It seems we can finally stop the insane speculating about what the big secret Brandi blurted out about Adrienne was. Despite an article here on December 8th, before the dramatically edited episode aired, some have considered to weave conspiracy theories that it was not the surrogacy lie that Brandi outed. Today Life & Style ran an exclusive interview with Adrienne in which she not only admits that she wanted to wait to tell the twins they were carried by a surrogate until they were older, she also blames Brandi for her divorce and for “destroying her family.” Wow, that is a lot of power Brandi wields. Who knew? Let’s see exactly what Adrienne had to say…
I would think Brandi, being a single mother, would have a heart and understand my feelings, where I’m coming from,” Adrienne tells Life & Style. Adrienne had planned to wait until the 6-year-olds were a few years older before sitting her angels down to reveal that mommy didn’t carry them in her belly. “Brandi took away something so precious from our family.”
I am going to have to side with Adrienne here at least a little bit. However, when you go on a reality show and the other women on the reality show are privy to your family secrets, it’s not completely their fault when those secrets get aired. It seems likely that Brandi deliberately tried to get the secret on the air as revenge for whatever evil things Adrienne was doing to Brandi for siding with Lisa over her.
In May, Adrienne and then-husband Paul Nassif got their lawyers involved and sent Brandi a cease-and-desist letter ordering her not to talk about the matter again. Brandi refused to sign: “If I sign a paper saying I’ll never talk about you again, I’m probably going to fail.”
Clearly, Brandi’s lawyer told her not to sign anything. Good move.
In addition to ending their friendship, Adrienne feels this was also the wedge that drove her and her ex-husband, Paul, apart. “Brandi did destroy our family,” she asserts to Life & Style. “Right now I’m really hurt and upset, especially because I’ve stuck up for Brandi as a mother in the past.”
OH PUHLEASE, ADRIENNE! Your marriage has been on camera for years. Even knowing the cameras were on you, you could not even fake interest in Paul. You were throwing shade and disdain at him at every opportunity. If you are looking for the person who destroyed your marriage, you need to look in the mirror. You are the person who went on a reality TV show despite knowing that your marriage was not solid or traditional. You can’t possibly, seriously believe your own allegations.
But Brandi stands by her actions, telling Life & Style, “I don’t think there’s anything wrong with what I said. We all knew it already. She would always lie about it. It’s not that big of a deal. They’re still your children, just somebody else had to carry them.”
And Brandi, you should stick with your “I regret saying what I said” line. Trying to shelter young children from the knowledge they were carried by a surrogate until they are old enough understand the concept is not the same thing as lying about it. And it is none of your business. It was a mean and gossipy thing to do.
No big news here, I’m glad she finally decided to tell what really happened. I just think she should have told her children privately first or never agreed to do the show if this is something she did not want them to be able to hear about until they were older or from someone else. She also should have kept quiet when they were telling pregnancy stories instead of lying about having c-sections.
Exxxxxxactly! Don’t sit there and talk about how tough it was! Anyone with eyes and ears knows Adrienne is the reason Adrienne is divorced, she couldn’t ever even fake anything other than total disdain for Paul. Ugh what is it about this woman that just makes me so damn mad!?
Correct. That last episode, when he was trying to make a plate for her, she put on her b*tch panties. Tamara called it out, did Brandi really have that much power over her marriage? That Paul reached out, and apologized shows me that after Adrienne defaming him during the divorce proceedings, his wife is a b*tch.
Maybe her marriage failed because she looked at her husband like he was 3 day old fish and she was having an affair with Rod Stewart’s son who is something like 20 years younger. I could be wrong but somehow the expressions on her face whenever he looks at her say enough.
I am not a fan of either one of them but, it seems to me, if you don’t want someone to know your business, you don’t tell them your business. Maybe Adrienne should have kept her botoxed lips sealed.
