I just got one of those “turn on your TV!” calls and Tamra Judge is being discussed on Nancy Grace because Simon has filed for custody of all three kids citing child neglect. According to HLN, court documents include charges that Tamra does not provide proper hygiene (dirty underwear, not showered, hair not washed, bugs in hair, stinks) , food (no nutritious meals, no food in the house) or medical care. Simon found his young daughter’s hair matted and full of bugs. One of their son’s had a broken bone and was not taken to the doctor, Nancy Grace claims. Nancy also says the little girl was ill and not taken to the doctor.
HLN reports that Simon is claiming that Tamra eats out all the time, never grocery shops and there is no decent food in the house for the three children. The boy had a broken thumb for days and was only taken to the doctor when he went to stay with Simon. Tamra supposedly claims that the reason she didn’t bathe their daughter is that she was too sick to bathe. Yet, it appears she was never taken to the doctor.
Alexis McCord comments saying that it is easy to get caught up filming and neglect your home responsibilities. Alex says that if Tamra doesn’t have a full-time nanny when she is filming that Simon could go after her. (Um, duh, he has!) Alex says that Simon want to keep the kids off of the show so he is trying to do whatever he can to get full custody.
Simon and Tamra’s eldest daughter, who is fifteen asked to go live with her father last year. Simon wants permanent physical custody of all three kids. I had forgotten Tamra has a teenaged daughter. Great example getting drunk on national TV and dancing on taxis, bars, and tabletops. The fact she berates Heather for acting like a mother and grown adult speaks volumes.
Tamra response was to tweet that Simon’s allegations are “all bullshit and very hurtful.”
What do you think? Do you believe Simon?
By Tamra’s own admission last night she spends 7 days a week at Cut & her day starts at 4:45 a.m. It sounds like her new marriage & the business plus filming scenes for Housewives takes precedence over child rearing. I believe Simon & think he’d be the better custodial parent.
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I believe Simon too. Tamra is a disgusting maggot of a woman and I could see her neglecting and abusing her children. She’s already been using psychological warfare on her 15 yr old daughter that moved out and went straight to Simon’s house. Tamra’s texts to her daughter were disgraceful and sounded like they came from a 14 yr old. I actually hope Simon gets full and permanent custody of his kids. As a mom with two kids (they are grown now) it made me ill to hear what condition those children have been found in.
There was a period in my childhood when my parents were working crazy hours at their business. Technically I was a neglected kid – matted up hair, dirty clothes, the whole bit. So yeah I think you hit the nail on the head: Tamra is working 7 days a week at her business and the kids are being neglected. She needs to hire a nanny to care for the kids.
hhhmmmm….does that mean Tamra actually knows the meaning of a hurtful comment? yet she does it continuously! Go figure!
She believes the do as I say and not as I do BS.
Feel better T. No apologies necessary.
Sadly, I do believe Simon. He wasn’t portrayed very well on the show but he did appear to be the voice of reason at times- especially when Vickie and Tamara were together.
My kids have never been too sick for a bath. If anything, a bath makes you feel better and helps with the Aches that come along with being sick.
If you ask me ( and no one has) kids need carbs and you know there are no carbs in Tamara’s house! 🙂
i believe Simon as well, Tamra appears to do so many things for show. tamra is more into eddie, and her gym and being a bravolebrity than being a mother. i feel for those kids, being a parent isn’t an as time permits time of thing, your kids come first. i also hope you feel better.
Gee, I don’t know . Her behavior on camera with this Mr. Judge character from the beginning of their relationship has been disgraceful not I have a tribe of kids like at all. It would be insane for Simon to make these things up. Can’t you get in lots of trouble for filing false reports?
All I can say is wow! I’ve never heard of not even giving a child a sponge bath just because they’re sick. Bugs , dirty underwear , no food, broken bones ????I would assume that a broken bone must really hurt and the swelling must of been noticable , he must of been crying . These are Very serious claims and if true she doesnt deserve to have any custody .The children are old enough to be questioned, so I guess we’ll find out for sure shortly.The 15 year old wanting to live with her father doesn’t move me because I’m sure she’s upset that her mom married with lightening speed.She probably isn’t comfortable living with a strange man and 15 year old girls can be quite unpleasant and difficult so I put no weight on her request .
