nekkid penis dances. And twerking. Even Don Juan acknowledges this is ridick, Queens don’t normally want loose dick from other men at their wedding, Kandi.
Kandi cries in a scene where she asks her father to officiate the wedding ceremony. He says yes. Kandi’s daddy is sort of fly for an old guy. He says she doesn’t really know the whole story and he tells his side. Kandi doesn’t believe it. Because Mama Joyce has brainwashed Kandi. #ParentalAlienation
So everyone heads over to the strip mall where Le Fais Do Do is to look at the event venue. I was going to link you but it seems the website is overloaded with requests and we broke the server. This is why Bravo weddings are always free. I am starting to understand Don Juan’s behavior today. He seems to think he is the start of the show because he is highly featured. While DonJuan’s talking head outfit is horrendous, I really like his sweater that he wore to the venue.
Kandi is talking to Johnnie about the food. She wants sliders. Which is fine. But she doesn’t know what they are called.
Kandi decides to run to Todd and tell him that her mother called his mother a whore and his father a pimp.
PAUSE. LOL Someone in a black Range Rover (??) is filming my house again. Shouldn’t she be watching the show? She may even have an appearance on it! It’s a slow roll by with a camera out. Look for my ghetto shack on Vine y’all. I guess I should have opened the door to the yard guy earlier today. I didn’t know we were going to be on TeeVee. 🙂
Todd is upset of course. His father died when he was three. Kandi doesn’t even want to tell Todd what she said about his mother. In her “blog” Kandi said her mother was VERY hurt by her mother’s comments. Todd wants to postpone the wedding. He is not happy. Todd says he is warning her and Kandi takes offense. It’s interesting she can defend her mother but not Todd.
What is weird about this show is that usually the person with the spinoff garners fans…. the only time that happened was with Kim. Nene looked like a fool. Tamra looked like a fool. And now Kandi is starting to look like the fool. I really thought Kandi would come off more likeable than she has so far.
Finally, we get to the star of this show, Mama Joyce. Sure she is a ginormous cunt satchel, but she is the reason we all tune in. It’s like NASCAR, we are waiting for the ghetto behavior and Mama Joyce brings it. Mama Joyce is dress shopping on Kandi’s dime and bitching all the way. Mama Joyce’s gray dress with the sequence is BEAUTIFUL.
Meanwhile, Todd, is coming out smelling like a rose and being fitted for a custom suit. This is another example of Kandi and Todd both being financially smart. A custom suit can be worn to all the future weddings and funerals. Unless Kandi decides to make it some ridiculous Coming to America bullshit. Todd meets with Kandi’s father while he is there to get some advice on how to deal with Mama Joyce. Sidenote: when I was typing ‘with’ my ‘h’ didn’t mash and spell correct did not come on but I noticed And I thought to myself, “Hmmmm I wonder if that is why Nene keeps typing wit for with… maybe she thinks it is an alternate spelling.
Why are they subtitling Kandi’s daddy? He speaks more clearly than anyone on the show. Oh now they are subtitling Mama Joyce a bit. Maybe it was to make Mama Joyce not seem so ignorant. If that is so, it’s not working. Mama Joyce is trashing Kandi’s daddy. Mama Joyce is swearing on her dead son. SMH.
Meanwhile, Todd is speaking with Kandi’s pastor father and shares that he knew she was the woman for him when after they had sex, she asked him to get on his knees and pray with her. Um. um, okay. Moving on… Todd asks for his blessing. He calls Todd his new son. I think Todd will like that relationship.
Kandi is talking to the dude who wants publicity for singing at her wedding. He says yes. Duh.
Oh look, it’s the BIGGEST felon of RHOA, Apollo. He is working Todd out in his Nida Fitness “Body by Felons” T-shirt. They talk pre-nups. Apollo says he just took his wife’s word for his and signed the part where it said we will keep all finances separate because you are a felon who continues to do felonious things and I want not to be implicated. I mean, I paraphrase but that was essentially the conversation. Todd is smarter than Apollo and he doesn’t want to rush in without counsel. Kandi seems to be holding the pre-nup until the last minute. Apollo is a horrible actor.
For some reason, Kandi and Todd meet with Mama Joyce. Kandi explains that the parents are supposed to pay for the wedding. Kandi asks her Mama to give her away. Mama Joyce is acting like she doesn’t want to give her away. Todd confronts Mama Joyce about the pimp thing pointing out he was three when his father died. Kandi’s talking heads are about Todd letting things go. REALLY KANDI? I can’t with you. Mama Joyce insists that Todd’s dad is a pimp. This is disgusting. I’m starting to agree with TeeCee about this show. Mama Joyce is now trying to say Todd’s mom was a street walker. This is crap.
The storyline is that Todd doesn’t want to go with the wedding. REAL TEA is that he should not. I don’t care if this is all made up for TV. Your mama is a whore and your daddy was a pimp, is reason enough for divorce right there. Storyline or not. Kandi is one of the FEW housewives who does not need the money. And apparently the two of them taking it with the agreement that Todd’s parents were shamed on national TV is disgusting.
I may be out.
I may be out too…this is so ignorant I can’t even stand it.
Well that makes three of us.
Four. It’s becoming tedious. Kandi stirs the pot . “My mama said….” and then when Todd gets upset, Kandi says “I don’t want to talk about this.” Really?
Ignant? Can’t tell the dif between M & F lions? Tigers in Africa? Bears in Africa? Kandi needs to go back to grade school w/Porsha!
Why didn’t she use the lion from the Bravo summer ads?
That’s exactly why I haven’t looked at it. A stupid wedding dress, a stupid Joyce, a dumb themed wedding, naked men? C-r-a-z-y.
Yep I’m out. I love you TT.
I was insulted by the Carmon as friend/ paid assistant storyline but this one is way worse.
Please tell me this was spell-check doing it’s dirt business?
“Mama Joyce’s gray dress with the sequence is BEAUTIFUL.” Surely you meant “sequins”.
nah, you guys always (rightly) call me out on that. I SAY I don’t have a southern accent, but I do say some words wrong. lol. sorry
The wicked bitch didn’t even wear that lovely dress.
WOW
The clips for this weeks episode with all of the fighting, ignorance, and violence are upsetting and appalling. The way Joyce behaves is more than ridiculous , The way she treats Todd is terrible and I agree he should of run like the wind. Joyce crossed more than the line and if Todd and his family can forgive her ,move forward and build a relationship with that woman they need to have saint something before their names. I can’t watch today maybe when I’m really bored .