Belinda you almost made me spit my happy hour drink from laughing. No alcohol abuse allowed but you are so correct. Yes Brandi is wrong for running her mouth for a story line, Adrienne needs to take a good look in the mirror. I’m totally convinced the whole thing was planned and scripted. How else would either of them remain relevant?
Also Tamara I am also known as these broads in lala land. When I responded from my phone a while back I was asked to create another username different from my desktop.
Cool another bombshell! However, I think in this case the assumption that this was all planned and scripted is a stretch. Their not that good at acting to pull that off. I think the story line was very much following the Lisa vs Adrienne and Brandi vs Adrienne and went south when Brandi blurted out something that even she agrees was out of line even if true.
Kudos to Adrienne for finally coming clean, but alas….too little, too late! Brandi isn’t responsible for ending her marriage; it was the hoofs constant belittling of Paul that did it!
kathy, the way the story goes now is that Adrienne did carry her first born son. Allegedy. So those stories could possibly be true.
Did Brandi set the twins down and tell them the story? If not, how much of this program do they watch?
I see what you mean Tamara but I think she said c-sections which is plural and there is absolutely no pictures of her pregnant anywhere. I remember looking when I heard a rumor about her before any of this came out because I really liked Adriennne and Paul from the beginning of the show they were my favorites.I read it somewhere and I figured I could find a pic and prove who said it wrong. I don’t know anymore what to believe I watched them years ago on Dr. 90210 so I was familiar with them way before the housewives.
If adrienne didn’t want the secret out. She shouldn’t have lied on the show, when they were giving child birth stories. She opened the door to it.
Adrienne also plants stories in the tabloids about lisa and brandi. Adrienne’s true colors are showing this season.
She is a liar. A manipulator. And all around shady pos living off her families money. I don’t feel sorry for her.
If I feel sorry for anyone it is her children. Because they are subjected to that criminal she is fucking for attention.
Tru dat.
When Adrienne was on Dr 90210 she was mean to Paul then and talked about not able to get pregnant. Where is original link?
Link for blog Life & Style lol
Good question! Must have fallen out. It’s there now. Thanks.
Brandi was dead wrong. Adrienne had my sympathy in the bag. Then she had to go and say Brandi ruined her marriage after she publicly said Paul beat her. She’s shady as hell.
Isnt the conversation of surrogates and who used one like Episode 1, when they were on a private jet. Cant remember Adrienne said
Interesting timing of the reveal. Passive-aggressive attempt at people to feel sorry for Adrienne and turn on Brandi, and not buy her book? I can’t but be suspect with anything she does since she only does things that she thinks will benefit her although they all seem to backfire. Perhaps I am just suspicious of any of her motivations but the timing of this just seems strange.
Brandi was wrong and admitted so and Adrienne played this all wrong. She could have played this to her benefit but she didn’t. The woman needs a new PR team.
Does she really think anyone believes that Brandi caused her divorce, especially after how everyone has seen their dynamic and then her accusations of alleged abuse against her husband? Now her choice of companion. She gets more and more bizarre.
The only person I really feel bad for here is Adrienne’s twins…Brandi shouldn’t have said something especially being a mother herself that could be so devastating to those kids. I understand how people feel that Adrienne should have told her kids before the reality show as she should’ve known it could come out but I just don’t think that would have been a good thing for Adrienne to do as a mother. I agree with her waiting to tell them until they could understand and fully process the situation. Brandi by opening her big mouth on national television has taken away Adrienne’s choice to do what she feels (and what I think) would’ve been best for her kids. It doesn’t matter that her kids aren’t old enough/shouldn’t be watching the show…parent’s of the twins friends or teachers or who knows who could carelessly mention it being in earshot of either of the kids and that would be the most horrific way for those kids to find out! However, Adrienne is not at all innocent in the situation either. I believe that Adrienne was probably nasty and scheming towards Brandi and did do things on a personal level to her – even call her a bad mother and spread stories about it in the mags…this is unacceptable and even as damaging to Brandi’s kids to hear people talk about their mother that way. I feel bad for her kids because of who they have for parents in their lives but that is another story. I also think that Adrienne was wrong to all of a sudden send a cease and desist order and blame Brandi for her divorce – obviously there were problems there way before Brandi came along and Adrienne was one of the ones on the ‘friends don’t sue friends boat’. Overall both women have done shady and screwed up things but I don’t think that allows Brandi or Adrienne to say such horrible and possibly damaging things about each other’s children.
