When last we paid attention to the sad and bitter custody battle between Tamra Judge and Simon Barney, Tamra was making a public appeal to us through her Bravo blog. She wanted to let us know how much being a mother means to her. She told us how sorry she was that this was playing out on social media and how her 15 year old daughter had shut down all of her accounts do avoid cyber bullying. Tamra’s primary focus is on being a mother to her children.
As parents we are NOT perfect and we make mistakes, but family is everything. I had to hide my tears daily to protect Sidney from this getting out and being made public. Fifteen is a very hard age and I knew if this went public it would be SO hard on her. But now that all this info has been released we have to deal with the public pain as well. I have been called some pretty harsh names in the press like “Monster Mom” and my daughter has had to deal with some mean comments on her social media — she decided it was best to shut it down. We continue to work on our relationship with the help of a therapist, and some days things seem good and others, she pulls away.
They are working though their issues privately, with a therapist you see. Tamra was going to be the best darn mom there is and soon we will all see that this whole situation is about Simon being mean and vindictive. But now, the previews for the of the RHOOC are airing. Those previews make Tamra look like a lunatic. So what does she do?
Well, this mother of the year posts the above picture on her twitter feed. Because nothing says June Cleaver like posting a picture that reveals you recently got a Brazilian on the Internet. There was backlash very quickly. Tamra took the image down, but not before someone felt the need to alert Simon to her activities.
I can already see Tamra objecting to all the big words in the court battle. Meanwhile, I’ve never looked at Simon’s twitter before, but as of now it’s like a shrine to his children and his outstanding parenting skills.
I just can’t with that picture. She has zero self awareness. How could she think is appropriate with the custody shit storm that is brewing…
All Simon need to do is take tape of bathroom scene with Eddie to court and he will rule she is a shank!
She is the most insecure, self absorbed skank on TV and her husband is bisexual. Yes, I know him and this is true. He saw an opportunity with Tamra and took it. He knew EXACTLY what he was doing and enjoys the perks of her fame (free trips, gifts, etc..) and Bravo income which ultimately gave them the ability to open their business. If he hadn’t pursued her, he would still be working at the law firm as a glorified debt collector. It will only be a matter of time before she catches him with another woman OR MAN! She is an idiot and comes from a low class shit for brains family. I’ve got to hand it to her though, she’s cleaned up her mother well. It’s amazing what a little money can do. I remember seeing her mom at Tamra’s 40th birthday party, Simon (Bravo) threw for her and I’m telling you if you want a visual think of a manager of a trailer park deep in the Carolinas who smokes two packs a day. Puffing away on a cig, has that smokers voice, looked like she was missing a tooth when she laughed. I about flipped when I saw her at Tamra’s wedding! The transformation was incredible and all I could think of was at least some of that Bravo salary was well spent. PREDICTION: Tamra will catch Eddie cheating and a divorce will happen. This marriage will be finito in two or three years.
Thank you StrungoutOnBravo for confirming some of my suspicions about
Eddie. The first time I thought Eddie was having problems getting turned on to Tamra was the bathtub scene. Eddie needed to fortify himself with wine before getting in the tub!!! Hilarious. Then it hit me that Eddie plays for the other team…but then so did Tamra…so they are a perfect fit. This unusual arrangement could be upsetting and confusing to teenage children.
We’ve got a name for gals like this in the South…”Sling Nasty”.
It’s a good damn thing that her daughter shut down her acct. Cause for sure she’d get plenty of copies. Tamra…you mindless twit!!!
Even if Tamra was not on TV and was just a random person on the street who has children, this would not be acceptable behavior. Her children have to go to school and hear about how their mother’s hoohaw was all over the Internet.
On Thu, May 22, 2014 at 7:52 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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it really is so ridiculous. i felt for her at first… but come on really? and like you said, its just not acceptable behavior for ANY mother to act this way.. i cant wait for the next few RHOC episodes- the one when shes sprinting out of the restaurant saying “you will never see my face again, goodbye… then shreaks GET AWAY FROM ME” hahaha i cannot. i just dont even know.. it seems like its time to re-diagnos and get her on the proper meds.
Well, when her daughters start stripping for Instagram or whatever, she can’t say a thing.
@strungout on Bravo
@Draclkula
Wow i heard. rumors that he was was bisexual for a long time now i actually actually found it hard it to believe but you actually knowing him sheds a different light
I have noticed that hrs somewhat not turned on by Tamra explains it.
I had on idea that Tamra swings both ways either i suppose that’s makes em a perfect couple but i can’t see it last
allegedly! lol and if Kim K can marry a gay man, who are we to um, Judge.
On Sun, May 25, 2014 at 3:36 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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WHAT!! WTF have i been Kanye is gay or are you referring to Chris Humphreys.
