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Oscars 2015 Discussion: Who Has The Best Gown? Who Will Win?

Ryan Seacrest Oscars 2015 Twitter

Ryan Seacrest Oscars 2015 Twitter

Urethra asked for an Oscars post to chat about fashion and the show tonight. There is no Real Housewives of Atlanta tonight so you might as well join us. The red carpet has already begun on E! and the celebrities are trickling on to the carpet! I didn’t think the show would start until six.

I’m making foie gras stuffed quail with grilled peached and tomatoes (and a couple teeny tators sshh not supposed to be in there)  for my Oscars dinner.  Newsflash: I don’t know how to make quail. I’ve never even eaten quail but everything smells really good!

I better get back in the kitchen!  Hopefully UF will be here soon to host the Tamara Tattles red carpet! I’ll be back ASAP! I will add some pictures if I get the chance.! Tell me what you think of the fashions!



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American Idol Returns *Yawn*

AIJudgesMy homeboy and American Idol winner, Phillip Phillips has gone triple platinum with Home. Yet he says that song is way too pop for him and not his cup of tea. We’re off on a new season of American Idol. I am mainly watching to see what Nicki Minaj does with Mariah Carey. This will be random thoughts more than recap. Let’s get started! Continue reading


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Shahs of Sunset Production Sued for Use of Term “Persian Barbie”

Stolen from TMZ, Payback is a bitch.

Stolen from TMZ, Payback is a bitch.

This fake blond chick is suing a division of Ryan Seacrest Productions for referring to the Lilly, the newest member of the Shahs of Sunset cast, as a “Persian Barbie” claiming that even though she did not copyright the moniker she has been using it for years. It’s nothing more than a cry for attention. Nothing will come of this and TMZ should not even have run the story. Clearly they want to give this idiot some press. I still think they should call Lilly the Persian Courtney Stodden, but hey, that’s just me.



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Did American Idol Shoot Itself in the Foot Last Night?

American Idol is really going all out trying to get me to watch this season. I remember back when the show first started and some guys from a board I used to post out started Born from a group of people (*cough*) who enjoy spoiling reality shows in general and Survivor in particular, the board was created for the sole purpose of screwing with American Idol.  Perhaps their biggest accomplishment was keeping Sanjaya around for so long.  Some people believe this site was responsible for Idol’s format change to add a judges save component to override the tomfoolery when necessary. You know, just in case a whole bunch of people keep voting for the Sanjayalike contestants like this year’s  Jermaine and Heejun. Heejun was clearly on the show for the comedy aspect making jokes about P.Diddy Puffy Daddy Sean Jean being drunk at the mentor session. And hey, clearly there is nothing funny about  P.Diddy Puffy Daddy Sean Jean. The judges didn’t seem particularly fond of Heejun.

Anyway…VFTW is back at it this season and is pretty gleeful that they managed to get Jessica Sanchez in the bottom three (allegedly). Idol hasn’t had a really successful winner since Carrie Underwood in season five and they are tired of letting America get it wrong. Which brings us to last night.  Two big production things occurred behind the scenes this week. First of all, it’s VERY clear that Idol wants Jessica Sanchez to win this year. She’s pretty and young and has a good voice. She’s marketable to the teen/young adult market. But how to make that happen? Keeping reading for the production manipulations…

Well, first of all, the judges have got to use their save or the season won’t end on the right date. And what better way to freak everyone out than to use it on their favorite claiming she was voted off. But they didn’t stop there. They ACTUALLY CALLED HARVEY LEVIN AT TMZ and told him that they were going to have a judges save so that everyone would tune in to watch. Was this really a good idea? There are were people who still believed that the judges don’t know who is going home each week. Now that cat is out of the bag. From the moment the show opened and Ryan asked Randy if he was nervous about the elimination we knew what was coming. Later, Stephen Tyler blurts out that the judges will definitely use their save before the at risk contestant was even identified. Bless his heart.