haha well I guess my first sentence is a little contradicting
Obviously I do feel bad for Brandi’s kids too…
Okay, I’m not following this anymore. How could Brandi “open her big mouth on national television” when it was all bleeped out for the viewers? I’m sorry. I’m not buying it. Until Paul sits down with a tell-all interview (and he won’t because Adrienne probably bought his silence in exchange for shared custody), I don’t buy that the surrogacy thing is the “big shady secret” that Adrienne is (hand clutched to chest) is so damn upset about. My money’s still on gay, transgender, or having an affair that Paul had yet to discover. When he finally did figure out that whatever it was that Brandi said was true, that was the end of the marriage. JMHO.
Yes, and very. Brandi mentioned that there was something else coming down the pike, that the surrogacy was not the only thing. I think she knew Adrienne was messing around, and resented that she got on her high horse.
I don’t believe that’s it, either. I think there’s a lot more to it than just surrogacy. If it was just that, why would it break up their marriage? Paul would’ve known about it. And it’s laughable to me that Adrienne is saying Brandi broke up her marriage. Bitch, please.
I highly doubt Brandi saying Adrienne’s kids were born via surrogate is the reason why she got a divorce. I can remember a Blind Item or two before Brandi was even thought about that suggested Paul and Adrienne were heading for divorce. She’s looking to place the blame on somebody that her marriage was a flop.
TTA with one change. I’d have used the word “farce” instead of “flop”.
I saw her in the elevator on Wednesday talking to some guido bodyguard about a new product, coming out of the TMZ office on Sunset. SMH.
Just to start pot stirring regarding the promo’s that we’ve seen for the next episode, Camille going in on Lisa looks like classic Adrienne trying to take the HBIC Lisa (hope I’m not breaking protocol Tamara) with a behind the scenes move. Camille needs to step away before she gets some maloof hoof poop on herself.
Is she pretty short?
yes and her hai was a tangly hot mess….tacky shoes…
I figured it would be pretty short
Clearly Brandi repeating a tale with cameras rolling (even if it was in response to Kyle’s digging) was not fair to the twins. But then if I was Adrienne and truly didn’t want my children to know about my use of a surrogate to carry them until they were 10, I damn sure wouldn’t tell anybody about it……and then after telling them I damn sure wouldn’t then try to sabotage that person and their standing on the show. Read online that Brandi said Adrienne tried to get her fired after the reunion. Duh Adrienne if you are going to share an intimate secret then don’t sabotage the person you told the secret to unless you want a guarantee that they will out you.
Now as a parent I don’t understand Adrienne’s logic on hiding the details. By 6 my son had asked to see pictures of when he was a baby and when he was in my tummy, this is what many little kids do. How did Adrienne answer that question? Did she lie or what? No harm in telling the little boys “Mommy loved you so much, she had a nice lady help me so that I could be sure that my sweet babies would be born strong”. Of course easy for me to think I would do that, unless faced with that reality guess I can’t know for sure.
As for the birth swapping stories, I believe that Brandi deliberately asked Adrienne the question and Adrienne detailed the news of the “C” section for both her pregnancies. She could have weaseled out of answer by just saying something like “oh pregnancy was really a tough subject and I don’t want to dwell on it, let’s just say I am glad that all turned out well and I have 3 wonderful boys”.
I still think there is more to the tale and Adrienne is only spilling on a portion. Otherwise why would Paul go from rage at Brandi to forgiveness. It’s not just because he figured out that he was married to a B*tch. I still think all the details are not being discussed….at least not so far.
