Tamra Judge Is Losing Her Mind On Facebook

Rhooc Tamra gets a shock

UPDATE:  At some point last night Lizzie and Tamra went head to head over the whole #BirthdayPartyGate. Tamra tried to prove her point by posting a text (that I am told was about Heather’s Valentine’s party not Lizzie’s birthday) and Tamra’s screen grab of the text included Lizzie’s private cell phone number. Then Tamra’s Facebook page was either shut down by Facebook, or shut down by Tamra in a drunken rage. I’m sort of pissed I missed all that. Someone tipped me off, but I had too much other stuff going on.

Short version: Tamra has had a psychotic break and needs a Waaaaahmbulance.  Shannon must be laughing hysterically.

Here was her meltdown about #BirthdayPartyGate part One. I can’t even pretend to have comments.  Here is what SHE claims. #eyeroll.

Tamra Judge

I submitted my BRAVO blog, but here are a
few facts that I am sure Bravo will take out of my blog when they post it:1. production knew my daughter was sick and I could not make it to Lizzie’s birthday party. They asked me to wait until the cameras were up in the limo to let Lizzie know. then they had her call me and say “how rude that you didn’t call me”.2. As soon as Vicki and Shannon found out I was not going they both called me (yes me and shannon were friendly even though they make it out that we are not at this point-Just a few days prior we were rock climbing together). Shannon told me she was sick too and was told by producers that she had to go. I told her that was not right and she needed to be strong with them.

RHOOCvickinoideawhatitslike3. Vicki was pissed that she had to go alone! She told me she did NOT want to hang out with Dumb and Dumber (referring to Lizzy and Danielle) She asked me how she could get out of going. I jokingly said “tell production you have a yeast infection, its not like anyone is going to check”. Vicki had No REAL reason not to go and ended up going ……2 hours late.4. I never told Vicki I did not want to go to the party. But I did tell her that we don’t usually go out when we have the kids and I did not feel right going to LA in party bus even if my daughter wasn’t sick.

5. I have NO words for Vicki! She was so nice to my face and talked so much crap behind my back, then cries “Tamra ruined Brooks reputation” No Brooks ruined his own reputation when he was recorded by your son n law calling you names and saying you needed to be beat.

6. Briana knew about Brooks and disliked him years before I ever met him. NO I DID NOT PERSUADE YOUR DAUGHTER TO NOT LIKE BROOKS.

Oh dear lord….


Filed under Real Housewives of Orange County, RHOOC, Tamra Judge, Vicki Gunvalson

86 responses to “Tamra Judge Is Losing Her Mind On Facebook

  1. fivecatsownme

    Ave Caesar, morituri te salutant. Tamra is going down. Notice Vicki got first chair at WWHL?

  2. That pic you have of Tamra is very manly. Now I see how she hooked Eddie. I thought the recording was that Brianna’s husband should beat her. I don’t remember Brooks saying he was going to beat Vicki. Not that beating one over the other is any better but just shows Tamra can’t keep her shit straight.

    • Victoria

      That’s the way I remember it also. He left a message on Ryan’s voicemail or something.

      • Angie

        Ryan had been out drinking with Brooks, Brooks was embarrassingly wasted and Ryan took him home.
        As I-spy-Ryan was helping Brooks stumbke up to his door Ryan started recording Brooks w/out his knowledge.
        Brooks was wasted, slurring and making an ass out of himself. It sounded as though he had been recently arguing with Vicky, got drunk and was blowing off some steam.
        I in no way support abuse of any kind. Period.
        But if you actually listened to the recording then you would want Vicky to dump him because he is a drunken, stumbeling , babbling fool, not because he sounded like he was being serious about abuse.
        Idiot? Definitely.
        In that scenerio, the person that came across unstable and untrustwothy was Ryan.

    • Din

      That, and anal apparently!