And use it they did. Jessica Sanchez was clearly mortified when, before she got three notes out of her song, all three judges bumrushed the stage. J-Lo begins repeatedly screaming at her to go sit down and Randy lectures the audience to VOTE FOR THE BEST!  Jessica was horrified and poor Holly, who should have gone home last night, was praying for the floor to open up and swallow her. It was a ridiculous blunder that exposed the whole show as a fraud. It makes me wonder if, despite every talk show discussing Idol this morning in a windfall of free advertising, the whole thing backfired. Instead of maintaining the usual facade, which would have caused kids all over the country to vote more religiously for Jessica, they were straight up told that Jessica, Joshua and Elise were the ones they should be voting for. Is this going to cause a backlash against those contestants and leave us with Atlanta local Phillip in the finals with Colton? Probably. Way to go, Idol.


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Ryan Seacrest Talks to Matt Lauer on Today Show About Taking Over His Job

Wow,Matt Lauer interviewed Ryan Seacrest this morning on the Today Show in a very odd situation. Ryan has been trying to land a morning hosting job for quite some time. It was rumored that he wanted to take over for Regis Philbin.  Ryan was in talks to replace Matt Lauer as the host of the Today Show at the end of last year. Rumors that Lauer was leaving the Today Show began last April and it wasn’t until recently that Lauer agreed to a 30 million dollar contract to stay. The moment Ryan heard that Lauer might leave he was in NYC angling for the slot. That started the rumors that he was ready to leave his American Idol gig and relocate to NYC. Now that Lauer is staying, Seacrest is coming on the NBC team for the Olympic coverage in London this summer during Primetime.  In other words, Seacrest is setting himself to slide right into Lauer’s job when he leaves.  In the interview Lauer says that he and Ryan are “friendly” and have gone to dinner to discuss this; however, neither one of them looked very comfortable in this interview. AWKWARD.  Seacrest said he is still working some things out with his American Idol contract, but he is expecting to return next season.

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Andy Cohen Talks Abour Car Accident and Reza Farahan

Andy Cohen gives details of his car accident to Ryan Seacrest this morning. He also shares his new love affairs with Austin, Texas and Reza Farahan.

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Shahs of Sunset on Ryan Seacrest Video

This is a must watch video. Try to get through it without imagining Mike nekkid. I bet you can’t. What?


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Shahs of Sunset Cast on Ryan Seacrest KIIS 102.7

It’s a Shahs of Sunset orgy!

Three members of Shahs of Sunset , MJ, Mike and Reza, were on the air with Ryan Seacrest on KIIS 102.7 FM this morning to promote the premiere of the show this Sunday at 10pm on Bravo. The show is produced by Ryan Seacrest Productions, the first collaboration between Bravo and RSP. On the show, the guest booker Amy said about Reza, “He’s the one with the juicy legs.” which made me wonder what Reza was wearing until later in the show where they played a clip from the show where Reza enumerates the finer parts of his physique for the viewers. Not to be left out of the Reza love fest, Ryan said that Reza has the best eyebrows he’s ever seen. Reza replied that he shapes them himself. Reza is going to be somethin’ on this show, y’all. I’m just warning you now. When asked about critics who are already screaming that the cast doesn’t represent Persians before they have even seen the show, Reza said, ” I’m not representing anyone. I am giving people a window into a delicious lifestyle.”
MJ talked about her choice not to be married, at least not yet. She thinks that her Iranian peers who rush to get married out of high school miss out on a lot. Things like college and travel and getting to know who you are. She is great friends with Reza and even works with him in the real estate business. She said, “my mom and Reza are the reason I have to think thrice before leaving the house”. She said she might like the shoes she selected but sometimes has a back up pair if she plans to run into Reza in case he has a different opinion. There was more but it was interfering with my imaginary relationship with Reza in my head so I sort of tuned that out.

