Oh Dear Lord, Dr. V’s Dad is the bartender. I can’t wait for him to show up here and tell us how much fun it was. OOOH Dr. V calls Alexis a perpetual victim and a bully in denial. She says that Vicki got surgery because she fears death, Tamra is struggling to figure out when to be aggressive and how to be assertive or something, Dr. V always kisses the ass of the housewife in the chair next to her, last time it was Kyle.(Don’t yell at me Joe, we made up remember?) She wanted to say Tamra is a bitch. Gretchen is in the process of reinventing herself. Tamra has purple pieces in her hair. Did I miss a reason for this? Oh wait! I may have to take that back. Dr. V says that all of those women were bullying Alexis. Tamra takes offense and says that Alexis chose to be there so it can’t be bullying. We go to break with Dr. V trying to illuminate the flaws in that logic.
Someone asked Dr. V her best advice and she said “gratitude”. Tamra literally looked like she did not know what the word meant. So Andy asked her if she had those feeling and she shrugged and said sometimes. I honestly don’t think she knows the word.
Questions for Tamra: Did you invite her to the party just so you could kick her out? Absolutely not. (y’all know how I feel about the word absolutely….)
You say you don’t bully Alexis, what word would you use for how you treat her? I don’t feel that I treated her poorly. (Andy interrupts incredulously, with, “tonight”?) I had to honest with myself and with her. WHAAAAAAT?
Do you think you will ever be happy with yourself and stop being such a mean girl? Tamra is snotty with her non-answer and asks Denise if she is happy with herself.
Since you have had issues with pretty much everyone do you ever think it could be you that is the problem? Absolutely. I bring up my issues.
Why is your hair purple? Autism awareness month.
Why did you forgive Gretchen and Slade but not Alexis? Her answer was that she just came to a place with Gretchen where they wanted to move forward.
What is your take on Lydia? I love Lydia. I think she is a fresh of breath air. (sic) All of that money talk on the first episode was not like her, she’s very down to earth.
Mazel: Sweet Brown! She has a new video, Cold Poppin’!
Jackhole: New Zealand for putting a dude in jail for watching cartoon porn
Poll Question: Who is the biggest mean girl? 51%
Tamra has had a problem w/ Quinn, Jeanna, Slade, Gretchen, Simon – her former husbnd, Vicki, Jim and! Alexis…and I’m probably forgetting someone…there is clearly something wrong W/her…social phobia…not sure. Tamra is the common denominator in all those relationships. Perhaps more serotonin in synptic space might be a viable option. Otherwise call an exhorist.
100% agree Garen. Bummed that Bravo is degrading most of the Housewives Series with wives/actors that are horrendous people (Tamra in OC… Brandi in BH… Kenya in ATL).
Garen great point!
Tamra has a hair trigger temper from hell. If we look at her track record, it speaks for itself. The way she snaps over the smallest thing really makes me concerned for her children. I really don’t say this lightly.
Excellent point…she needs mediction for intermittent explosive disorder
Exactly! There’s no way she and Eddie are as happy as they see. Tamra does not get along with anyone. Eddie is with Tamra for money and/or exposure. Tamra’s charming personality is not keeping Eddie around.
Tamara is so annoying – she really is a mean girl and I don’t think she is just playing that part
And who did her makeup she looks worse than usual!
So Dr V thinks Vicki had plastic surgery because she fears death?!!! So at what age I wonder does she feel that if a woman has plastic surgery she is doing it because she fears death as opposed to she just wants to look better?
Her point was lost on you. Vicki keeps saying she did not do it because her looks were criticized. She just did it for her. I think the dr had a good point. Vicki did not like looking in the mirror and seeing an aging woman because that means death is getting closer. The grandmother thing probably hit that home too. The way she looked at Lydia an talked about Lydia being like her? I thought she was going to bite the child’s neck and try to suck the youth out of her. The scene from Costa Rico where they were around the table? Vicki looked WAY better than she looks now. Sun is really not the enemy.
I agree with Dr. V’s assessment of Vicki.
OMG, so well said teecee66 ! I think Dr. V is very smart and nailed these ladies. Vicki looks strange, I don’t think she needed the chin implant at all.Did you notice that the first thing Vicki asked Lydia was do you work?
I clearly remember Vickie saying that in some part being called Miss Piggy did influence her decision to get work done. I think the “I did it for myself” was aimed more at she did not do it for a man – but rather she wanted to improve her looks. I see very little difference in her now that the surgery has settled in. Her face was swollen as you would expect it to be for several months. And in more recent pictures I really do not see much difference.
As for not liking looking in the mirror and seeing an aging woman – well I dont know too many women that do like to see a reflection of an aging woman – that does not mean they fear death necessarily – it might just mean that she wants to look the best she can for as long as she can.
Also I think Dr. V missed the mark when she said Alexis was a bully in denial – or whatever she said about her – Alexis really is not a bully. She has faults but that is really not one of them.
Dr. V even said Tamara IS a bully – I think when a gang of women ridicule and call a woman names and keep picking on her even when they see she is visably upset – that is bullyish behavior. A pack mentality. It is more serious in school age kids because their sense of self worth is more fragile. But Tamara, Gretchen and Heather are bullys. Not in ever instance but at Tamara’s party for sure they were.
Last season I liked Heather but this season her true colors are showing through. She is nasty to her husband, she acts superior, she actually thinks she is a big celeb (loved it when Lydia’s husband said we can’t feature your house on the cover because that is reserved for real stars- hahahah) and she quickly jumped on the band wagon to bash Alexis who while not the sharpest knife in the kitchen is sort of sweet.