I believe Simon. Also, if a child is sick i.e. throwing up then they need a fricken bath even more than a non sick kid.
Given that RHOC season started last night, the timing of this legal action appears intended to effect maximum damage to Ms. Judges reputation… (haha), no seriously.
Tamra probably leaked it herself thinking she’d get sympathy from viewers.
It was filed last month. It’s just now leaking to the press.
On Tue, Apr 15, 2014 at 10:18 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I think Simon is full of crap, and I’m not the biggest Tamra fan. But her kids are old enough to take their own baths, brush their own hair, and change their underwear! LMAO! They’re not toddlers! The other crap may be true, but the not bathing, bugs in hair, etc… Those accusations are ridiculous. Simon’s full of it.
I remember the last season Simon was on and it was very obvious that they were having problems, he (Simon) was getting the kids ready for school and fixing them breakfast and he made some kind of comment that Tamra is still in bed and usually doesn’t get up until 10 because she is busy out late at night for the show and etc.
I do remember those scenes and how one of the biggest problems between them (besides Vicki) was that she wasn’t being much of a wife or mom.
Thank you because for a moment I wasn’t sure what exactly went on because it was so long ago. But yes, Simon was the primary caretaker of those kids at that time. I also think this is why he came across so controlling because of her mouth and antics. Hell didn’t she yell something inappropriate at one of her kids B-day parties. Now I’m not trying to take sides and I think Simon may be over-reacting a bit here but I do think he has his kids best interest at heart opposed to Tamra who is only interested in $$$…. After all she is the one who wants her kids life on the reality show, well maybe not now… lol
I’m not a fan of either Simon or Tamra. But I think Simon may be making mountains out of mole hills and has accumulated/documented incidents over the last two years. Now he is using those incidents together and timed it with the show to try and get custody. He is exploiting the media attention while the show is on air for a judge to see. What I read about the broken bone was a broken finger. A broken finger doesn’t get much attention beyond a splint, and sometimes not even that. The bone just has to heal. I am speaking from personal experience. As for the other allegations Simon makes, I agree the kids are old enough to bathe and dress themselves, but she is their mother and should be paying attention to whether they do those things. As disgusting as all of his allegations sound, they may end up as ‘no harm, no foul.’
It’s hard to say with these two. Both of them play very dirty. I’m unsure if one is more trustworthy than the other. Regardless, after a certain age my parents expected us to shower everyday on our own and help cook dinner. I didn’t feel neglected. I don’t know the whole situation here especially because it’s been years since we’ve seen either simon or tamera parent on camera, but it wouldn’t surprise me if both are falling short in different ways.
I just found this site after tonight’s episode (7/21/14). I think Tamera needs psychological counseling. She is a pathetic woman who is trying to stay young. She wanted a baby because she thinks that will keep her current marriage in tact, but David is having no part of it. i cannot believe how IMMATURE she behaved in front of her son’s girlfriend. How sad; no wonder her son is moving so quickly with someone he hardly knows. Tamera is a liar, she stirs up trouble and she is doing all of that to secure her continued spot on RHOC. It is not a good look. These women, who seem to have it all, really do not have it all. There is such a spiritual void in their lives.
I’m with the majority on this, Tamra has put her children on the backburner and put her relationship/business with Eddie as her priority. She doesn’t have the passion for working out and isn’t in good shape… SMDH
Not sure who to believe. I hope they resolve it with the least amount of damage to the children. The eldest child wanting to live with her father is rather telling, though. It’s very sad.
And another thing. Alexis McCord? … Really?
LOL! My thought exactly!
She is so 4 years ago. She should stay there.
She is so desperately trying to stay relevant in any way possible
Why not? You might not like her, but she knows what she’s talking about.