Mike talked about his family. He is unabashedly a Momma’s boy. His mother is a spectacular artist by the way, and I hope we get to see some of her paintings on the show.  You can see one of her paintings in the video of his apartment on Bravo. Bravo put up a ton of new videos showing where the cast lives and some more little bios. They are worth checking out. As for what Mike wants out of the show, he wants to show the world more than just his player side. Mike wants to share the love. He’s a player with a heart of gold.  MmmmHmmm. We’ll see about that.


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Shahs of Sunset: Meet Asa Soltan Rahmati

Asa in the bathtub in her house in Venice. One assumes the tub found its way to the bath, eventually.

Asa Soltan Rahmati is to me the most fascinating member of the cast of Shahs of Sunset. Her journey to Beverly Hills was not the straight road most of her castmates took. I know from personal experience that when you spend your childhood in more than one country, whether the experience is fantastic or something less than that, the constant flux has an effect. Relationships, both good and bad are built and torn apart. For some, it becomes easy to embrace the ways of the Nomad, set adrift with no definite destination and no emotional ties. Entertaining yourself is often the only source of entertainment. You become your own art that follows you everywhere.

Asa, Self-Portrait 1983

The revolution began in Iran when Asa was three years old. When she was 8, her family fled to the perceived safety of Hamburg, Germany as refugees with very little money. It was her first step into the world as a child of the diaspora. She lived in a poor area of Hamsburg as a refugee for seven years. The family maintained their traditions within the new culture in part by taking the bus and carrying with them all the equipment for a BBQ. They cooked together in the park without regard to season or temperature. It was important to maintain their culture and their family traditions. While her homelife was distinctively Iranian, at school she was influenced by western culture. She learned to speak English by listening to Public Enemy, Michael Jackson and other artists. Music impacted her deeply. During this time, immigrants to Germany were not particularly welcome. After the fall of the Berlin wall the anti-immigrant sentiment worsened and within a couple of years the family once again found themselves refugees fleeing to a new land.

So they loaded up the truck, and they moved to Beverly. Hills that is. Swimmin’ pools, movie stars.

At  age fifteen, Asa moved to the United States. Her parents took a small apartment in order to be in the Beverly Hills School District. By the time she arrived at Beverly High, Asa had already developed a style of her own. She was a rebellious teen who did not wish to conform. She expressed herself in fashion which was not, shall we say, what the typical Beverly Hills student wore. She listened to rap. She had little regard for fitting in. In her answer to an interview question I sent her, Asa said that she went to High School with Mike Shouhed. Maybe it’s me but I can’t see Asa and Mike hanging out much in High School. Mike was probably driving a BMW and sitting with the cool kids at lunch. Asa likely came to school having already covered much of the material in Hamsburg, did well in class with little effort, and spent her time with a different crowd, smoking cigarettes and listening to music. That’s my theory, not something she told me. I could be wrong.

Asa in a photo shoot for the artwork on her soon to be released single, Gold.

Today, Asa lives as a true Bohemian in an amazingly beautiful house in Venice. Along her journey she has aquired wealth, and love in various portions. Yet the refugee girl hasn’t really grown up. Her artistic work both as a musician and as a painter are intended to shock the recipient. Asa is an Iranian rapper. In her songs and in her paintings you can hear and see, if you try, the longing that has not gone away since childhood. Perhaps only if you are familiar with the feeling.

I opted not to use the Q &A format for Asa. It just didn’t seem appropriate. I kept two of the interview questions below with regard to the show. When it comes to the show, I’m not sure mainstream America  is going to “get” Asa any more than the average Iranian does. People tend to dislike those who are different, those who do not mirror their perception of the norms of their culture, and especially those who challenge them to think about things from another perspective.  You may choose to make judgements about Asa because she is unique. Just don’t expect her to care. She’s busy being Asa.

Asa Self Portrait 2003
How did you hear about Shahs of Sunset and come to be on the show?