Yep I agree more to the story for sure, and you are right I don’t understand the hiding either
Brandi should have said that after they were done shooting for the day IF she absolutely had to say it. I’m super duper team Brandi but not in this case she had no right to blurt that out on camera. Hell she should’ve just said “don’t act like there arent things I can expose about you!” and dangled that over her head. It’s sad that Adrienne had to come out and admit that….and as far as lying was Brandi saying that she lied to other people about carrying her own children?
I keep thinking of that scene at Lisa’s tasting event and how the camera’s showed Brandi going on and on about her issues with Adrienne. So much of she said wasn’t aired. I believe that Brandi mentioned the surrogacy as just one of a litany of lies and manipulations that Brandi was listing to show her case for why she didn’t think Adrienne was a good person. I believe Brandi couldn’t talk about what Adrienne had been doing to her since the reunion, for whatever reason, and so she was making her case for the ladies and likely for us, the viewers as well. The surrogacy turned from an example of duplicity to a secret Brandi shouldn’t have told.
But then I ask myself, why would Brandi need to make this case? What Adrienne was doing behind the scenes to Brandi that caused her to lash out like this? I think that Brandi was defending herself from Adrienne with the only power she had, The Truth. Brandi did not have the money to fight whatever Adrienne was mounting against her. She didn’t have a henchmen like the cook nor does she seem as vindictive as Adrienne has revealed herself to be. The only thing she had at her disposal was the truth and I believe that Brandi meant for the viewers to hear what she had to say. Not the surrogacy as a secret but as just another lie from a woman with a casual relationship with the truth. She wanted us to bear witness. But again why? Perhaps Brandi knew what was coming down the pipe. Perhaps she was expecting an attack much like the one Paul received when he sought custody.
Throughout Brandi’s time on RHOBH, she has been consistent about a few things. She has been “the truth cannon” (her own words), even to her own detriment. She has lost her temper whenever anyone has attacked her children or her parenting skills. She has taken responsibility for her actions. I think there is a good possibility that Brandi knew Adrienne was going to attack her ability to parent in the rag mags. I think it is possible that Adrienne could also be in contact and sharing secrets and lies with a certain nutty woman who would like to skin Brandi and wear her like last season’s Versace and take her boys from her as well. I think that Brandi was nearly drowning in fear and anxiety when Kyle (who already knew what was going on, I’d bet the bank on that!), nudged her for gossip at a Lisa’s tasting event that Lisa at Sur. I think that Brandi’s tell all book is an extension of her defense against any and all attackers. Brandi will tell her own secrets thereby taking the threat away from those who seek to do her harm. I, for one, will be reading.
I mean well HOT DANG!!! You laid it all out and I think you’re right! She keeps saying that Adrienne has done things to her and you’re right again, Adrienne could be in cahoots with Leann!!! If this is the case I’m not mad at her for saying what she said.
Confused. How does the truth tear ur family apart, and how is it Brandi’s fault that she spoke the truth that Adrienne told all her cast mates. I guess Kim should really sue Kyle for outing her drug problem too. How dare she speak the truth!
When I was in 6th grade, my parents were going though some marital problems. I choose to side with my mom, my sister who’s chose to side with my dad. During an argument my dad told me that my mom didnt carry me AND her eggs weren’t used. My mom tried to get him to take back what he said & he did But It was true. Went through jr high and high school kinda lost. And always felt left out from the rest. Moved out at 17 and never turned back. Has been 7 years since I’ve talked to mom dad and siblings. I never post on here, although I regularly read
Just felt like giving my input. Just trying to maintain some class, there are certain things that should remain unspoken.
contact your mom… been there…. you will feel much better.
Always good to share some real life experience when giving insight. You made me look at this differently. However, Adrienne shouldn’t tell ppl secrets she doesn’t want getting out. I highly doubt that she considered any of the girls on this show to be close enough to share that with. I honestly think the kids would’ve found out about it from their peers, I’m sure parents talk, regardless if its on TV or not. “Aaaahahaha, ur dads sleeping with ur nanny!”
