The Newlyweds start off with sad news. Tina was briefly pregnant and had a miscarriage. Tina is incredibly depressed and nervous that she can’t have a baby. Tarz is trying to supportive and Tina continues to say that their baby died. Tina is pissed at Tarz because he isn’t emotional enough over the miscarriage. Tina’s Dad has a girlfriend. Tarzina is meeting the dad and his girlfriend, Heather for dinner. She’s blond and white and younger than him. Tina’s dad is smiling!!! And kissing her bare shoulders. And making out at the table. Like full on making out. Heather is a nurse with four children. I cannot stress enough how full on these two are hardcore making out. They announce they are talking about getting married and maybe having a child. Heather is sort of a twat. She says she has more life experience and says “how many children have you raised” to a couple that just had a miscarriage. Nice.
Alaska is mad a Kim because she took $700 out of their joint account without asking him. Kim puts here money in her business account and still spends out of the joint account that she doesn’t contribute to. Alaska goes to meet with his father who was somewhat abusive and very strict when he was growing up. He is more mellow now. While Kim and Alaska make dinner. Alaska creates a lovely floral arrangement. I think Alaska’s family is Haitian and Kim is trying to learn to cook Alaska’s favorite foods that his mother would make. Family dinner goes very well. Alaska is headed back to the west coast again with no defined return date. No wait, it is a surprise honeymoon trip to Mexico. Kim is so excited.
Jeff is really enjoying having the house to himself while Blair is out of town visiting friends. When Blair returns, he literally jumps Jeff. Jeff admits to jacking off everyday. Blair is pissed they only have sex once a week. Jeff suggests getting away from the house because he works in the house and there is always stuff that needs to be done. Blair says he feels he has really matured since he married Jeff. Jeff says he sacrifices a lot for Jeff. Jeff wants more money from Blair. Blair says Jeff needs to sign the will. Jeff is really hedging on the will. Blair says he will pay the lawyer and half the property taxes. Jeff seems to be having lots of doubts about the marriage.
Kathy and John are going to Lamaze classes. She is 36 weeks pregnant. The other husbands are trying to educate John that he needs to be more helpful. John is just awful. He behaves exactly as you would expect in a Lamaze call. John is keeping the pool table because his father is going to finish their basement. John’s sister is visiting and John is trying to get her to do his baby chores for her. He is completely inept. Kathy is now 41 weeks pregnant and so ready for the baby to come. John keeps saying he wants the baby out! Like he is the pregnant one. 12 days late, Kathy heads to the hospital.
Next week on the finale, something goes wrong with the delivery. Tina’s dad is getting married, Alaska and Kim go on their honeymoon, and Blair and Jeff go to therapy.
The scenes with Tina and her father were cringeworthy! Is it just me or did anyone else think that Heather is a female version of Tarz?
OMG I thought exactly the same thing!!! It was a bizarre Freudian thing, I was so creeped out.
I find it extremely odd as well. That’s why i thought that segment of the show was scripted.
I thought it was scripted too as he has seemingly been so conservative and traditional and wanting her to be with an Indian man all along and now here he is with a young blonde all of a sudden slobbering all over her. Weird
omg spot on!
OMG…so true! I thought the same thing when I saw her. She could be his older sister/mother. How creepy that the 60 plus year old man is practically making love to this woman at the table…every time he’d kiss her bare shoulder, I would cringe!
I’m not a huge Tina fan – she is unattractive and annoying as hell BUT you couldn’t help but feel bad for her at dinner. Her dad was being his same douchey insensitive self and his new girlfriend makes me gag. This will not end well but maybe this whole scenario will make Tina step up to her dad and give him an ultimatum about treating her husband so poorly…
Kim shouldn’t have boasted about not putting money into the joint account (though I think it’s great if she can get away with it). Disagreements about finances can quickly kill a marriage. Keep your month shut Kim, and hope Alaska doesn’t watch the tape or read the blogs..
I thought the exact thing!!
I can’t believe Tina’s Dad has a white girlfriend, after giving Tarz the blueb..ls all this time. It seems really scripted. It’s good for Tina if it isn’t.