Jesse Leed approached me in the very beginning of his conception of the show.  A few people had referred to him to my work and facebook page.  I totally had a to sit with the idea for a while whether I wanted to have my life on a reality TV show or not.  Authenticity and ‘being me/doing me’ are very important to me.  After meeting with Jesse, I had a better idea and decided to go for it.  And plus I’ve known Sammy since I was 15 and Mike and I went to Beverly Hills  High School together!

What is your goal for the show?

The Persian culture is super old school and very traditional.  While that is a beautiful thing, it’s also important to move forward as a people, particularly when we have moved our families to a new country. I am actually very traditional in many ways, but I live a very unconventional lifestyle.  Many young Persians, in and outside of Iran, reach out to me all the time and ask me if it’s “ok to be gay”or if its ok to do this and that – while I am not gay myself, I have many gay friends and many artist friends who design their own lives and don’t live by somebody else’s rules.  I don’t let society tell me how to live my life.  And this is why I am doing the show, for other young people, Persian or not, to see that it’s not only “ok” but essential to think to for yourself.  Every human being is a beautiful unique individual and should not be judged by their cover.  There is no box you can fit me in.

To read about other cast members of Shahs of Sunset, my post about Mike Shouhed can be read here, my post about Mecedeh Javid can be read here, my post about   Sammy Younai can be read here.  and my post about Reza Farahan can be read here.


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Shahs of Sunset: Meet Reza Farahan

This is the last in a series of four interviews with cast members from the new Bravo show Shahs of Sunset. The first one, with Mike Shouhed can be seen here, the second one with Mecedeh Javid can be seen here, the third one, introducing Sammy Younai can be seen here.

Reza Farahan,38, is a mama’s boy with old-fashioned values and an American dream. He wants the white picket fence home with a loving partner. His mother watches Oprah and tries to bribe him with half a million dollars to have a baby. Though his mother has come to accept that she has a gay son, she still hopes that one day he will make her a grandmother. It would not surprise me if she eventually gets her wish once Reza finds his life partner and settles down. Meanwhile, you will find Reza selling real estate to local celebrities and living the good life. Reza has a passion for fashion with a decidedly Middle-Eastern flair. Reza is very social and has large group of friends; but, he is likely to be with MJ when out for a night on the own.  He’s really funny, with his trademark, “Hello? We’re Persian !” comment when people seemed surprised about their opulence. Like many comedians, he is also a bit sensitive and can react abruptly in emotionally charged situations. All in all, he is going to be fun to watch!  Click through the jump to read his interview with Melanie Anderson of Beverly Hills Weekly for a bit of a deeper insight into his childhood, and coming out to his family.  

How do you respond to criticism that the show could turn into a Persian version of “Jersey Shore” or “Keeping Up with the Kardashians”?

It’s completely different in my mind. No one who’s calling it a Persian version of Jersey Shore has seen [Shahs of Sunset]. I was there for the show; it wasn’t a show. We were living our lives [with] a crew following us around. Jersey Shore is a group of people that didn’t know one another that were thrust into a living arrangement. We’re actually a group of dynamic friends. We’re educated, we’ve got rich backgrounds and a culture.

There are not many openly gay Persians. Was it difficult to overcome the fear of coming out?

I didn’t overcome any fear but the way I’m programmed as a person, I have to live an authentic life. There was going to be a time that I would explode and the information would come blasting out of me. My parents saw that I was attractive and I was never bringing any girls around. One night [when I was 21] I went out and I came home really late. The next morning my mom woke me up and brought me into the kitchen, sat me down and looked me in the eye and she asked me if I was gay. At that moment, my life flashed before my eyes. I realized I either had to take that opportunity and let her know or I had to keep my mouth shut and live a miserable existence without being authentic. Somehow I summoned the courage at that very moment to be honest and I told her.