I hope you do try to make peace with ur fam, and thank you for sharing ur story. It really made me empathize more with the kids a bit more.
The premise was Adrienne and Brandi were friends way before the RHBH show. If so, Brandi is a lousy friend. You can’t stop people from talking and sometimes children over hear things, but I don’t an adult would deliberately go and tell a child that they were adopted or their parent was not their parent unless they wer trying to be vindictive or hateful! Brandi is not to be trusted!
Brandi didnt do that either. She said it on a reality show dinner party.
Brandi was wrong to tell Adrienne’s secret on camera and she has admitted she was wrong 100 times.
If Brandi was able to break up her marriage then I think her marriage had to extremely weak.
Does she think a few BIG in living color magazine covers announcing to the world that her kids were born by a surrogate is somehow protecting her kids. I doubt if her kids told all their friends they were born by a surrogate. If she is so protective of her kids why is it okay for her to let all of America know her kids were born by a surrogate?
I must be missing something.
So many thoughts on this. I have a dear friend who used a surrogate and has been upfront and honest to her daughter since day 1. We wanted and loved you so much that we moved heaven and earth to have you and another women was nice enough to let us use her tummy so you could be ours. They started simple and as she has gotten older they have added on. Much like adoption nothing good comes from hiding the truth. My brother was told he was adopted from day 1.
My one question is she admits to using a surrogate, but do we think she used her fertilized eggs or used egg donor and surrogate? Have we eve seen the faces of the kids? I am trying to think back to earlier years, I know this year all we get is the back of the kids running to her in the staged see how much I love my kids scene.
It will be interesting to see how Kyle’s White Party plays out. This is where the story of Brandi having sex in Kyle’s bathroom came out from a source. It is all very fishy as the source goes on to say all the housewives caught her and the crew has it all on audio, but then the source follows that up with but they have so much footage who knows what they will air from the party. It was widely believed that the source for the story was Adrienne. As the source didn’t bother to include in the leak that Taylor was falling down drunk and making a huge ass of herself. So I guess we can stay tuned to see how the party goes down. Add to that the only person to comment on the story was Dana Wilkie and she wasn’t even there she was just adding her comments on what the source said.
I really liked her in the first season and then she just became her own worst enemy. The insanity about her dog Jackpot, not getting the same air time and treatment as Giggy. Speaking of dogs what happened to the German Shepard Paul gave her as a gift in the end of season 1? I think they addressed it, but I can’t remember what was said.
I do find it interesting that Brandi did not sign the agreement.
If her marriage ended because of what Brandi said, then I will guess that Paul probably wanted to tell his children sooner than the age of 10?
Maybe he found out that Adrienne was aware of what Brandi said before they entered Mauricio’s event but she pretended to be surprised. He might feel that Adrienne set him up knowing he would go off on Brandi and now he looks bad.
I do not believe that nobody called or texted Adrienne before the event.
Another thing, why does Adrienne always enter every event looking down at her phone as Paul pushes her to get moving? If she is always on the phone how did she miss all of Kim’s texts or calls?
More like she ignored all of Kims texts and calls. But you are right that phone is always glued to her.
That is true she probably ignored Kim’s calls
I didn’t believe the no one calling her claim. But very Interesting theories that even in hindsight thinking back to the event does make me now think she might have heard and didn’t tell Paul. I believe Paul didn’t know ANYTHING! That was a real reaction from him and to be honest even though he was pretty hostile towards a woman (Brandi) I get it. It’s his family..I never faulted him..I feel very bad for him. He probably can’t even speak a word of truth to defend himself now because she sue happy with plenty of money to do so. You make some very good points.
I owe u an apology TT! I doubted the surrogate story.