      • SaraSally

        Ryan experienced the havoc of a TRO against him in ’10 by this former GF. Not only did it flag him as an miscreant, but not the exact soldier material they need in the armed forces in Afghanistan. He remained behind stateside, while his unit went overseas. Also, after pulling his brutal outburst on an innocent guest at Vickie’s party, he knew his only option was a diversion tactic. His ass was in hot water with the military. One alcohol incident is enough to get you drummed out. Two… your ass will be handed to you. Misery loves company so he pulled the ultimate. Taping someone without their knowledge. Funny how they got on the subject of denigrating the women, but Ryan somehow came out unscathed since he knew it was being taped. Not that its, that bad things happen to these folks!

      • I am not a big fan of Brooks, he just seems so creepy and insincere, however, I definitely would think Ryan to be abusive more than I would Brooks. I just find something so “off” about Ryan. Especially after he went ballistic last season at Vicki’s party when I thought for sure he was going to hit either Vicki or Brianna or Lydia’s mom. He was acting psychotic! So I would find Brooks to be the lesser of the two evils when it comes to him and Ryan.

    • Thanks4Sharin

      Agreed. What better way to figure out exactly what was said than to freaking roll the tape and check it before you speak about it? Short of having a stenographer in your back pocket, they have the next best thing, a damn camera crew.

      Shannon still can’t get it right when she talks about what Heather said when she kicked her out of her house. It changes all the time.

      • Josie

        What does it matter? In effect Heather told her to get out of her home with her finger pointing towards the door. It is on film on heathers blog for all to see! Please leave…get out…semantics. Also, heather seems confused. She told Danielle at the party that she was forced to kick shannon out then told vicki that she asked her to leave her house. Whatever. Same result.

    • LOL!!!! Manly Tamra hooked gay boy Eddie!

  3. Tango

    Idk but who cares if the kids were sick? She didn’t wanna go and neither did anyone else. Vicki got caught saying “dumb and dumber”. I agree with Tamra about Brooks too. We all heard that tape of him talking about beating your woman.

  4. Jen

    I liked Don. Vicki and him should of went to counseling. She was awful to him and I think it was because he cheated. So, she cheated. Brooks is a Caveman. Tamra needs to grow the EFF Up. She has the mentality of a High School mean girl. SMH.

  5. Oh dear, Production isn’t going to love Tamra revealing their secrets.

  6. Army Wife

    These ladies are all fake. Especially the veterans. They are faking and causing as much drama as possible to keep their millions coming in. They know the boarding ones get axed.

    • Just Me

      thousands…no on is being paid millions..contrary to the rumors..NeNe hit the almost milion mark, but that would include the entire season, reunion and extra promotions, i.e. wedding special…

      But I believe these women would act foolish for a few hundred…

  7. Andy has officially lost his mind by having Vicky in chair one. Andy has slid into a hidie hole and can’t find his way out.

  8. Andy has officially lost his mind by having Vicky in chair one. Andy has slid into a hidie hole and can’t find his way out.

    • versus rachel DRATCH? i thought it was a fun wwhl, but no way would rachel deserve first chair.
      actually i didnt know bravo edited the HW blogs. do they really? they certainly don’t check grammar.

      • glimmer88

        Yes they most definitely edit the blogs. Nene has also posted the “real” versions of her blogs on facebook or her website too.

      • ​Oh duh, y’all meant edit for content. Yes. They take out any references to production… sorry I misunderstood the question.

        On Tue, Jul 29, 2014 at 10:43 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:


      • Bravo doesn’t edit but many people use ghostwriters.​

        On Tue, Jul 29, 2014 at 7:15 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:


    • Vicki is the most senior HW across all franchises. Of course she is chair one.​

      On Tue, Jul 29, 2014 at 2:10 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:


  9. Cat

    Um…Can’t she get kicked out of the housewives club for this?

    • fivecatsownme

      I think so I noticed when Tamra was on WWHL, She had 2nd chair and Andy wasn’t flirty with her. He was much more interested in Caroline. I think Tamra is on her way out.

  10. christina

    Anyone else notice she categorizes herself as a “fictional character”?