I love you Tamara but nah on the following of tee cee. When I read some of her comments I always wonder if she’s joking . I’m sorry but just like Joyce ( she doesn’t deserve the mama Joyce title ) I don’t find tee cee entertaining at all.
I stopped watching after last week. I will just catch the recaps here….which you do fabulously.
I am out as well. Can’t understand Kandi repeating what her mom said about Todd’s parents. I would just keep to myself as not to hurt his feeling.
AFTER they had sex, she wanted to pray?? I don’t get it. Before I sort of get (though bizarre) to bless their fornication. No judgment here on sex before marriage but why after? To thank God for their orgasms?? WTF? Also, why on earth share that with her dad who is a pastor? SMH.
I expected Mama Joy-less to bring on the drama but this is a disgusting storyline with her saying Todd’s mom was a whore and dad a pump. Isn’t a wedding enough drama…did they really need to add this nonsense.
I will continue to watch because I have faith that kandi will grow up and see that she can still love her mother AND put her in her place. That is the storyline I want to see…
Yes, Kandi should just grow some balls. One day the Old Bitch will be gone and Kandi will have nobody unless she sorts that woman out. She should give her an ultimatum – to shut the fuck up or get out of their lives, and MJ, being the greedy old hag that she is, will probably come groveling.
Kandi will never issue Joyce an ultimatum. First, Kandi would view that as disrespectful and a line she would never cross. Secondly, I am of the opinion that Joyce reeks of meaness, cruelty and has physically laid into Kandi on many occasions for reasons much less than showing a lack of respect. Joyce probably doesn’t have an off button either. With the callous indifference Joyce displays towards Kandi, you can only imagine the level of wickedness of that cantankerous crone if issued an ultimatum. It would be epic. As an adult Kandi is like Pavlov’s dog.
Kandi cannot grow any BALLS, she’s wearing them. (KANDI COATED NIGHTS) Mama Joyce is the only MOTHER that she knows and she loves her Mother very much. So, GABRIELLA, you just STFU. Mama Joyce just need to stop getting drunk.
Kandi is tight-fisted & selfish. And she seems DENSE. Her mom influenced her on that pre-nup – she actually listed he gets NOTHING if she dies & if he gotta “get out” in 30 days if they break up. That’s cold – that man ain’t looking for no damn freebie ….
Kandi sits looking STUPID when her mom disrespects Todd & his parents but she gets defensive if anyone says ONE THING about that ol’ stupid mother of hers. She expects people to just TAKE her mom’s bullsht & “let it go” bcz “people can’t see the error of their ways” – yea, fine for KANDI to say that crap bcz SHE’s not the RECIPIENT of her mom’s BULLSHT. If Todd’s mom acted like that towards Kandi, Kandi would NEVER put up with that nonsense. It SEEMED like everything was ALL ABOUT KANDI & she’s “boss” bcz she got money or more money than Todd?? That wedding, her mom, THAT PRE-NUP, everything – I winded up disliking Kandi, HATING her mom & feeling alotta respect for Todd & his mom. Todd is a decent brother & FINE AS HELL lol. He could’ve done better & I wish he had’ve walked away from ALL of that bullsht.
This is insane!!! What person in their right mind would allow their parents to be demeaned in such a manner. This is beyond egregious behavior! Todd there had better be some strong apologies coming from Joyce’s corner. If not, how could Kandi or Todd allow this scene to be aired?
These housewife series are meant to get people stirred-up and fighting mad. And I for one am getting a bit tired of this buffoonery!
Right on target!
TT, the guy that said he’d sing at the wedding is Musiq Soulchild. He’s a known neo-soul artist and a great writer!
Great is an understatement…Genious. I wish he would sing “Love” at my wedding next year. That ismy theme song.
You’re A.J.’s Mom? The one who was gonna marry Kandi before he passed away?? (God Bless & RIP)
I only read the part about me. That dude is a complete idiot. He can’t write in English. But….he’s a…media mogul. Hahahaha.
I KNEW you would read it if it was all about you. lol. you really were the best part of the episode declaring everyone as “shit people” lol.
On Sun, Jun 8, 2014 at 10:05 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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What are ‘SHIT PEOPLE”?.
And Mama Joyce is horrible and Kandi needs to check her. I can’t wait to see Todd’s mom do it, so I’m tuning in for that reason!!
After Kandi checks Joyce she should check herself. I have lost a lot of respect for Kandi.
ME TOO.
Todd will be happy soon after the wedding. No matter how upset, hysterical Kandi cries about how happy Todd is taking jibs out of state. Based on HER own pre-nup, Kandi and Kandi alone is forcing Todd to travel. Todd needs to build, work on his career; so he cannot be turning any jobs down like he did after Kandi begging him to stay. He was forced to use his saving. Kandi las minute pre-nup states he is not compensated for any and all jobs he turns down; therefore, he needs to work/build his career. So Kandi will be getting exactly what she was begging crying for Todd NOT to do. Todd and Kandi’s marriage is going to be a whole lot of Skype- exactly what Kandi clearly started. I love Kandi out of all housewives but this wedding show really showed her in a different view on her!
Yep, it sure did. Turned me totally off from her. She looked like a tight-fisted selfish “all about ME & what I want” individual who likes to EAT & needs to check her mom. I was in disbelief at the behavior of Kandi’s mom & even more shocked that Todd tolerated that bullsht & then signed that pre-nup. Kandi should’ve TOTALLY handled her mom but Kandi was so busy grabbing for WHAT SHE WANTS, “Coming to America” & FOOD to stop sitting there looking fcuking STUPID & CHECK THAT OLD BTICH MOM OF HERS. It looked like bcz she has money – or more money than Todd – Kandi feels like she’s “boss”, HER word is the final word, its all HER way or no way – I noticed she “told” Todd he CANT DRINK during the wedding – like she’s giving the man ORDERS – and the bullsht she put in that pre-nup was COLD – how can you NOT leave your husband something if you pass away??? I dont like Kandi after watching her wedding. I don’t even think their marriage is gonna last long.
I don’t think this marriage will last. Kandi is clueless about marriage. It is more than great sex and the love feeling. It is loyalty and fidelity. She sat quietly while her mom disparaged the man she loves. Not a good sign for the future.
Well said!!! She is a little kid when it comes to adult relationships.
Damn sure ain’t
Kandi seems real lazy. There’s no way in hell I’d sit there & let ANYONE rip at my man/fiance/husband the way Kandi’s mom did.