How did she respond?
It was the most fantastic two minutes of my life. She started out in tears talking about watching an episode of Oprah where these people found Jesus Christ and Jesus cured them, to “Your father wasn’t around; he was traveling too much in your formative years.” [Then] she stopped, collected herself, she sat up straight, she looked me dead in the eye and she said, “I love you. You’re my son. I’ll always stand behind you and nothing has changed.” From that day forward 17 years ago to today, she has made such strides in her reprogramming who she is as a Middle Eastern woman that grew up in a in a different era with different standards and norms. She is an amazing woman and I hope I can be half the person she is when I am her age.

Do you hope appearing on this show will help other closeted gays who are Persian come out to their families?

You hit the nail on the head. The only reason I did this show is because even though my mother is very accepting, the Persian community as a whole isn’t known to be the most accepting community when it comes to people deviating from what they perceive to be the norm. It’s opened my family to whatever criticism and backlash that may come as a result of me being on this show [and that] was for one reason and one reason only. Teens and adolescents were committing suicide because they were getting bullied in school for either being gay or being perceived as gay. It devastated me to my core. I wanted to do something, and this opportunity came along. I got lucky that my family loves me and supports me, but if they had all turned their backs on me, I would still live an authentic life. There are a lot of Middle Eastern cultures where kids may be exposed to bullying or families that don’t accept them. If I can help one of them not commit suicide or give one of them a glimmer of hope, whatever backlash I get from being on this show was worth it tenfold.

How has your family handled the exposure?
It’s been mixed. I have to be honest. There’s been a lot of hearsay, rumors and speculation because there’s only a little teaser on the website. I love Persians, don’t get me wrong, but there’s a lot of us and we do like to chitchat, so something small [like] “I saw Reza walking down the street” can all of a sudden turn into “Reza

Do you think the fact you are gay had something to do with why you were cast?

It was very organic because Jesse Leed in a very informal meeting sat down with MJ, Sammy and myself to talk in big broad strokes about concept. For our show that’s the unique, amazing part of that, we are legitimately a group of friends. It wasn’t like they decided they wanted to have an openly gay person and threw the net out. Do I think the fact I’m openly gay and Persian helps? Well, yeah. Especially for featuring a group of Middle Easterners, the perception isn’t always about a gay guy. It’s kind of refreshing.

Your bio says you want the “American White Picket Fence” happy ending. Do you think this show will help you find that?

I actually do because when you verbalize something, I’m a firm believer you will things to happen in your life. There weren’t trailblazers in front of me that were Persian and gay that were talking about wanting the white picket fence and American dream. I feel like if I put that energy out in the world—I try to live my life in a way that I give back more than I take away from my community—I think that I’m going to will it.


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Shahs of Sunset: Meet Sammy Younai

This is the third in a series of four interviews with cast members from the new Bravo show Shahs of Sunset. The first one, with Mike Shouhed can be seen here, the second one with Mecedeh Javid can be seen here.

Sammy Younai, 37, is a residential real estate developer in Beverly Hills. Both his Bravo bio  and Beverly Hills Weekly really seem to try to focus on the “Persian Palace” aspect of his business. What I like about what Sammy had to say in Melanie Anderson’s interview in  Beverly Hills Weekly (printed media) is that he points out that while he does sell the majority of his multi-million dollar houses to Iranians he also has plenty of non-Iranian clients. It seems like both a smart business statement, and a way to side-step the whole “Persian Palace”  pigeonhole. Also, he didn’t use the word Persian in the entire interview. While I know the young generation of Iranians uses the term Persian consistently, it seems like word used to avoid saying Iranian. Despite the past few decades of unstable government in Iran, the politics is not the same as the people. I like that Sammy uses the standard term to describe his country of origin.
Sammy is rich. Not Nene Leakes “rich”, but extremely rich.  MJ and Reza sell some nice houses and are 1%ers themselves, but Sammy builds houses in Beverly Hills and Tehrangeles for really rich Iranians (and others). He’s loaded. I get the feeling this causes him some problems in his love life. If you have insane amounts of money and come from a wealthy family, it must be hard to not go overboard with your spending on love interests. Also there are thousands of women in a five mile radius of Beverly Hills who are looking to land a rich, eligible bachelor.  I’m just guessing here, and I could be totally wrong, but this could have something to do with the fact his Bravo bio calls him a ladies man.

