It’s time for the weekly blog round up for the Real Housewives of Orange County! A line has been drawn between Shannon and Tamra & Heather. Let’s see makes up the current alliances. I ‘m starting with Lizzie, who was on WWHL this week, (sorry for not recapping Monday was a busy night with the finale of Ladies of London) and she made it clear that she and Tamra are not speaking and that the reunion will be a doozy. One of the reasons the finale generally does not film until almost all of the shows have aired is so that the housewives can see all the talking heads and scenes they were not involved with. I imagine they also get copies of the shows that have not aired yet. I have a feeling this reunion did not go well for Tamra, at all. I can’t wait to see it!
What’s strange to me is that neither Heather nor Terry got upset with Tamra. All of the blame is put on Shannon and she didn’t even bring it up at the table. It seems like a contrived act to stir shit up! So, once again Shannon and Heather are going at it because of something that Tamra said.
I don’t think Shannon needs psychiatric help. What happened was she snapped. It happens to the best of us. Heck, I eventually snap too (but you’ll have to wait to see that!). There is only so much someone can take.
Wow! I would think it would take quite a bit for Lizzie to snap. She’s been trying to get along with everyone all season which is why y’all think she is boring. This should be interesting.
As I stormed out of the house, Tamra would not let go of me. She was dragging me and kept holding onto my arms and face. I asked to get away from me and she wouldn’t let go or leave me alone and this only exacerbated my behavior.
You can very clearly see Tamra stirring the pot in this episode. She came outside with me said that she was “sorry” and that she “supported me 100 percent” — and then she went inside to tell Heather that she “tried to restrain me” and that I wasn’t in a sound state of mind. That was an inaccurate account once again. I was flabbergasted when I watched the scene with Heather, Tamra, and Danielle the next day. Tamra told the women that I was “scary.” She states that she doesn’t remember the “last half of the night,” yet she continues to recount the events incorrectly. I remember the whole night. I am also disturbed by Tamra saying that I drink vodka straight. I do not and she knows it. If Tamra isn’t a good drinker and “doesn’t do well when she drinks,” maybe she should be looking at herself. Enough with making up false statements about me.
I am only going to address the next issue one time because it does not deserve any life. Before this show, my husband and I were very low key and not known by many in town. I have never heard a rumor around town that I was crazy and bottom line– I am not crazy. I do not need professional help. The ridiculous accusations have to stop.
I appreciated Lizzie’s support after her party. She understands that I have no reason to make up the statement that Terry wanted to take the Beadors down and she is starting to see how certain things are being fabricated about my character.
Sorry I’ve been MIA! I had an epidural to relieve the pain from my sciatica (I get one every year or so …), and this time had a little complication. They poked a hole, and I ended up spilling spinal fluid into the epidural space for five days. Anyone that’s ever had this will know it’s a headache of epic proportions. Finally, I went back in, and they fixed it with a blood patch the day before we shot the Reunion! Ugh! I felt like I had been hit by a bus! I kept thinking, “Why couldn’t I get Botox and filler before the Reunion like a normal Housewife?!?”
Anyway, glad to have it behind me. . .and the Reunion behind me for that matter. I think you will all agree it’s a great end to a great season!
I think this season has been…sort of like a train wreck I can’t seem to look away from. Heather says this season was great!?
If Shannon was looking for an apology from me, why at a dinner party? Why start the party with “do the Dubrows want to take us down”? Why not talk to me privately before the party? I ran into Shannon at the hairdresser a couple of hours before the party and we made polite conversation. I was sort of hoping we could have a nice time at Lizzie’s party, put some distance between our troubles and THEN talk.
Having said that, I did owe her an apology. But that doesn’t mean EVERYTHING is my fault. It seems every time Shannon has a reason to be mad at Tamra, she gets a pass and it gets deflected to me. I did realize that I haven’t been able to let it go with Shannon, because I felt at this time that she was hurting my friendship with Tamra.
Anyway, next week there are many laughs (thank goodness) and a bit if a twist in relationships. Hope you enjoy it!
I may be in the minority here, but I don’t think Heather needs to apologize to Shannon for throwing her out of her house. That’s her prerogative. What Shannon deserves an apology for is Heather bad mouthing and gossiping about Shannon all over town both with Tamra and among her personal friends.