Wow! I have a lot of Indian friend and this is not how the uncles act! (Uncle & Auntie is what you call someone who is an elder). He seems so conservative. I’ve never seen my friends’ parents kiss let alone grabbing under the table! Just looked soooo scripted.
I thought when they showed the previews of Kim looking at the computer saying what is this… I thought she busted him with gay porn on his computer!!
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I questioned it because Tina’s Dad did a total 180, from douche-bag to horny toad.
He’s refocused, which is a good thing.
I hope Tina is able to have a baby soon, for Tarz’ sake.
That was kind of creepy weird like he was trying to make her jealous. It worked.
I know right! I keep imagining her being all. “Here’s your oatmeal, don’t let our dead baby stop you from enjoying it “…”welcome home honey, did you think about our dead baby today? “
I think some of those table kissing scenes may have been edited too much to appear as if it were excessive PDA in front of Tarz & Tina. Maybe they were kissing in between camera takes not realizing they were “on camera” and they were edited in for story effect. Tina is always giving crazy face anyway so they just pasted the scenes together. But Tina’s crazy face during these scene were hysterically funny. It is so hypocritical of Tina’s dad to be such an ass to Tarz because he is blonde & white & not Indian, when his coochie mamma is also blonde & white & non Indian.
And why is Tina so upset with the PDAs. She grabs Tarz’ balls every chance she gets (on camera). Dad’s having a great time with his new sugar mama, and clearly has no time to worry about Tina and Tarz..
I think Tina’s dad is trying to get umder her skin. His wife died and his little girl married a man he doesn’t like. Tina’s not listening to him, so he can show her how it feels rather than keep telling her.
I hate that Jeff turned out to be so…. unreasonable. It seems to me he turned into someone else when he got married. Lots of sex at first and then none. I wonder if he feels Blair is taking advantage of him financially and he feels like the old gay man that married the twink that he has to support. I think Blair really loves him and is not about the money. It’s just the whole “paying rent thing” and Jeff having a consistent income and Blair having a pay per job income. I hate that they are drifting apart already. Next week on WWHL we will see how thing progressed and if anyone split up. After the emotional gay wedding, I would have thought these two would be a no brainer to be happy. 🙁
I think TIna’s Dad is just a pervy asshole. He was ALL OVER HER. If it was staged, and she was an actor, HE was REALLY into it. lol.
I don’t know. If he was a true to the Indian tradition, he couldn’t bring himself to even fake the PDAs at the level he displayed. I agree with TT, he’s a pervy. He may have wanted to grope and rub on his wife but she wouldn’t have it. Now he’s out of control.
I don’t get all the people claiming the dad hates white people. Obviously that’s not the case. The only thing he’s ever said about not liking David is that he doesn’t have a “real ” job.
James must have watched a different show than the rest of us. Tina and her dad both have said he didn’t like Tarz/David because he’s not Indian. Also it’s not just his words, it’s his actions.
Jeff is not going to sell the house. For one it is stunning, and for another, there have been several references to the house being part of his job…or that he built or restored it. Or something. Jeff has either an emotional investment in the house or it is part of his business…or something.
@TT- I think he might have done some restoration. It’s not part of his business though the attorney told him to treat it/the marriage as such. I think it’s a cute house but it’s just a house and he’s over attached to it.
I only caught that one scene with the father kissing on that women at the table and it looked fake to me. If you look closely the woman was looking at the camera while he was kissing her and both their tones as they were speaking to TArz sounded very contrived almost like theywere doing to get a rise out of her. I seriously doubt they’re a real couple.
I don’t think Jeff and Blair are going to make it. Too much mistrust and disagreement.
I agree. Blair needs a lot of attention and sex, while Jeff would rather pleasure himself? What happened, they seemed to be so much in love. My gut tells me Jeff won’t open up in therapy. I think its done with Blair.
This is what happened to my 5th marriage, lol, turns out he was gay too.
I love having y’all to comment on this show. I have been in relationships with people with more or less money than me. Sadly, the final show will be on my birthday and I will not be able to watch it in real time. ( I gots plans) so be sure and come back when I do get around to watching the dvr! 🙂
It’s unfortunate that many people to accept help. They know problems exists, but, don’t trust anyone to help them get though them.
Don’t get me wrong, being gay is not a problem. IMO Hiding it can be, for some.