  11. marc

    I hope Lizzie & Shannon are the only two housewives on the show next year the O.C. A.A.R.P needs to go ! T Judge is so freaking monstourous she needs to be on American Horror Story ; inside & out she is a HORROR

  12. How did my exact same comment post twice? Did I break something?

  13. Tamara is an idiot. Her entire rant about the birthday debacle is invalid. She should have texted Lizzie regardless of what producers told her OR what she told producers. She’s too old to still be getting manipulated by Bravo. Not buying it this time. She feels the heat, because everyone hates her.

    • Maggie5

      Absolutely right! She wants SHANNON to be firm with production about her schedule, but she’ll do exactly what they want. She’s very good at getting other people in trouble, while covering her own trashy backside. But now she’s been on camera long enough for people to see that she’s a slimy liar.

    • How do you know she didn’t text Lizzie?

  14. GirlFromKY

    That was juicy! Was also interesting to hear Vicki’s admission on WWHL about Brooke’s daughter disliking her. It cracks me up how Vicki will always throw Gretchen under the bus because Gretchen nailed her so hard and called her ass out about the Brooks Slade thing. Vicki is never gonna get over that is she haha?

  15. Colleen

    Faustian deal with Bravo, anyone? There’s something predatory about seeking out particularly uneducated simpletons who are willing to show their asses for a paycheck and the illusory 15 minutes of fame that is the career trajectory for reality show participants. Tamra is a prime example of parlaying her willingness to be overtly cruel, actively vindictive and unceasingly vile in all facets her recorded existence for $$$ . . . Not terribly removed from the “professional” wrestling bouts on TV way back when: neanderthal plots, mendacious characters and amateurish acting with a predictable payoff at the end of the match.

    Cultural anthropology, indeed.

  16. Micheal

    To be honest it wouldn’t surprise me if Tamra had a really bad time at the reunion taping and got no support from Andy, which is why she is talking about production intervention etc. All I can say is she deserved it after this season, and like Jill Zarin maybe Bravo will remove the toxicity/tamra for next season. On her own she has no interesting storyline. Her kids cannot be shown so she can’t even film a happy family like the others can.

    Bye bye Tamra.

    • ON THE OTHER HAND, if what he says is true, wouldn’t the world (and Simon) damn her for leaving a sick kid?

      It’s so obvious that Bravo is requiring her to be the villain. Not that she hasn’t always been in my eyes. She is a low rent shit person. But face it, without her, there would not be a show. Or so,done else would have to step up and throw a wrench into things.

      Why is everyone still talking about Brooks? Why did Vicki talk about him on WWHL as though they are together? I thought she had a new man. Her hair looked great on wwhl.

      • I hate bad nesting. I bad nested.

      • Micheal

        I’m probably in the minority but I believe there is probably a ring of truth to a lot of what Tamra ranted about. I also believe that as adults we don’t even need to come up with excuses for not attending events such as birthdays etc. Just a simple ‘I have a prior engagement, or I have something on’ will do. It’s nice to give an excuse for your absence but not necessary. I dont demonise Tamra for that, she should stay home with a sick kid.

        I assume Brookes is still Vicki’s storyline for the show but he’s out of her life now. Like the blogs the women say they write them as in the context of the events of the show (sometimes nearly a year late). I’d imagine it’s expected of Vicki to discuss Brookes even if she wishes she didn’t have it.

      • vivaladiva831

        Exactly-Tamra is a prime example of someone you love to hate. She does make that tv show. And she can be very funny, and has some great one liners. She is like Stefano on Days of Our Lives.

  17. delaney

    So I don’t get why Tamra is making such a big deal out of not going to the party. Of all the crappy things she’s done over the years… her hate campaigns against Alexis and Gretchen for example. Now her treatment of Shannon. She’s blabbing production info bt why? She’s an incorrrigible liar is what I do know. Always has been and always will be.

    • delaney

      Nevermind. I get it. Tamra was drunk.
      I haven’t read Bravo blogs since the first yr of Housewives cuz it seemed overly moderated.

