Joyce’s blog this week is a bit stronger regarding her feelings toward Brandi and Carlton. She also shows Kim some much needed kindness.
From Joyce’s blog, Kimberly’s graduation party was simply stunning. I spoke a lot with Kim about it, and I know how much work and love she put into it. That’s why when she told me to dress for the theme (Hawaiian) I decided to put a little effort into it for her. So Carlton, save your opinions on my wardrobe because I for sure DO NOT need any fashion advice from you. And as always, you smile to my face and then talk crap in your confessionals. Kimberly is a very sweet girl and it was a pleasure to be included in her cerebration.
I loved that Joyce dressed for the theme of the party, arrived on time and sober, did not demand alcohol or projectile vomit all over the bathroom and then leave. These seem like decent qualities in a person. However, there is a certain element that seems inexperienced with decent qualities and polite behavior. My thoughts on Brandi’s blog wasn’t up ten seconds until the comments about not liking Joyce “for some reason.” My theory is they are off put by well-bred, well-mannered, attractive women because they do not know any personally, and they are rarely seen on reality shows. It’s sad.
The day Lisa called me to ask me if I could come participate in her charity I was overwhelmed. That day I had the photoshoot for the Friend Movement campaign, I was hosting the Friend Movement concert and I had to leave early from the concert to run to my Siberia premiere party at my home. This is the same concert LeAnn Rimes headlined. That’s why many think we know each other but the reality is we have never met. That night she was closing the show and by the time I left she hadn’t arrived.
Ah so that is how the rumor that she was friends with Leann started. Interesting.
Thank God, it all turned out great. The concert and the premiere party were a success and we had lot’s of fun — our last guest left our home at around 4 am. Therefore the next morning at Lisa’s I was a bit tired, but I didn’t want to miss it and wanted to support Lisa’s cause.
Joyce says very little about Brandi’s non-apologies. She does mention her dishonesty.
After our conversation, the moment she apologized I really thought we could have a clean slate and move forward. I truly believe in forgiveness and know it is a very liberating way to live life, but sadly it seems I was fooled by Brandi. Her true colors came out.
I was shocked to see that after I hugged her and she hugged me back, she goes on to say in her confessional: “Don’t touch me. Ewww, don’t come near me.” On top of it, she then says we can agree to disagree. This was not about a disagreement, you asked for forgiveness and said you are sorry. But perhaps you don’t know what a real sorry means.
Before meeting her, like many others, I thought she was an honest girl that “says it like it is.” But this is her character: a true hypocrite. I never want to hear anyone talk about how “honest” Brandi is because she has proven to be the TOTAL OPPOSITE!
Sadly, Joyce there are many women who think “being honest” means hurling insults at other people so that no one will notice their bad behavior. In order for this to work, they pick an often random target that they just don’t like “for some reason” (read, they seem happy and well adjusted). As you say, they are not “keeping it real” at all. Quite the contrary.