I agree with your comment. I like Alex McCord’s reviews on YouTube. She is insightful and witty. Now, if Taylor Armstrong started to make review videos, THAT would be another matter entirely.
I’m glad TT quoted Alex on this blog.
I believe Simon.
I hope that Simon gets the kids. It would be nice if Tamra took some of the money she makes and put it aside for the kids future, but it seems like keeping up the lifestyle of being rich and famous is more important.
Yes Tamra should be so nice, but just in case it is called CHILD SUPPORT. And guess what, combined income matters in some states.
Of course the oldest daughter who escaped to Simon’s home was going to go back and ‘rescue’ the other kids. IMO Tamra moved on from her kids awhile back. I would be surprise if she even fights to keep custody. The charges are terrible and then she is on TV like she is ‘Girls Gone Wild’ and not like a mother. I at least respect the mother who dumps the kids off FIRST and then live her life. She should have at LEAST been woman enough to take the kids to Simon’s instead of neglecting them the way she did for so long. I am sorry but damn a Bravo show when it comes to your children. Im done with her and any show that employs her.
As my grandmother always said, “No one knows what goes on behind closed doors.”
As someone who has gone through legal separation and shared custody in California, I feel comfortable commenting on a few things:
1) The OSC (Order to Show Cause) to Modify Custody:
-Simon filed last year to prevent the children from appearing on RHOOC.
-This issue was requested to be heard with the 730 Evaluation Report (Mediator does interviews with children and make collateral contacts such as pediatricians, teachers, counselors, etc) which had be on calendar for April 24 LONG ago.
2)-Simon has no control as to when the court appearance will be. It’s up to the clerk
There’s no such thing as “permanent” custody, unless a parent is stripped of ALL parental rights
Simon attached supporting documents from doctors and teachers: Sydney (15 yrs old) had stress related & medically documented stomach pain while living with Tamra– it resolved when she moved in with Simon
Sophia (8 yrs old) has been late for/missed school many times. Her reading log has suspicious entries. Sophia’s teacher and school’s report of tardies/absence/declining schoolwork are also submitted to the court
Judges (in California) do NOT question children directly. The judge relies heavily (in some cases, entirely) on the 730 Mediator’s recommendation.
Most judges refuse to allow any child (under 25) to be in the courtroom when hearing matters regarding parents, even if they’re over 18. I know this personally, because my 18 yr old daughter was not allowed to observe a recent hearing although she wanted to.
Always, what is in the best interests of the child is the guide. That can change until the kids turn 18.
I happen to believe Simon, he was always the parent getting the kids ready & off to school while Tamra slept til 10. She also seems to be overly taken with her “celebrity” and wants to act if she’s a carefree 25 year old.
Thanks for sharing SantaBarbaraSusie, those are all really interesting points to know, sorry you had to go through a custody battle! I believe Simon too! Unlike Tamara & Eddie, he doesn’t go out of his way to bash her in the media & regardless of what the show portrayed him as in terms of their marriage, he does seem to be very focused on the health & well being of his kids – which she clearly does not as evidenced by her texts & neglect! Eddie is seriously brain washed or really just loves the fame/money train that RHOC brings – that or she has a magical vagina! The magical vagina can block all reason & common sense in men!
Oh course simon is getting the kids ready for school, he should, he had no job and wasn’t the one making the income. They lost the house. Great husband skills on providing for your family. What about that whole situation with Simons temper all the time and the dog leash.
Trampy Sue is a filthy whore who has no need for children in her life. Simon is right and should be the custodial parent. All my best to Simon and the children and to you as well TT….hoping you recover quickly and are on the mend.
I recently had the Noro virus, and to be honest, I didn’t take a shower for about 30 hours because I was too sick to get up. I can’t imagine picking up a 7 year old and trying to bathe them when they are that sick.
I believe Simon because he was the only parent in the house. Tamra would rather party and hang out with Vicki.
1.) Nancy Grace is a vile demon from Hell.