And wasn’t it KANDI who told ANDY COHEN that she’d turn violent & raise hell if anyone insulted or disrespected Todd?? This was the same Andy Cohen show that Porsha dragged Kenya …. Andy Cohen asked Kandi “what would YOU do if anyone disrespected Todd?” – Kandi said, “you already know – just what you said you won’t tolerate on your show” (which was fighting & violence) – but she sat right there looking like a DUMB BTICH WEARING A DUMB-DUNCE-CAP when her sickening a$$ mom constantly disrespected her fiance. Totally not understanding that ….
I have no idea who don julio is and I think I’ve watched every “wedding” episode. oh wait, is he the wedding dress designer dude? In any case, just like Kandi’s last ‘spin off’, this one is boring as hell but I cant find my remote.
Don Julio is Kandi’s manager/studio guy. He’s definitely not a wedding dress designer.
*Don Juan.
I agree with you TT. Joyce is one disgusting human being. I do not care if this is scripted or not the things that just run out of her mouth make me sick. I am done with Kandi I liked her and she was my favorite but she allows her mother to be a bitch and says nothing to her. I am done with this show I will just read your re caps.
I wonder could Todd and/or his mother have a defamation case on their hands with Miss Joyce? She is doing well too much proclaiming on the character of these people.. Todd is a good one. Joyce (I don’t even have respect enough to call her Mama) has been extremely vile towards him and he has continued to remain respectful, even when defending himself. To me that shows true character.
Yep ….. I swear to God I dont know how he managed to do it …..
I might’ve PUNCHED that old btich …..
and then said FCUK THIS WEDDING
that old btich was too disrespectful – she’s DISGUSTING
Just a quick comment. I do follow TeeCee and have for a while, I personally enjoy her biting wit. Just don’t mess with her!
Ugh mama Joyce is insufferable….I HATE that Kandi never tries to put her in her place.
It occurred to me that since Kandi has known all along how her mother is, that is seems odd to me she would agree to put that batshit harpy on the TV for everyone to gawk at. Maybe Kandi doesn’t understand just how bad her mother is because she has always lived it and shrugged it off. Kandi doesn’t really see what we see. In the mean time, Joyce continues spreading her malicious lies about about people and everyone watching doesn’t understand how Kandi can just expect everyone to put up with it because it is her Sanctified Mother and she loves her mother and she respects her mother (yes, yes, we know, you say it alllllllll the time and where has all this love and respect got you?).
It’s gotten her nowhere and not a thing. Just more headache and occasionally heartache. You are right about Kandi being used to this old bat being nasty, rude, disrespectful and downright bitc-. What self-respecting black woman would carry on like that? I don’t know anyone who would treat her daughter like she is dumb, ugly, fat, stupid etc. because she doesn’t see any reason other than Kandi’s money that a man would love her. She must really hate whoever is Kandi’s real daddy.
The pimp and ho comments were like a sucker punch. Mama Joyce has some nasty poison inside of her. She keeps accusing Todd of wanting Kandi’s money when clearly she wants all of Kandi’s money. She is so vile it oozes out of her. Kandi makes me sick too because she doesn’t bitch slap her. She didn’t even react appropriately to the pimp comment. She just says he should let it go. He should have taught her a lesson and walked away. She would have learned something about standing up to her mother. Kandi will have to lose something near and dear because of her mother for her to ever do something about her. And not just some passive aggressive play with a message. I’m shocked how cowardly Kandi really is. Your assessment is so right TT. There must be some karma waiting for MJ. I can’t stand to see people like her win.
I’m with you, Katimir. Kandi and Joyce have a bizarre relationship. Both of them are warped and when their ugliness is combined that force is as damaging to another person as an imploding building. There was a time when I felt pity for Kandi’s lonely heart. No longer. If this relationship is a guage of past relationships, not only does Kandi bring on some of the pain she has suffered in failed relationships but she encourages turmoil by using her mother as a weapon to stir up bad blood. Kandi has had plenty of men exit her life or not want to be a part of it to begin with. Now I see why. Pushing the envelope seems to be Kandi’s forte. Todd may regret this decision in that he may have gained a wife and MIL but lost some of his precious mother. What was he thinking?
There is nothing my mom could ever say or do to makw me even think about putting my hands on her. MJ is disgusting but she doesn’t need to be hit.
Don’t be literal minded. These are just comments that express some form of disgust. Nobody should REALLY hit MJ. But she sure makes people want to see her suffer some consequences for her vileness. Relax, there’s nothing my mom could ever do to make me hit her or anyone for that matter, but she can sure pluck a nerve.
No, she doesn’t need to be hit. She just needs to be locked up in a cage and put out in the forest to commune with the other animals.
Poor other animals.
Lol
What if mama joyce is right about todd?? I’ve always been suspicious of him. What if he’s just a smooth criminal…he made Apollo a groomsman! Shouldn’t that tell you something? I think the reason he mentioned “how many jobs his relationship with kandi has cost him” on tv was to put in on record so he can fight whatever prenup kandi has in place if they ever divorce. I bet money they will divorce soon and it will be a BIG BIG mess. OR..maybe I owe todd an apology..lol
I think you do and will owe him an apology.
I think Todd is a geniunely nice guy. My take on makimg Apollo the groomsman is that it is part of the storyline, as was the discussion about the prenup.
And Todd explained how Apollo has become a friend since moving to Atlanta, and the whole Phaedra & Kandi connection…I had a really hard time watching Mama Joyce say that garbarge and Kandi really not get mad at her about it. Its like she thinks that everyone should just take her nonsense cause she is her “mama”. And I can see where its possible Joyce and her sisters were at the house telling stories about Kandi’s father which led to a divorce, hell, Joyce is doing it now, spreading lies and talking shit about Todd.
I think he is a bit shady and coming from behind the scenes to in front of the camera speaks volumes. The marriage will not last but MJ is still wrong.
perhaps Apollo was made a groomsman because Phaedra was a bridesmaid? just a thought.
and because it’s a reality show and they need storyline?
and because it’s scripted and someone needed to throw todd a ratchet bachelor party?
or perhaps Todd can be friends with Apollo without being a low down criminal himself?
just a thought.
What a mess, I am out. How the hell is Mama Joyce calling Todd’s parents a pimp and prostitute when Kandi DOES NOT LOOK LIKE MAMA JOYCE OR HER FATHER. Ok Mama Joyce, uh huh. WHo Kandi daddy?
