Nene had some interesting comments in her blog about Kandi today. She’s still playing the role of someone taking the high road. However, she does suggest that Kandi should be directing some of her negativity toward Kim. The odd part to me is that Nene knows it’s coming. Kandi and Kim do eventually have it out this season. But it sure seems like Nene and Kandi don’t maintain any sort of friendship. This is probably yet another reason why Kandi was so sour about going to visit the set of The New Normal.
Nene Says:
The negative things Kandi said before coming to my event: people who are intimidated by my future always bring up my past, but I never focus on who is against me because I have sooooo many people that are for me. If I stopped and focused on the negative, I could not be where I am today! I’m a tough girl, and I can take when shots are fired at me, but you better be able to take what I shoot back! Oh, here’s a note for you Kandi: instead of being negative towards me, the person you really need to check has checked you so many times in so many ways even while standing in your house, but you can’t see that right? It’s just me, right? Righttttttt!
Interesting…
NeNe has NOT changed. I saw all of her tweets during and after LAST night’s episode. She is so self absorbed thinking that now she is some type of “Hollywood Starlet”. She is wrong. She is extremely insecure because she keeps mentioning how jealous the other ladies are of her success. She needs a MAJOR slice of Humble pie. Just because you are hot now in “Hollywood” doesnt mean you will be 1 yr from now. IJS
Now that picture looks more like NeNe than any of the others! That’s the true NeNe!
Whatever. She’s funny. 100x more entertaining than any of the rest of them. She’s SUPPOSED to be narcissistic and over the top. That’s her raisin d’être. Haha. I know. raison. But auto correct and I agree that lenethia is more raisin.
Nene is a bird. Bravo loves her because she is an ass with no class – which means a ratings Bonanza. If she is so valuable to Bravo, why didn’t they give her a show? Her raison d’être is to be Queen Chickenhead!
THANK YOU. 100% agree with this comment. Damn shame in this society that bad and trifling behavior gets rewarded every time. The more things change, the more they stay the same.
In Nene’s defense, I’ve read that she has/had been offered a spin-off and while she really wanted to do it she ultimately declined it because it wouldn’t fit with the new, respectable, Hollywood “starlet” image she’s cultivating.
You’ve read it where? Her insane tweets? That’s the only place I’ve seen it.
Nene is only trying to do things a bit more on the downlow. Her pr people and agent have all told her for sure that if she wants to be taken serious and continue to grow her “career”, she needs to act like she has some sense. Granted they know she has to bring some drama for her scripted role on RHOA but she has to maintain some perspective as well. Nene is who she is and is hasn’t changed.
Nene was calming down at the end of last season. It’s possible she’s actually maturing. Possible.
Don’t know but it would be a good thing. She is a grown ass woman and needs to act like one. That whole craziness that they get on with is just disturbing.
People with Care Bear avatars probably should not use phrases like “downlow”. Just saying.
Ignorance must be your middle name. My reference to “downlow” has nothing to do with anyone’s sexual orientation, but rather to being done on the quiet tip. If you look at that care bear, it has the breast cancer awareness ribbon. That avatar is chosen in honor of my mother who is currently fighting the good battle.
BWAAHAHAH. Like I said…
Meh…I agree with NeNe…funny how nobody is mentioning how Kandi started tweeting first
Negative… Kandi did NOT start the Twitter drama between NeNe 1st. NeNe was subtweeting Kandi throughout the entire episoide ( i.e. calling her “the Joker”). However, Kandi was the 1st to actually mention Nene , NOT subtweet her.
I disagree.
Kandi talked shit about nene during a confessional on air! That’s what nene was reacting to on twitter.
Kandi neveeeerrrrrrrr stops throwing shade so she deserves whatever she gets. Kandi needs to please turn her eyebrows down a little. It may help with the joker look.
Agreed.
Kandi should get a back bone and face Kim. Nene has never pretended to like Kandi.
Kim never paid Kandi even when Andy asked her to pay Kandi during the 3rd and 4th season reunion.
So in my opinion, Nene is right. Kandi should hate on her real hater = KIM.
FINALLY–people are seeing the light! I concur 100%!
All of them have at one time or another said negative things about each other -NeNe can make some really snide remarks, and Kandi can be messy – it’s a cycle.
NeNe threw shade initially in season 2, then it was apparently resolved – they then went to Miami and seemed to do ok together, then Kandi came back to the crew with the “she’s rich” comments – then NeNe came with the “twitter people” and the “dildo” stuff – I thought that they had moved past that phase once the reunion ended – apparently they haven’t.
Now it’s this – both of them need to just let it go – in the words of Cynthia “it ain’t that deep”. – NeNe is past 40 and Kandi is almost 40 – they need to build a bridge and get over it – neither one of them is above reproach.
She did kind of go in on Kandi in her Bravo Blog. Now that she’s gone in, I want her to go out, find a chair, & have a seat.