2.) People here seem to forget what a control freak Simon is. It probably irks him to no end that he can’t dictate every minute detail of his children’s lives when. they are staying with Tamra.
3.) Simon’s idea of a wife’s role was that she be barefoot and chained to the stove. Short of that, she’s failing her husband and children. Remember when he scolded Tamra that her little real estate jobette was taking too much time away from home? I’m sure this perspective heavily colors his accusations.
4.) Given the above, I’ve no doubt that some huge exaggerations have been made. I’m no Tamra fan, but come on, Simon was the worst. Only a neanderthal like Jim Bellino could look worse…and in fact, the two were really not that different.
So if Simon can get full control of his children and embarass Tamra in the process, win/win for him!
I feel exactly as Ericzku posted above!! Simon/Jim Bellino were very similar in behavior and expectations. The only difference is Simon was a little smarter/sneakier with his controling ways and you sometimes had to read between the lines. I’ll never forget the way he chased Tamara down when she was having a breakdown and forced her to say they would be ok. And I can’t stand Tamara.
Ericzku…
“Control Freak” could equal trying to get Tamra to take better care of children, Simon might have been her only “guidance”.
“Wife’s Role” could equal His hope that Tamra is taking better care of their children .
“Real Estate Jobette” could equal Tamra spending less time at home taking care of their children.
I’m sure His perspective heavily colors his accusations, He was there. At their home.
At present, Eddie, not much guidance regarding children.
One difference between Simon and Jim Bellino, Simon did let be known that Tamra should cover her body a little more, unlike Jim Bellino
Also — Why is Simon keeping track of his 8-year-old daughters underwear? That is weird and doesn’t make sense. Did he check her underwear as soon as she was dropped off at his home?
He is such a weirdo.
Actually you do want to check a child’s underwear to make sure they’re wiping properly, it’s a hygiene thing. Not so weird.
I have NEVER “checked” my young children’s underwear. I may have noticed a thing or two in the laundry, but if my kid wore underwear two days in a row (and it’s a two-day stint Simon is complaining about), I’d never know it. If Simon knew what kind of underwear his daughter wore the day before, that’s creepy.
Kids that age wear underwear with graphics on them, like Disney princesses and the like. I believe what he is saying is that he has dropped her off and picked her up in the same underpants and not bathing in between. I think we are making too much of the underpants part.
On Fri, Apr 18, 2014 at 4:14 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Pfffffttt, that’s gross. Your implication could be taken exactly the way you intended. I don’t find it strange that a father that does the breakfast routine and readying children for school so far fetched that he could also do the laundry. You call Simon a weirdo. Weirdo might be you.
Pfffffttt, that’s gross. Your implication could be taken exactly the way you intended. I don’t find it strange that a father that does the breakfast routine and readying children for school so far fetched that he could also do the laundry. You call Simon a weirdo. Weirdo might be you.
I believe Simon too, and I don’t like Simon. Tamra seems to way to busy to be taking care of her children. I didn’t know that her eldest was fifteen, I will bet anything that Tamra has put most of the responsibility on her. Which is totally wrong. Tamra should have a full time nanny with all that she says she is doing. If she is getting up at the crack of dawn and working all day and filming and so on, when do you even think about mom things? In my book Mom things come FIRST then the rest. Mom things should still come first even with a nanny. The kids need to go to Simon. That is one thing I will say as a firm positive, that Simon will take care of the kids and all their needs. This is going to be a BIG wake up call for Tamra. I don’t think Eddy really wants kids around either. He wants his business and a hot wife to show off. Tamra has to keep fit and looking hot and pretty, cause at her age it starts to go FAST, and takes a whole lot more work to look like you are 20 or 30 or even 35. Forty can be a bitch, believe me I’ve been there and then some, but still keep trying. The one’s that I feel very bad for are the children, they probably don’t know what in the world is going on with their mom. They will have a much more stable life with their dad.
