Kordell Stewart filed some papers in court that were exclusively obtained by HipHollywood. So go over there and take a look-see I’ll wait. Are you back? Great. Let’s LOL together discuss.
According to Kordell, Porsha is making up the whole lockout thing because she left the marital home on April 2. Well Kordell, let’s look back to April 7 when Porsha was filing paperwork about you locking her out. Isn’t that AFTER April 2nd? I know Porsha doesn’t quite understand how calendars work but is that a contagious affliction? At that time you said the police had to let her in twice. Now you want to try to claim abandonment?
Remember when you claimed that the woman in the home was a nanny? Should that not be sufficient for the care of your child by another woman? Did you think Porsha would still keep playing step mommy when you blindsided her with a divorce?
If she abandoned the property on April 2nd, why would you send a text on May 3rd to someone who has repeatedly stated you won’t give her a key saying, “Hey, I changed the locks.”
And one last thing Kordell, saying that someone is a celebrity is not a get out of support free card. There marital assets will be divided and it won’t be pretty. You probably should have considered the whole “cheaper to keep her” philosophy before you blindsided your closest ally.
He changed the locks and when he never gave her a key to get inside the house she abandoned the house. In his twisted mind that probably makes sense. :-/
It’s the only “real” he can see with his hooded eyelids! Can not STAND HIM!!
I thought this whole divorce was just a ploy to get Porsha back on RHOA. Is this just for her story line or are they really divorcing?
She originally quit right before she got the papers to work on their issues. So she came back.
It’s real.
Real as rain!
Lol, I swear I can’t with his dumb ass.
A) So after she found out about the divorce on twitter and had to go confirm it with a lawyer while he was in the house, she should be considerate enough to let him know that she is leaving the house
B)She “moved” out but left all her stuff behind so that you need to approve the list of items she can come back and get. What did she ” move ” out with then?
C) To the detriment of a 9 yr old that has both a daddy, a nanny, and a mom?
D) You shouldn’t give her a dime because she earns money through appearances but when she leaves the house, locks get changed?
E) Wasn’t it attacking HER brand when she’s on tv presenting herself as a trophy wife while her husband is down at the court filing papers?
Nice going, Kordell. I bet if she wasn’t before, Porscha is going to go for EVERYTHING. And from the sound of it, her lawyers are on top of it. Like Scar said, “Be prepared!”
He has shown what a petty a** man he really is. I think he hated seeing himself on TV and he hated that Porsha became more than just his play thing, that she actually had even a little depth to her. He seemed not to give a flying f*ck that she had that miscarriage and had no sympathy for his wife’s tears. He has just packed up emotionally and moved on but someone needs to teach him he still has some housekeeping to do, She is not just going to melt away and he was not too smart to not have any kind of a prenuptial. I think he underestimated Porsha and now she is going to get to take a bite out of his a**. She may play that dim bulb but I think she is not that dim. There is something to her and if given the chance to climb out of this mess she will be better off than if she ever stayed with him. I don’t know if the rumors are true about him but he has shown he is a no class shady b*tch to the world.
I don’t really understand using asterisks for letters in certain words. Help me understand the point?
I like to allude to profanity when I write instead of out and out swearing. I don’t pretend to be the Queen of England but I like to think I have a little class even when I think profanity is called for.
DOOFdell is an idiot! He so contradicts himself. Jabbering on about how Porsha is hurting his image, defaming his name, blah..blah..blah. Where was HE when she defended him to the hilt on the reunion show. That girl poured her heart out…professed her love.. And all the while he’s lurking in the darkness to annihilate her. What’s done in darkness, will be revealed in the light!
He should open his eyes.. Oh wait! He cant!
Please insert a strict lecture on not using the person’s actual name when talking about them, here.
I’m sorta tired of typing one out.
Got it girl! I am SURE you are tired! Will stay on top of it. Can’t have you fallin out on us!
10-4
This just screams STUNNNNNNTTTT. I still don’t believe it.
Vic… Porsha is not that smart.
Does anyone know what Phaedra named her new baby?