Eff class! This is reality tv! Kandi shouldn’t be so shady towards Nene when
1. Kim owes her money
2. Kim talked badly about her new home
I liked that Nene called her out. Now we all know that if we had money, and people loved us (and paid) for who we were we’d still be the same and maybe brag a bit about the money we’ve made
Cosign.
No one told me there would be trigonometry.
I am sorry but I completely agree with Nene here, the comments and eye rolling that Kandi was doing at the event were nothing but pure hate.
If Kim or Phaedra would have gotten a role in one of Ryaan Murphy’s gigs, Kandi would had been the first one to celebrate them, she would had thrown a party and would had been lighting up fireworks. Kandi critisizes Cinthya for throwing a party for Nene and I don’t understand why, whether Kandi likes it or not, Nene got something really good going and Cinthya as her friends wants to celebrate it, there is nothing wrong with it, but Kandi just couldn’t take it, her discontempt showed in her face loud and clear.
Nene is absolutely right when she says that Kandi can see every little thing that is wrong with her but fails to see how rude is Kim to her face, she gives Kim pass after pass and it is hard to take anymore. Kim screwed her with money for her song, she made a huge deal about the black baby comment, she talked about her daughter Riley and how she took care of her and yet Kandi always finds a way to take the blame away from Kim, even in this last WWHL, she blamed Sweety for the racist comments Kim made. Kandi has some special kind of hate going against Nene and it is blatant and clear as the day is long. I do wonder if that is because Nene out of all the other ladies of Atlanta is the only one who has turned this gig into something profitable and Kandi wants to be the only one known as succesful. Uhmmmm
Now is the winter of our discontempt.
Kim keeps referring to the house that she is moving out of, as her house. I thought she was buying the house, she said at the reunion show that it was in escrow. Then she asked Kory if they could live in it another year and he said no. Kandi really need to leave Kim along. Kandi has done alot, for kim and she keeps disrespecting Kandi.
Kandi is doing what black women have classicly done for many years; hate on one another. For some reason, women of color have a difficult time supporting each other but they will stand in hell and burn for someone other than those who reflect themselves. I think it is not only sad, its a never ending cycle of dysfunctional behavior that has gone down in many books of historical value as “slave mentallity.”
Kandi needs to take a step back and look within, it wouldn’t hurt and I would hope as a sucessful young woman raising a little girl that will grow up to hopefully be the same, she should want to instill the same strong values in her daughter. It’s time out for the angry black woman, its old, it’s tired and it is an unbearable excuse for being the bitch in the room. Get a grip Kandi, you have been blessed and what you have God made room to give it to many others.
Kandi stated she wanted to “knock the hell out of Kendra” when it was KIM who brought the black baby talk to Kendra’s attention. Kandi blamed Sweetie for feeding Kim negative info about black people & certain areas of town. Kandi cried like an idiot on the 3rd season reunion show when Andy asked about her royalties for the whack ass song. And she bowed down when Kim questioned her about the black baby mess. I don’t know about anyone else, but I see a pattern here.
Kandi has that look at me mentality and wants the spotlight on her & no one else. Why is she on this show again? Oh yeah, I remember. She’s trying to be relevant, because no one is or was checking for her. She continues to bring up that Grammy – which was won for songwriting, because let’s face it, Kandi can carry a tune, but she’s not going to win any singing awards. LaTocha Scott was the voice of Excape. However, Kandi wanted to be the lead singer, & thus the reason the group disbanded.
I don’t blame NeNe for calling Kandi’s country butt out, because Kandi lets Kim piss all over her, while having strength for the others, with the exception of her co-signer, Fakedra(Phaedra).
Last, but not least, since Kandi can take care of every MF’r in here, she needs to hire a stylist, and enroll in an etiquette class. She talks through clinched teeth, says “yo” instead of your, waves her hands around while talking, and is always the tackiest of the ladies! Something tells me while she’s seeing hearts, this Todd character is seeing $$$$$$!!!
you lost me off the bat talking about Kendra (the landlady) with regard to BlackBabyGate2011…Whut?
When “Black Baby Gate” came up during the last reunion show, the scene was replayed when Kendra, the landlady, visited Kim to show her some decorations. Kim mentioned the black baby gossip to Kendra, and said that she couldn’t believe Kandi would say she wouldn’t hold a black baby because she kept Riley, Kandi’s daughter, when A.J. was killed. Kendra responded by saying, “We’ll you held that black baby”! Kandi found no fault with Kim, but stated that she wanted to knock the hell out of Kendra for trying to compare her child to African children. If you’re still lost, the clip is on YouTube.
Got it. Thanks. I barely remember that. 🙂 I do but barely. I swear I am gettin Old Timers early… #drunkenbraincells.
Nene has changed a little bit but two things will set her off One /mess with or talk noise about her kids like Sheree did at the reunion she will come out the bag on you. Two/ mess with her man Greg or say things about him that are not true like this blogger from the A did. Nene put that blogger on blast fast quick and in a hurry when she put out Greg was cheating. Now that brung out the old Nene cuz that’s all she’s really passionate about. If you ain’t bothering her family she gonna stay in her lane from now on cause she want that hollywood life.
true.