      • vivaladiva831

        Overly moderated is the nice way to put it-I used to try to comment on those, but they never were approved. Only one time did a comment of mine make it on there, and it was on a blog by Vicki. I was heaping praise on her for something that I forget what now, but I imagine that’s also one of the reasons it was approved.

      • ​I can’t seem to post on TMZ, you know to inform people that I posted the stories they read on TMZ here yesterday or a week ago or whatever. I always get a 404. I wonder why that is…

        If any of you guys post on TMZ I’d love for you to comment with a link to their source story here. They really are not that picky they have tons of those, “my granny makes a million dollars working from home kinds of spam there.

        I think they only block the bloggers they steal from. :)

        On Wed, Jul 30, 2014 at 1:25 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:


      • I too use to comment on the Bravo blogs. My comments would never go through until I complained. I basically yelled at them and asked them for an explanation of why my comments were never going through. Then they started going through. But there was still someone there that didn’t like my comments and they started publishing some and not others. When I found Tamara’s blog, I never went back.

  18. AMTraveler

    Does anyone else have a hard time believing that Lizzie heard Vicki’s comment real time? 1. Vicki most certainly was not “yelling” it. 2. Lizzie would not have been so capable of seeming unimpacted by the comment had she heard it in the moment. It was very obvious that product played it back to her after the fact.

    I couldn’t help but feel as though they were trying to weave together a number of relatively uninteresting scenes last night to create a story line. The “dumb and dumber” plotline seems like a last ditch effort to end the season on a dramatic note, as the Shannon vs. Heather plotline is played out and wrapping up. I am sure Lizzie and Danielle were instructed to make waves in Bali or not be invited back. Dumb and dumber gives them the catalyst for this. It seems terribly contrived however… because, of course the show is SO realistic!

  19. pdt090

    She’s revealed all these secrets yet the underlying situation still looks the same – none of them wanted to go to Lizzie’s party and they did what they could to flake.

    Tamra has always been VERY insistent that this is just a show and she is just a character. This post is just the tip of the iceberg in a long list of comments to that end. She clearly realizes what an awful person after viewing the show she is so she tries to spin it that way to make herself feel better.

  20. Tyrant the 24/7 victim! Everyone is picking on me teacher! waaa waaa..
    Tyrant went with her strengths ..lying..and then fessing up later…why didn’t Tyrant show up with loads of “evidence” like Vicki did at one reunion?

    • ​http://s17948.p20.sites.pressdns.com/commenting-rules/

      whatever the use the right names rule is. I have no idea what that comment even means.

      On Tue, Jul 29, 2014 at 9:48 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:


      • Good morning Tamara Tattles

        I apologize for this – thanks for the reminder.

        What I meant was Tamra is always in “victim” mode and if she wanted to make a point ..do what Vicki and Gretchen did at last season’s reunion, each brought evidence to the reunion to prove their points.

  21. ScrappieONE

    I just love how pissed off Tamra is at Vicki now because Vicki is finally calling her out on her crap. I just love it.

  22. Love to see Karma catching up a little but so sad to see women treating each other so badly though. Love the blog

  23. Twilly

    Hopefully this is her last season, though Im sure she will hold onto “fame” with bloody fingernails.

  24. zxtry

    The last scene, where she tells Vicki that Brooks wants to f— her should
    be the last straw for her crass, ugly, horrible, tasteless, mean “character”.

  25. fivecatsownme

    Even though Vicki is a kinder gentler Vicki, and the new poster girl for the voice of reason, she is still a shit stirrer. She did not have to tell Lizzie that Tamra did not want to go to her party. I don’t like Tamra, but kids do get sick at the last minute. Tamra and Vicki are both trouble makers. Vicki certainly did her best to help split up Tamra and Simon. Tamra went to Brianna with her concerns about Brooks, and caused a bigger rift between mother and daughter. Those two really have a love hate relationship. Maybe they should go on marriage boot camp.