Phae Phae lol.
Why exactly does that make you laugh out loud?
Try it sometime, it’s soothing. Being angry all the time isn’t.
I’m certainly not angry. I’m also not a drooling, brain dead idiot. And only a drooling brain dead idiot would think that was funny.
If you don’t understand it, move on. Name calling is so necessary. You have issues. Get some help, don’t use this sight for therapy. Work it out with whoever is making so hateful. I can’t image it’s just me. You do it to many people on this site.
You called an infant a name. It seems like you can dish it out but not take it.
I think TC gets off on arguing with everyone. We should all just ignore her and maybe she might go away. Personally I enjoy arguing with her cause its easy and I don’t have to do alot of thinking. The only thing she can do is make fun of my grammar and that is just funny to me cause thats all she’s got. However I know her constant attacks bothers alot of other people so I feel bad for them. There’s always that one person who wants to ruin the fun for everybody!
JUST FOOD FOR THOUGHT:: If Porsche turns all Jodie Arias on Kordell, would we support her? Just one shot? Just one stab? I’m not talking about girlfriends/acquaintances, but estranged X’s……I find it amazing that more rages don’t occur. Especially when betrayal is involved.
Are you out.of.your fucking MIND????
Kordell may not be pretty (or nice) but he’s not dumb and I saw him look at her like she was stupid a couple of times (“guilty until proven guilty”.)
. She probably embarrassed the hell out of him when he saw how ignorant she came across on television (a laughable trophy wife).
But that’s OK. Porscha married this man because he was a “catch” = rich. They both knew that. And her so called “brand” depended exclusively on him (another brilliant move). So I say – all’s fair.
It’s Kordell’s money and he should fight to keep it, and Porscha married him primarily because he had it; so she should fight to take it. They deserve each other.
May the best bitch win.
Shame on Kordell, he didn’t do his homework regarding Porsha’s intellectual level. Porsha obviously did hers…$$$$ Ching Ching.
Why does everyone think they know what’s in people’s hearts? She seems extremely in love with him, even though she did say some things that were inappropriate. It appears that if someone has alot of money then nobody could possibly really love them. What would it take for someone to prove their love for a rich person? It just doesn’t make sense why people are so quick to judge whats in someone’s heart.
Kordell handled the filing of the divorce in a very vindictive way… He had to “show her” in his mind. Good thing for Porsha there were no kids, or else this would have been one of the messiest divorce in reality show divorce history.
That being Said, I think Porsha is pretty vindictive herself. I remember when she just wouldn’t back down on Kenya after they had it out several times. During the trip to Nene’s home in Hollywood Kenya cooked for her and all, and she still acted like a spoiled brat. They should have probably worked things out as they both deserve each other.
Kenya didn’t do Porsha any favors… she was cooking for everyone. Porsha was a minute part of Kenya’s problems at that point.
Nicely said Tamara. I hope Porsha gets him good !!!
Ms. Tattles, I am starting to think that Kordell is jealous of his wife’s popularity, he seems to being things to satisfy his massive ego. He is the big baller but she is the draw now due to her appearance on RHOA. I myself had never heard of Kordell/Slash and I love football.
I agree, he really seems to have a very low self esteem and is just odd to me on lots of levels, but, she picked him knowing all this and now is being made to look like a gold digger missing a few working brain cells.
I hadn’t heard of Kordell either, but she still wouldn’t be relevant if it wasn’t for him or at least the lifestyle he gave her.
I’m sorry, but I’m not impressed with women (or in this case females) like Porsha. She’s a parasite. In this day and age, it’s either her grandfather or her husband’s accomplishments she steals to look good.
The marriage lasted five minutes, she brought no assets to it and had no children.
Her husband publicly humiliated her and apparently locks her out every other day. If she had even a scrap of dignity she’d a been gone. But she’s a leech by nature.
..telling Nene she’s supposed teach her how to be a strong black woman like she’s fifteen years old…… bitch go away.