Really this is the 1st time I’ve EVER heard Kanye was gay he certainly doesn’t act it & seems in love with Kim or should i say obsessed
Yes, Kanye and his traveling “clothing designer”, right?
Kanye’s boyfriend ALLEGEDLY! works for Givenchy and designed Kim’s wedding dress.
On Wed, May 28, 2014 at 9:41 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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wow this has really surprised me. Like they say you learn something everyday Hah
It’s just the only person on this twits mind is herself.
@TT and Kkarma I’m surprised that everyone can’t see that kanye is an angry gay man . His behavior is that of a 15 year old girl.
Kayne is a gay man who wants something he can dress up and play with. Allegedly.
On Sun, May 25, 2014 at 12:48 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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That’s news to me.
Oh i know he has major anger issues but i never thought or even crossed my mind he’s gay that’s prob why he’s so angry.
I was surprised that he wanted to organize & have a lot of input in the wedding but i just assumed he was a show off & won’t wanted to make his & Kim wedding the best he’s always been a show boat
He even tell Kim how & what to wear she went blonde because he wanted her to again i thought it’s because Beyonce has the same color & we all know how much her admires her & Jay Z .
I don’t think this marriage will last too long I’ve always felt that way i also feel Kim is afraid of him.
This is her 3rd marriage but not her last hope Im wrong i think she’s very attractive but i don’t understand why she’s a celeb she has no skills ie sing act etc.
Tamra has never impressed me as being that bright and her daughter is right. She is selfish. Being on TV does something to most people. It makes them do things that had they not been on television they would have never seen themselves doing. It just tells me that her life is unstable and unraveling, her marriage is unstable and I just picture her one day being all alone with a lot of wrinkles, no kids, no husband and God forbid, no Bravo. But she’ll have that bikini wax on instagram because at least people will believe she is somehow relevant. Sad.
On the positive side, her abs are amazeballs!
On Thu, May 22, 2014 at 8:07 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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It looks like she edited this picture so much, she removed her belly button.
I forgot to say that! She could have shown those off and still post a decent photo to make her kids proud. Vanity burns brain cells.
Oh God! Do NOT ask Tamra about her belly button! I asked last year. She got pissed and blocked me. Apparently she had an emergency surgery that resulted in the loss of her belly button.
LOL Victoria!!!
Id show those off too
I am dying right now @Victoria’s comment! Holy Hell! Now that was some funny shiz right there. Thx for the laugh! Made me post for the first time! 😉
On another note, first time poster here….TT I love your site and I come here several times a day to check in. You are witty and straight forward and I enjoy your spirit. You have smart ‘posters’ on this site (well most of you) and the few crazies just add to the tea, they are like the ‘stir sticks’ of the tea party. Thanks for the daily laughs and for keeping me updated on all of my favorite shows. Be Blessed!
Victoria you made me LOL! Many people lose belly buttons with tummy tucks. I have had many pelvic and abdominal surgeries, and some were emergency based, I still have my belly button, they cut around it every time. I was a nurse before becoming disabled, never came across a patient that lost a belly button unless they had an abdominoplasty.
I am cracking up at Victoria’s comment lol lol lol
I don’t think the outfit was that bad or revealing. The mirror in the background, however is hideous.
If she were single it would be fine. A bit self-involved, but fine. Tamra has worked hard to get in that shape. Sadly, she needs to ask everyone to tell her how great she looks to the point of posting her pubic area online. I’m sure she gets compliments all the time AT THE GYM. Why is that not enough for her?
On Thu, May 22, 2014 at 8:14 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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She’s a childish mess. I am not impressed with her as a parent. I’ve never seen her with the young ones. But her relationship with her grown son is a little hinky
Dear gawd, its like Demi Moore’s moment just before her marriage went ** Poof **. The second a woman bases her entire value on being perceived as “the hot mom” it’s all downhill from there.
A couple of seasons ago, Tamra and Vicki were relentless in their pursuit to prove that Slade was an unfit deadbeat. Now Tamra is on the brink of losing custody of her kids and Vicki’s kids have no respect or time for her. Gretchen & Slade must be somewhere giggling now. Karma…
Yes their giggling on the new Marriage Bootcamp…Celebrity edition. lol
Ok so they are ALL fame whores. lol
Is she friends with Brandi G?
She was on the Andy show and mentioned having dinner with Brandi… and Brandi wasn’t a waste case when they went out (paraphrasing).
Hmmmm… through the eyes of Tamra, I would say that doesn’t mean very much.
i always got the impression that if tamra were never on RHOC, she would still be married, raising her children with simon. i enjoy tamra’s one liners on the show, she does make for good tv, but her personal life is a mess. she is the most self-absorbed person i have ever seen.
This is why I’ve stopped watching OC. These women are really sad and depressing. Life is hard enough as it is, I don’t need their pathos in my living room as well.