On this note, someone need to make an appointment, take Madea’s advice and go to DANA. (DNA)
She know that man is not Kandi’s dad. He probably knew too that’s why he chose not to take care of her financially.
Kandi looks just like her dad especially the mouth snd teeth
Now THAT was funny… but sooo true!!!
Speak the truth and shame the devil!!! I thought the very same thing when I saw Kandi’s father. She looks NOTHING like him. She doesn’t look like her aunts either. There’s no telling what man in the woodpile Joyce screwed to get Kandi. Joyce has had three husbands and has a live-in man now who drives HER car (Is he a gold digger or not?). She is known around older Atlanta women to have taken many a man away from them. So who’s the hoe?
you heard that from the people in the streets?
(sorry, I just couldn’t resist 🙂 )
TT which stalker person found your house in the first place?! You don’t have your full name nor photos online, so they must’ve been some big creep. Was someone seriously filming your house? That is not ok. I’d vacillate between extreme anger and fear.
She has one stalker who knows where she lives, has posted her info online for the world to see. That stalker is currently building a moldy Chateau.
Damn so sheree crazy ass found her? It seems like she would’ve had to do some serious digging. It’s just not right TT is not a public figure. There is a huge difference between blogging anonymously and being on television.
Let’s change the subject. 🙂
On Mon, Jun 9, 2014 at 1:37 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Yeah if you go the right of the page, find the categories drop down button, find *her* name, you’ll find lots of info about it. Court cases and crazy.
We were told to change the subject so now I will follow the command 🙂 Weather’s shit here btw! 😀
It’s “Mammy” Joyce.
On a positive note, I’m wondering if this very well could be PCH?
Mama Joyce is not getting any younger. She might want to be nice to Todd because when she reaches a certain stage health wise he could be integral in deciding her fate, for instance allowing her to live with them or sending her to a nursing home.
You are so right! Didn’t think of that! And MJ obviously hasn’t either.
I not abt to watch this of you (Kandi) cannot stand up for your finace in the event your mother (MJ) attempts to slander the name of a deceased parent AND mother who raised them ALONE! I truley like Kandi the most but I cannot take this…. *drops head*
Don Juan is so annoying with his constant face-pulling, eye-rolling, and condescending, snide remarks. I wish I never had to see him on the show or anywhere else again.
MJ is a disgrace. She is vile and evil and if I was Todd’s mama I would spit her damn soggy face.
She needs someone to spit in her face!!! She is the most ignorant person. And she acts like she is all high and mighty.. you’re living off your daughter!!! She’s worried that her checks won’t be as big. I would have cut her off a long time ago
Doesn’t spitting in someone’s face or even advocating it put you both lower than mama Joyce?
I guess everyone has their own rulebook. But in mine, spitting in someone’s face is pretty fucking low on the animal scale.
Spit in her mothers face???? Or anyone’s face ??? Smh ! You should be ashamed to even post a comment like this!
Well, I think anyone who spreads rumors about their future son in laws parents saying there mom is a hoe and daddy is a pimp, along with all of her other tactics and bullshit is pretty low on the animal scale! She basically spits in his face by saying that! My goodness people lighten up, I was simply making a point!
ALL of their eye rolling and mouth movements, specially Kandi, is too much. I cant take anymore even when I ff through most of it.
I can’t with Kandi defending her mom. I don’t know how Todd does it, he must REALLY love her to put up with that monster that is Mama Joyce. Todd is supposed to just let it go that Mama Joyce is running around saying his dad was a pimp and his mother a hoe. I think Mama Joyce needs a beat down. And Kandi.. I just don’t even know. Oh and about Don Juan.. really mentioning someone’s twitter followers!?!?! People are fucking crazy!!!!
I am perturbed by this entire “situation”. There is no reason in the world for MJ to disparage Todd’s parent the way she has. In my personal opinion, Kandi and Todd began plotting how they would get a wedding spin off during season 5 of RHOA. Kandi had attended Cynthia’s, Kim’s and Nene’s weddings, so she had planned her story lines well in advance of the filming for RHOA season 6. I believe where Kandi went wrong with her scheme was 1. Kandi could not control MJ’s over the top antics because she had already instructed MJ to disapprove of the relationship on aire; and once MJ was given free reign to say and do whatever she wanted, MJ took it to the extreme; 2. Kandi did not think MJ would throw Carmon under the bus, and Carmon’s personal life and reputation would be affected the way it has. Carmon has become collateral damage in the wake of this fiasco of romance; 3. The aunts scene in the bridal shop on RHOA was staged, and they quickly tried to retract what they had done previously by feigning amnesia “I don’t know why I did that?”; 4. Kandi knew MJ had gone entirely too far by calling Todd’s mother a prostitute, and she made sure she left that out of the conversation with Todd about MJ calling his father a pimp; 5. The wedding date (04/04/14) had been carefully planned for sometime, just as Kim had picked 11/11/11 for her wedding date. Coincidentally, six weeks before the wedding Kandi, Todd, and MJ were all on the View pretending that they were not sure MJ would accept Todd as a son-in-law. But as we also saw on Kandi’s show six weeks before the wedding, the planning was in full effect for the happy event. Kandi and Todd knew they had to find a way to hype up interest in their show, but they have gone entirely too far to get ratings and a check at the expense of Todd’s deceased father’s reputation. How Todd let a lot of this footage be broadcast and still married Kandi is beyond me, but to each his own. SMH
I’ve been done with RHOA and I can’t stand how Kandi has handled Mama Joyce/Todd relationship.
I do adore Teecee’s attitude so I will sign up for twitter tomorrow if I can figure it out.
All the serious attitudes of commenters about these fake shows, Teecee comes in and with a one liner puts it all in perspective.
Be like me and sign up just to follow a few cool people. I don’t tweet anything and don’t want followers.
That’s what I did.
Ok, thanks, I will.
No one should be rolling by your house Ms. TT at anytime for any reason. If they cannot stand the heat they should get out of the kitchen. Kandi and company seem to think that if they piss on our legs we will think it’s raining, and we know that is not the case. IMPO Kandi loves to be praised, but cannot take criticism well, even if it is deserved and constructive. She has put herself in the spotlight, so she and the rest of her squad need to have tougher skin or learn how to grin and bear it because she knew what she signed up for.The personal price she may have to pay for all these shenanigans may be much higher than any check she and Todd may receive from Bravo for the buffoonery they have created.
@ goldenIndigo. I agree . Her writing gigs may dry up after this .