I gotta go Team Simon on this one. Yes, the guy was portrayed as being overbearing sometimes, but I think that was because Tamra behaved more like another child instead of being a parent so he not only had to earn a paycheck, but stay on top of a household too while she was out woo-hooing it up with Vicki. Her teen aged daughter moved out several months ago and is still backing her dad. If her dad was that much of a monster, then a 15 year old girl would be beating a path back to her mom’s house after the first argument because that is just how teenage girls are wired.
I would think Simon gets custody of the children on the weekends or every other weekend depending on the custody arrangement. I guess if he gets custody of the children, he would not have to pay child support.
You’re correct, Simon would no longer pay child support. Simon would also begin to receive child support payments from Tamara.
I used to live in Newport Beach, familiar with these two, even bought a few cars from Simon, when he worked at Fletcher Jones Mercedes. Believe me, it’s all about the money, both of them.
I think that it is none of our dang business what their situation is. If it were no for Housewives (that you all apparently watch because you know sooo much about their personal lives, the only parts aired are the parts BRAVO feels are worthy of drama reality tv and what the news reports) How about we leave it up to the courts and attorney to do their own work?! I think there is always so much more to the story that what the media puts out there!
Yeah, you guys. How dare you comment about mediawhores who put their life on display on national television? Talking about a situation in the news apparently keeps the court system from functioning! You are ruining the court system!
Please welcome Julie to TT. This is her very first post and she is hear to explain to you that you are doing it all wrong.
Just imagine, Julie, here we are on a blog that discusses the housewives and we dare to have an opinion. Hold on, it may be a bumpy ride.
Hey Julie! Welcome to TT’s house. Sit down, put your feet up, relax, and enjoy the delicious tea provided. Don’t hurry, don’t worry, and don’t forget opinions are like assholes, everybody has one 🙂
Neglected children are everyone’s business. More people need to be outraged in this crazy world, not less. You sound a little scary to me. If public charges are filed then it is everyones business so you need to bring it down a little.
everyones
Thanks so much Julie for clearing that up for us. None of our “dang” business you say? Such insight…very impressive.
Hi Julie ! Or are you really Tamra? Or her mom?
My mom is very old school and I know that when I was sick as a child she wouldn’t let me take baths or a shower either, but I would at least get washed up. So that’s not completely unheard of…I just remember Simon being super controlling on the show. There was no compromise with him…It was his way or nothing. I think this is just another way for him to gain that control back.
I think that a lot of Simon’s control issues came about because Tamra was acting more & more trashy and seemed to completely lose interest in her husband & children. I don’t know too many husbands who would react well to that.
@[email protected]~then the argument could be made that Tamra was acting more and more trashy because she was trying to break free from Simon’s control. (BTW, I agree with both of you) It’s like which came first, the chicken or the egg? I think Simon is milking these incidents for all they’re worth, BUT, he doesn’t want his kids on a reality show and Tamra does. I’m in his corner on that one. While Tamra isn’t burning her kids with lit cigarettes, I think she is pretty absent, which could be considered neglect. I do feel sorry for 8 year olds that are sick and need some TLC. I do feel sorry for 13 year old boys that are hungry all the time, and need lots of food ALL the damn time. Mostly though, I think kids need stability and whoever can provide that the best, should have the kids.
Good comments Gingersnap. I just think Tamra has way too many issues and is way too obsessed with herself & Eddie to care that much about what happens with her children. I hope the courts make the best possible decision for the children.
Thanks Terri, and I hope what you hope.
I’m not hating on Eddie, but I don’t see this guy as this warm fuzzy dad type. I think its easy for Tamara to lose herself with her children trying to keep up with not only a younger man, but a man that ain’t all that hip with raising kids. Had she any sense, she should have let Simone take custody until her and Eddie could work things out amongst themselves. .
I think the previews for the season show Eddie telling Tamra he’s not a baby kinda guy….so he’s probably not the world’s greatest step-dad. If I were a 15yo girl I’d be creeped out by him with my mom. He creeps me out anyway, because I don’t see the appeal or chemistry between them. And after seeing him on tv with her mother, I’m betting Tamra’s daughter has all kinds of icky feelings about him.