Sammy’s interview with Anderson has a lot of interesting information in it. It explains how the show was not “cast” but rather developed around a group of people that were already friends. I think that is what is going to make Shahs of Sunset a huge success. Click through the jump to read excerpts from the interview.

So, how did you end up on “Shahs of Sunset”?
One of the first people I came to meet was [Producer] Jesse [Leed]. His girlfriend [MarisaWeber] and I have been friends for 15 years. About 2.5 years ago they came up with this idea. I was the first person [that they called]. We shared a lot of fun nights together in the few years we’ve known each other before he decided to do this show. He was just always on me to do something. I said, “Okay, let’s do it.”

What’s your goal for this show? 
Honestly for me it was to have fun. I’ll look back on it when I’m 70 and say, “Hey, I was on a TV show once.”

As a residential developer, you serve a Persian clientele in the local community. Do you think appearing on this show will be good for business? I hope so. We’ve developed close to 40 homes already in Beverly Hills in the last few years and even though the main portion of my clients are Iranian, [many] of them aren’t. I think it will be very good. We have a nice little niche.

Tell us about growing up in Beverly Hills.
I moved to California around the fifth grade from Fort Lauderdale, Fla. I was in [LAUSD] and then I went to Beverly High from 10th grade on. I had a great time going to high school in Beverly Hills. I’m still friends with a lot of people I went to school with. I think being Iranian and growing up together through weddings and gatherings, we’re all so mixed together as far as someone’s cousin is also my cousin. We just have a big family. We’re always together.

What was the transition like from Florida to California?
In Fort Lauderdale, I was the only non-American person in probably the whole school. It was right around the time we had all the problems in Iran, and people didn’t know what to make of it. The fact I was the only Jewish kid in that school too really didn’t help, but it was great for growing up and it definitely taught me how to run really fast. It’s a completely different world from Fort Lauderdale to L.A. Even from L.A. to Beverly High, [it was a] complete 180.

What are your memories of Beverly High?
Even though it was high school, it was like one big party all day long. Even though we were supposedly there to learn something, it was more just hanging out with friends and having a great time. They did such a good job at that school where it just came naturally. My friends who weren’t at Beverly High hated attending school. Kids that went to Beverly High enjoyed attending school because it was such a fun place to go. We had our own [TV] department there and our own channel that broadcasted to all the homes in Beverly Hills. Mr. [Dave] Stiles [was] fantastic. I was [in the TV department] for about two years after school. It was such a great change from the everyday English, math, and science. It was fun learning about it, how to operate the cameras, and behind the scenes, how to edit and produce.

What do you think viewers will learn about the Persian community in Beverly Hills?Pretty much how tight we are, how we all have each other’s backs. Just being Persian and growing up together and the way we support each other and the way we care for each other, hopefully the big emphasis that we put on family life. I think that’s probably going to be the biggest thing we’re going to see on this show.

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Shahs of Sunset: Meet Mercedeh Javid

This is the second in a series of four interviews with cast members from the new Bravo show Shahs of Sunset. The first one, with Mike Shouhed can be seen here.

Mercedeh Javid (I refuse to “Americanize” such a pretty name to Mercedes as Bravo does) gives her age as “thirty-something” on her Bravo profile which I think is great. Why does being on TV mean one had to plaster their age everywhere?  MJ, as her friends call her,  networks over a few cocktails by night and sells residential property in the Los Angeles area by day. MJ certainly doesn’t need a man to support her, but she is ready to settle down and have some babies!  We will see some of her search for an appropriate father for her children on the show.  We will also meet her mother, Vida. I’m going to call it right now that Mama Vida is going to steal every scene she is in. She’s loud, she’s bossy and I’m probably going to love her. It seems that Vida is like every girls overbearing mother trying to get her daughter married off—on steroids. I can’t wait. A recent Daily Beast article referred to Mama Vida as “the female Archie Bunker” and the Daily Beast author was Iranian so that’s really saying something!  MJ and Reza Farahan are very close both are very funny. Look for the one-liners to come from either these two or Mama Vida.