Tamara, in my humble opinion, is very self absorbed so much so that she doesn’t realize it. I believe she is sincere in her desire to be a good parent but she doesn’t have good judgement because self absorption doesn’t allow too much self reflection.
I thought that it was great that she met Eddie because he doesn’t want kids and she already has four. Rather than focusing on her current kids she wants to give her husband a child that he would prefer not to have. Selfish. I think she just wants to anchor the relationship with a child.
Sad. I haven’t seen the previews. How is she acting crazy – partying or fighting??
She runs off from some event, ripping off her mic screaming that they will never ever see her again… or something. I have a terrible memory for details, I’m sure my commenters can fill you in much better than I. Are you new? If so welcome!
Tamra, not Tamara :), is extremely vain. She used her looks to bag Simon and his money way back when and left him when she made her own money and cougars Eddie now. She is threatened by any hotter housewife. Over her.
Tamra doesn’t seem to understand the line between appropriate and inappropriate behavior. I can’t help but think about her looking at family photos a few years back on RHOOC. There was one of her and her father in front of his birthday cake. I immediately froze my television screen because I was shocked but what I thought I was seeing……….sure enough it was a titty cake!!!!! Anyone surprised?
I must admit she’s got a gr8 body. As for custody battle with Simon this does look good WTH is she thinking
hey TV my post didn’t come up
hey TT forget the last post it was posted sorry for the error
It takes a lot of time to film with Bravo. You only have so much time to start a new bus, film, party, holiday, and mother. Tam isn’t able to have her cake and eat it too… something has to give. Stepping out of the limelight and nurturing her children to be healthy adults should be at the top of her ‘to do’ list. Unfortunately, Tam is in an arrested development stage of her life. It’s as if she is frozen in her teens. We all become fading beauties, its just that some of us understand how to age gracefully.
i’m not saying it’s the rule, because obviously there are exceptions everywhere – but it’s been my experience, that women who have children very young (teens, 20ish) seem to have that arrested development you are talking about. it’s like they had to grow up so fast, that they go back and do all their “fun” that most people do in college (or college age years) later in life. my former sister in law is a perfect example – twins in high school, and when she hit 26 she decided she was unhappy, divorced her husband, went out clubbing every night and immediately hooked up with a rich(er) guy in california and married him.
Her knee looks bizarre.
Maybe she’s feeling insecure becuase Eddie is younger and good looking?
Oh shut up about her knee. Really? She looks fabulous. That is not the point. Why must women pick at any possible little thing they can about how another woman looks.
She looks FANTASTIC.
It is her BEHAVIOR that is bad. Just like YOUR behavior.
On Thu, May 22, 2014 at 9:38 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I completely agree with your comment! She is physically beautiful. Very fit and looks fabulous, but you’re right, that is not what is relevant here. The issue is she is in a custody fight and this is the last thing you want to put out there if you’re trying to keep your shared parenting arrangement. Also, what is she teaching her 15 year old daughter? This photo translation to me says “Look at me, Look at me, I’m so hot and I need to read all your comments telling me so…” She is basically a very insecure woman craving attention.
I agree. She looks great but sadly her behavior also needs a makeover. She’s had to work hard for that body…..”at the end of the day”… lol…is it too early to drink?
Remember her bachelorette party? That alone should show a court what poor judgment she exercises.
She also hosted the ‘Naked Wasted’ party. But sadly, Simon did, too. I also recall he lost his good job and the family home.
Since Eddie, Tamra seems to have calmed down a lot, and because of her’s and Simon’s having the bank take their house, it makes sense that she would work as much as she does, thinking, that can’t ever happen to my kids and me again. Obviously, though, she doesn’t know how to balance.
I think for a while before her divorce, she was the sole support of Simon and the kids.
Did I read here he wants child support (or more of it)?
It is possible Tamra could tell a judge that the public Tamra is a persona she’s adopted to keep the Bravo money flowing…. Sadly, we’ve seen how some of the Housewives (and men, too), lose their shite for the Andy dollar.
For the record, I don’t think Tamra should lose her kids. I do think she is acting a fool during the time before the court case.
On Fri, May 23, 2014 at 10:03 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I agree, her body is beautiful. I know from owning the gym she works hard, but she also has the money to keep aging at bay via the doctors an treatments, if I was rich and healthy, I would do the same… but in recent years, her face has taken on such a harshness, I do not think she is pretty at all, I’m not being mean, but she seems to wear the crazy on her face. One thing I now notice with many of these ageless rich beauties, their hands, age always shows in the hands. Ramona and Sonya are good examples, they are beauties, who look much younger, but look at their hands. Tamra’s show her age. I would love to have her body, her hair… but if the eyes are the window to the soul, she is troubled.