Kandi has not written any successful music since 2001, and it is highly unlikely that will change anytime soon. That ship sailed away when she broke up with Kevin “Shakespeare” Briggs, but no one talks about that situation or her collaboration with Tameika “Tiny” Cottle. However, her first love is acting, and I feel she is working towards acting in any role someone offers her. It is apparent to me that all of this foolishness is being used to help her get a legitimate role ala Nene Leakes on the New Normal. Some people buy her act, but eventually it all will come to an end. On another note, Ms. TTs blog falls under freedom of the press in the digital age. TT can write whatever she likes without the fear of repercussion or intimidation from the public figures who have chosen to televise their lives for fame and fortune, ala She Who Shall Not Be Named. Bonafide celebrities (who hold SAG cards) demanding their privacy is one thing, but reality stars are a different animal that like to have their cake and eat it to. The premise of your show is that you are revealing your “real” life and not acting or playing a character. So, you should not get mad when the public REALLY does not like you and responds harshly to your behavior. Reality personalities have invited the public into their private personal lives, so the public has the right to respond as they please. Do not harass this blogger who is doing her job and recapping your “life” as you presented it to the world. Reality stars cannot have their cake and eat it too.
Try this again … Poofed … I will attempt to sign up for twitter tomorrow for Teecee, how dare some fool block her or you. I’m jealous of her one liners.
I stopped with RHOA, watch snippets in reruns only and can’t stand Kandi’s relationship with her foul thinking Mother.
I’m surprised how unlikable Kandi is on this series. It makes me think that maybe she is just as bad on the RHOA but looks good compared to some wives; Nene, Phaedra and at times Kenya (who is starting to become my new favourite). It’s a tad depressing I can’t marry my bf of 6 years in Australia yet, but people like Todd and Kandi can/are entering into what looks like a clusterfuck of a marriage.
Did you hear the entirecast is returning rhoa……I’m sick no one is making any comments about it
I think Tamara has a few posts on how they are all returning but Nene and Porscha have a lesser role (friend of housewife or maybe only featured in a few episode like Aviva in the NY series).
lol!
I stopped watching the show. It’s been a very long time ,since I stopped. But I do read the (recaps). Which recaps have a very funny take on these shows.
Kandi needs to throw Mama from a train and hope that damn umbilical cord finally gets severed.
Kandi needs a slap to the head.
How can you not defend your beloved.
I think I’m burning brain cells watching these damn fools.
At first I felt Mama Joyce was unfairly horrible, now I see that Kandi enables her horrible behaviour. Sad to watch.
This is the most accurate comment on this blog. Kandi enables Mama Joyce’s foolish behavior. Kandi also creates bullshit when she tells herTodd everything Joyce tells her. Everyone that is married here, do you tell your spouse negative things that your family member says about them? Who does that, Kandi has always been a simpleton to me. I dont care how many middle school lyric sounding songs she has wrote. My ten yr old could have wrote scrubs.
Tanya, I agree with you, I can’t stand Joyce! What is wrong with Kandi??? I did believe Kandi’s father. Why would Kandi tell Todd what Joyce said and expect him not say anything.
The default position that the BRAVO HWs/peripheral show characters/PR people appear to assume via ‘leaks’ to the media, etc., is that their respective shows are partially scripted … of course, we viewers are to infer that scripted shoots predominately occur during those scenes when the characters appear at a disadvantage/less than stellar. I do not feel that Mama Joyce’s neurons synapse at a fast enough rate for her to be adhering to some sort of script. Mama Joyce appears to have been pampered throughout significant points in her life — such that she feels entitled to do/say whatever she feels … without having to suffer real world grown up consequences. (Initially I was wondering if she was evincing some sort of presenile dementia …. ) That being said, I do get the impression that there may be some truth to Mama Joyce’s comments regarding Todd’s parents … Todd doesn’t appear to present with the type of angry/defensive denial that such statements would/should certainly warrant. Either way, one cannot help but feel empathy for Todd’s mother … and hope that if the accusation by Joyce is false … that either a lawsuit for slander ensues or that Mama Joyce is made to publicly retract her statement and issue an apology.
We all know that kandi and todd are married. However, unless kandi puts her foot down and stop her mother, this marriage is doomed. Quite frankly I believe everything kandi’s dad said about his marriage. Wake up kandi. Todd is not going to continue to accept this trashy behavior, and who can blame him.
Well…I read everyone’s comments and agree with them all. Anything I say would just be a repeat. I did however laugh at the remark about MJ’s soggy face cause it definitely looks soggy…yet she constantly remarks how
F-I-N-E she looks. Pretty is as pretty does ……
lol!
I remember the mother. When I used to watch ATL wives. She was humbled,seemed very concerned. And at the time raised (valid points). About the potential previous BF having several children. To be a burden on her. Now from these recaps. I am reading. Sounds like the mother. Did a complete 360. Maybe something is going on with her,medical problem, medication that she is on. That is causing her agitation?
Repulsive show. What was her mom thinking, to showcase herself in such way? I can’t dare imagine, my mother behaving in such ways in her dreams. Much less on a national program. Todd will eventually call it quits. As her mother, is too invested into her/Kandi’s,Todd lives. Scary!
I don’t watch the show and never will. After RHOA I can no longer stomach Mama Joyce because she makes me sick.
From TT’s recap I can see that Kandi is really messy. Why go back to Todd and tell him the hurtful things your wacko mom said about Todd’s parents? Kandi is so lame, Don Juan is worst. BTW how many twitter followers does he have? Does he have as many as Kim Kardashian or Rihanna? Pleassseee have a seat dude.
In summary the show is repulsive and I will not, I repeat I will not be watching. Since TT is out there will be no recaps next week which is fine by me
I can see more and more that Kandi has some of her momma’s fighting ways, the reunion 2 years ago and at this years pj party. Chip off the old block. Kandi is a troublemaker too, passing on to Todd the hurtful things about his parents. Joyce would not know about their life in NY. Then she passes on conversation with her dad to her mom.That’s stupid when you are wanting these people to cooperate with everyone at the wedding. Then she refuses to allow the person she spread the evil talk to, to tell their side or she let them have their rightful anger or discuss with the one that said the stories Kandi is passing around. Kandi is just as messed up as all those women in her family and her friends. She was just lucky to get some talent. I’ve said from the start Todd should run. He is not going to be happy married into all that mess.
I haven’t watched the show due to Joyce. She comes across as so damn hateful to people.