I’m just mad Brandi didn’t correct Adrienne’s lie at dinner…she’s about “that life” right? Brandi is a pussy. Can’t even handle direct confrontation, she has to do it when the other person isn’t around. I started off liking her, but I knew her novelty would wear off. She annoys the piss outta me now. She’s a one trick pony, she talks shit (behind ppls back), that’s her claim to fame. I think that puts her at the bottom of the list in BH. Taylor talks shit, has bad plastic surgery, dead husband, lawsuits, she’s got more to offer than Brandi…my ex husband did me worse…stfu and get on with it. There’s more to life.
What is truly hillarious about these women, both Brandi and Taylor….they both got book deals….on stories that are multiplied a zillion times in this country, save for the suicide of Russel…..men leave everyday, men abuse everyday….put a period behind it and keep it moving….rich B*******
Actually that’s not true. She left Kyle’s dinner when Faye was attacking her about the issue and Adrienne wasn’t there. If what you say is true then she’d have stuck around and said alot but she didn’t.
I like Adrienne,although I thinks she’s on the shady side.I loved Brandi until recently.She’s doing too much and honestly I am tired of hearing about how Eddie cheated on her.i do like her but the love is gone.She seems to love drama.
I am not a Adrienne fan but I don’t agree it should have been said by Brandi. Even Brandi has stated several times she shouldn’t have said it. This is where I take issue with Adrienne and why I haven’t been a fan of hers since last season. She takes one issue and is so over the top dramatic that now Brandi ruined her marriage! She had her chef take pictures of her with bruises and post them with a message that Paul beats her. This is so stupid to me and makes a really rich woman look really dumb. She isn’t even smart about her plotting and gets her hand caught in the cookie jar and no one wants to say anything because she has loads to spend on lawsuits. That marriage looked miserable from season 1 episode 1 and I am sure way before. When have you ever seen them loving towards each other? NEVER! If Adrienne would have left it at the issue at hand of the wrong that was done to her then she would get more understanding. But the lawyers and the blaming Brandi for the marriage and all her other antics are so extreme.
Bravo on your comment…I’ve said the same things…that marriage was doomed and fake from day one. I can’t even imagine them having sex, let alone having it enough to bring on two pregnancies….I think she married Paul because he was a plastic surgeon and ga ga goofey over her a***. He loved her, she just never loved him. Like so many of these husbands that are dumped on these shows….I wish them all well.
Adrienne, please when you sign up to do a reality show – you need to make sure your closet of skeletons are at rest or buried up 50 feet co cement. I’m sorry that this info came out as it did but in NO way was Brandi the straw that broke the camel’s back as far as your marriage goes. But I guess when you live in a world of denial you can’t find fault in yourself.
Her biggest mistake as with all these women, is telling Big Mouth Brandi their little secrets…. I mean this chic has no buffers what so ever…I’d hate to have her as a friend
It’s possible that Paul and Adrienne were already at odds about how to tell the children about the surrogacy. Paul probably just let Adrienne have her way, but when it became public knowledge, it reignited the rift between them.
Katrina, I have always liked Paul and for the life of me, I could never understand that marriage. I think what really took this marriage down….like so many was and is….REALITY TV. I’ve seen thus far too many marriages fall apart because of it.
Was it mean and nasty of Brandi to reveal that about Adrienne? Absolutely. But come one, she shouldn’t be blaming anyone but herself for the demise of her marriage.
Realizing that Adrienne and Paul had kids, I was shocked at first….because rarely do you see these people kiss, become affectionate, show any signs of interest in each other, especially Ms.Thang…I mean she treated the guy like he had a damned disease or something, they were never couple like, ever on that show…..SO WHY SHOULD ANYONE BE SURPRISED THAT HER KIDS WEREN’T CONSUMMATED THE NATURAL WAY? JUST THE THOUGHT OF THOSE TWO MAKING OUT???? CAN ANYONE SERIOUSLY SAY THAT CAN ENVISION IT?
Adrienne comes across as a very “cold” unaffectionate woman where Paul was concerned. It will be very interesting to see what the real truth was/is when it comes out (if it ever does).