Seriously, are you kidding? Eddie is creepy with those big teeth and that weird perpetual grin. Tamra is a mean old-girl who wants a baby just to try to show she’s not too old. Worst reason for wanting a baby. She has serious anger issues, also. Not a nice person, not a nice mother.
i have to remind myself that eddie is with tamra, so apparently there is something off about him, but he seems like a somewhat intelligent human being. you would think he would tell her “gee, that doesn’t seem like a great idea to post something like that.” but i’m sure tamra would flip out on him and tell him to stop trying to control her like simon. tamra seems to perceive anyone trying to give her good advice as either controlling her (simon) or thinking they are better/smarter than her (heather). tamra probably had that in her wedding vows – you will never, EVER, try to tell me what to do.
I find Eddie creepy. It is his creepy smile with 20 exta teeth.
I see something in Eddie too. Something that makes me uncomfortable or at least suspicious. I feel he’s hiding some aspect of his personality that’s bubbling right there under the surface that will come to light later on. Not the bisexual stuff because Tamra while keeping her sexual escapades under wraps and away from the cameras is probably in concord with that aspect of their relationship. I’m talking about something totally different that will bust their relationship wide open. It won’t take long. Like others, I don’t see this lasting. How could it? It was spawned on Bravo. Marriage by Bravo! Bad odds.
I don’t think Eddie is in love with Tamra since their marriage his demeanor towards her has changed it seems to me that she just doesn’t do it for him only season why he married her coz of the the it gave him a platform.
This is why he doesn’t want a child with Tamra he knows this is not a long term marriage at times i feel when if looks at her he’s disgusted just my opinion
To me, she looks like she could eat a sandwich… or two. Maybe eat one of those frozen dinners she is reported to feed her kids.
Nobody tells a guy to eat a sandwich. I get the point of the picture, it is look how flat I got my abs after having four babies. That is a huge and admirable accomplishment. The nature of the picture considering she is a mother or children with Internet access is appalling.
She does not need to eat a sandwich.
Can I has her cheeseburger?
On Thu, May 22, 2014 at 9:39 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Yes Tamara!! That drives me insane when people say that about women. When I was younger I was very thin (not so much anymore lol) & people would always say shit like that to me. Drive me insane. .especially when I would eat more than them! I think Tamra looks healthy and fit as can be! As a mom of three that is younger than her, I am envious for sure!
I know!!! She’s one of my least favorite housewives but I want all her cheeseburgers!!! I’m her age – actually a tad bit older and never had children…damn, she looks good!
i remember when she first cam on the show and she had many more curves and looked good then, now she looks amazing. i love her one liners even if i do not love her, she could be aa really great fun person if she weren’t so down right mean and nasty. her first season you could tell she loved her kids and as the seasons went on she had less interaction with them and simon was all up in her shit to be more responsible and all. then the divorce and he barred them from filming so she has nothing else, she has eddie and the show to try and show how amazing she is. i find it sad that she has zero self esteem and needs to pull others to her level. her antics are those of a mean sorority girl looking to stay on top. i am sure that simon knew if he gave ehr enough rope she would hang herself and she has it appears
Having fought a cancer battle for nine years, I now have to fight malnutrition due to my body’s inability to absorb. I have been on both sides of the fence, and have to tell you, I wore big baggy clothes to hide my figure when I had extra pounds, and I do the same to hide skin and bones. A lesson I could learn from many of our Bravo favorites, be confident and love yourself. I know not all of them do. Tamara T. I loved your reply about the knees, we do need to support each other, not pick someone apart all the time, you just don’t know what that person has gone through. I love the HW’s, but I would never want my life to be exposed on camera. The price of fame is too high for me 🙂
WOW u’ve been through much i hope ur feeling better now ie all the cancer has gone.
I agree with you & TT us women should support each other as you said you don’t know what that person is battling I myself have a small frame my whole life i don’t diet i don’t exercise Im 5ft 3″ and only just weigh 7 stone it really pisses me off when i get accused of being anorexic or bulimic Im not that’s just my metabolism
I’d be happy to offer myself up as a fat transplant donor! I think my current obesity is KARMA for my young rail thin self. I swore I would never be a double digit size. I was also pissed that my pelvic bones stuck out. I also hated that my hips sunk in on the sides instead of being rounded. In college I lost ten pounds one weekend on a camping trip that was basically drunken debauchery. I was terrified my mother would notice and know I spent three days drunk on an island in a lake drinking beer and eating only oreos. (there were rules about ground fires we were not aware of so could not cook the meat we had brought.)
l was a rail and never understood how people could “let themselves” get so fat. And now I’m a wonderwhale. Sometimes it just happens.
On Sun, May 25, 2014 at 1:59 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I wish you both ladies the best of luck the only thing that being big or skinny is the health issues that comes with both weights I’ve NEVER judged over weight or skinny people every body is different and their metabolism is different factor in health issues &family history.