I’m sorry I disagree with you. Do you know Porsha personally? It seems you have a lot of inside information or is it speculation??? IJS What makes you think she’s a leech and she needs to steal shine from her grandfather or Kordell? Until she came on tv she was quietly living her life and working so it is not like she is using their names to gain fame. She is famous in her own right because of the Real Housewives of Atlanta. The whole time she has been married to Kordell we never heard anything about her so I don’t know where you coming from with that. She made the statement about Nene because Nene is older than her and could probably give her some good advice and take her under her wing and help along. #toomuchnegativity
I don’t know what Porsha was doing before – but – As Soon As She Got On TV, 100% her identity and claims to status were through the accomplishments of her Grandfather and/or her husband – which she reiterated ad nauseousness.
No inside information needed.
Here in the ATL we try not to speak badly of the dead. I will say he is not someone I would want my kids to emulate.
I may have been a little harsh at the end there. I grant you. Still….
I agree with you for the most part and I hate when spouses drag messy divorces into the court of public opinion. Porsha knew that man was Fred Flinstone and that he wanted a traditional marriage when she cosigned the marriage license. When everything was good, people were saying ‘stay out of their marriage.” I agree with that, I am not in the marriage and don’t know the in’s and out’s of the situation. They are still married and Porsha should have enough dignity to not try to play on public sympathy now.
Uh.. they kinda put us in their marriage when they went on TV.
Wow! I may be the only person who doesn’t see Kordell as a cad. They were married for a little less than two years. During the marriage I’m sure she received financial support, gifts, trips etc. The judge will consider all of this, including Porsha’s ability to make a living. She may receive spousal support for a few years, but not for very long.
I don’t understand the hostility toward a man who clearly wanted a stay at home wife. I didn’t find him controlling, he gave advise to his wife. How are men to respond to a miscarriage? At what stage did she miscarry? Not all men show emotions. The question is, “How did he as a man process the loss?” We don’t know what transpired during that time.
I don’t recall Kordell referring to Porsha as a trophy wife. If a stepchild is in your home, there should be some interaction. A partner should have an establish relationship with your child. The exact interaction is determined between the adults. Case in point- Jada Smith and Trey.
Kordell was/is a well athlete. He has made his professional mark and no one should diminish his accomplishments. Furthrmore, Porsha and Kordell are at different stages in life and evidently couldn’t come together to minimize the differences. It happens everyday. Divorce. Again why vilify the man because he wants a divorce. Is Porsha being honest about the situation? Do we actually know what she’s doing? Attorney’s advise client’s all the time. Play the victim, gain sympathy in hopes that the judge will rule in your favor. Sometime is works, other times it doesn’t.
Kordell may not be handsome to some, but remember however he looks, Porsha married him.
Thank god. SANITY!
I understand your point of view but the stories that we have heard are crazy. I’m wondering if you watched any of the episodes of the Real Housewives of Atlanta? Kordell is controlling. there were times when they were having conversations and he interrupted her in the middle of a sentence and asked her if he heard what he said she needed to do. This is something that was happening frequently so maybe you missed an episode or two but from what I could see he was overbearing and a bit controlling.
You are right that we don’t know the whole story but form the outside looking in it looks like Kordell is the villain. Who files for divorce and doesn’t discuss it with their partner first? If there are problems within the marriage you should first seek out your partner and try to rectify the situation. In this situation it doesn’t seem that was what happened. So the moment he filed for divorce without talking to his wife about it first was the moment he vilified himself. And if memory serves me right he told Porsha that there would be no nanny’s in there home. So what happened to that? And why does he have custody of that child anyway. Something in the back of my mind tells me Kordell does not play fair. Regardless to how long the y have been married if her separate coins can’t keep her in the lifestyle she has been accustomed to fro the last two years then he needs to pay up. That’s just my opinion no legal basis just my opinion.
Thanks for presenting your point of view; however, what’s sinister about a man who has custody of his child, a son at that! Men can be great at parenting. I wanted my father to raise me. My mom was an excellent mother, but my father offered more for what I needed.