Yep, he has only admitted to it once and has a “special” friend. He is a good friend and not a bad guy, it is just sad he cannot be himself. On the good side, can you say COMMUNITY PROPERTY STATE????
Yeah, In recent years, I’ve seen many gay guys come out. The transition is amazing. It’s like a new, better person evolves. I wish everyone could just be who they really are and get on with their lives, without persicution.
I’m really hoping Jeff gets help. He’s totally out of the closet, so, why not get the professional help that he clearly needs. Blair also needs therapy to learn how not to be so annoying. He’s really correct in what he’s trying to do. Requesting more sex, wanting to be added to the deed, etc. is not unrealistic.
Yes, it is wonderful for these people coming out of the closet, not so great to their spouses. It floored my world. TOTALLY. I am happy for him now but that took a long time to get there and I was lied to for years. He could have served everyone a lot of heart break if he could have just told the truth.
Yeah Isabella. Coming out before he got married would have saved you and and sure many others a lot of grief.
*You and many others
Ugh I can’t stand John and his weird possibly incestuous relationship with his sister. I have grown to like Kathy and I think she could have done better than this douche, and possibly married him for his money. Tina’s dad was acting like such a creeper at dinner. What was wrong with Heather? Drunk? High?
John is a selfish prick. I’m thinking he’s the financially sound sibling in the family and has been kept on a pedestal. His sister kisses his ass and isn’t too friendly with Kathy. They remind me of Tre and Joe on the New Jersey Housewives.
I mean, John’s sister may be used to having him to herself.
I went through similar with my sister in law. She was use to having my then lonely husband play fill in for her daughter’s absent father. He was always good for money and a laugh for her until I came along, then the money stopped. Users suck especially when they’re family.
Am I the only one who thinks Jeff acts like a psycho?? He acts like Blair sees him as a sugar daddy. He has a lot of issues if you ask me.
Major issues, I agree. Even the financial attorney he saw last week, questioned why Blair wasn’t present at the meeting.
Yeah that was so wrong of him to do. Plus the way he so happily bragged about jacking off while Blair was gone was so strange. He almost seems uncapable of accepting love to me.
I think he’s projecting. I think HE saw himself as the sugar daddy and now doesn’t like that view. I don’t think Blair saw him that way.
was really surprised and pleased at how tarz supported tina at dinner with dad and insensitive girlfriend. WTG, tarz!
That’s the first time I say them function as a team. In that respect, It was heartwarming. I loved seeing Tarz reprimand pervy Papa for once. He showed a lot of backbone.
Tina’s dad is unhappy that his only daughter is not paying attention to him. Tina’s dad is in lust and he is sad because his wife died and his only child has abandoned him. I think Tina’s dad is trying to drive a wedge between Tina and Tarz, but it back fired on him. His behavoir actually brought them closer.
Jeff naturally blocks any ounce of love from getting into his heart. I think he’s been treated so poorly by his family that he’s afraid to let Blair get to close. IMO if he treats Blair as “family”, he’s opening himself up to the possibility of more hurt. I think he’s afraid. Blair wasn’t “family” to him prior to the marriage, so they had plenty of sex and got along very well.
That’s just my opinion.
I completely agree. Jeff will not trust Blair and will not let him in. If he does not work through this, they will break up and Jeff will never have a successful loving relationship.
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OOOHHH Do you think Tina’s Dad is devious enough to just be kidding? Showing her what it is like? His behavior ws very over the top…
I think Jeff going to the laywer really opened his eyes to what marriage/domestic partnership is. Jeff thought if they were in a domestic partnership, they would divide everything equally in their finances. He thought would feel more obligated to help him and he would in turn have more financial freedom. How many people have married thinkin we will have double the income and one mortgage payment or rent payment and therefore we will save money. It never happens! Instead of Jeff benefitting from the domestic partnership, he thinks he got screwed. Jeff and Blair are gay and married and yet their relationship mirrors a typical marriage where a women marries a responsible and established man. There views on marriage are totally different.
I am over Jeff and Blair. I’m not sure why they even decided to get married. Jeff clearly is way too selfish to ever be a good spouse. I sadly feel like these two won’t make it.