At the end of the day we’re all the same we hurt we cry we blend we laugh. Everybody esp women should be comfortable with themselves it’s hard when people are constantly judging u
Be happy for who you are and shake off the judgmental haters i know it’s easy to say than do but if i can do it so can everyone else
You’ve got that right. Or better yet, her behavior at her Bachelorette Party when the Mexican stripped stuck his head between her legs, ON CAMERA. A terrible way to behave. I feel so bad for her young daughter. No wonder she doesn’t want to live with Tamra. I would have died of shame if my mother behaved that way. Seriously Tamra, cop a clue girl. You behave like an idiot.
Tamra is a “bump it with a trumpet” kind of girl. But then . . . . she IS a Bravo Housewife and in the body business! It’s sad that all of this very personal family business is played out in the media for her children and their friends to see. Of course she dropped her accounts. Simon is an ass! Just like Sherry Sheppard’s husband . . . It’s hard to believe that couples who once loved each other can inflict so much pain.
God, this woman needs more attention than a 13 year old girl…YOU ARE 45~~start acting like the mother, wife, and business owner you are and stop acting like a 20 year old stripper.
She happened to annoy the shit out of me today. On FB she posted pics of them in cowboy duds I suppose dressed for Heathers party. Her youngest girl was in the photos and since she wasnt allowed to film, she was hanging out in the production tent. WTF? The idea is not to expose the child to the ridiculousness, not just the exposure. She’s an idiot. And she deletes comments about it lol. I’ve never done that before, but it hit a nerve. She’s clueless.
i remember her stating in one reunion it was in their divorce papers that their children were not allowed to watch bravo. or at least not watch RHOC. so how is she allowed to bring the youngest around her filming activities? she says that sophia just really really really wants to be on the show (what mom lets her daughter make decisions like that at that age) but i think part of her just really gets off on how much that must aggravate simon. another point for tamra, using your children to piss off your ex.
Oh Tamra, you are 46 NOT 16, you should know better! So she’s in a custody battle with her ex and she tweets this for all to see??? Has she lost her mind? When I see things like this it is laughable. No wonder her teenage daughter doesn’t want to see her. The inappropriate photos, the soft porn bathtub scene with Eddie, her mean girl shenanigans on the show, etc… I think Lizzie, the new housewife is correct, Tamra is clearly insecure and is constantly looking for affirmation that she looks hot. She gets my vote for the most immature, self absorbed, psychotic housewife of all. She can also quit with the fake tears and trying to convince everyone she’s scared of losing shared custody of her children. Actions speak much louder than words.
I stopped watching OC ages ago because of Tamra. When she got Gretchen “naked wasted” and sent her convict son to date rape her. She sucks.
THIS is exactly why I can’t tolerate her or her antics. I felt so sick watching that episode!!
Oh I remember that. And Gretchen did not give in, she wasn’t drunk enough to forget about her man. Tamra has been notoriously vicious in seasons past. Supposedly, she has changed, per Tamra.
she hasn’t changed, she has just lost some weight and toned up and looks great. she is still the same nasty bitch she has always been. she can fake cry at the drop of the hat. how she pursues her victims is almost obsessive at times. she is very very pretty and it is sad that she is so ugly on the inside.
If brains were made of cotton, Tamra wouldn’t have enough to make a ski vest for a piss ant. She is in the middle of a custody battle with Simon and is basically giving him all the ammunition he needs to get custody. I’m sure she is proud of her body but damn you would think someone would say to her that inappropriate pictures are a stupid move. Looks like we know which is more important…herself or her children.
I don’t like Tamara but I don’t see the big deal about the photo. Moms can be sexy and sexual and still good mothers. She is married and not bringing random men home. That to me would be an issue. But I think there is a double standard for women in this regard. She looks great, who cares if she wants to show it off?
I think the point is that it is in poor taste(pulling sash down to show her waxing) especially durning a custody battle. Plus for the sake of the child(ten) who’s friends and classmates see this, it doesn’t bode well.
@MicroOp, I think the issue is that she is in a bitter custody battle with her ex husband who has been presenting himself as father of the year.
You’re right, there’s a double standard, and there’s nothing wrong with the picture, however, when you are in a custody battle as I have been, you are extra careful not to do anything that will give the other side ammunition against you.
no matter how innocent or harmless it looks, dad could find a way to spin this into something else. (I just can’t think of a spin right now)
Ok I see, I just feel like it’s dumb to bring to court when he can easily just show footage of her being mean, but I guess she has to be extra careful. I just hate “slut shaming”. I have never taken a photo like that in my life but I don’t judge her for it.