I know how editing can change the context of a situation, so, I don’t respond as others may. Could Kordell have stated that if something continues, I’m filing for divorce and Porsha not take him seriously? Just saying! Too many uncertainties for me to engage in speculation pertaining to their marriage.
A spouse of two years is not entitled to be kept in any lifestyle. Where is the contract and contribution. I respect your opinion, I just happen to have a different one. It’s good to exchange thought without negative connotations attached.
Good Day and be Bless
I am fond of Porsha based on what we saw on the show. She’s harmless fun and ditzy. However, and I hate to even write this. We never know how much is storyline. While the court documents prove the divorce is real, we can wonder how much of the pregnancy storyline is contrived. I assume the test on camera etc is, but the therapy at the tail end of the season for help with the miscarriage seemed…like a storyline grab for relevancy to me. I am not going to accuse anyone of not suffering from any sort of loss. I will say that I personally would not seek therapy for a miscarriage, a year or so after it happened at the end of a reality show season on national TV… make of that what you will.
TT. Shame on her if it was for TV. But, depending on at what point baby was loss therapy is necessary for a lifetime for some people. Kordell comes across as cold, and calculating. Even the guys on RHOA lost respect for him and not of them are angels.
Very likely he warned her and she ignored. I also understood that she renegotiated (or was trying to), her contract with Bravo against Kordell’s wishes. So you never really know.
I do know that, after two years, she’s not entitled to a lifestyle; transitional support for a few months perhaps. But then again – why? Porsha’s healthy, has no children and earns an income. She strikes me as a hustler but smart men don’t play that anymore.
Oh, everyone gather around! Miss Cane is here! She knows all about the divorce and how Bravo negotiations work. ROFLMAO. She also knows about GA divorce law. THANK THE LORD SHE SHOWED UP.
@tamara:
hmmm. “I also understood” doesn’t mean I KNOW. I didn’t claim to know a thing about GA divorce law.
But thanks anyway.
Ms. Cane, I’m from the west coast where the husband/wife gets half (with some variables). What’s the Georgia law. And, regarding the negotiations with Bravo for a second season – Did Kordell have to sign-up if Porsha chose to? Or was he “again” trying to control her? Doesn’t each person have their own contract?
I’ve see RHs on shows without their husbands, so I know it can be done.
The husbands are not paid.
If the husbands are not paid, I’m sure they aren’t required to participate in the show… so he should’ve moved out of the way and let her do as she chose.
I for one, at the beginning did not see him as necessarily controlling, I just thought he was heavy handed in his dealings with her. I hoped that they would take the time after the season and get counseling.
However, toward the end there were several disquieting things such as the miscarriage. The point was not whether he showed emotion or how long the pregnancy was. The point is that his wife was suffering from it and could not count on him for support. I have been through it and I understand the devastation and the guilt. The thing that got me through it was the support and strength of my husband though he wasn’t outwardly emotional. He allowed me to break down and then helped me rebuild. To be in a place where you feel you cannot trust your partner with your emotions and have to put on a façade…
There is a difference between a housewife and a house slave. He was completely unwilling to work on any type of compromise. Why couldn’t he watch the baby for a couple of hrs when she stepped out for example? He has nothing else to do. He showed us that he has no problem hiring a nanny for his 9 yr old. Furthermore, why then sign up for RHOA if you don’t want her outside the home. We all know what the show is about and what it brings. If nothing else, she would have to go on all those “girl trips” as per her contract.
The length of the marriage is irrelevant. Marriage is a legally binding contract. By entering into it, you both agree to shoulder certain responsibility. You don’t get to dodge them because you don’t want to play house anymore. A wife or a husband should not be a shiny toy easily discarded.
Kordell is that you? Don’t matter how it seems ( outside looking in) he started this crap wanting a divorce but didn’t tell his wife of this news he tweeted it. Another way of controlling her while she’s on tv standing by her man ( that didn’t show) his bitch ass home tweeting about a divorce he’s the one that went public if he was serious about all of this he should have then went to the court not now to keep her out the house that was just stupid on his part
Is there a prenuptial agreement? If not, he truly planned to be with Porsha for a while. Hopefully, we’ll find out what happened. They opened their lives up to us, so I hope they don’t leave us hanging.