I do wonder where the interviews with the other women of the show were? What about Asa and GG? I guess this means I’ll have to interview them myself. :) Edited: And I did! See my interview with GG HERE and my interview with Asa HERE!

Here is what MJ had to say to Melanie Anderson of Beverly Hills Weekly about the show.

Four of the cast members work in real estate. Does this create a competitive dynamic?

Definitely. For Reza and I, being that we are the two residential real estate agents [working at the same office], there’s definitely an ambitious pressure that we like to measure up our production and success. We [have] adopted a mentality that you are who you surround yourself with. You want to be selective about making sure those are positive, productive, ambitious people. The other three cast mates, we stay on our tippy toes, we stay on point, and we like to impress ourselves, fulfill ourselves, and succeed for us and for our families.

You and Reza briefly attended Beverly High together. Were you friends then?

Reza and Sammy are the two people that I’ve known the longest. I actually didn’t grow up in the Beverly Hills school system. I made a transition from the East Coast to Beverly. It was a little bumpy because I went to Beverly, hated it, then moved back to a small town [back East]. I thought it was too small and had outgrown it. Then I went back to Beverly. Once I spent two years really getting settled in, then I felt like I had made friends with all the Persians. I never had any Persian friends until I moved to L.A.

I met Reza at a Persian party in Beverly Hills. He was probably drawn to me as I was to him because our personalities are really similar. We just bonded right away. We both had the same car, we both liked to do the same things. Sammy we met because during college my group of girlfriends and I would walk [past] a store [he owned] called Hideout on Melrose Avenue. He also was in a condo right behind my, so our places were practically attached.

What was it like coming to Beverly Hills?
It was the biggest culture shock ever. I think nothing in my life has been hard to adjust to after making the adjustment from being a big fish in a small pond and then going to a place that was a really big school. It was hard to break into the social scene because most people had known each other so long, they didn’t need new friends. I did. It definitely caused me a lot of social grief until I really made friends and had the time to adjust.

This show will introduce Persians to some Americans. Do you feel pressured to represent Persians in any particular way?

I know it’s going to be impossible to please everyone, and after everyone sees how authentic, hardworking all of us are, then I think it’s going to be really hard to find fault in who we are. I think we’re going to be a really fun group because we’re so honest. I think we’re really funny. We’re not just people who wake up in the morning and waste time. We set out to do really extraordinary things, and then we like to celebrate and have fun. I think that’s ultimately one of the best ways I could have imagined my life to be. And I think Americans [will] be fascinated with our culture. Americans that I’ve met have always felt that we have a warmth in our Persian culture that they really haven’t seen anywhere else. I think it’s easy to become obsessed with a culture that celebrates life, family and food.

As a Persian woman, I think the biggest pressure in my life comes from myself because I really want to do everything. I’m a modern person who wants to have a successful career, but I also have strong ties to my need to come home and cook, be nurturing, and be the head of the household in the maternal way. I don’t want to give up any of the things that I think embody a Persian woman and a modern Iranian American that wants to be self-made.

Your bio says you’re struggling to find out who you are. Do you think the show is going to help you with that?

The show is definitely helping me take on issues that I would probably get away with not having to take on. I wasn’t really following the conformist, conventional life to be married by 21 and have kids by the honeymoon and then sort of hang it up. That’s really what people do in our community. I felt like we had so many other choices to make and then the years go by and all of a sudden I realize, wow, I still want to keep doing this. The show—at least because we’re trying to tell a real story about who we are—I think that inadvertently or inevitably forces us to answer questions about ourselves.

Shahs of Sunset premiers Sunday, March 11 on Bravo.


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