I can understand why Todd questions marrying Kandi, if anyone has to put up with a MIL who is so controlling and in the picture and Kandi refusing to put her foot down or do anything to defend Todd, I wouldn’t put up with it either. Kandi seems to let this go on and on and what does she expect Todd to do, take it for years to come, I don’t think so. What I find funny is that Kandi’s father tells her a story, since there are two sides to every story and she calls him a liar but spreads lies about Todd’s family that she didn’t even know. This is why I believe Kandi’s dad’s story over Joyce, her behavior proves the story via her actions. You may respect your parents but at a certain age the same has to be given to the child when they have their own lives, made millions and have taken care of themselves and their parents, Joyce hasn’t done any of this, she seems more afraid of the piggy bank closing than her child’s happiness which is sad.
Kandi’s dad is fly. He seems like a true gentleman. No wonder he was outy after 2 1/2 years with Joyce. I am ashamed of the storyline. Vilifying a man that died 37 years ago? Calling him a “pimp”? I can’t believe Todd allowed that.
1990 called. It wants “fly” back.
shut it.
On Mon, Jun 9, 2014 at 3:54 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Sure thing, jive turkey.
The 70’s called and said that turkeys stopped jiving when Good Times was canceled.
The 70′s called and said that turkeys stopped jiving when Good Times was canceled
Between TT & TeeCee, I.cannot.get.enough!
(Frankly, you two scare the shit out of me… Would.not.want.to.get.on.your.bad.side!)
But MUST always read for comedic humor. Love it best when someone steps up & tries to rattle your cages..
The Grand Canyon called. It wants it’s echo back.
Its
@teecee…Bwahahahahahahahahahahahah at Grand Canyon wants its echo back..bwaahhhaaaaaaa…teecee you really crack me up…whewwwwww
Kandis mom is a crazy women! How embarrassing! Arguing with her, its like arguing with a 2 yld! You can’t win! But then again maybe she’s not so crazy she did say “She knows how to raise a MILLIONARE” & that’s exactly what she’s doing now!
Let’s see Air time+ratings =$$$$$ for kandi! Jajaja
Good job crazy women!
Momma Joyce is a horrible person for keeping Kandi’s father away from her and her brother. Some ladies keep the father away from the children because their romantic relationship went south or because they man will not give her every little thing she ask for. Momma Joyce is a vile woman and I would not put it past her to use her children as pawns. Where is the level headed peace keeper Momma Joyce from a couple of seasons back on RHOA? She was the one trying to make peace with Nene & Kim, now she calling Todd’s parents a pimp and a whore.
As a professional event planner who has been in the industry for over 20 years, EVERYTHING about Kandi’s wedding planning is offensive to me. LOL ! Mama Joyce can’t call people Pimps & Prostitutes….not cool. I hope Todd’s mama serves Joyce a can of whoop a$$. It’s very clear to me that Mama Joyce has alienated Kandi from her father. Kandi wake up and snatch your momma out her wig! This has to stop.
I read part of the recap, and it’s even worse than I anticipated. I knew I wouldn’t be able to do it. When I saw that was marketed RHOA I automatically deleted it. Mama Joyce? And Kandi and her weakness. No, just no!
I do not know how anyone can like that hateful Mama Joyce! You are so cute when you say “sequence” when we know you mean sequins!
I am out too. I tried to give it a try but will not support this crap. I hate to say this but this marriage will last two years TOPS. Kandi is not marriage material. Why buy the cow when the milk is free. If not for kandi and her millions todd would have been gone a year ago. He loves the lifestyle. What a mess *shaking my head at this disaster*
I’m all for hating these shit people and their low rent words and actions. But everyone who is saying “doomed marriage” — shut tup. I mean, since most marriages end in divorce and since RH marriage have an even worse track record, your not exactly being Kreskin or Dr Phil in your prediction/diagnosis. But further from that is karma. I don’t know who did you wrong or what your so bitter about. But actually rooting against someone’s marriage just seems fucked up to me. If they are happy … And I think that are with some conflict faked for the cameras…. Leave them be.
Oh they are going to stay together. Todd is going to stay on his money train. He may take a woman on the side at one point but he has no intention on leaving Ms. Money bags anytime soon. Hell, all he’ll have to do is threaten to leave or take a job and Kandi will shape up and give into whatever it is he may be demanding. Hey, if it works for the both of them it works. She wanted a husband and he wants financial security. Yes, they both are happy. They both get their needs met.
He had financial security before getting with Kandi. Why is that so hard for some to grasp?!
Some people want MORE! Why is that so hard for some to grasp?
Way to miss the point.
lmfao. Wasn’t looking for a point!!
Dear god.
Find your life will you and stop trying to be the blog tough guy begging for attention. Sheeesssh.
You sound like that Don Juan DeDumbo guy. Lol. Why you using that nic?
You sound like a internet troll that loves to beef on blogs and twitter because you have no life and thinks it’s cute and cool. Why do you think I have this nic? Figure it out genius!!
See ya later tc! I have NO time for people like you.
But…you came back. Twice.
And I like beef. It’s my favorite flavor of meat.
I think that’s what Bravo is trying to trade for ratings though. I couldn’t care less if they make it or not as I don’t know them personally. However, I believe Bravo is hoping people are invested enough to be discussing if they are going to divorce. This for them translates to ratings I guess.
@TT. I suppose you followed Jeffrey Dahmer because, although he had issues, he shared great recipes! Aren’t you just a bit ashamed to be TeeCee’s puppy dog begging for followers for her? This is really TeeCee’s blog. You just work for her.
Ha, ha!!! Annihilation in 5…4…3…2…
You just compared TeeCee to a cannibalistic serial murderer? ….Well prepare to get chewed up and spit out and chewed up again. #LOL
NOM NOM NOM.
I’ll have what you are having, Frappe. I’m sure if I were as delusional as you the panic attacks would stay under control. Do tell, what exactly are you on?
On Mon, Jun 9, 2014 at 10:28 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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@frappe . Wow ! You went way too far . If TT likes tee cee and asks people to follow her thats her business.Why do you feel it necessary to insult her ? Smh and shame on you.
I actually like the show. It’s amazing how Kandi has so much business sense and yet struggles with her relationship with her mom. She was clearly emotionally abused by that woman and that, along with feeling abandoned by her dad, left some deep scars. I hope Kandi works through her issues because I admire how she’s turned all the bad stuff into career success. I love Todd too. He has the patience of a saint.