  26. They’ve shipped Ryan to Fort Sill instead of deploying him with his unit? His military career is fucked. He’ll be selling insurance for Vicky soon.

    • Patti R.

      Ryan’s a hot head. I heard he stalked his girlfriend and got in trouble for that.
      Anybody know about this? I don’t know if that’s true or not.

      • fivecatsownme

        I think Ryan is a jerk. If he had treated my mother the way he treated
        Lydia’ s mother, he would have needed some very expensive dental work. The military is reducing its forces.Ryan may go to Ft.Sill then get discharged. That has been happening to Jr. Officers and NCOs.

      • Patti, please read the commenting rules.


        On Tue, Jul 29, 2014 at 4:53 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:


  27. Katie

    As far as Tamra getting in trouble for leaking production secrets, hell, Carol R. did that on her Bravo blog. And if NeNe is still employed by Bravo after going after Andy at the reunion, I am not sure what it takes to get auf’d on these shows – except be boring. I get my “fix” reading Tamara’s blog. It’s like being on the methadone program.

  28. Valley View

    Why does Tamra always turn on Vicki? Vicki chose to be the voice of reason, Tamra chose to be the shit-stirrer. After six or so seasons with Tamra’s constant machinations she has been left with dwindling fan support. Never have a wedding if you don’t have a good follow-up act.

    Every cast member should be warned about Tamra.

  29. Lisa Yappel

    I felt very sorry for Lizzie about people not showing up for her b-day. Lizzie seems like a quality person. I agree that Vicki, although being much “nicer” this season, caused trouble by telling Lizzie that Tamra did not want to attend her celebration. Not cool, Vick.

  30. Denise

    Hahaha, another blog credited you with reporting this story then proceeded to copy your post almost verbatim. When I pointed this out, they took your link down so now it looks like they came up with it on their own. Hope I didn’t break any rules.

  31. I bet there is some truth to some of this. I could definitely see production making her cancel later on camera.

  32. This idiot agreed to EVERY single thing the producers asked her to do…if they indeed did ask her to do it. The fact is she is on a reality show (with falling ratings) and I highly doubt Bravo will keep her hillbilly ass employed
    now that she has bitten the hand that feeds her.

  33. OHNO!

    Does anyone know what happened on facebook with Lizzy and Tamra today? Apparently Tramps posted a text from Lizzy showing her #.

    • Does anyone know how to read the commenting rules before posting?


      On Wed, Jul 30, 2014 at 12:37 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:


      • Valerie

        Ok, I made a comment that mentioned Tamaratattles.com under the Kandi Burress story on TMZ about the chicken and the toilet seat. It’s wasn’t real subtle I know, next time I’ll try to be a bit more clever.

    • KWM

      Tamra was trying to prove that she texted Lizzie to make her case, but the text was about the valentines party and not her birthday party and had Lizzies personal cell # clear as day. Not long after that Tamra’s Facebook page went dark.

      Talk about seriously losing your mind on facebook, crazy!

  34. nancy

    Tamra must have taken her Facebook page offline. I can still see it in my list when I type her name but it is no longer clickable. Her melt down must have been major. I hope she’s in a psych ward somewhere today!

  35. My take on Tamra is she is starting to unravel. The pressures of the show and her personal life with the custody issue is causing her to bust at the seams. She’s definitely working for the producers and looks to be working hard at it, yet it looks so forced now. She’s starting to look like an old car on its last leg, gasping for the last remaining fumes to keep it going. Bravo is ruthless, they’ll squeeze every bit of lifeforce out of her until she pops. They don’t care. I could easily picture her telling the producers to go fuck themselves! Tisk, tisk, that’s what happens when you sell you soul to Bravo.

  36. Faith

    Tamra, Nene and Teresa…empty vessel makes the most noise. Empty, being the emphasis.

  37. rochelle013

    Even though I agree with you all, considering the “source” of this info. I will just wait and see if it is verified before I do the dance of joy in my living room LOL

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