I’ve had partially nude photos of me taken and was quite proud of them. But I’d never have posted them online if there was a chance my kids would see them (custody battle or not). Too me, she has to know that she shouldn’t be doing this, but she did it anyway. So this is a self-destructive selfie, probably aimed at the kids. I think she loves her kids, but I also think sometimes she hates them. Take that you brats. Now you can stay with your dad since I’m so bad.
The issue is, a 45 year old should not be showing pussy or dick shots all over the web ESPECIALLY when said person is a parent to young children. Be sexy but classy. Why do people think the only way to be sexy is to show your ass?
For me, if she was on vacation and took a bikini picture with her family or whatever it would not be so….inappropriate.
On Fri, May 23, 2014 at 1:21 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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@microOp
I was just thinking the same thing, because I think the bathroom scene was worse – probably aimed to piss off Simon mainly, but how embarrassing for her kids!!
If my mother would have tweeted a picture of herself like this when I was 15, I would have wanted to crawl in a hole never to come out again. So, so shameful. Even though children mature earlier now days, at 15 a young woman is still searching for her sexual identity and this behavior by the strongest same sex role model of her life is disgusting and sends the wrong message. Tamra looks good but seeing that she is a mother, taking a selfie with a hairless fur pie and posting it for the world to view lacks good judgement and moral character. Tamra is all about sex. That tells me she lacks the “it” factor. A woman either has “it” or she doesn’t. Tamra will never have “it”. Never. I feel sorry for the abuse she has caused her children when they have to suffer the callous and biting remarks of their peers. Most mothers would walk barefoot through hell, endure suffering that knows no boundaries if it meant protecting their children from harm. This idiot intentionally caused pain.
Exactly Dracla, I think this selfie was self-destructive. “hairless fur pie,” lol.
i was gonna say the same thing
Tamra’s body is amazing and in the last show she said that she felt pressure to look good for Eddie at the gym. Had she posted a pic of her in a bikini at the beach or just in a bikini no one would have batted an eyelash. She is bottomless in this picture with the cover up looking like it is going to fall from her body. It is totally inappropriate for a mother with daughters who is going through custody issues.
I have seen Simon be an ass and I don’t know if he will be motivated to ask for support if he wins however, he must be doing something right if the daughter wants to live with him. That may sound harsh…but true.
Personally, I just feel like only in America would the display of a mothers sexuality be an issue. We are just so culturally conservative, and I don’t feel like this photo has anything to do with her ability to parent.
Anyway Simons girlfriend has lingerie photos all over the internet. So if he tries to use this against Tamra, she has that in her pocket.
The photo is a reflection of poor judgement which can affect one’s ability to be an effective parent. It is less about her sexuality than the appropriateness of this picture.
There would not have been any negative comments of her in a string bikini on the beach or a tweet about a new bikini that she purchased and was sharing with her fans. It is the context..
Just like a bikini and a bra and panty set can show the same level of nudity however, one is viewed as appropriate for wearing on a beach while one is not..
You guys do realize that she probably has bottoms on, but she is pulling em down on that side to show that cut (line) in her abs right? The V cut is very hard to achieve; so my take is she stupidly was showing it off. Dumb…yep! Even more dumb to post on the interweb when you are under all sorts of scrunity…yep! But let me say this; if she were a man this would not be an issue. Double standards for sure!!
P.S. I’m not a Tamra fan by any means. Just calling it how I see it.
She was at a pool party Saturday and someone made a comment where did your half naked picture go. This may be the one he was talking about. There were kids there also.
That’s horrible & so embarrassing for her children. Especially boys that are the age of her oldest daughter..can you imagine her days at school & what they must say about it? So sad.
I love her choice of baseball hat, sun glasses and scarf for bathing suit bottoms.
Great body, but what was thinking posting this photo?
Tamra is nuts on so many levels.
I don’t see how she can work in a health club all day and take care of three kids and cook nutritious meals and have structure. She needs a live-in Nanny. She needs help. She doesn’t have a 9 to five job.
I remember Elizabeth from the view saying what a blessing it was to work there because they work 16 hours a week. After taping they go home. This is not that type of tv job. No structure or set hours.
Also, in the last show Tamara said she needed Ryan to take charge of installing a water line and a washer and dryer because tamra was tired of taking all the towels home to launder at the end of each day…how long has the health club been opened for them to still not have laundry facilities?? Shouldn’t Ryan have taken care of this long ago? Oh yeah, she also needs a competent mgr.
I’m struggling with these women who want to have kids, Tamara crying saying she wants a baby with Eddie, only to shove the responsibility on to a nanny or some hired help. If Tamara wants to be a stay at home mom, nothing is stopping her but pure stupidity and tv.
Well I guess Ryan doesn’t work there anymore because on her fb it says that he moved 8 hours away and is getting married. The woman he is marrying already has children, so he will be a step father as well. I have never been on her fb before, but all of this made me curious so I wanted to go check it out.