This story is a total lie in my opinion. If Paul and Adrienne had an injunction to keep Bravo from airing the footage, it makes no sense to publish an article like this. Also, Brandi is quoted in the magazine saying how it doesn’t matter if they used a surrogate and how they are still their children. I can’t imagine that Brandi would feel comfortable enough to comment on any of Adrienne’s personal affairs after Adrienne is or was trying to sue her. This seems like a way to deflect from the real truth!!
This whole thing that Brandi outed the story has been driving me nutz because I’ve already known this for years and it was because I THOUGHT it was Adrienne that said so in Season 1or2, I forget…but I knew…it was no surprise to me!! . So apparently someone/blog or person talked about it yrs ago as I would never of come up with this on my own..i mean no reason for me to think about it yrs ago that Adrienne didn’t carry them. So now i’m really knocking out whats left of my brain trying to remember where did hear it than! Isn’t there anyone else out there that remembers ANYTHING about this from a few yrs ago??
I remember being surprised at Ojai when Adrienne mentioned the children’s births. I said out loud “Why, I thought she used a surrogate” so the meme was there but I don’t know where it came from.
Yeah, it’s just one of those things that was always out there. Just like the rumor that the marriage was very open and basically for convenience. This is why Adrienne got SO PISSED at the reunion when Brandi said there were only two married couples on the show.
Does anyone else think Bravo chose to keep the surrogate “secret” from viewers because of the mighty “Maloof” money and willingness to sue? Bravo did not keep details relating to Russell Armstrong secret after his death as the Armstrong family requested.
Also, how could Paul feel like a man when the telephone in his home was answered as Maloof residence. Really? I kept my maiden name and married name hyphenated, but I found this outrageous. Adrienne treats Paul badly in nearly every episode. It seems Paul was brought in as a suitable sperm donor/father role to provide an aging Adrienne children.
Is that how the phone was answered?? Didn’t notice that’s gotta suck for Paul. Or it had to suck.
The decision of NOT telling the children is the first mistake here – children can handle a lot more than we think they can. This same sort of secret kind of ruined someone fairly close to me – the “secret” came out from someone other than the parent(s). The bottom line is that a good parent may not have been the one who birthed you – shame on Paul and Adrienne for not believing that. And in poor taste for Adrienne to blame anyone other than herself for the failure of her marriage.
I used to really LIKE Adreinne – but her saying the comments from Brandi “broke up their marriage/caused their divorce” is SUCK a crock. While I myself could not be married to a man like Paul (who’s probably a nice guy), I’d rather live a long life as a singleton than spend a week with that type of personality.
That being said, take a look back to even season 1 and regardless of who the spouse is, male or female, when one unit of a couple routinely speaks to that person in that type of way? You’re headed for a split. In private, addressing someone so disrespectfully and dismissively is at the least, hurtful and chips away at any respect and feelings of love or support. Doing so in PUBLIC adds disgrace and causes embarrassment for those around you.
So, Brandi has her hand in a lot of things, but the writing was on the wall for that marriage from the moment we saw their first exchange.
Who speaks like that to someone they LOVE? She’s more tender and courteous to her staff than her husband (marginally, but still)…. Did y’all ever hear her say anything sincerely flattering or loving about her husband? I did not. 2 way street, but she’s the one crying “foul” here, and all that’s foul is her behavior. Too bad, she seemed like a nice, rational gal. Too much work for her age made her look older than she is – so perhaps THAT’S why she’s pissed…..
Just sayin’….
This is my personal opinion I don’t care if Adrienne had four children as surrogates she doesn’t deserve this torture from Brandi. There is nothing wrong with having surrogates Brandi has no right to say those things at all PERIOD.
Brandi is a superbitch and loves to be it it keeps her on the show Brandi needs to show more respect to the ladies and actually learn how to be a lady. She is still talking s*** about Eddie and Leann my thing is HE’S GONE GET OVER IT!!! He is not coming back and does not want to come back you should have left when he cheated on you the first time were talking about Eddie Cbrian he’s only been getting pussy scince Sunset Beach.