“Furthermore”
What’s the storyline behind the baby’s mom? Is she an ex-wife, ex-girlfriend or what. Do they have joint custody? I saw the photo/video of Kordell, the baby and the mama together at some children’s entertainment facility. Is he seeing her, is he gay, what’s up. I’m reading some may different stories on this blog. Does anyone have the real story.
She is Sheree’s friend Tania that made the remark about Lisa’s hair. She said that they were engaged but he dragged his feet about going through with it for so long that she finally called it off. She also said that was not her in that photo.
Not sure about the rest of it though.
Thank you Seriously. Maybe he met Tania after he saw how She.. trapped and treated Bob and subsequently changed his mind.
Exactly. Damn Dummy
In my mind, stay at home wife means someone who is mostly managing the household and childcare. It doesn’t literally mean you stay at home every minute and are responsible for every minute of child care and you’re not allowed to have any interests/responsibilities of your own. That’s why you have a husband to share the responsibility of raising children and managing a home and that’s why there such a thing as babysitters/nannies/housekeepers/gardeners, repairmen,etc.
On the who stays in the house/who gets locked out business. All I know is NC. NC law requires you stay in two separate residences for 12 months before divorce can be granted. Our brilliant legislature is now changing that to 24 months. That way 2 adults can spending even longer fighting, arguing about spending even more money, where, what the children are doing, etc. It’s crazy. Mark my word, more estranged spouses will get hurt/killed. It happened here all the time. But that’s why who moves out, who stays, etc. can effect the way expenses are handled and the separation settlement. In NC if Porsche just left and got an apt. it would significantly change the support during and after separation. The divorce agreement is yet another entirely different document. I’m not saying after 2 years of marriage she’s entitled to a lot but she is entitled to a transition period of support, especially when she was blindsidedly (not a word) separated. No matter what happened during the marriage and nobody knows the answers to that, even the 2 in the marriage because they only know their own perspective.
Dissolving a marriage is sloppy, nasty, messy, hurtful, dangerous, expensive. Should be taught in high school…..right along with the negatives of youthful parenting.
I don’t think we need a class in anything accept communication. Find out up front what each person expects: what each is bringing into the relationship & marriage; and how everything will be split should the marriage fail. Most people are afraid of that kind of communication. They want to live in la-la land and hope they stay together forever, therefore won’t have to deal wit those situations.
I have been married FOREVER (46 years). NOTHING we could have said, thought of, or even imagined in that first year would apply now. Life is complicated. I and my 2 children all have degrees in Communication and are all in long term marriages. The only thing we learned is to think now and act way later. I think all of us (my family) would agree, every day we find more and more we know nothing about nothing. My motto, and I taught it to my children, “when in doubt, don’t”.
Charley, I have been married for 43 years and we had a lot of communication before marriage that didn’t amount to much as time went on. We both changed as we got older…our likes and dislikes changed, our careers changed, the way we said we would raise our kids and the way we raised them changed, even the number of children we planned changed…so, YEAH, marriage is complicated and no matter how much communication you have before marriage there are too many unforeseen things, bumps in the road, so to speak, that happen in the middle of a marriage. Sometimes, I didn’t like my husband, though I love him, and he didn’t like me. Did I think that would EVER happen when I was so crazy in love with him way back when. LOL
My husband is a minister and we have counseled many couples but more in the last 6 or 8 years as ever before. Marriage today reminds me of throwing away all the potatoes because you find a bad one. That’s what many couples are doing these days. They find a flaw in their spouse or a problem in their marriage and it’s easier to dump the marriage than to work out the problem!
Not really knowing what went on with Porsha and Kordell but from what I saw and heard on the show, in my opinion, he didn’t want a wife. He wanted a babysitter, a maid and a cook! And he tried to use scripture to keep her ”in place”! She rebelled, he didn’t like it so divorced her.