I have no idea whether or not Tamra is a good mother… I DO think she is reactionary, overly sensitive and possibly unstable – which probably rules her out of the Claire Huxtable category for motherhood awards, but is not necessarily unusual.
With that said – I grew up the daughter of a nurse (and a fabulous mother, might I add) who would absolutely not shower us or give us a bath while we had a mid to high range fever for fear of us getting a chill. Nor would she immediately take us to the doctor. I am of the mindset that you can get sick and have a fever and not be well enough to take a shower but NOT need a doctor.
If there is credibility to what Simon is claiming then I’d assume corroborating evidence would, could and will be provided by the school system their kids attend – matted, bug infested hair, and untended broken bones would hopefully draw concern from teachers, friends, etc. It is also clear that her 15 year old daughter doesn’t have a good relationship with her…. which is really strange because 15 year old girls tend to get along VERY well with their mothers 😉
I highly doubt either Tamra or Simon are the best parents in the world, but the leaking of these details is absolutely damaging to all three of the children, especially the two youngest. Both should be ashamed of how messy they are making these custody proceedings, and my opinion of them both is quite low – sick showers or not.
Way back in the dark ages when my siblings and I were children my mother or grandmother would get us into a luke warm bath if we had fevers. We’d also get our hair shampooed because, for some reason, being clean helps make you feel a little better, especially when you’ve been sweating because of the fever. At the very least we’d have a sponge bath and get our hair brushed & put in a ponytail to keep it out of the way. Tamra is just one of those people who probably should never have had children & fortunately for her it seems like Eddie doesn’t want any of his own.
Same here Terri. Unless we were really sick in which case we would get a quick sponge bath in the tub so we could quickly lie back down. Either way, we always slept with clean underwear so there is no reason why she should have had the same underwear. Then again maybe that is how her mom did it so she thought it was ok.
In California, as most states, ALL court records are PUBLIC, so Simon isn’t the one who put it out there. From what I’ve seen, the only people guilty of publicizing anything are Tamra and Eddie. They’ve posted replies to comments on various sites.
Just a note:
Exempt from public access are sealed records such as a minor’s 730 Evaluation, medical & mental health records. Other than that, the public has pretty much full access to all filings: criminal, civil and Family Law
I just don’t believe that his hands are totally clean in this. Open records or not, I would not put it past him to send a little heads up to media outlets. I maintain my stance that they are both messy individuals.
I also have a huge problem with the matted hair and bugs that I’m going to assume is head lice. Yes, its prelevant in schools but you treat it. They won’t let you back in school here until you get a Dr stating that no eggs or nits in the hair. It shows she’s more concerned with Eddie and isn’t interested in being a full-time mom.
Why is it that everyone always leaves off the end of that saying? It’s the most important part and the point of the whole thing:
Opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one…and they all stink!
Sorry…that was supposed to be a reply to Gingersnap…don’t know why it posted down here!
See, now I’m gonna have to sound like an asshole, because if you want to get technical, it’s “opinions are like assholes, everyone has one and they think each others stink” or “opinions are like assholes and most of them stink”. In my opinion 😉 not ALL opinions stink, although I can agree that all assholes do.
It just seems to me that Tamara, knowing her ex-husband full well, that for no other reason she’d be sure to send her children to him during visitation in the best possible condition as NOT to give him any fuel for fire. While Simon certainly has exaggerated a thing or three, I don’t doubt for one minute that it was without SOME merit. My own experience has taught me that most split parents includes one parent that has more hatred for the other than love for the children.