I have seen a lot of ladies like Momma Joyce ruin their kids. many woman who purposely push the fathers out of the child life so that they can say they struggled all by themselves to care for the kid. The mother than uses guilt to have the now adult child buy her things she don’t need or take care of their basic needs. Only single mothers try that bullshit of wanting a prize for taking care of their children. More times than not these so called “dead beat” fathers in the black community did not abandon their children but were pushed out by women screaming “I don’t need no man”. No one ever thought to tell these women “so what if you don’t? your children do”.
I think so little of the opinions of folks who pull arbitrary, baseless “stats” out of their ass.
I do not see the business sense, I see a bunch of scrunch of faces and lack of respect for Kandi as a business owner. Everyone with money does not have business sense. Kandi does not even appear to have common sense actually. Just the way Mama Joyce likes it
Btw, my comment was not intended to mean that I disagree with you, Frappe.
[b] I just turned on the laptop for the day and there were eleventy billion comments in moderation. Sorry. I don’t know what is going on with that. [/b]
Looks like your bold tags are a little fucky too.
I have not watched this show. Not even once. Kandi Buress is one big bore. I have no interest in watching a bunch of manufactured drama and Mama Joyce bullshit. From reading the recap I have not missed a thing. Sounds like a bunch of bad acting and Kandi stupid as usual. I never liked Kandi. Ever. Ever since she got on RHOA and had her nose stuck up in the air and especially after she let Kim Zolciak use her like she did and then got on the reunion show crying about it. Weak woman!! Ridiculous and silly. Not worth My eyeballs watching her mess.
I agree with you 100%. I have not watched this show either…Kandi is boring and I cannot listen to the ebonics on that show (had enough of a preview from both Kandi and her mom on RHOA). I believe that TT is a gold digger as what self-respecting man would have tolerated MJ and her insults to him and his family if he was not in it for the $. And it is not for love either as he does not have the demeanor of someone head over heels in love. He is always so calculating in my opinion. I don’t actively wish any marriage to fail but I don’t see this one lasting. I will not get over how two-faced Kandi has been on this show, expecially on this year’s reunion show. And she aligns herself with criminals which speaks volumes about her own lack of character.
What character? LOL
I just wish they stop giving her shows.
Mama Joyce and her sisters should have a spin off. They are so hilarious and the reason I tune in!
I’ve watched the two episodes so far, but I really don’t find anything particularly interesting about this show. Kandi isn’t really that fun to watch. Her mother’s comments about Todd are so offensive and she just sits there and lets her have at it. There’s nothing enjoyable.
Something isn’t right with the whole Kandi, Mj and daddy situation. I have a slight suspicion that he may not be Kandi’s biological dad. MJ plus Dad just doesn’t seem to add up to Kandi.
Kandi :Beautiful dark skin. MJ + Daddy: Beautiful light skin.
I will put my tail between my legs in shame and hobbled away if I am grossly mistaken. I am also sending out a prayer to the universe if for forgiveness if I am wrong.
P.S – Tamara, I completely understand if you block this, I am just curious and might have missed where this was discussed somewhere in the show.
@serenity haven’t you been alive long enough to see that it doesn’t matter if one parent is dark and one light ..the child can come out dark light or white ? Haven’t you seen that two light skinned parents can have a dark skinned child? Or two dark skinned parents can have a light skinned child????? Are you serous ? Please educate yourself .
I think the Kandi/MJoyce dynamic is typical of a certain type of black mother who is disappointed that her girlchild came out dark-skinned given the complexion of the parents. Kandi has the behavior of a child who has never had her mother’s approval. Pure speculation, but given how she and her father look, it wouldn’t surprise me.
@ O.O havent you been alive long enough to have heard of Maury? Light skin or Dark skin, KANDI DOES NOT LOOK LIKE ANY one of her aunts, her mother or her father. I have seen two lights make a dark frequently, but I have never seen the dark not look like anyone on both sides of the family. Actually most of the time for some reason the dark child would look exactly like one of the parents or a sibling, uncle, somebody. Kandi may be darker, but she does NOT look like she comes from a father with wavy hair and a narrow nose. Sorry, Kandi looks NOTHING like her DAD. NOTHING.
This light vs dark. Is nonsense. Bio 101= recessive genes. (rr)
just a thought…perhaps Kandi looks like her dad’s side of the family? just a small thought.
she might look like her paternal grandmother or grandfather.
or her dad’s brother or sister.
I find it quite amusing when I watch the maury show (please don’t judge me) and they always scream “he don’t look like me”, “he got a small penis, I have a big penis”, “she don’t look like my son”
I mean, maybe, just maybe, the mum’s genes were also present in the child and she just wasn’t a carrying vessel for the little human?
that makes me laugh. As if the child MUST only look like the father, or the mother. what if the child takes after an uncle/aunt/grandparent?
I just don’t get it.
but oh well, carry on. i’m on the hunt for the long lost milkman…lol.
I can almost ALWAYS tell when they do the side by side picture thing on Maury.
They don’t teach that in biology anymore?
My dear serenity.
Two dark skinned parents can reproduce a light skinned child. My parents both have brown eyes and I have a sister with green eyes. My dad is light skinned my mum is brown skinned and I have a brother who is VERY dark skinned.
So, RVA, what was the skin tone of your milkman? Just Kidding!
On Mon, Jun 9, 2014 at 6:24 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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BWAHHHHAAAAAA wheeewwwwwwwwwwww TT STOP STOP STOP
bwahahahahahahahahahaha @ TT.
sister got the green eyes from grandma.
might have to check the milkman for brother. *grin*
@ Simone carry on in your ignorance I won’t waste my time trying to enlighten you. If that’s what you think so be it.
@rva evidently they don’t so as a result we have a generation of people talking about hair texture skin color and all kinds of foolishness that isn’t based on fact.
My mother looks like no one in my family I mean no one . I don’t look like my mother or father or brother my color is completely different from both of them and my brothers . Guess who popped up who is my moms twin . My daughter . Smh
It’s a shame that people who are dead wrong scream the loudest just strong and wrong.
@ OO carry on with your ignorance that no one ever has a baby that needs a DNA test. I dont care dark or light, KANDI DOES NOT LOOK LIKE EITHER PARENT OR HER AUNTS ON MOM’S SAID, DAMN DO YOU HAVE EYES. ALL CAUGHT UP WITH SKIN COLOR, WELL EXPLAIN THAT NAPPY HAIR AS WELL SINCE YOU ARE THE EXPERT. CLASS DIDNT COVER THAT NEGROID HAIR DID IT.