Apparently, she doesn’t get enough attention. Oh brother…
Actually, what Tamra needs to do is NOT go to a dinner party at someone’s home, crawl up onto their kitchen counter, lie down face up and suggest it’s time to do shots. This being one of a multitude of idiotic things she has done. I don’t believe there is any hope for her and the children are better off anywhere else but her home.
According to RT, these women have better bring on the cra cra or Bravo is cancelling contracts….its gonna get bad real soon
Kids are expendable, fame is not. This is how this show destroys lives. It’s like selling your soul to the devil for fame and money. Who ever said kids matter in this equation. I really feel badly for her children. Kids are embarrassed by their parents even if they aren’t doing anything embarrassing, can you imagine their horror and what she has subjected them too.
One day there will be rehab for ex-Bravolebrities (Bravo Anonymous) where they go to understand what they did to ruin their lives and try to recover, ask forgiveness for all those they hurt, and find the strength to resist networks like Bravo in the future (12-step style). They don’t realize it now but the damage will already be done when they finally do. Bravo is creating its own brand of bad karma for what they are doing to facilitate self-destruction. Kinda evil if you ask me.
I saw a TV listing recently, I forget the particulars, a new show comprised of people, women I think, whose marriages failed due to being on reality shows. I thought that sounds pretty f’d up. These people never learn. Maybe some kind of rehab is a part of it. I hope fame whore Dr. Drew, Dr Jen, or the LA County Dr. What’shis name are not part of it. They are as bad as anyone.
Wow Ange!. I’m not surprised, it’s a completely natural segue for yet another reality show. RealityRehab. It may become necessary to add a caveat in their contracts, “your performance role is at your own risk. No warranty is expressed or implied that you will not ruin your life or lose your mind as a result of your participation in said reality show and we are therefore held harmless.”
That verbiage would be mild compared to the language of the Bravo contracts that say all sorts of things like we can make you look like a complete fool, we are not liable for any damage to your reputation, business, marriage, livelihood, mental anguish, and on and on and on and on.
I once applied for Big Brother just because I wanted to go to the auditions and check out who was applying. I was somehow chosen to move forward and sent the legal documents I had to sign before playing along any further. There was no way on God’s green earth I was signing that contract. I think I still have it somewhere. They wanted all medical records, wanted to do psychiatric evaluations and none of that would be private. Remember the guy with the herpes meds or whatever that they put all over the show? Literally, every aspect of your life, your job, your medical records, your family, anything and everything was signed over. It was ridiculous.
On Fri, May 23, 2014 at 7:41 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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@TT I don’t know why any sane person would subject themselves to this shit. Ergo this is why 95% of the casts are batshit crazy to begin with. So I see, they want to know everything so they can have behaviorists analyze the data to see who the likely certifiables are that will make for the best entertainment. I’ve often wondered what their screening criteria was What whores, demons. The reality shows that is. Are there any safe places in the world anymore. Well I don’t watch to see people destroyed, I’m just coming to these conclusions and seeing it for what it is. It reminds me of when I told my son when he was 9 yrs.old that the WWE was all fake. He didn’t believe me. Until about a month later, he could see that it was. Then he wouldn’t watch any more. Felt kinda bad busting his bubble, but it’s the same. When you really analyze everything, it just isn’t as entertaining anymore. But I love to analyze so there’s that.
@Frappe
Oh God, yes!! Now THAT under the circumstances was even more stupid than the photo or bathroom romp scene.
oh come on, women dont lose custody for posing nude for playboy/penthouse, not in this day and age. and, horrifically, spouse murderers dont lose custody of their kids. much ado about nothing, here. if i looked that good i’d be posting the shot, too.
I see your point. I just think the custody issue is that she is so self involved that she doesn’t focus on parenting.
On Fri, May 23, 2014 at 2:34 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Tamra may not lose custody of the child but she is losing the child. The children have eyes and ears and obviously their hearts have been broken by some of Tamra’s erratic and thoughtless antics. In my opinion she could care less what the children think. She is more concerned about what the public thinks of her sculpted abs and that is a huge disconnect.
I wish these middle aged women/mom’s of teen daughters will move aside and allow their daughters to shine a bit. It is insane for these women to constantly compete for male attention when their time has come and gone, your not a teen anymore….be a mother a housewife and give up this need to be on display, its their time now
How sad.. I feel so sorry for her kids. Talk about embarrassing your family.
I sat in the parking lot and chugged beers before my BB audition. I broke in line, I demanded to go first, and when I went in I went in with an older woman whose daughter was a gay female fire fighter. I interrupted her interview several times. YOUR DAUGHTER IS GAY? OMG! I was very deliberately provoking. The worlds biggest fag hag pretended that being gay was somehow odd. I asked the producers if they had a beer fridge. I did every outlandish thing I could think of. It was actually great fun.