My nephew broke his thumb at his daddy’s house and he went to the hospital when he came back home…but mostly that’s cause he’s a boy and didn’t trip, until he couldn’t button his pants, apparently he could manuver into the basket ball shorts fine, but when it was back to school, he couldn’t get the jeans buttoned. then it was like, “look, I can’t move my finger like I used to”
us, “does it hurt”
him, “yes”
us, “why you didn’t tell anybody”
him…”I don’t know”
so sometimes parents do dumb stuff becasue of their dumb kids
Wasn’t Tamra talking about having a baby with Eddie?? Thought it was on the previews? Seems like it is one of her “storylines” this season – she was talking about trying to have one, and if not, then adopting.
Another baby is apparently just what she needs, NOT.
Also, wasn’t she making some waves about filming with the youngest daughter? I remember seeing some (media-whoring) twitter pictures with Sofia at openings, etc.
Tamra is the eternal party girl from the trailer park – she said it best herself: she’s a “truck-driver with tits” – her quote, and my apologies to truck drivers….
Hello, I am really interested in if there is truth out there. I have never been a big Simon fan, nor Tamara for that matter. Is there proven truth to the claims of bugs and hair matts or was it something trumped up to assist him in his quest for custody and to damage Tamara? In other words here say? As far as the older daughter, I would not put a whole lot of weight in an emotional 15 year old. She is from a broken home, may be rebellious, may like to play them against each other or just be mad at her mom. The smaller kids, yes that is a concern, what is best? As far as Simon goes, he had no problem being on the show himself and allowing his children on the show when they were married. I am not judging, just asking. This is a nice even tempered blog and well moderated…so with that, I am just curious. By the way, when sick as a child, I was put in a cool to lukewarm bath to battle the fever, right or wrong, that is what the people who loved me did…I survived. I also as a child I probably wore my underwear more than a day and lied about brushing my teeth. While I never had bugs in my hair, I am pretty sure it was matted at times and I even went to bed dirty. My mother and father were neither unfit, I was just a headstrong kid and maybe they did not even know. As parents, we do the best we can and are far from perfect, at least for me.
I hope Simon gets custody of the children. Tamra is a bully and spends her awakening time hurting others. For instance, Tamra made up comments that Terry supposedly said, but the real truth is that Tamra made up the comments in the first place. Tamra purposely hurt Shannon and she knows it. Tamra needs to look inward instead of outward. The children would be safer with a reliable parent and based on what I know, Simon is the ideal full time (100%) parent for their children. Tamra needs to grow up and start being an adult instead of an evil-doer. Tamra purposely hurts others. Heather and Tamra deserve each other.; they are both evil. It’s too bad that Simon left the show. I fell so sorry for her new husband; I bet he’s re-thinking about marrying her. I do applaud the producers of the show for putting up with them!!!
Tamras’ lying and backstabbing is the only think that keeps he’d relevant on the show. I believe Simon is telling the truth 100%.Tamra is crazy and needs a psychiatrist she has some major issues. Heather is the biggest fake on the show. She thinks she is better than all the other women. Her problem with the Bediors’
I don’t think simon ever had a job. He invested in liquor I think. He lost the house. He couldn’t make the mortgage. Great father skills. Assaults wife with dog leash and goes to jail. Drags his former wife’s name thru the mud. For a father who does not want his kids on television he sure does make everything public. How would you like to be the kids and reading for everyone to see that you had lice. Something most kids go thru. Tamra seemed to be the responsible one with a job and all. Not that partying is attractive but let’s get real. What’s up with all that verbal abuse simon kept controlling Tamra with telling how she can’t do anything right even fix dinner while she is cooking and telling her what to wear and harassing her about everything. What a temper and telling her who she can be friends with. He is nuts.
I think the children should stay with Tamra so far I haven’t heard anything that just screams unfit mom. Simon is a control freak that was easy to see when he was on the show. I am sure he only wants custody so he doesn’t have to pay child support. Hopefully in the end the courts will do what is best for the children of course, but so far I don’t believe they should be taken away from their mother. It always easy to pick apart the mom the person that is always there for them. All parents work these days if anything she should get a nanny if she doesn’t already have one.
Simon deserves full custody. Tamra deserves to have no children. She’s a [email protected]#%$ and should lose custody. She’s a horrible mother in my opinion