I can’t believe this show is almost over! There must be hours and hours of unused footage…this show could have been a full season like housewives, 20 or so episodes…..8 episodes for all these couples/over 1 year is not enough!!! And yes I definitely ended up liking this show way more than I ever imagined.
It makes me really sad to see that Jeff and Blair are having troubles. I thought for sure they would be the ones to make it. I think Jeff has trust issues because of what he has gone through with his family. He probably feels like if he really lets his guard down with Blair that he will disappoint him. I don’t think Blair would becuase he really seems to love Jeff. Let’s hope they find a way to make it work and Jeff gets over his issues.
Alaska is growing on me a little. It seems like he wants to do the right thing, but is stuck between what he was taught and who he wants to be. I am starting to see the other side of Kim. I felt bad for her at first, but now I see she is a mess. She does not want to move to the west coast although she knew about him working there BEFORE they got married and the whole $700 thing was just dumb (never announce your money secrets where your husband can find out).
John is a diisgusting mess, overweight and unattractive. He is so mean to her. I don’t see much love and respect. And his sister is even worse. I see her causing problems in their marriage down the road (if they make it).
Tina overreacts soooooooooooooooooo much. She seriously needs a reality check. Thank goodness Tarz’s mom can talk her down (BTW, you know that Tarz is a really grounded guy because his mother is super sweet).
Tamara, absolutely.love.that.picture. Oh can we have a caption this contest………..lol
……”A girl can never have enough jewels!”……
Loved Alaska surprising Kim with the honeymoon. He was packing for his next LA trip so at least he was able to leave her in good spirits. Loved the scenes with his dad helping Kim cook.
Disgusted by Kan and his girlfriend and was in shock at their actions at the table. Like others, I thought the gf looked like Tarz. I was wondering if it was staged by the dad (not production) to teach Tina a lesson. The gf was rude and inappropriate. I was saddened by the news of the miscarriage and mad at the gf’s offhand remark because clearly she either didn’t know or didn’t care about their struggles (with the miscarriage and even in getting pregnant).
I can’t stand Jon and like others, Kath grew on me.
Jeff was disappointing, like TT said above. Though Blair can hit low which is unacceptable, Jeff is overbearing and stubborn about certain things.
Though Jeff probably wishes & wants equal rights for gay couples/marriage in theory, but in reality he can’t practice or accept it like heterosexual relationships.
Personally I know gay couples with the same issues as Jeff & Blair. Some are in relationships who handle their own finances separately & don’t mix together, but still share a life. Everything split down the middle.
Jeff needs to sell his house, and he & Blair should buy a house together and start from scratch. Then there will be no thoughts of the your house my house argument.
i think that’s a really smart suggestion. great idea to start afresh that way.
Blair seems to have a problem with equal payments while his name isn’t on the deed. Selling the house and buying another is a fantastic idea, and usually works. But, I think they live in California where many properties are worth less than what is owed. Jeff may take a tremendous loss if he sells now. I don’t know how long he’s owned the house, but, chances are he is upside down on the mortgage.
Maybe they can consider renting it out, and leasing a house they can both call home. At least until they get themselves on track. Sometimes we have to be extremely creative in order to make our relationships work out.
depends on where you live in california. the real estate market is on the upswing where i live. honestly i think jeff is justified in thinking blair is a little too into the sugar daddy aspect. warning bells went off in my head when blair started pressuring him into getting a will finalized if he wanted blair to contribute more equally. (and i’m the financially flighty one in my 20+-yr relationship)
I agree, sell the house and buy fresh – together! I also know married heteros who keep everything financial separate but split things down the middle. I think Blair would be open to that if they got their own house, not while paying for what is and always will be Jeff’s house.
I can’t imagine my dad bring home a women talking about having children, when I do not have any. Tina’s dad was letting her know that she can be replaced. This women is single with 4 childen, so she is just looking for a sperm donor. I do think Tina’s dad is trying to teach her a lesson.
John is by far the biggest douche on the show and that’s saying a lot because there are a lot of douchey characters on this show. I’m just so disgusted about how poorly he treats his wife -especially how he expresses his disgust with her pregnant physique. Thing is, this is how he treats her when he is happy and likes her. Imagine how he will be when he is upset and irritated by her. And that will happen, it happens in every marriage…