It does not take a brain surgeon to realize that Alexis was feeling crappy about her financial situation and yes was over compensating because of that – you would think they would cut her some slack – but they just piled on.
Oh, comments on the age thing AGAIN.
ADMIN EDIT:
I’ve asked that the derogatory nicknames not be used on this site. Furthermore, Andy Cohen is a man and does not use the honorific ‘Miss” There are plenty of real housewives sites where this sort of language is accepted and even encouraged. This is not one of them. Thanks.
Tamara, Gretchen and Heather are all idiots. They are bullies. They claim to be good people but talk the most trash about people money and looks do not make them a good person. I think they are jealous of Alexis! Tamara is the problem she fights with everyone
Tamra is vapid and aging. Not a good combination. It’s nauseating to watch surgically enhanced (but still not youthful) ), middle aged women try desperately to be…I can’t even tell.. Stretched, bird legged and big boobed. Most of these useless shrews wouldn’t have a dime if they hadn’t married it. Seriously. Why would a good looking man be there if not for the money? Men are attracted to mature women because they are…. MATURE..
Now the Atlanta women are interesting because, say whatever you want, they’ve, at least, earned their OWN identities. They had their own hustle (lawyer, beauty queen, actress, music producer, super model) which gives lends them credibility as mature and capable women.
All except for poor Porsha whose aspiration was to be like the OC gals…O dear.
Bethany and Teresa are also on their game
JMHO..
Tamara and Gretchen are bullies! Alexis is a whiner.
There is a difference in being an argumentative [email protected] stirring bitch and being a bully. I am getting sick of ALL the reality shows using this word for when an argument or conflict plays out. Why do they insist each disagreement must have an agressor or bully and a victim? Sometime, most times, both are wrong, skewing what was said and just never ever relenting on their point of view. Just like Vicki when Tamra was trying to apologize at Hannah’s, she caveated every “I’m sorry” with a “but you” comment! I can’t believe no one is picking up that Vicki stirred this particular pot hard and then sat back and watched it unfold, saying nothing to clarify she had almost insisted Alexis come. I have my issues with Alexis but almost felt sorry for her until she started her bully nonsense again at the table. Good for Lydia for trying to clarify the bully issue next episode, based on sneak peek, but good Lord, did y’all catch Alexis claiming she had to take meds for it?! Yes Tamra was uber defensive when the caller asked about her being happy with herself and stop being a mean girl, but damn, that was a trifling question, asked by a mean girl!!!
Lastly, and I am sure I will get flame sprayed by Pinky, but wow, the name calling based on flaws or sexual orientation? Give Andy whatever crap you want about the direction of the shows, I agree with you on that, but whoever he loves, he is still a man who deserves a Mr. Andy while reaming him a new one! Ha see what I did there?
They should start naming Tamara “the terror”. That girls is scary.. What a ghetto and a bully. She shouldn’t be in housewife of Orange Country cause she degrades all the housewives of Orange Country. No class! She must have a rotten up bringing.
The whole show changed once Tamra came on. It got meaner & prettier.
Did you say prettier? Overprocessed hair, badly sun damaged skin, liver spots on her declote & shoulders, and most [email protected] all, that ugly heart.
Double AMEN!!
Tamra is nothing more than a junkyard dog. Her children must be so proud!
Tamra and Gretchen “came to a place where they wanted to move forward” — my hind foot! That must be Tamra speak for “we both were needed a new story line” to keep the paychecks (that Tamra works SO hard for) coming in
Tamra said the purple streaks in her hair were to support Autism Awareness Month. I guess ribbons are so out of fashion these days?
Plus the Autism awareness ribbon is not a solid color at all. It’s puzzle pieces.
There was just a “Light it up blue for Autism”. Everyone wore blue on that day (April 2nd I believe),but you are correct, the Autism Awareness ribbon is puzzle pieces of different colors. I don’t understand the purple in her hair. (Maybe she tried to dye it blue but with so much crap already in her hair, it came out purple!) My 12 yr. old grandson is autistic and a straight A student 🙂 I had to get the proud Grandmother moment in….sorry lol.
I know Lauren Manzo’s business Calface was doing color strands in customers hair to celebrate Autism awareness. Tamra is tight with Jacqueline. Maybe Lauren did it? Just a thought.
Good one! She certainly looked like the devil when she went outside of gym to calm ridicule Alexis yet again. Heather is a complete pretensious fake and Gretchen’s backstabbing ways are so disappointing she used to be classy and caring now she’s just like tamera. A mean girl with no heart.
If you are opening a fitness center maybe you’re arms shouldn’t shake all over. I’m just sayin’, have Terry tighten that up
lol love the last comment about the atms on Trashbag Tamra. I noticed, her boobs do not look right or good – but she has NO definition in her arms – just cellulite. For a fitness rep – she should actually workout and walk the walk. Tummy tucks don’t count Tamra.
Tamra is an evil bitch. Period. She’s ostracized everyone around her at one time or another. She doesn’t just speak her mind, she cuts to the core of people’s soul and decapitates them emotionally. She is the most wicked human being I’ve ever seen on reality television. I thought Abby Lee Miller of Dance moms was mean, but Tamra makes her look like Mother Teresa.
God, you couldn’t be more riight…well done….evil to the core!
Tamara is a bully! She is treating Alexis horrible. I suspect tamara needs to take a “healing choices” class. She has pent up anger rage meaness an picks at someone different every season. Get a grip tamara…one day you will answer for every hateful word that comes out of your mouth.
Why are you yelling at me?
Tamara is a bully. Even bullied her mother and made her cry. What a piece of work, you must feel so proud always blaming everyone for your lack of being a better person.