Charlie and Rose, you both have a few years on me…. I’ve only been married 39 years. I’m sure you both established some rules and expectations to set the standard in your relationship before you got married. For example: stay home and raising children; have a career; finish school, etc. And yes, you are correct, things change on a daily basis which force you to adjust accordingly. But, it’s truly impossible for you to have made it this far without a good line of Communication. Each has to know what is and isn’t important to the other and is not “generally” don through osmosis. I’m sure we all have deal breakers, some spoken and some we’ve kind of figured out on our own. Things we thought would end the marriage, placed on a scale. I’m sure you know what I mean.
Based on what we know about Porsha and Kordell’s relationship/marriage, they didn’t have a real conversation before they said “I DO” and/or somebody flipped the script.
IMO She is better off without him – he’s clearly self- absorbed… and cruel. She is no angle, but, seems to be a better person than he.
I can not say I feel too bad for Porsha. I stopped watchin Atlanta this season after I saw her first scenes. Total airhead.
The man is C.R.E.E.P. on oh so many levels Miss Downlow is just showing her true colors. A b*tch by any other name… Porsha is the better for getting out of this travesty of a marriage, however it was she was shown the exit.
This divorce is going to cost Kordell a lot of $ in legal fees…Porsha, if you’re reading this, make him pay your attorney fees. If Porsha wanted to play dirty, then she can accuse of him of entering the marriage on fraud and alienation of affection if she has proof of alleged extracurriculars…ijs
I don’t think that a young and healthy woman with a college degree and no children should get spousal support. I believe she should get a small stipend for her trouble and humiliation, but that’s all. Kordell did not marry a child bride. Some people act like Porsha is some aimless dependent child that needs to be taken care off. Porsha has a college degree, owned a daycare business and owned a Condo (which makes her a homeowner) before she meet Kordell. Grant she is mentally and intellectually immature but that does not give her or anyone a pass for not going out and getting a job. I work with people like her all day every day. She is not a child (even though she acts like on) people need to make her accountable and stop making excuses for this over 30years old woman.
I Agree.
Agreed
Well, him texting her and her bing in and out of the house does not mean she was living there. I’m sure she did not move her belongings immediately or ever. And she was probably in and out on the guise of needing things. Just to stay up in his face.
This woman is a liar. She lied several times on the show. She told him altered versions of stories to make herself a victim and to cover how hasty she was. So…I don’t honestly buy the die eyed “blindsided” claim.
How long after their wedding did she miscarry? Did they have a big wedding and a long engagement?
And saying that he should have no say in whether she is on the show or not is just retarded. It kills me the double standards some of you have.
Being. Not bing.
Here we go again.
Excuse me?
The other point I meant to make was that she is super annoying and repetitive. I meant porsha although I guess that fits for old diarrhea or the keyboard above me. Anyway, porsha being told to stop yapping and do what he said was most likely the product of having had the same mind numbingly boring conversation with her for the 100th time, having answered but not been listened to.
I suppose your purpose for being on this site is to “spice it up” a bit. I believe you go a bit beyond that by targeting the people on it. Try discussing the topics instead.
teecee, I like the way you space your paragraphs
#projectuglybaby
I see what you did there. This new project has great potential. You were right. #compassion2013 was to great a leap for us. #projectuglybaby works for me.
Seriously, I don’t give a fuck what you like or don’t like. Seriously #projectgofuckyourself
I was discussing the topic, loony tuna.
I will take that under advisement, teecee. In the meantime, remember you is kind, you is smart, you is important
True.
The show is edited in such a way that we can’t really know what went on. I think it’s suspicious that she was “blindsided” that way too. I would think it would make Kordell look bad in the eyes of the court. I can’t see an attorney advising him to it. It’s more likely that he warned her and she just didn’t believe him. To save face, she played the victim. JMO.
Tamara,
I enjoyed most of my time on your site. It was new for me and quite enlightening.
After reading the corresponding tweets regarding some of us on this site, I’ve determined it is unhealthy for me to continue participating.
I wish you well.
Farewell, smitsa. Best of luck in your journey to healthier domains.