I decided to stay out of the commotion and just be there for Shannon if she needed me. I wasn’t at Heather’s home when Shannon came over, so I really don’t know the WHOLE story of how it all went. I saw it just the way all of you did. I did see Heather firmly ask Shannon to leave, however I did not see Heather ever answer Shannon’s question: “Who told you about the email?” We all know that it was Tamra, but I think Shannon really wanted to hear it from Heather before she confronted her.
Vicki’s blog is the only one to mention Tamra’s farsical meltdown. And she doesn’t even mention Tamra, she just says it’s too soon for Ryan and his new Instagram chick to be getting married. Personally, I have a feeling she is pregnant and that is the rush. She also mentions the therapy session with Brianna and says that it opened her eyes to Brianna’s take on things and she. Is taking steps to not be so controlling. Seriously, who is this sane woman who had taken over Vicki’s body?
Tamra’s Blog: No really, Tamra actually deigned to blog for us this week!
I can say I am sorry until I am blue in the face for telling Heather about the email and people will still rip me apart. I got it. I was wrong for not admitting to Shannon right away that I did tell Heather. I honestly thought because it was going to be out there anyway that it was OK to tell Heather — until I saw the look on Shannon’s face at that moment. I knew immediately that I was wrong and tried to call her in her car on the way home. I continued to call her until she agreed to go to dinner with me. I might have a big mouth, but I know when I am wrong and I have no problem saying I am sorry.
Yes, but doing a crappy thing and then saying that you are sorry doesn’t erase the feelings that came with the crappy thing you did. Also, if you continue to do more crappy things, you really won’t get cut any slack.
Terry saying he was going to “take the Beadors down”: I have no Idea where that came from. I have racked my brain and even thought to myself “Did that somehow come out of my mouth?” But I know those exact words never left my lips. I had a few conversations with Shannon in the beginning of the Season about how the Dubrows and the Beadors do not get along. Could I have said jokingly “Watch out Shannon, the Dubrows are going to take you down”? Terry does not even talk like that! Shannon had said to me that I told her and David, so at dinner that night I point blank asked David if he ever heard me say that and he said “NO!”
Oh please let me help you here, Tamra. It came from you. Shannon did not pull that out of thin air. Shannon says that Vicki heard you say it as well. You can deny it all day long, or until you are blue in your botoxed face, but no one is going to believe you.
It hurts me that Vicki would back up that statement, and if she really believed I said that — then why didn’t she say anything that night at the beach house? Why did she wait until she was in her interview to say that? Why? Because I never said that to her! Vicki seems to be stabbing me in the back in her interviews every chance she can. I have been very careful to not bring Brooks’ name up at all this season out of respect for Vicki. I was asked by Shannon and Lizzie how I felt about Brooks and I spoke the truth “I feel like there is someone better for her and I don’t think he is a good guy.” If you remember, the last time I saw Brooks was at the Reunion last year — when Briana dropped that bomb. I decided that I would give Brooks another chance, and I did. Vicki continues to blame me for Briana not liking Brooks, which is a total joke to me. Briana knew Brooks and made up her mind way before I ever met him. And it doesn’t look like she will be changing her mind any time soon. I guess it is easier for Vicki to blame me then to blame her own family?
Why on earth does Shannon find it necessary to talk about Brooks? It has nothing to do with the topic at hand.
Sarah reminds me a lot of myself. She is a very strong girl that has gone through a lot in her life. I admire Sarah and have gotten to know her better in the past few months. The wedding has been put on hold. As you might know God had another plan for Sarah and Ryan before they got married. They are pregnant and expecting a baby on Valentine’s Day. This came as a BIG shock, but I am happy to say that everyone is very excited. I guess I am getting the baby I wanted. I’m going to be a Tam-ma. All I have to do now is convince them to move closer.
Um raise your hand if you are shocked? Young couples rushing into marriage more often than not are expecting. Perhaps that would have been a better question to ask than, “Hey, can you describe your father’s suicide in intimate detail over our first dinner together?” That said, if the baby is due on Valentine’s Day, she wasn’t pregnant at that dinner.
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