As most of you know, I hate having my picture taken. They took a polaroid type picture. I was freaking out and they were like, you know you are asking to be on TV right? It was the only time I broke character. I mean how do you refuse a pic if you supposedly want to be on TV?
When the casting guy called he was like, can you go to a room where no one can hear you? I actually had a male friend over at the time. I realized I could actually do the show. I had a MAJOR panic attack. I would never do that. I just liked going undercover…
TT, thats hilarious. You sound like a whole lot of fun. BB is my favorite show ever. I really get into it.
OMG..You are a riot. Sometimes I think you may be a long lost twin of mine. This sounded just like something I would do. Where can I sign up. 😉
I can’t with Tamra. Her desperation is to the extreme.
What the sam hell?! You would think a mother with a teenage daughter would carry herself with a better, and more confident persona.
She needs to stop this reckless and self deprecating behavior. She is somewhat sociopathic. I just can’t with her.
When I look at this picture and realize Tamra wants it to reflect positively on the gym, I cannot help but think…LUNK ALARM.
Oh I see we have a lot of hatters I wish I looked that good
@Joanne – Who is commenting that she doesn’t look good? She looks off the charts amazing! THAT is not the point. The point is she still has three impressionable children, (Ryan is an adult) and one of those is a 15 year old daughter that already doesn’t want to see her and probably wanted to crawl into a hole when her mother posted this selfie. She is in the middle of a custody battle and she does something like this? Tamra is obviously not the sharpest pencil in the drawer, but c’mon think of your kids you narcissistic lunatic!
I totally agree with Tamra looks fantastic but as you said she has 3 impressionable children especially the 15 year old daughter sydney this won’t look good in court. As Kenya would say you can see her coochie crack. its just too risque i don’t think it would be a problem if it was a pic in her bikini that fully covered her pubic area
First off: wow ! Tamra Judge has some awesom abs and just an incredible body ! Wow !
But I agree with that its just unseemly for her to post herself so exposed. Her pose, including the expression on her face, is pretty immature— it’s something you’d expect from someone half her age or younger!
I totally get that she’s proud of her body, she should be, we’ve got to give it up to her. I’m wondering if posing in a fitness magazine might be a better choice for her? It’d show her in less of a attention-grabbing way and would probably be more palatable for her daughter ? Just a thought !
That said, I also agree it wasn’t the smartest thing to do during her custody fight… But, I seriously doubt it will have any impact on the judge’s decision.
I’ve gone thru divorce and a custody issue here in Southern CA. Courts don’t allow things that do not directly impact the children, this doesn’t. It may impact them indirectly, but the judge or 730 Evaluator won’t even allow it to be introduced.
In CA, the guide is the “Best interests of the child” and the goal is always to keep parent/child relationships at all costs save for proven neglect or abuse.
I see how Simon would be concerned, but it does not rise to the level of abuse or neglect.
I imagine Tamra will either be required to have a qualified child care professional (not necessarily a nanny) be available to fill any gaps where Tamra is at work. Courts don’t punish parents who are trying to provide for their children and themselves- the court actually views that as positive role modeling
Just my 2C
Seriously, I too am going through a nasty custody battle and if my life were being filmed I could very easily look like a lunatic. I am not a huge Tamra fan, but Simon was a Jack Ass! Have none of you ever posted a picture on social media sporting a swim suit? I personally have not posted a selfie but do have pics from river rafting trips, vacations. I’m also a bit hot headed, so I understand the behavior to a point. And we all know it brings viewers. Again, I’m not a huge Tamra fan and would have probably have walked away from filming given the circumstances, but let’s face it. This is her income, a huge part of her life now. Don’t be so quick to judge others, no pun intended! lol
I’m sorry you’re going through a nasty custody battle i wish you the best.
Yes we all have pics of ourselves in bikinis like you I’ve never posted any.
Good luckwith you’re custody battle.Xx
Gina—
I’m sorry you’re going through this right now ! I can totally relate to your stress & anxiety. I don’t know what state you live in, how long you were married and how many & the ages your children are.
If you don’t mind my advice…I’m sure you already do this… FOCUS on supporting your children and FOCUS on taking extra good care of yourself-physically, mentally and emotionally ! If you find yourself with sleep, eating or anxiety struggles, by ALL MEANS, seek support or doctor’s care !
It goes without saying, this will probably be the most difficult & emotionally challenging time in your life, save for a loss of a parent.
If you like, and TT doesn’t mind assisting, you may certainly ask TT to provide my email address.
It’d be my pleasure to be a sounding board for you. I’ve walked in your shoes— through broken glass, so to say! I’ve been there and would like to think I could give you sound advice and unconditional support !!!
You’ll be in my thoughts Gina 🙂