OMG you must go over to the Bravo site and watch Extended Mama Joyce Interview. Explains it all. Her use of the English language is a wreck.
@ Simone I’ll grant you this last reply because clearly you have not been exposed to much, your horizons need to be broadened. After this reply I will ignore you because I don’t waste my time nor energy on people like you.
Have you seen major of NY’s son ? His Have you seen his hair? His hair is kinky .he has a huge Afro . Not curly . A huge kinky Afro . His father is Lilly white with straight hair Not even a wave ….Please go read a biology book and stop embarrassing yourself .
*mayor not major
WHo the hell are these tv people you talking about? Im 50 and from the south and am mixed. I knew when you said kinky that you were from somewheres else talking about some tv folk. Expand YOUR horizon and come on down south OO and see some real mixed folk ok.come on, I’ll make you a cobbler you wont even be thinking about color after that,,,hahahaha.
Did someone say cobbler? /perks
I watched it and it was pretty funny. I also liked the video Kenya’s impersonations of the girls.
I think Kandi is just being a bridezilla; and as one who has a difficult mother, Todd and his WIFE will find a way to work it out, as my husband and I did.
I gave up on Atlanta Housewives so won’t be watching Kandi’s show. Also gave up on Miami and if they keep showing that nasty father on New York I won’t be watching that either. They wonder why the rating are falling on RHONY, well he has to be a large part of it.
As far as Kandi’s father getting subtitles, I think it has more to do with his tone of voice. I had a fever last night, so I “listened” to the show with my eyes closed… I couldn’t always understand him because he spoke so low.
Two episodes of this is enough, 1 hour of evil ass MJ and crying Kandi is enough for me this has got to be the tackiest wedding I have seen on TV!!!
I might catch it someday on repeat, but I’m out too. I want to remember the Kandi that I liked…the one who told NeNe off in her 1st Season or said at the Reunion she’d buy and sell all of them. (to paraphrase her “Sugar Mama” comeback). I’m no longer a fan and it’s not the editing. It’s that best case scenario she’s an unlikeable, damaged daughter. Worst case scenario, and the one I believe to be true – Kandi is exploiting her batshit Mama and her husband’s family as a routine BRAVO famewhore with no boundaries for a story line. (Something I first suspected when she revealed MJ had stolen $$/opened credit cards in her name @ the last Reunion). If $$$ isn’t the issue, why do this?
Just like her Wedding….not a good look.
I refuse to watch Kandi reveal who she really is now that there aren’t any other housewives around to overshadow her “ghettoness”.
If Mama Joyce is not playing a role and Todd is not in on this for the money, I expect he will get his swerve on as usual until he’s had enough of these two. And he will leave with the Rolex watch and all the other gifts, the money he saved while in this relationship, and his sanity.
Joyce needs medication very badly.
Is thorazine still prescribed? That’s the old medication they used to give to people before deinstitutionalization when the mentally ill were warehoused. That’s what Joyce needs.
If only that were the case…unfortunately, I think that is who she is. Sigh…..
Just curious if there was some statistical data to confirm that Kim was more “likeable” during her wedding show. She was exactly the same IMO. Also between all the side boob dresses and Mom drama I was certain some people were turned off.
I agree about the wedding show, but I think she was more likeable in the second season…
In my family you either burn or tan in the summer. In the winter everyone is identical.
Anybody know what Joyce’s rapsheet is?
Hmmmmm that’s a good question. With that behavior maybe she does have a rap-sheet
Wait a minute . . . I’m totally weirded out by the “somebody” in the black Range Rover! Time to hit up your intel friends for some security (cameras, lights, etc). We know you already have the monster dog. That’s a little scary, Tamara!
I feel so sorry for todd.
Bravo has two videos with MJ and one is called “I’m through with you” and the other is “Mama Joyce vs the thruth” and you see her lying interspersed with video PROVING that she is a liar…very funny.
I’ve seen all of about two minutes of this show. I know reality is scripted now, but the scene where Todd bringsy her breakfast in bed and their dialog after was just to much for me. So I just come here to read Tamara updates, good enough for me lol.
Thanks, Tamara for taking one for the team and watching this because I cannot. I enjoy reading your recaps, but it shows me that I’ve made the right decision by not watching. I love Kandi and watching her inability to be a grown woman and defend her man makes me not like her, so I knew I couldn’t watch this hot mess.
And yes, they are being SNEAKY by trying to make it an Atlanta episode. My DVR automatically records and I automatically delete!
If you don’t have anything nice to say about Todd, then go sit next to Mama Joyce! I didn’t watch this episode. Wild animals at a wedding don’t amuse me. Pun intended.
Momma Joyce needs to realize that kids often do as we do, not as we say. Momma Joyce can smell Todd’s shadiness from a mile away, just as Todd can smell Kandi’s desperation from a mile away. So Momma Joyce, how many men have you had that were just trying to be with you to get close to Kandi’s money? A lot I’m sure. Kandi is following in your footsteps, and patterning her life on your life. Perhaps after she goes through a few Todds, she will see the light as you have. Your job is to be loving, and to be there to help pick up the pieces. Momma Joyce and Kandi need to get counseling to break this cycle so it won’t be repeated with Riley. Just a different perspective.
Moma Joyce just wants what best for her daughter. I Todd loves Kandi the way he say he does. Then their shouldn’t be a problem signing the prenup I mean she has a daughter she has to think about.
Momma Joyce is a disgrace and embarrassment. Kandi needs to check her real soon. Otherwise, her marriage will not work. I will not be surprise if Todd files for divorce from Kandi. He will wait until it’s beneficial for him given the prenup terms. Todd seems to be the best thing that has happened for Kandi in terms of a mate. AJ had way too many kids, Todd has one from what I remember.
Teecee can bring her miserable ass out again and attack me again but I stand by my previous words: “Kandi deserves to be miserable and die alone” . How the fuck can she get an attitude with Todd for reacting to what her disgusting mom said. She deserves everything that’s coming to her. I didn’t believe Todd was an opportunist but I sure hope that he worked out some details to wipe Kandi out come divorce time
you do realize that you are posting on the site of someone who is miserable and dying alone, right?
I would not wish it on anyone.
On Sun, Jun 15, 2014 at 12:19 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Kandi you shouldn’t tell Todd everything your mother say about him because what he don’t know want hurt besides you’re the one hurting.
Except for the fact that he will then see it on tv and be mad at her for not telling him. My problem with her is that when she drops those bombs, she acts like Todd better not dare to act upset about it.